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blackrobe

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  1. "Grooming" is a term used to describe the process used by sexual abusers to manipulate vulnerable minors so they can sexually abuse and rape them. "Closet case" is a pejorative term for people who have not yet felt safe enough to come out. If someone is too afraid to come out, you find a way to support them and connect them to mental health and counseling resources so they can come out when they judge it's safe for them to do so. It seems like some education and compassion for others might be called for.
  2. Although technically *withholding kissing* isn't a sex act, the turned head is a passion destroyer. Someone's gonna have spit and dick and cum in their ass in moments, but they don't want a horny kiss? I think they have the intimacy scale inverted.
  3. I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you, but bottoms with big or pretty dicks get this fairly often, in my experience. This is the reason some bottoms wear jock straps, cages, or both when they hook up to get fucked and bred. It's the same in major urban areas, but I'm sure it's worse as the population around you gets smaller. It might be better to try and find men who are specifically turned on by fucking and breeding big, strong, hung bottoms. They exist, but not as often in smaller populations.
  4. You know your life's purpose is to fuck your seed into every hole you can. Plenty of us bottoms will be here to take that seed when you need us.
  5. I think you're mixing with the wrong men if you're not getting the support and admiration you want/need. I love a grower top and he deserves rewards for getting big. 5 pounds is a lot, but 35 pounds? Fuuuck. Put the energy out there for what you want. I'd love a muscle grower bull top in my life, and I guarantee lots of bottoms are turned on by a top guy getting bigger and stronger.
  6. Already half in position for you?
  7. The poor kidney numbers need you to stop. As a rule, Descovy is a better choice for its lower dose of the med that affects the kidneys. I wonder if the implanted prep medication might be better for you?
  8. Dang, you beat me to it. Raised Catholic in a family filled with vocations, and the eldest son to boot, I was supposed to be a priest. I know more about the politics and tensions in the church than I care to, so watching Conclave was fascinating and familiar. If only the enlightened choice they made could really happen.
  9. blackrobe

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    You know he won't break eye contact no matter how hard you fuck his hole.
  10. I've been there. Only you can decide whether your need for dick and seed balls deep in your cheating hole outweighs the discomfort that might come from getting it. One dominant guy loved fucking me hard until my hole was super tender and sensitive, then he'd tease me with his big dick and encourage me to take him again and fuck through the pain. Every time I came back for another helping of his dick it pleased him greatly. It can be bonding. When I'm really tender switching lubes can make taking yet another dick easier. I always want dick and their seed, it just depends how much I'm craving it and how tender I am. On the other hand, I always find a fresh load in my hole makes me feel better.
  11. Yup, 21 ejaculations a month is optimal for prostate health. I've read the study that reported that finding.
  12. I'm glad you explicitly pointed to the competitive nature of topping for many men. It was a factor in my mind, but I thought I'd said enough in that one post.
  13. I find the sounds of porn stars too inauthentic. Give me a top driving himself and his bottom over the edge and the authentic sounds that generates any day. I'd rather listen to audio only recordings of ordinary guys having a hot fuck than watch porn.
  14. No, but for a guy born in 1964 (the user profile says 1989) Rocco is in his early 60's and hot as ever.
  15. I don't agree. Service top is another one of those terms that's been conflated with being dominant *and* being submissive. While a service top may be somewhere on the power dynamic spectrum, the litmus test of a service top is one who is focused on the bottom's *pleasure*. I reject the idea that a top who wants to pleasure his bottom is inherently submissive or dominant. Service tops take great pride and satisfaction in their ability to read a bottom and give them a memorable and pleasurable fuck. We don't talk about service bottoms because bottoms are already expected, by their natures, to serve and cater to the pleasure of breeder tops. This is why the idea of dominant bottoms going against that perceived norm melts so many people's brains. The same is true for submissive tops. A submissive top can be motivated by being objectified, used, demeaned, dominated, and controlled without any agency being exerted on giving pleasure at all. Any pleasure for the man using them is a by-product of their obedience and submission to that man's will, and not a first order goal. Language is always in motion, but when words lose the precision or essence of their meaning, the ideas they express become confused or lost completely. Inevitable digression, but perhaps illustrative: The term "side" is a great example. For a long time there was a group of men who didn't identify as top, versatile, or bottom because they didn't have penetrative anal sex - at all. There was a missing term that defined these people that did everything but fuck ass, and Dr Joe Kort came up with "side" to capture it. Today, hook-up apps have implemented "side" as an option along side the top to bottom continuum, but the apps have allowed it to be multiple choice. Today, we have top, bottom, and versatile men who are also sides. As a result, the term "side" has lost has its defining essence of having non-penetrative sex *exclusively*. As a bottom I'm not at all interested in men who don't have penetrative sex, so being able to filter out "side" men potentially has great utility in a hook-up app for people who *want* penetrative anal sex. There's a line of logic that says instead of top, versatile, bottom, and side being thought of as identities that signify activities, they are actually activities themselves. I'm sympathetic to that line of thought up to a point. Where it falls down for me is that it was a missing and unacknowledged sense of identity that Joe Kort was looking to name and allow people to claim that got us here. The crux of the issue is that Dr Kort was looking to capture people who *exclusively* have non-penetrative sex. This was needed because, for everyone else, the non-penetrative sex stuff was already on the table. To borrow and expand on Dan Savage's schtick about oral, the non-penetrative sex stuff "comes standard". Instead of "side" being a useful way for people who *don't do anal and do the other stuff exclusively* to identify themselves to similar folks, everyone who does the other stuff as well as anal is, in my opinion quite erroneously, using it too. As with "side", so it is with terms like "service top" - precision matters or we all end up meaning different things with the same term.
  16. Let's not conflate terms here. Urban Dictionary has a simple take on submissive tops: "A submissive top is a top that likes it when the bottom is in control. Dominant bottoms can be just as powerful as dominant tops." I've run across a few (closeted/latent) sub tops in my time. It usually happens when a top accidentally presses my kink/switch buttons and I get aggressive and growly, and pound my hole onto his dick. Sometimes I lay claim to his dick, balls, and every drop of seed in him. Suddenly they need to be used and objectified like a human dildo or a bull milked to provide me with the virile cum I need deep in my ass. In most cases they get so freaked out by a) finding out they want to be controlled and used and b) by how intensely they orgasmed when they got it, that I never hear from them again. If I'm honest, I'd love to nurture and grow a submissive/switchy top as a FB/FWB. I'd enjoy helping him find the shape of his own submission.
  17. I get that. Muscular driven breeders who need to tag every hole as theirs are a favorite. Don't discount that bottom pigs like me can help open the door so muscular fuckers like you can get what they need from overwhelmed horny straight muscle.
  18. What any girl says about a "straight" muscle stud doesn't signify. Men like that don't show women who they really are. If they did, they'd get no pussy. "Straight" muscle studs who are all about muscular male bodies have needs roiling inside them. They need to unleash them on someone who needs it and can handle it. A horny eager pig with starving holes holding a cold beer is what he needs.
  19. I find that eagerly swallowing every squirt like a starving baby bird makes men happy.
  20. You got the exact word I use to describe my mission "Cherishing the seed of virile men..." I'm always going to want a man's seed deep in my ass where I can make it part of me and think about his DNA inside me. Spitting or pushing out a load that a man has bred inside you is just disrespectful.
  21. If I ever go back again, I'll be sure to drop by to pick up a few loads of your kids so I can take them with me on my travels. I was lucky I found a young Thai-Australian man who was a horny and passionate fucker and breeder. Otherwise the trip would have been a bust.
  22. In my opinion what you are describing isn't selfish behavior, it's asshole behavior. Bottoms who play these games deserve long-lasting censure, throw them out, give them no dick, and spread the word. At an ABS I've had a guy tell me I'm not clean when I know I'm definitely clean and lubed to a depth of 10 inches. A tall athletic man with a hefty 9" dick said I looked and smelled good to him, and fucked and bred me in front of the other guy. I was clean as a whistle and his nut felt amazing when he came. Guy watching sour-faced? Total Asshole. I was on my knees sucking a daddy newly arrived from work at a group event. I was sucking him to relieve his work stress and get him in the mood for the evening. An asshole bottom literally tried to take the man's dick out of my mouth so he could have it. Both of us were appalled at his behavior. So much so, the daddy (he was the most hung guy there) pushed him away and loudly promised me his load after he'd tried out some other holes, a promise he kept. Being polite, piggy, and prepared isn't just good manners, it's good for your reputation. That hung daddy and I get together and have epic daddy/son fucks now.
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