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Same for me. Although my slight variation to that is, where possible, I like to have a pillow under my hips propping my ass up. That's the position I lost my virginity in, and it's been serving me well ever since.

My collection has gone through a number of purges over the years, but I've hung on to a handful of magazines and VHS tapes from the mid-90s. They're what remains some of my earliest porn purchases after having turned 18. Of course, I had already accumulated a small collection of porn from other sources (mostly 'hedge porn') before I was old enough to buy any, but I don't seem to have kept anything from that earlier era.

A couple recs from Canada: C.R.A.Z.Y. Lilies

This reminds me of a time in my late teens when I was getting tested at a sexual health drop-in clinic. During the visit, the nurse asked if I had any questions about sexual health. The clinic always advertised their services to the queer community, so I figured they'd have heard it all. I asked her if there was any STD risk associated with water sports. She gave me this puzzled look. "You mean, like, water polo? Diving?" I kept waiting for her to break into a playful laugh, but she really had no idea what I was asking about. "No... you can't catch an STD just from swimming in the same pool. I think it's pretty safe." At that point I was too embarrassed to correct the misunderstanding, so I just said, "okay, thanks". LOL

Cock is cock, but I've always been a boi at heart, so daddy cock tends to be my ideal.

I don't find it surprising that it would factor into what arouses you. It's not something I'd mention to the top unless he'd given some indication that he too might find that sort of dynamic arousing. Or by "them" did you mean telling your dad's family? In which case, yeah that would strike me as weird and more than a little dangerous.

This is closer to my experience too. Not a "girlfriend" (although we did have sex once), but a close female friend who offered me regular use of her apartment as a place where I could hook up with dates instead of taking them back to the place I shared with roommates. She definitely got off on fostering my inner slut. She enjoyed teasing me and playfully interrogating my dates before allowing us access to her bedroom. Then, after they'd left, she'd pump me for any details that she wasn't able to overhear for herself. I always felt too self conscious to let her watch me get fucked, but she did get to see some kissing and blowjobs. She also tried to play matchmaker for me, but with limited success, as she continually tried to set me up with other twinks, which was more her fantasy than mine.

Am i misreading this, or does this mean that Cumunion is typically limited to a specific part of the club, and doesn't necessarily make use of the entire venue? We just had our first Cumunion a little over a week ago. I had previous commitments, so wasn't able to check it out. I tried emailing Cumunion weeks earlier, but I never got a response. What I was curious about was whether one could still rent a room during the event. The info that had been posted stated that the entry fee included a locker, but made no mention of rooms. That led me to think that perhaps the rooms would be left open for all guests to access as needed during the party. Just knowing the size and layout of our bathhouse, I'm having a hard time imagining where all the breeding would happen if the rooms aren't included. Anyway, I'm hoping to go next month so I can find out for myself, but I'd still be curious to know how it works in advance..

If it would help free things up for the two of you to hook up, I'd be happy to keep his wife entertained for a bit.

I tried them out many years ago when I was still using condoms on a regular basis. I briefly dated a girl with a latex allergy, and still had a couple left over after we broke up, so I decided they might be fun to experiment with other guys. I remember both guys being a bit weirded out by the look of them. It was like I had a bag sticking out of my asshole. I still don't know if it was intentional on his part or not, but with one of them it basically lead to him stealthing me since it was so easy for him to pull out completely and re-enter me outside of the ring. The other guy said he liked the fact that his cock didn't feel totally confined as with male condoms, but he didn't like the feeling of his cock hitting the internal ring. I kinda liked how slutty I felt while using them. I think they helped tap into my submissive feminine side. Or it might have just been the novelty of them. But I never used bought more after that, and of course nowadays I'm not really interested in condoms - male or female.

Age for sure. Gender too, as I've had major crushes on at least a couple lesbians.

Tonight's the night! I can't make it, but is anyone here going?

The first ad. The thought and creativity in the first part of the ad is a nice touch, but probably not a deciding factor for me. Instead, it's the second half that stands out. At the very least, it seems as though it was written by someone who is experienced enough to know what he's talking about, and is therefore serious about hooking-up and probably not a flake. The second ad could be completely legit, but could just as easily be written by someone who's not serious.

I've been looking forward to this based solely on its reputation on BZ. Now that it's officially happening I'm realizing I don't quite know what happens at these events (other than lots of barebacking). For example, it says that the entry fee includes a locker. Does that mean that we can't rent rooms? And if that's the case, is it because all the rooms are kept open for anyone to use? Other than the likelihood that it'll be packed, what makes it different from any other Thursday at Club Ottawa? I don't think I'll be available for the July date either. 🙁

In Ottawa, our lone bathhouse charges $31 for a 6-hour room, which seems high to me. Sure, they have a monopoly, and can charge whatever they want. But at that price, I don't go unless I know the place is packed. Back when their prices were more reasonable, I'm sure they made more money off of me, because I was far more willing to just show up and take my chances.

I'm not sure what my best feature is, but my cock and ginger hair tend to elicit the most compliments.

Free condoms! Haha... just kidding.

I've always found that too. While I've never gotten tired of sex with my partners, it can start to feel routine at times. I know this a very convenient rationalization, but I feel like the excitement that comes from exploring an unfamiliar body, and the ego boost of being looked at with lust and desire by a fresh set of eyes, has always refreshed my passion at home. It's not a zero-sum situation where (unknowingly) sharing me with others leaves less for her.

These days there's nothing I reserve just for my partners. When I was married, there was a period of time in which I would not kiss anyone but my wife. Everything else was on the table, but I wanted to save that one bit of intimacy for her. But that phase didn't last. Washing up afterwards is a given. I've never had an issue with leakage, but still, I will generally take a moment to squeeze out any excess cum before bedtime. My greater concern is that I not allow her to get a glimpse of my butthole after it's been freshly fucked, just in case it's noticeably red and raw. So, for example, I won't 69 with her immediately afterward - or at least not with me in the top position. My ex had such a keen sense of smell that I found it necessary to take a number of precautions after cheating. She could smell when I'd been to the bathhouse, even though I'd always thoroughly showered before heading home. Fortunately for me, she couldn't quite identify that odd mixture of bathhouse scents - old poppers, musty carpets, cologne, and bodily fluids - that would linger in my clothes and hair; but she always sensed that something was different. With massage parlours... different smells, but same phenomenon. It's ultimately what compelled me to get a gym membership. Once I joined a gym, I could pop in, change into a different set of clothes, head off for some fun, return to the gym, shower, and change back into the clothes I was wearing when I'd left the house. I'd stash my extra set of clothes until I had time to do a load of laundry myself. And if she still managed to pick up on a new smell, I would just say they must have put a different type of soap in the gym showers. Even after we divorced, I continued taking those precautions in subsequent relationships. I seldom host, but on the rare occasion when I do, I always change the sheets, and do multiple checks around the house to see if they've left anything behind. Funnily enough, you could make an argument that barebacking is itself a way of covering one's tracks. The only time I ever got busted by a partner was back in my university days, when I was still in the habit of using condoms. I was apartment-sitting for my girlfriend while she was out of town. She didn't tell me there was change in her itinerary, and she arrived home early to find a bunch of used condoms in her living room and bedroom.

I agree. There was a time when I didn't particularly enjoy kissing men. I would kiss back if a guy initiated it, but I did so entirely for his pleasure - not mine. Then I got married. Previous relationships had taught me that I would not be able to give up cock for her. But I told myself that if I reserved kissing for my wife only, then my cheating wasn't completely horrible. Like you said, kissing is more intimate than fucking, and that was all hers... for a while. Suddenly, due to its newly forbidden nature, I found myself wanting to passionately make out with every guy I hooked with. Of course my self-imposed prohibition didn't last long. Not only was I letting guys kiss me... I was initiating much of the time. And rather than kissing them reluctantly, I was loving it. Now, taking a stranger's tongue in my mouth gets my cock harder than just about anything.

I don't know how it compares to the UK, but in my experience, Montreal is easily the most cumdump friendly city in Canada. You won't go home disappointed. And I share Read1's love for GI Joe.

This was the first position I ever got fucked in, and it remains my favourite to this day.

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Interesting question. When I first started seeking out cock I definitely adopted a submissive role. But initially I believed my reasons for doing so were based on inexperience and shyness, and being dependent on others to host (as I couldn't exactly bring guys back to my parents' place). Since my early partners were more experienced and almost always older, I felt more at ease when they took the lead. I didn't have to make decisions or be creative... I just had to follow, listen, and react. But even as I was enjoying being a submissive bottom daddie's boi, I somehow still believed that it was a temporary phase. I imagined that I would move away for university and start hooking up with guys my own age, and that in many cases I would be the one with more experience, and so it would be my turn to take the lead and become more of a top. But of course that's not what happened. Yes, I did hook up with guys my own age, but taking charge with other guys never felt natural to me. Fortunately, I didn't try to fight it. I accepted that I was a submissive bottom, and that there was no need for me to change.

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