YourNoLimitsBottom

I first got turned on to bare sex through the natural progression of being in a relationship with a guy for a long time. I have to say once I experienced it, I was definitely looking forward to it in any relationships afterwards. It hasn't taken long to progress to bare sex in relationships after that. For me, sex is typically a primal release of lust, aggression... hell, insert some heated emotion here. A condom is fine when deemed needed, but I enjoy aggressive natural sex. The guys I typically connect with aren't into the romantic side of sex. The psychological aspect of being entered raw has an effect on both of us, the physical heat is enhanced, either physically or just the idea of it, when his bare cock is pounding in and out of me. And I love the feel of cum running down my skin. I want to be left covered in sweat and have cum running down my skin. Someday if I get really lucky, I want to be covered with a lot of cum earned from hours of aggressive sex with a lot of aggressive lust-filled guys. Definitely a bucket list item!

The fuck. Definitely the fuck. The load is the satisfying ending to a worthwhile journey.

My first time was safe. It was 2012 and he brought the condoms. I was good with that, we discussed it before we met. Given that I was new to it, I had all the questions that most guys who are having their first gay experience have after decades of hetero sex, and safety was one of them. I've progressed since then. Condoms still come up and still get used, longer term partners progress to bare, some risque encounters happen raw and I test responsibly. Im guessing I'm like most guys. I'm enjoying the life and looking to keep exploring and checking items off the sex bucket list. 😉

I run hot as well. I don't hold it against the guy for not wanting to cuddle, though I had one friend say he enjoyed it on a cold winter night (and he still didn't cuddle long). I'm glad to see some walking furnace solidarity here!

I like a nice average cock. Let me suck it, slide it in me, cum in me. When I am in full sub slut mode sure I'd like to be on the receiving end of a long thick cock fucking my throat and making me gasp for air, or stretching me open. Ultimately I like the guy behind the cock. If he can't use what he has, size doesn't matter much.

I've had better experiences with gay tops. They are into fucking you, and aren't imagining you as the woman they couldn't get at the moment. Most married guys I know that have dipped a toe into gay sex have been bottoms wondering how it felt to be in the classic female role.

Axis and Allies, Arkham Horror, Pandemic, and a load of smaller lesser known games. I love to play!

My view is pretty simple because after I say "I am a bottom and will not fuck your ass", then everything else except for those big bad items everyone knows about is open. I love mutual oral and love to 69. I see that as not falling into top or bottom, we are on equal footing. If you are laying there and I know you are into it, I will sit on your cock and go wild. I think that is a power bottom move? If you tell me beforehand you want me to be submissive or give off the vibe you want me to be submissive through your actions, I will slide into that role. In the end, for me you are a top because you slide your cock into my ass, and I am a bottom because I do not put my cock in your ass. Beyond that, it's all fair game. Unless we discussed your personal top and my personal bottom likes and dislikes before meeting, I want us to explore each other's limits spontaneously.

Currently 40s, started very late 30s. Wish I had been bolder and started earlier, early 20s or sooner. I ESPECIALLY wish I had had the guts to join the gay couple in college who invited me to have sex with them. But as others have pointed out, who knows how things would have turned out if things had been done differently. I am probably better off having gone the way I did. I'm definitely making the best of everything I can going forward.

Boxer briefs. When I move around I like everything to stay in place.

I wonder if the the guys were gay, or curious? Perhaps they were new to it all thinking that the sex would be magical or some other wonderful thing they conjured in their head. I've seen guys that are not sure of what they want, they read or watch the porn and get excited and imagine how hot it will be, and after they shoot their load and come down from the euphoria they realize what they`ve done and are looking for an excuse to get out the door. I imagine that once they get horny they'll do it all again. That's why when I first started out I used the rule of thumb: If something sounds so fucking hot I NEED NEED NEED to do it, jerk off first. If as soon as I cum I am no longer interested, no need to waste anyone's time. If I cum and still can't get it out of my mind, I'm going to jump into it all ready to go.

I actually appreciate the ads from tops that give an age range they are looking for, I know whether to respond or skip. And I also know in cases that don't specify an age range, based on experience stating my age in online communication in a lot of cases automatically gets the "no reply back". Many online tops in my area are looking for the younger bottoms. I can't fault them for it if they are legitimately looking, they are looking to fulfill their specific fantasies, just like I have my own fantasies. As a bottom in my 40s, I've had better luck going out in the world and meeting face to face. I get the feeling that a lot of the online activity in my area is from "tops" that may or may not actually want to hook up. Meeting someone in public shows more commitment from both (or all) sides.

I'm a bottom, and have never fucked a guy and have no desire to, but I can range from submissive to take-charge depending on the mood and the top. I have been with more than one top that enjoyed me taking the initiative and hopping onboard and riding him til he blew. I guess the proper way to phrase it is I range from submissive bottom to power bottom.

I go the decent diet route as well. I do squats, lunges, and hip thrusters with weights in the nude to stretch and keep things strong and perky for as long as possible.

To paraphrase Futurama (All hail The Hypnotoad!): "Elvis is alive?!? I knew it! The Loch Ness Monster's book was right!"

Rate myself? Most days I wake up a solid 2.5 and it doesn't vary much as the day goes by. In the end, it comes down to what the other guy thinks. I exercise to help my odds and as a bottom we need to stack the deck in our favor as much as we can, but if the other guy isn't interested numbers don't matter.

Yeah, once we hit that point there is no thought, no planning, everything is just a lust-fueled blurred sequence of events.

Last night I got a pleasant surprise when a fuck buddy I had fallen out of touch with for a while got a hold of me wondering if I was available. I had gotten out of the shower a bit before after having been outside freezing while cleaning up some downed branches. Feeling good from the hot shower and facing the prospect of some even hotter sex, of course I said yes. When we were fucking regularly we never really talked much pre-sex, after a long week you just needed to get that pent up energy and aggression out, you know? This time was no different. When I walked through the door he was in a bathrobe and that was my signal to start stripping. I was nude before I was past ten feet in the door. I love being nude! He sat in his living room recliner with his robe open and already hard cock ready for my mouth. I dropped to my knees and pushed his legs apart and settled down with his cock head to my lips, enjoying the precum leaking from the tip. I licked and teased his cock head, looking up at him as I made a show of painting my lips with his precum, then went down on his length, taking his hot black cock down to the balls. He had always loved grabbing my hair and holding me in place when I did this, and that hadn't changed since the last time we were together. I didn't get long to suck him, he wanted to get to the main event. He had me get down on the carpet, laying on my stomach as he mounted me and worked his cock in. It was a bit rough going because there was only saliva on his cock to lube his way in, my saliva and I think he may have used some of his own, but I do enjoy the sensation of a cock slowly getting pushed into me and I am a bit of a pain junkie anyway. Once he bottomed out he started to thrust, and damn I had missed his enthusiasm! He didn't last long, I like to think it was because he was just really happy to see me, but hey, I'll take his cum any way I can get it! After he pulled out he laid on the floor and I cleaned his cock. I took my time, making a show out of it because I knew it turned him on and he was always good for a round two fuck. He got hard again and we headed to the bedroom, where he had me get on the bed on my knees with my ass up and head down. After the livingroom fuck and his first load still in me I was a lot easier to slide into. This fuck lasted a lot longer, and we ended up again with me laying on my stomach with him on top. After he came and we settled into bed we made small talk, catching up on the past several weeks. We slept all night, no 2AM fucks like old times, but in the morning he had his normal morning wood and I rode him for old times sake. He had to work so we both got in the shower and cleaned up with some playing, and after toweling off I got to walk through his place naked to get to my clothes by the front door with him following me in his robe. I love that walk because I know it gets him going watching my ass as I move. He surprised me by having me bend over the couch and pushed his already lubed dick into me. I'm guessing he had planned it and had lubed up in the bathroom. Gotta love the fun surprises in life, I wasn't expecting it! We didn't get to fuck long, and he didn't cum, but I am hoping that just means he'll be thinking about my ass during work and want another round tonight!

I keep pretty clean so there isn't an issue for me, but I've been doing it so long now and am so turned on by the time we reach than point I doubt I would care (or be thinking while in the lust-haze) about anything other than having him in my mouth. It definitely seems to get the top into a more aggressive mood when he pulls out after cumming and I immediately start sucking his cummy cock. It's a bonus when I can get him hard again doing this, because the next fuck lasts a lot longer.

I enjoy feeling when he pulls out just before cumming and squirts a shot or two of jizz on my opening, then pushes back in to finish cumming and holds his cock there, putting his weight into it. I like a guy heavier and taller than me for multiple reasons, mainly to make me feel more submissive in my bottom role and for this topic because when I am lying on my front, I want to feel him pinning me down making me take his cum deep in me. Then laying there keeping his dick in me as we both come down from that fuck-high. And I love those first shots on my opening because I want to be a mess when he is done, the more cum on me while still having it leaking out of me the better. Leaving me a mess is like a top's way of signing his work. And it gives me more cum to suck off his cock when cleaning it after. 🤤

Fantasies... oh I have a few... 1) I love water (pools, lakes, oceans, etc) and would love to find a group of Dominant tops that would push my limits having me suck them while they fuck me underwater. I love giving underwater blowjobs and I love getting fucked underwater, I want them to do both at once. I want to be held up underwater with my back to the bottom, and my head tilted back like I was laying on a bed and have my throat being fucked while another top fucks my ass. I want them to line up and when one cums, switch out with the next. It'll be a challenge, how good is my mouth and breath holding abilities, versus how sadistic and horny are they? And yeah, I'd do this in a heartbeat. 2) The timing of this is important. I want to put out an ad for a top that will fuck me bareback the night before my birthday, or on New Years Eve. They push in before midnight on either night, and they won't pull out until after midnight. So I in affect was being fucked from one landmark moment to the next, "one year to the next". Once they push in, they do not pull out, and I only have the option of telling them to pull out or pulling off them after midnight. I'll put all this in the ad and let them imagine the possibilities. I won't ask their status, and that makes it all the hotter. He can play with my opening up to midnight, running his cock head along my crack, teasing my opening, pushing against me, stretching me open... but once he slides it in, he stays in until after midnight. Is the guy sliding his cock into me carrying more than just a hot load? I won't know, but he can tell me any time he likes. If he tell me before midnight, do I just play with his cock, letting him tease me, but then suck him off and call it good? I can tell you, once I am naked with a cock all inhibitions are gone. I want to fullfill this fantasy, if he does tell me he is carrying more than just a cummy treat I bet I will still let him push it in. Does he play with my ass and push it in just before midnight, giving himself little time? Or does he give himself several minutes, to enjoy the buildup to midnight? Will he fuck me into a frenzy and when midnight hits do I pull off and take his cock in my mouth and finish him that way? I love to fuck, and the thought of his thick pole shooting a hot load in me will probably override any reason. I bet when midnight hits he will start fucking faster, hoping to fill me up before I pull off, and I will instead push my ass back into his cock, and beg for his load... Would I do this? Hard to tell, but my birthday is a ways off, and News Years is even further, who knows how things change...

Based on my experience, I'm going to guess that a number of those pictures from chatty accounts are not really that person (or their cock, ass, etc.). They want to talk about what you will do to them if you do meet, shoot a load into a Kleenex, and then ghost you when they can't deflect talk of actually physically meeting. I guess I should add that I do agree with others when they say to make sure your profile states what you are looking for. If I want a long "will he or won't he" conversation, or even friendship building to a relationship of some sort, I'll make sure my profile states this.

I've had cum that was flavored from sweet to horribly bitter, but what thrilled me was the act of getting it from cock to mouth. Thinking of the bitterest I ever tasted, it would not even slow me down if that was the only flavor of cum out there. That hot pole in my hand, leaking pre on my lips as I swallow his knob, my nude body flush with excitement as he grips my head as I suck and slurp his length... it is definitely the journey that turns me on and makes every mouthful satisfying.

I hooked up with a guy who was better than six inches shorter than me. He wanted me to bend over his kitchen table so he could fuck me, but logistics being what they were obviously this didn't work. So then he wanted me to bend over the back of his couch, which again didn't work. I saw he had straight porn playing on his living room TV and I put two and two together that he was used to fucking women, and probably ladies shorter than he was. He was getting flustered so I convinced him to fuck me missionary. He came and I went. This is one of the reasons when talking to a guy unseen I stress my height and I like to find tops that are either taller than me or who like positions that will allow them to fuck comfortably. If the top isn't into the fuck, it all tends to fall apart. AND this is why I like tops that are gay, I know they are interested in fucking ME, and not using me as a substitute for a woman they couldn't get in the heat of the moment. To this day I usually only play with gay men.

I enjoy being fingered, at least I haven't had a bad experience yet. Usually it happens when I'm in a bar or public place. Typically it starts as you would imagine, a guy "accidentally" brushes against me and I don't move away, hell if I saw him coming and he is hot, I'll move into the brush to signal interest. My butt typically attracts the interest, and it's where their hand ends up. Things progress from there, usually they want to see if my butt is as tight as it looks. When having sex or at least fooling around in private I don't mind if he just wants to finger-fuck me, because so far I have always had the cum shot on my opening. I've never had a guy finger-fucking me who hasn't had his cock out at the same time. I love the feel of cum spurting on my opening and feeling it run down my skin.