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I'd be considering all of these places, but I don't speak Spanish. It feels disrespectful to go and live in a place where you don't speak the language passably well. At the same time, there's a lot to like about places like Ecuador and parts of Mexico. Indigenous and transplanted cultures add to the interest there with First Peoples and Afro-Mexicans. Oaxaca seems very interesting at first glance. It makes me wonder how they'd cope with a fair skinned Australian living amongst them. I'm interested in all kinds of men from all cultures, but wonder if I'd be an outlier and not their cup of tea.

I appreciate men who have strong instincts and need to breed deep and impregnate my hole. It's a good balance to my powerful need to be filled deeply with men's DNA. I've noticed that in home-made porn (where men just set up a camera and then just focus on fucking) it's the tops who thrust their cocks in deeper and harder as they come that really get to me. The best are the men so overwhelmed by their instinct to breed their seed deeply that they climb up the bottom and hold them down to jam the root of their spasming cock in as deeply as possible so that their glans are at the deepest place inside the bottom that they can possibly reach.

I find I'm horny when I have a cold as well. It's tough because infection control says we should isolate and not give the cold to others, but the longer the cold goes on, the harder it is to resist giving up my ass for men to enjoy and fill. That means by the time I'm well and not contagious I'm going to be very, very eager.

I ran across this guy and his podcast and I found him ethically troubling. I thought he showed poor judgement in what he glorified in what he termed "alpha men". He revelled in these supposed "alphas" doing whatever the hell they wanted no matter how it hurt the "fags". I'm into power dynamics, but nothing about it was good. His interviews with "alphas" were just him fawning and seeking their favor. It was Red Flag Central for me.

Here's a list of the reasons I've tracked or am tracking my sex with men: Tracking for PrEP and STI testing appointments. Tracking because your daddy or dom has told you to. Reporting all sex not with them. Recounting all sex for them to enjoy as they fuck you. Tracking to ensure that >50% of all loads you get are from your daddy/dom. Remembering what men like and enjoy in case of repeats. Remembering which men affected me most profoundly as we played. I'm like you when I'm playing, I'm immersed in the experience and enjoying the passion and connection. When I'm finished and sitting in my car, my hole wet and supple with fresh bred cum, I pause and capture the experience for a few minutes before I drive home and absorb the seed I've been given. It's not onerous or distracting, it's mindful and useful. YMMV.

PSA: 12.7K views does not equal 12.7k unique viewers. Every time a new post is added to a topic (like this one) the topic shows something unread to be viewed. That means everyone who has viewed it before has a reason to view it again. With 15 posts per page and 6 pages, for example, that's 90 chances for users to see the new post flag and view or re-view the thread. In writing this post I viewed the thread 4-5 times myself. Perhaps there is a Unique Users counter in the software, but I don't see it exposed here.

For those of us with a physiology that doesn't accommodate big men fully in our mouths and throats or where teeth placement isn't ideal, it's a challenge. I have a shorter and narrower jaw with a smaller arc and it makes sucking in some positions and angles very difficult. I need to open wider than most to avoid tooth contact and that takes effort. I get very good (and a few rave) reviews for worshipful sucking of men's cocks, but if it becomes a session of 30 minutes or more focused only on sucking then muscle fatigue and TMJ problems become an issue. I've also found that swallowing big cocks down my throat most often completely blocks my ability to breathe through my nose, so I've had to master holding my breath and learning to breathe around the cock without drawing attention that I'm doing it. I'd love a larger opening between my left and right molars (a wider jaw essentially) to allow bigger cocks to be sucked and slide down my throat more easily. In lieu or maxillomandibular surgery I do the best I can and always have my hole ready for use.

To @viking8x6's point, I came across a fact after someone close to me had prostate cancer when I did some research on sexual functioning outcomes for gay, bi, and MSM versus straight men. While the literature says straight guys do okay generally, outcomes for GB&MSM are (in the few studies examining them) mixed with some saying worse, and some better. One of the reasons is that "Anal penetration is estimated to require 33 percent more rigidity than vaginal penetration. (56)" from "Understanding Prostate Cancer in Gay, Bisexual, and Other Men Who Have Sex with Men and Transgender Women: A Review of the Literature" by B. R. Simon Rosser,1 Shanda L. Hunt,2 Beatrix D. Capistrant,3 Nidhi Kohli,4 Badrinath R. Konety,5 Darryl Mitteldorf,6 Michael W. Ross,7 Kristine M. Talley, 8 and William West 9.

I haven't had a dad since I was a very young boy, so I think that's kind of awesome.

Now is probably a good time for folks to take a breath and re-read what the OP (and very likely troll) actually said, and did not say: They asked why *most women* aren't at least as (or more) sexually active or adventurous as "fags" are based on the postings on this site. They observed that women are designed to "take dick", implying that being so designed means they should be "more sluttier" than "fags" who are not so designed. What the OP didn't say: They didn't say women weren't slutty. Setting aside the veracity of the stories and experiences related on this site, it's very odd that the OP thinks the people on this site are a fair sample of "fags" in general given the clearly very niche nature of the site's membership. Thinking this skewed sample of people is the right one to use as the basis for this question about the whole population doesn't make much logical sense. Between the lines it seems that the OP wants most women to be more available to them sexually. They also seem to have lost sight of the fact that women have a complete and complex reproductive system as well as their own agency. The OP is likely a troll, a homophobic troll, and a misogynist homophobic troll. Don't feed them your energy. Finally, modifiers in language matter as they refine meanings to be more accurate. When someone says "some people" or "most people" or "all people" that's likely what they mean and it's a great timesaver to take them at face value.

I'm with you, @hntnhole, the experience and connection matter a great deal. That said, "There's time enough for counting when the dealing is done" as the man sang. I do a few seconds of book-keeping when I get back to my car and the experience (and their cum) is fresh in my mind (ass). It really helps knowing who fucked you and when if you need to contact sex partners for an STI exposure. The app I use (Bigger Black Book) also lets you note what you did and how good the sex was quickly and easily which is helpful when considering repeats. When I go in for my STI screenings and they ask me how many partners I've had since the last screening I can tell them exactly. Oh, and I'm a data guy, so...

I've bottomed for 68 people, 27 of them known and 41 anonymous. But that number doesn't tell you about how many encounters you have had with those people. I've had 110 encounters and been fucked 113 times and bred 104 times.

If I'm faced with this dilemma and he needs more stimulation than my mouth can give, I use my ass to suck and milk his cock.

This. I stipulate all the socialization and societal and family dynamics affecting women's sense of what is acceptable and allowed for them. Male privilege as well. But even with all that, testosterone. A friend who was in the process of transitioning FTM pulled me aside after he'd begun testosterone. "I feel incredibly horny all the time. How do men ever get anything done?" he asked. "I want to fuck *all the time*!" We chatted for a while and I theorized that a boy going though puberty was likely the closest analog to what he was feeling. But that where a boy had a period to adjust to the onset of puberty, and was starting from a more neutral state, my friend had been through puberty originally as a female. We wondered whether the transition was more intense because of it. Don't underestimate the influence and power of testosterone to blow through previous AFAB socialization and constraints.

Was his your most influential cock, though? I don't get that from the above.

Yeah, but there are "suspender and belt" types out there. Their argument is "PrEP gets the HIV, for everything else, there's condoms"

One on one, I won't hook up with guys who insist on using a condom. First, if he's fucking the condom he's not fucking me, the condom is fucking me and that doesn't work for me. Second, If they use a condom they aren't a breeder and they aren't for me. In a bathhouse where I'm ass up and taking anyone who needs a compliant ass to fuck, I still make my preference for bare cock known. At my last bathhouse visit, I was ass up on the edge of the bed in my room taking dick and seed for 8 hours and lost count at 16 men having fucked me. One young athletic guy with long dark hair tied up in a top-knot came in and was waiting in line stroking his promising looking dick and watching the guy currently pounding into my ass. When that guy came inside me, Mr Top-knot put a condom on his long dick and, knowing that I was acting as a public utility for horny men, I swallowed my instinctive refusal and presented my ass willingly. He was an awesome fucker and he long-dicked me with his hands on my hips controlling me the whole time and made me moan so well he drew a crowd to my door. It was so intense, I felt that strong pull in my gut to have his seed inside me and I caught his eyes in the mirror and said that I wished he was bare in me. I could tell he had no intention of taking off the condom, but telling him seemed to make him harder and fuck my ass more aggressively than before. The way he was fucking, I could tell he wanted to cum inside me. The shorter Asian man standing in line behind him couldn't stop watching. After another few minutes of progressively harder fucking he pulled back on my hips hard jamming his cock in as deep as it could go and I felt him throbbing his cum into the condom, but not into me. I felt that unpleasant pang of pleasing a man enough for him to cum, but not getting his seed inside me. When he finished and pulled out, I watched him as he carefully removed the condom. I asked him politely if I could have it, and he nodded, gave it to me and left. I turned to the Asian man who was next, handed him the condom and said "Use this as lube" and assumed the position again. I got his cum inside me, even if it was someone else who fucked it in. Some guys insist on condoms, but I decline hooking up with them one on one. In group or other public sex environments where I'll be bred by many men I'm still clear about wanting them to breed, but know I'm there to take care of every man who needs to fuck, even with a condom.

I'm fairly certain that it's all about testosterone, so its no wonder that most men are hungrier than most women.

Point Wells, Edmonds - it's just north of Shoreline. Very popular with my gay nudist friends.

Which gay beach? Howell? Denny Blaine?

This. I know there are plenty of breeders turned on by the anon situation, regardless of the hole, but I hope for a breeder who is turned on by and really wants to fuck his loads into me.

I think the point being made is that not all black men have big dicks, that not all black men are tops, and that not all black men are comfortable being objectified and fetishized based on either of those things alongside their skin color. For black men with big dicks, who are tops, and/or for whom that objectification and fetishization isn't an issue, it's no doubt as awesome as @topblkmale so wryly attests. But for plenty of black men I've spoken to personally they feel dehumanized, devalued, and like there is no place for them in gay life because they don't fit one or all of those expectations that people project onto them. So many incredible hot black bottoms tell me they are pushed into topping by men who can't see them in any other way. As a total bottom myself, that sounds miserable, annoying, and depressing to me.

I'm not sure of the OPs age, but I came of age in Sydney, NSW in the 80s, even then arguably one of the gayest cities in the world. We also had the "Grim Reaper" commercial about HIV, so I know what it felt like to have the crap scared out of you and carry that fear for decades. If you are ready to lay down your burden of fear and dread about HIV and STIs in general, get an appointment for PrEP, Doxycycline PEP, get your Hep A and B shots, and your HPV vaccination. I set down my fear and I've never been happier. There is nothing like the feeling of a man you're connected with cumming inside you when it's what you both really, really want.

Clearly it's time to visit my relatives in QLD and take a swing through Noosa. As of today, I've taken 99 loads from 108 bareback fucks this year. Tonight is a local leather social with a play area, so I'll hopefully be starting my second century for the year.

I absolutely saw how tightly scoped your observation was. I just wanted to give you a concrete example of someone outside that scope. Cheers!