BlackDude

If I’m honest , I’m not bi. I’d fuck a woman as long as she knows I like men. I’m never getting married tho, especially in this legal climate. She doesn’t need money. I Suspect a father figure. I think you’re right. We will remain friends, just not as close.

Rant/Story Coming: So I have this a good friend I work with who recently told me she has the super hots for me and even have dreams about me. I Love my friend but I am honest with myself. I was the type of guy she would not have given the time of day to back in her prime. She was totally into bad boys, enough to the point that one man actually was very abusive towards her. She has basically had an army of guys in her orbit that she would not date or full around with because she seen them as “boring.” Mind you, this is a woman with A moderately wealthy family who works for shopping money. Now that she is a little bit older, and with a kid, she wants to come on to me? As a matter of fact she even asked about my sexuality, (too which I responded I don’t think people who work together shit sleep together especially when one is an a subordinate position). If you thought I was gay, why the urge to sleep with me? I don’t know if there’s related to age or Covid but it seems like now I’m getting more attention than ever from women. Like any other guy I’ve had my share of admirers, but she is a women who in the past would not give a suspected gay, in a lower tax bracket guy a second look outside of friendship. It is too late for a guy like me (I think). Why do women get so desperate?

I find married men to be much more eager the first few times. But as far as long term hook-ups, some can become a hassle with scheduling. I had one dude who always wanted to hook up at 5:00 before work cause his wife expected him home at a certain time. Although he was really fun and I wished it would’ve worked out, I did not become a gay man to let a woman turn on my sex life lol. I even had one married man show up at my house uninvited! As far as condom use, I actually see that. A lot of married men being out always used condom. Hell some even want condoms for a blowjob help. I suspect about the men who have wedding rings on are not really married, but they know that some guys go for that sort of things so they play along.

Someone brought up Thurgodd Marshall and Dread Scott and I asked what was the relation to the topic. A response was given and I gave my opinion on the how the issues were related. I think I’m on topic and I don’t need to start a separate thread. Thanks tho.

I read the article. I found it to be yet another attempt to use black peoples struggle to advocate for rights of other groups. Especially when many of these groups advocated for, celebrated and benefited from the Dread Scott decision and other like it. We wont even get started on the anti-black fear mongering and propoganda around Roe v. Wade. I don’t get why groups can’t use their own arguments and agreements without always trying to make some comparison to what Black people have gone through. Well I do know why. But that’s another story.

Agreed. I love a cummy ass but it’s a fine line. Too sloppy, and I lose my boner too. I need some friction.

Ok, well I’m not going to make a lot of friends on this, but oh well. My intent just to help others and bring some context from my perspective. I’m going to speak in generalizations (I.e. my experience an the experiences of those around me plus my opinions). 1. Too often with interracial sex, white guys look at is as just that: sex. Too many black men are in an eternal quest for sexual and social proximity to ANY white man, they look at interracial sex as validation. I have seen several black men sign away houses, purchase cars, change insurance, and squander away resources in hopes of ingratiating themselves with some white guy who could clearly give a damn about them. 2. Alot of gay black men have a deep vitriol for other blacks. They hold on to a few names guys called them in high school or a few hypocritical family members, and will use this to justify “I only like white men.” The mere presence of other black men makes them unhappy, especially in a sexual environment But they will completely ignore the racism of the white gays. 3. When white men say they want a “diverse experience” they often refer to religion, custom, socially, or some other group (which aspires to be white). When many black people say “diverse experience ” many mean non-black experience. I have not heard a white guy yet say they ever wanted a “non-white” experience, unless it wad strictly in the bedroom. 4. A lot of older/middle aged black men where raised on some Queer Eye shit and they aspire to be the only “black friend.” And they can be extremely cut throat of another black guy starts hanging around the circle, especially younger. 5. A lot of these older black men are broke as hell and mad. They’re not going to tell you the real because they are ashamed they wasted their lives and resources on some Megan Markle fantasy. They are still hoping for that rich white jock to come play captain save a hoe, and introduce them to their hoards of hot gym Buddy friends so they can live a life filled with orgies where they are the only black guy. 7. I’ve fucked plenty of white guys. I also been BS’d a lot too. No bitterness here. My overall point is if your a younger black guy, be level headed and enjoy interracial sex for what it is: sex. If it becomes more than that, cool. But let it flow naturally. But don’t be so desperate for a white you end up getting hurt or even worse, broke. Read these posts, learn, Keep your expectations realistic.

I’m not seeing how Dread Scott and Thurgood Marshall tie into this.

Both of these drive me nuts too. I also forgot guys who don’t realize they aren’t the star. You got some bottom taking loads, or guys are into something hot, and along comes some dude who should be a bit player or dump and go, laying on the bed trying to bottom and do the most.

No one can have it all…..

1. Pulling out 2. Moaning like a bitch 3. Same angle forever 4. Guys fucking forever during a Cumdump scene, only to not cum after like 20 minutes 5. Guys telling you the pretended to cum 6. Women/cunts 7. Bottoms asking for a break 8. Not breeding

I was with you until this. We have to keep it real. 90% of the no (insert race here) is from non-blacks, including Asians and “Anglo-Latinos.” You may have a few blacks being race exclusive, but that is the exception not the norm. Hell, a lot of black men don’t want other black men either. They can’t wait too line up to be in an environment without black people (see some of posts above). A lot of this black men who hate other black men are trying to “graduate” and find a place outside of black society and it’s a fools errand, but I digress. If you have a six lane street going one way, and every once in awhile they open one lane to go in the opposite direction, that’s not a two way street.

If a beautiful may from Jordan, Turkey or one of the neighboring areas wanted a green card I’d consider it! Kidding!!! Maybe…..

Not replying to the OP cause I don’t know him personally, but I’m going g to throw in my two cents and speak generally. When I hear non black peoples use the term “People of color,” that usually means white people aren’t giving me what I want socially, sexually, etc. and I want black people to co-sign. Then as soon as you get what you, you’re no longer a person of color, you’re Italian, Latino, Asian, etc (BTW it’s disingenuous to use POC but classify yourself as white on your ID but I digress). No different in this case. There are plenty of guys who want to fuck non-black bottoms. Problem is, a lot of you only want white tops. Yeah you take a black guy if he has and 11 inch dick, but he has to wear a doo-rag and have a blunt hanging out of his mouth. But for the most part, you’re blocking or ignoring and guy who isn’t “white.” Then turn around and say no one will fuck me or Rascim. If you like white guys fine, but there’s two sides to this story.

True. But I already know if your in Turkey, we’re not fucking so there’s no expectations. Prob just killing time til the next fuck.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with giving a compliment, or having a brief convo about how’s thing are in there side of the world.

You can’t have everything. Sooner or later, we all get up in age, our options diminish, and we are forced to choose.

Or guys pretending they are looking for a relationship.

1. Online everyday with an add or message saying your looking for loads. This is big in sniffies, and usually means ur constantly looking because your constantly saying no 2. Paragraphs full of rules. Just say you only want white, jock, young or whatever and save folks some time. 3. Excessive filter/blurry pics 4. Terrible attempts at comedy or being clever (grindr) 5. Delayed responses at night (no, you’re not busy)

I prefer hairy. Like half man half rug. Even better if bald then hairy.

A bone dry, unlubricated. If you’re a Cumdump, at least have a wet hole when I come in or some lube Guys asking if I’m close before I even get my shoes off

Fuck

Maybe he had a foot fetish?!?

For some reason, some of the post in this thread make me laugh

There is no such thing as “progressive” racism. Either there is or there isn’t. And their racism isn’t toward “non-Caucasian” it’s toward black people. Ukraine is openly enabling anti-black neo nazi’s from around the world to come and train. This has been reported for years. That is not a condition of the heart, that’s a national ideology. Black people should not have to suffer or be mistreated in silence for the betterment of everyone else. Telling us “we should just ignore the blatant white supremecy in the Ukraine for now, and we will get to you guys later” is not acceptable for most black people. Some would call that a form of slavery.