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YourNoLimitsBottom

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  1. I try to stay away from married guys. I like tops that are gay. They want to fuck ME, and are not using me as a substitute for a lady they couldn't get at that moment. Practice standard hygiene. Hell, we all get dirty, and that is ok. I've had some hot encounters when I am doing a physical activity with a guy and it turns into sex. Being sweaty from the activity adds to the hotness factor of the encounter. Being sweaty from three days ago though? Not so much. I'm a bottom. I like to get that out when the conversation starts. If someone wants mutual oral, hell I love to 69. If someone wants for me to fuck them, that's a deal breaker. I especially hate when a bottom pretends to be a top and when the action starts, suddenly wants you to fuck them. I get that bottoms vastly outnumber tops and it can be hard to find someone to fuck you, man do I get that. But when I run into this situation I shut it down. I'm guessing they've run into fellow bottoms that are desperate and horny enough to fuck them so they keep doing it, but I have walked away from situations like those. They are a hard boundary.
  2. I never understood the appeal until the first time I had a top's tongue teasing my ass. Holy shit, I just about lost it right there. I was still new to everything, and it was one more pleasure to add to the "likes" list. It seems to be with the guys I meet on the top's "to do" list when we get naked, and I am not going to complain! It's one more reason to keep doing the squats and hip thrusts!
  3. "Wanna fuck?" At my core, I'm a simple man.
  4. What I do like about straight guys is they just want to fuck and be sucked and do the stuff they may not be getting from a lady. Sometimes I just want to fuck. I want all of that extreme stuff you couldn't get your lady to do. Want to experiment? Got some fetishes you need to act out? Even better, some BDSM that makes the ladies cringe? Let's give them a whirl! What I don't like is when they are using you for a substitute for a lady and are imagining her as they do you. It's OK when you are in a missionary or doggy style, but one of the worst experiences I had was with a straight guy several inches shorter than me who obviously like to fuck women bent over various things in his apartment. The logistics sucked. I know once a straight guy has nutted it is normally done and time to go. I accept that, hell if I am there just for the fuck I appreciate that. I'm not looking to convert someone and I'm not going to stick around and discuss feelings. I really do prefer gay guys though, because they want to fuck ME and not some woman they are imagining. They are more in tune with my body.
  5. I've never slept with a roommate, I always kept those relationships strictly sex-free because ultimately you have to live with them, and damn I've lived with some real jerks. Sex with friends though, yeah, been there done that. When I first started my journey I would never consider it because I didn't want to risk losing a friend. After a long while I realized there were friends that felt the same way and were able to look at sex as a fun time and take it only as that. That lead me to hooking up with friends for some fun. I haven't ran into any bad situations where either of us get hung up on it and end up crashing the friendship. If I thought from knowing the guy that there could be an issue, I would avoid sex because I'd rather keep a friend long term than to have a night or so of sex. Need to add/edit this. The question was "hot or not?" Fuck yeah, it's hot! I spent all this time listening to my friend's likes and thinking about what I would love to do to him, and suddenly the opportunity comes up? Oh baby, do I go wild...
  6. It seems like pic collectors automatically request ass pics when I say I am a bottom. Those requests get promptly ignored. I had a guy I was with for a while off and on that like to take pics of me bent over bare assed at various points on his favorite hiking trail. A few of them were taken after he fucked me and his cum was leaking out of me. At the time it was hot because I enjoy exhibitionism and the thought of being seen. But now I have to wonder if he has a secret stash of trophy pics of guys' asses he fucked on that trail. I have never seen pics on the net of guys' asses linked to landmarks from that particular trail, so he may be keeping them for himself. Or I need to look harder. They may be on some site somewhere, and if so and some guys have gotten off to them, I'm happy to have helped.
  7. I never got into sunbathing. Probably it is paying off now. Between drinking lots of water and consuming probably an inordinate amount of cucumbers, my skin seems to be doing well. Knock on wood, I probably just jinxed myself. But my 50s are going to be here before I know it, so I'll expect the worst and hope for the best.
  8. Amen to that. This gives you a chance to present yourself, and defeats the apps that may have taken you off someone's online radar.
  9. I love sex, and I love sex with gay men over straight or bi because the gay top wants to fuck ME and is not fantasizing about a woman. I want the top to be all into me (pun definitely intended). I am into the physical sensations, the eroticism, the heat, the messy sweaty cummy roll around in the sheets action. The fetishes, the BDSM, the spontaneous "let's see how far he will take it" moments... I like sex to be a natural organic experience. I don't need enhancements or to be chasing or the like. I've spur of the moment been fucked doggy during watching a football game on TV, bent over a car in a bar parking lot, and been bent over a picnic table in a semi-secluded wooded area. I even love the standard bedroom games: gagging on his cock, riding it, feeling his fingers digging into me when he cums... I'm in it for the sex... the cock, the cum, the physical overload of sensations, the skin-on-skin contact, and the lust.
  10. Agreed. It is a shit thing to do. I know from reading posts on this site for over a year now that some guys get off on doing it, or at least they post that. The gentlemen's agreement isn't what we would always hope it is. My post was probably too "one way or the other, no middle ground", safe with a condom or take what you get bare. Ultimately the way I look at it is I know I need to be the one to take responsibility for what happens to myself, if I can't accept the risk I either go for a condom or call the whole thing off.
  11. I have always gone with the mindset that if the cock goes in bare, then the load is to be expected unless both top and bottom have some kind of discussion otherwise beforehand. Even then, if there is some kind of worry about STIs it is probably transmissible through precum, so the idea of getting fucked bare but telling him to pull out before cumming seems to make little sense. Sure, there can be more of a chance of infection from a complete load, but if you are already risking it from the precum then I am not sure what the point is. I've always operated by being up front with the top. If we both want the load (give and take) or if we both want condom, then we go for it. If we have differing opinions then we shake hands or drink our beers or however we met to discuss our expectations and move on. No harm, no foul, and hopefully we made a friend in the process. I hear stories about bottoms that are desperate for the fuck and will agree to anything, and then change the terms once the clothes are off and hope the top is horny enough to go along with it. That leaves the top jaded and hurts the rest of us bottoms.
  12. I've never had a gangbang situation to crave many cocks and loads so I have always made the most with what I have. A guy that I hook up with on and off is always good for multiple fucks. The first fuck is typically frenzied and doesn't last long, but once he cums the first time and I get him hard again (and damn do I love going full-on slutty working his cock to help him along!) then that next fuck lasts a long time. I love long fucks and will do what I have to to keep him going and inside me as much and as long as possible.
  13. 2 hours 15 minutes. I live in a rural area and have to travel to larger populated areas. There are cities closer, but after online discussions I had to meet him because this guy came off as an aggressive top. So after work on a Friday I headed east to his location. He did not disappoint. We spent a summer fucking before he moved for his job.
  14. I have to say I am happy with what I've got. I am attracted to men who want to fuck ME, and not the woman they couldn't find at the moment. And those men are usually gay and attracted to my ass. Plus, watching porn, women seem to react with a moan when a guy slides into their pussy, but a gasp when a guy pushes into their ass. I want that feeling. I want that initial pain as his cock head stretches me open. I want his fingers digging into me as I tighten the muscles in my ass and work his cock. I enjoy the fuck and all the sensations that go with it. I am not ashamed to admit I have a pain kink and when he is pounding my hole and making me squirm I am highly aroused. Being fucked in the ass gets me all the sensations and pleasure I need.
  15. I first got turned on to bare sex through the natural progression of being in a relationship with a guy for a long time. I have to say once I experienced it, I was definitely looking forward to it in any relationships afterwards. It hasn't taken long to progress to bare sex in relationships after that. For me, sex is typically a primal release of lust, aggression... hell, insert some heated emotion here. A condom is fine when deemed needed, but I enjoy aggressive natural sex. The guys I typically connect with aren't into the romantic side of sex. The psychological aspect of being entered raw has an effect on both of us, the physical heat is enhanced, either physically or just the idea of it, when his bare cock is pounding in and out of me. And I love the feel of cum running down my skin. I want to be left covered in sweat and have cum running down my skin. Someday if I get really lucky, I want to be covered with a lot of cum earned from hours of aggressive sex with a lot of aggressive lust-filled guys. Definitely a bucket list item!
  16. The fuck. Definitely the fuck. The load is the satisfying ending to a worthwhile journey.
  17. My first time was safe. It was 2012 and he brought the condoms. I was good with that, we discussed it before we met. Given that I was new to it, I had all the questions that most guys who are having their first gay experience have after decades of hetero sex, and safety was one of them. I've progressed since then. Condoms still come up and still get used, longer term partners progress to bare, some risque encounters happen raw and I test responsibly. Im guessing I'm like most guys. I'm enjoying the life and looking to keep exploring and checking items off the sex bucket list. 😉
  18. I run hot as well. I don't hold it against the guy for not wanting to cuddle, though I had one friend say he enjoyed it on a cold winter night (and he still didn't cuddle long). I'm glad to see some walking furnace solidarity here!
  19. I like a nice average cock. Let me suck it, slide it in me, cum in me. When I am in full sub slut mode sure I'd like to be on the receiving end of a long thick cock fucking my throat and making me gasp for air, or stretching me open. Ultimately I like the guy behind the cock. If he can't use what he has, size doesn't matter much.
  20. I've had better experiences with gay tops. They are into fucking you, and aren't imagining you as the woman they couldn't get at the moment. Most married guys I know that have dipped a toe into gay sex have been bottoms wondering how it felt to be in the classic female role.
  21. Axis and Allies, Arkham Horror, Pandemic, and a load of smaller lesser known games. I love to play!
  22. My view is pretty simple because after I say "I am a bottom and will not fuck your ass", then everything else except for those big bad items everyone knows about is open. I love mutual oral and love to 69. I see that as not falling into top or bottom, we are on equal footing. If you are laying there and I know you are into it, I will sit on your cock and go wild. I think that is a power bottom move? If you tell me beforehand you want me to be submissive or give off the vibe you want me to be submissive through your actions, I will slide into that role. In the end, for me you are a top because you slide your cock into my ass, and I am a bottom because I do not put my cock in your ass. Beyond that, it's all fair game. Unless we discussed your personal top and my personal bottom likes and dislikes before meeting, I want us to explore each other's limits spontaneously.
  23. Currently 40s, started very late 30s. Wish I had been bolder and started earlier, early 20s or sooner. I ESPECIALLY wish I had had the guts to join the gay couple in college who invited me to have sex with them. But as others have pointed out, who knows how things would have turned out if things had been done differently. I am probably better off having gone the way I did. I'm definitely making the best of everything I can going forward.
  24. Boxer briefs. When I move around I like everything to stay in place.
  25. I wonder if the the guys were gay, or curious? Perhaps they were new to it all thinking that the sex would be magical or some other wonderful thing they conjured in their head. I've seen guys that are not sure of what they want, they read or watch the porn and get excited and imagine how hot it will be, and after they shoot their load and come down from the euphoria they realize what they`ve done and are looking for an excuse to get out the door. I imagine that once they get horny they'll do it all again. That's why when I first started out I used the rule of thumb: If something sounds so fucking hot I NEED NEED NEED to do it, jerk off first. If as soon as I cum I am no longer interested, no need to waste anyone's time. If I cum and still can't get it out of my mind, I'm going to jump into it all ready to go.
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