JamesTheBBJedi

Love raw cock and the feeling of being filled with hot loads, I am also on Truvada for PrEP (for the last 2 years ) and have grown more and more comfortable and confident in its ability to help prevent HIV infection (yes, I know its not 100% and there is always risk invoked - but I’m more than happy to get bred by poz guys (even gangbanged/tag teamed by poz Tops

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It does depend on the day really. If I went out for a big family dinner with the siblings the night before and it’s early in the day still when you’re clearing the path, then it can take a little over a half hour. But in normal days less than 30. More likely approx 15 minutes, usually three good shots With the clean stream in the shower does it perfectly. I use my favorite plug for about 10 minutes after I feel like I got all the water etc out. I’ll suck the guy(s) whole I wait and then take the plug out in the bathroom which gets that little extra water out so there won’t be any issues for quiet a while.

It was a giant zoom room of dudes jacking themselves. We tried to put in a little show but there were 370+ people in the “party” at the time and I think that since everyone was a “guest” when people did start fucking on camera you basically just found it by chance. Had to keep clicking back and forth between the chat function and the video function. But heck - it was worth a try. I do miss the in person events. Can’t wait until those resume. I’m ready to give the “Blackout Party” a shot at Catalyst in San Francisco once we are released from hone arrest lol. Just a specific colored wrist band, lube in my sock, and ready to take what cums my way and not being able to see shit. Mmmm

well said! Probably exactly (or very close to) how I would have replied. there’s something about the feeling when a guy cums inside of you. I have a hard time putting it into words that would do it any justice. Mind blowing? Epic? Life changing? Spiritual? Freeing? Nope - none of those capture how it feels to me. I’ve talked to some fellow bottoms who say that they can’t feel it at all when the guy cums - I honestly have no idea how that’s even possible, and if it is true, than I am sincerely sorry for them as they are missing out on one of the most incredible sexual experiences a person can have (in my humble opinion hehe). But seriously, just relax and go into the night with ZERO expectations or assumptions, or even a plan for that matter. Let it happen organically, enjoy each moment for what it is, as it flows into the next moment...go with the flow and where the mood and chemistry take you, and embrace what you do get to experience without any regret or disappointment over things you did not get to (this time! 😈😊😉🐷). I didn’t experience sex with more than one partner until just this past October (10/16/2019, 4:30pm - 1:45am) what a night! I asked a good FWB if he would help me finally live out this one specific fantasy, and he enthusiastically agreed. Knowing him and trusting him, then knew anybody he’d invite over was fully “vetted” 🤣👌🏻 and wouldn’t pit me in a position where my safety etc would be an issue. He even agreed to host (which was great since he has a fucking awesome sling, huge 65” screen tv playing a continuous stream of porn from whatever “genre” you would like, fridge stocked with plenty of water and other rehydration choices, nice shower with a clean-out attached, all the blindfolds, harnesses, lube, and other accessories to ensure the playroom is prepared for whatever goes down at any given time. He invited 4 buddies that night, 3 tops and one Vers top who agreed that he would not try and sneak in one of the cocks meant to plow and breed me himself. Ended up taking 9 loads it total that night. By the time my buddy shot his first deep in my gut (he went first), I had the blindfold on and my wrists were strapped to the poles near my head....and fucking WOW! Even though I had met each of them when they arrived and knew who was in the room - it was absolutely an incredible almost religious experience not knowing which one was inside of me at any given time. I highly recommend giving it a try. Just breath, relax, agree with your friend that he’s “got your back” and will know if you are in a bad spot or mindset. Enjoy it my friend - but be warned, you may just not be ready for how much you like it and how good it feels. It’s addicting.

Oh - that is good to know. I guess my misunderstanding was the “extent” of severity of the crime (felony, prison, etc) as California recently changed it in 2017, and went into effect in 2018. Under current California law, it is felony offense punishable by 3 to 8 years in prison. The new law, which was signed by Brown on Oct. 6 and takes effect January 1, changes this to a misdemeanor, carrying a 6-month prison term — the same punishment as knowingly exposing someone to other communicable diseases.

This would have been a difficult question to answer up until about a month ago...now there’s no question. About 5-6 months ago I met a guy who has developed into a regular FWB and we get together about once a week or so and have a great time. He’s quite talented, substantially endowed and knows how to use it. He’s introduced me to some new things I hadn’t had the opportunity to try up until now: the sling - always wanted to be in one, but never met anybody who had one and never had the opportunity, and man it’s fucking awesome (his has shock absorber springs on all four chains, excellent padded cuff/straps for your ankles and wrists, large leather sling that has more than enough room for guys even bigger than me (6’2”, 238lbs). He’s extremely T friendly, has a large screen TV in the playroom and no shortage of quality porn. I could go on, but I think you get the picture - he’s a GREAT FWB! And his partner is also totally cool with everything and has joined us a time or two (so yes, my first threesome as well). So one afternoon we had a long conversation with my friend about fantasies, desires, curiosities and so on, I admitted to him one of my biggest - if not THE biggest fantasies - was to be the bottom for a group of tops (3 at least, plus me). This turned him on a lot. And the following week when we got together he offered to help arrange it for me, and that he’d be willing to host it as well since we’re both comfortable at his place and he has the sling etc already there. He said a had a few friends in mind that he could reach out to who he had known for a while and trusts, knows their status, and may be up for a group. So two weeks later he had it all set up - 4 tops plus him and me as the bottom to be used and filled by the lot of them. I was nervous as hell but I was even more excited and thrilled this was actually going to happen. The festivities kicked off at 1:00, I showed up at about 12:40 planning to get cleaned up and relax a little before it all started, but two of his friends were already there so things would get going rather quickly. We all exchanged pleasantries and established a couple ground rules (things I was not up for - no need to get into those right now) and yes, we were all friendly towards a cloudy night so that helped me quite a bit. Everybody participating was very respectful and happy to join in on my first group. The festivities went on until after 10:00pm that night, and by the time all was said and done I was significantly satisfied and worn out in the best way possible. Every one of them topped me at least 2-3 times each, and I enjoyed taking all of their loads in both ends. I had never experienced such intense pleasure before in my entire life, let alone for that long! I came 3 times that night just from being topped - and that has NEVER happened before. Unfortunately I think I’m now spoiled and being part of a group is all I’m able to think about lol I’m hopeful it’ll happen again, but in the meantime I am really enjoying the 1-on-1 with my friend and his partner joining in from time to time

Thank you for framing it that way! I could not agree more...I hope I did not infer that the victim (the most accurate descriptor in this case) is somehow at fault, etc. Completely 100% not my intended message. I absolutely place ZERO blame on the victim, and my words were poorly chosen and my message conveyed incorrectly. My view of my own individual health and Neg HIV status and the responsibility to maintain this falls onto me, and I have taken the steps to do all I can to ensure I can continue the status quo so to speak - and if I choose to place myself in a situation where that can be a problem then that is the only part of it that rests upon my shoulders and mine alone. Simply put, I feel comfortable with those I am intimate with and Truvada helps me bolster my defense and confidence in my continued Neg status and would never intentionally put that at risk by entering into a situation where a person with ill intent would have the opportunity to stealth me. Bit you are completely correct - that it is theft, of their choice and their health, and should be considered sexual assault in ALL 50 states!

I know I’m coming into this obviously deep conversation a little late - but I wanted to chime in, give my “opinions”, and try to add to the discussion. Fair warning - this is a long post, so read if you have the time, or don’t, the choice is yours. Do I think stealthing is “morally ok”? Short answer: no. I will counter that however, by admitting that I can not make a blanket statement and declare that “all guys (Poz or not) who choose to stealth a bottom” are Sociopaths, that would be too broad, overreaching, and inaccurate for lack of knowledge of motive and intent... BUT sociopaths would in-fact be candidates to stealth breed another person (man or woman). I will qualify that by saying that there is a portion of ownership, for lack of a better word, on both parties when it comes to what does and does not happen when having sex with another man whom their status is not a known quantity. Sure, I enjoy bareback very much, and I’ve made the conscious choice to take PrEP (Truvada) for peace of mind and as a backup should I be with somebody who isn’t truthful about their negative or undetectable status and they decide to pull a stealth operation on me. That said though I do assume the risk that Truvada’s efficacy is only 92% give or take, and that I may end up Poz eventually anyway. And we all know there are other inherent risks of having bareback sex which we don’t need to go into (and add to the already substantial length of my “rant”). So why would sociopaths be considered as potential stealthers? Easy, see the hard and fast, factual and scientifically supported definition and profile of sociopaths below... Profile of the Sociopath: Superficial Charm Manipulative - They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." Pathological Lying - Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt - Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. Shallow Emotions Incapacity for Love Need for Stimulation - Living on the edge. Promiscuity and gambling are common. Callousness/Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature - no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexually acting out. Parasitic Lifestyle. Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

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Hey! Just joined up today. Already enjoying the place 😉 I’m 50 (look maybe 40ish I’m told, haha who knows) 6’2”, 235, moderately hairy, many tattoos, clean STI free, and Neg/on PrEP. anyway, I’m finally at a place in my life where in am ready to REALLY enjoy more of being a total bottom, and if I’m honest - playing a little catch up. I’m experienced, and know what I like (so far) and don’t, but there is so much more to explore and enjoy that I’m starting to make up for lost time. Just experienced my first threesome this week and WOW fuck! Amazing! I’m looking forward to meeting more talented hung DTF Tops for some 1on1 or hopefully group fun!

Hey guys! i don’t disagree about Sacramento one bit. I’m a total bottom and often all I get replies from are guys who wanna flip or are also bottoms who didn’t take the time to read my whole profile or ad etc. The quantity of Tops here in the Sacramento area has gone down quite a bit, and the quality in along with it unfortunately. I’ve met a couple good ones and established a nice FWB situation with one of them, son that does help “fill the void” so to speak. Problem I’ve found is that most Tops who party and want to hookup can’t host, are complete and total wastes (so tweaked out they can’t perform whatsoever), aren’t honest about their status, or just generally not included in the “sane & hygienic” category. And honestly - there are so many fucking bottoms here in Sacramento it feels like all the tops either converted or moved away. And after Craig’s list went away it got even harder. I’ve had some luck on BBRT and met a few nice Tops that I’ve met up with on occasion. If anybody had any suggestions for meeting talented, hung, sane, clean, and not on “active prison release/parole” lol Tops is live to hear them.

Exactly!!! Couldn’t have said it better myself.