YourNoLimitsBottom

I love sex, and I love sex with gay men over straight or bi because the gay top wants to fuck ME and is not fantasizing about a woman. I want the top to be all into me (pun definitely intended). I am into the physical sensations, the eroticism, the heat, the messy sweaty cummy roll around in the sheets action. The fetishes, the BDSM, the spontaneous "let's see how far he will take it" moments... I like sex to be a natural organic experience. I don't need enhancements or to be chasing or the like. I've spur of the moment been fucked doggy during watching a football game on TV, bent over a car in a bar parking lot, and been bent over a picnic table in a semi-secluded wooded area. I even love the standard bedroom games: gagging on his cock, riding it, feeling his fingers digging into me when he cums... I'm in it for the sex... the cock, the cum, the physical overload of sensations, the skin-on-skin contact, and the lust.

Agreed. It is a shit thing to do. I know from reading posts on this site for over a year now that some guys get off on doing it, or at least they post that. The gentlemen's agreement isn't what we would always hope it is. My post was probably too "one way or the other, no middle ground", safe with a condom or take what you get bare. Ultimately the way I look at it is I know I need to be the one to take responsibility for what happens to myself, if I can't accept the risk I either go for a condom or call the whole thing off.

I have always gone with the mindset that if the cock goes in bare, then the load is to be expected unless both top and bottom have some kind of discussion otherwise beforehand. Even then, if there is some kind of worry about STIs it is probably transmissible through precum, so the idea of getting fucked bare but telling him to pull out before cumming seems to make little sense. Sure, there can be more of a chance of infection from a complete load, but if you are already risking it from the precum then I am not sure what the point is. I've always operated by being up front with the top. If we both want the load (give and take) or if we both want condom, then we go for it. If we have differing opinions then we shake hands or drink our beers or however we met to discuss our expectations and move on. No harm, no foul, and hopefully we made a friend in the process. I hear stories about bottoms that are desperate for the fuck and will agree to anything, and then change the terms once the clothes are off and hope the top is horny enough to go along with it. That leaves the top jaded and hurts the rest of us bottoms.

I've never had a gangbang situation to crave many cocks and loads so I have always made the most with what I have. A guy that I hook up with on and off is always good for multiple fucks. The first fuck is typically frenzied and doesn't last long, but once he cums the first time and I get him hard again (and damn do I love going full-on slutty working his cock to help him along!) then that next fuck lasts a long time. I love long fucks and will do what I have to to keep him going and inside me as much and as long as possible.

2 hours 15 minutes. I live in a rural area and have to travel to larger populated areas. There are cities closer, but after online discussions I had to meet him because this guy came off as an aggressive top. So after work on a Friday I headed east to his location. He did not disappoint. We spent a summer fucking before he moved for his job.

I have to say I am happy with what I've got. I am attracted to men who want to fuck ME, and not the woman they couldn't find at the moment. And those men are usually gay and attracted to my ass. Plus, watching porn, women seem to react with a moan when a guy slides into their pussy, but a gasp when a guy pushes into their ass. I want that feeling. I want that initial pain as his cock head stretches me open. I want his fingers digging into me as I tighten the muscles in my ass and work his cock. I enjoy the fuck and all the sensations that go with it. I am not ashamed to admit I have a pain kink and when he is pounding my hole and making me squirm I am highly aroused. Being fucked in the ass gets me all the sensations and pleasure I need.

I first got turned on to bare sex through the natural progression of being in a relationship with a guy for a long time. I have to say once I experienced it, I was definitely looking forward to it in any relationships afterwards. It hasn't taken long to progress to bare sex in relationships after that. For me, sex is typically a primal release of lust, aggression... hell, insert some heated emotion here. A condom is fine when deemed needed, but I enjoy aggressive natural sex. The guys I typically connect with aren't into the romantic side of sex. The psychological aspect of being entered raw has an effect on both of us, the physical heat is enhanced, either physically or just the idea of it, when his bare cock is pounding in and out of me. And I love the feel of cum running down my skin. I want to be left covered in sweat and have cum running down my skin. Someday if I get really lucky, I want to be covered with a lot of cum earned from hours of aggressive sex with a lot of aggressive lust-filled guys. Definitely a bucket list item!

The fuck. Definitely the fuck. The load is the satisfying ending to a worthwhile journey.

My first time was safe. It was 2012 and he brought the condoms. I was good with that, we discussed it before we met. Given that I was new to it, I had all the questions that most guys who are having their first gay experience have after decades of hetero sex, and safety was one of them. I've progressed since then. Condoms still come up and still get used, longer term partners progress to bare, some risque encounters happen raw and I test responsibly. Im guessing I'm like most guys. I'm enjoying the life and looking to keep exploring and checking items off the sex bucket list. 😉

I run hot as well. I don't hold it against the guy for not wanting to cuddle, though I had one friend say he enjoyed it on a cold winter night (and he still didn't cuddle long). I'm glad to see some walking furnace solidarity here!

I like a nice average cock. Let me suck it, slide it in me, cum in me. When I am in full sub slut mode sure I'd like to be on the receiving end of a long thick cock fucking my throat and making me gasp for air, or stretching me open. Ultimately I like the guy behind the cock. If he can't use what he has, size doesn't matter much.

I've had better experiences with gay tops. They are into fucking you, and aren't imagining you as the woman they couldn't get at the moment. Most married guys I know that have dipped a toe into gay sex have been bottoms wondering how it felt to be in the classic female role.

Axis and Allies, Arkham Horror, Pandemic, and a load of smaller lesser known games. I love to play!

My view is pretty simple because after I say "I am a bottom and will not fuck your ass", then everything else except for those big bad items everyone knows about is open. I love mutual oral and love to 69. I see that as not falling into top or bottom, we are on equal footing. If you are laying there and I know you are into it, I will sit on your cock and go wild. I think that is a power bottom move? If you tell me beforehand you want me to be submissive or give off the vibe you want me to be submissive through your actions, I will slide into that role. In the end, for me you are a top because you slide your cock into my ass, and I am a bottom because I do not put my cock in your ass. Beyond that, it's all fair game. Unless we discussed your personal top and my personal bottom likes and dislikes before meeting, I want us to explore each other's limits spontaneously.

Currently 40s, started very late 30s. Wish I had been bolder and started earlier, early 20s or sooner. I ESPECIALLY wish I had had the guts to join the gay couple in college who invited me to have sex with them. But as others have pointed out, who knows how things would have turned out if things had been done differently. I am probably better off having gone the way I did. I'm definitely making the best of everything I can going forward.

Boxer briefs. When I move around I like everything to stay in place.

I wonder if the the guys were gay, or curious? Perhaps they were new to it all thinking that the sex would be magical or some other wonderful thing they conjured in their head. I've seen guys that are not sure of what they want, they read or watch the porn and get excited and imagine how hot it will be, and after they shoot their load and come down from the euphoria they realize what they`ve done and are looking for an excuse to get out the door. I imagine that once they get horny they'll do it all again. That's why when I first started out I used the rule of thumb: If something sounds so fucking hot I NEED NEED NEED to do it, jerk off first. If as soon as I cum I am no longer interested, no need to waste anyone's time. If I cum and still can't get it out of my mind, I'm going to jump into it all ready to go.

I actually appreciate the ads from tops that give an age range they are looking for, I know whether to respond or skip. And I also know in cases that don't specify an age range, based on experience stating my age in online communication in a lot of cases automatically gets the "no reply back". Many online tops in my area are looking for the younger bottoms. I can't fault them for it if they are legitimately looking, they are looking to fulfill their specific fantasies, just like I have my own fantasies. As a bottom in my 40s, I've had better luck going out in the world and meeting face to face. I get the feeling that a lot of the online activity in my area is from "tops" that may or may not actually want to hook up. Meeting someone in public shows more commitment from both (or all) sides.

I'm a bottom, and have never fucked a guy and have no desire to, but I can range from submissive to take-charge depending on the mood and the top. I have been with more than one top that enjoyed me taking the initiative and hopping onboard and riding him til he blew. I guess the proper way to phrase it is I range from submissive bottom to power bottom.

I go the decent diet route as well. I do squats, lunges, and hip thrusters with weights in the nude to stretch and keep things strong and perky for as long as possible.

To paraphrase Futurama (All hail The Hypnotoad!): "Elvis is alive?!? I knew it! The Loch Ness Monster's book was right!"

Rate myself? Most days I wake up a solid 2.5 and it doesn't vary much as the day goes by. In the end, it comes down to what the other guy thinks. I exercise to help my odds and as a bottom we need to stack the deck in our favor as much as we can, but if the other guy isn't interested numbers don't matter.

Yeah, once we hit that point there is no thought, no planning, everything is just a lust-fueled blurred sequence of events.

Last night I got a pleasant surprise when a fuck buddy I had fallen out of touch with for a while got a hold of me wondering if I was available. I had gotten out of the shower a bit before after having been outside freezing while cleaning up some downed branches. Feeling good from the hot shower and facing the prospect of some even hotter sex, of course I said yes. When we were fucking regularly we never really talked much pre-sex, after a long week you just needed to get that pent up energy and aggression out, you know? This time was no different. When I walked through the door he was in a bathrobe and that was my signal to start stripping. I was nude before I was past ten feet in the door. I love being nude! He sat in his living room recliner with his robe open and already hard cock ready for my mouth. I dropped to my knees and pushed his legs apart and settled down with his cock head to my lips, enjoying the precum leaking from the tip. I licked and teased his cock head, looking up at him as I made a show of painting my lips with his precum, then went down on his length, taking his hot black cock down to the balls. He had always loved grabbing my hair and holding me in place when I did this, and that hadn't changed since the last time we were together. I didn't get long to suck him, he wanted to get to the main event. He had me get down on the carpet, laying on my stomach as he mounted me and worked his cock in. It was a bit rough going because there was only saliva on his cock to lube his way in, my saliva and I think he may have used some of his own, but I do enjoy the sensation of a cock slowly getting pushed into me and I am a bit of a pain junkie anyway. Once he bottomed out he started to thrust, and damn I had missed his enthusiasm! He didn't last long, I like to think it was because he was just really happy to see me, but hey, I'll take his cum any way I can get it! After he pulled out he laid on the floor and I cleaned his cock. I took my time, making a show out of it because I knew it turned him on and he was always good for a round two fuck. He got hard again and we headed to the bedroom, where he had me get on the bed on my knees with my ass up and head down. After the livingroom fuck and his first load still in me I was a lot easier to slide into. This fuck lasted a lot longer, and we ended up again with me laying on my stomach with him on top. After he came and we settled into bed we made small talk, catching up on the past several weeks. We slept all night, no 2AM fucks like old times, but in the morning he had his normal morning wood and I rode him for old times sake. He had to work so we both got in the shower and cleaned up with some playing, and after toweling off I got to walk through his place naked to get to my clothes by the front door with him following me in his robe. I love that walk because I know it gets him going watching my ass as I move. He surprised me by having me bend over the couch and pushed his already lubed dick into me. I'm guessing he had planned it and had lubed up in the bathroom. Gotta love the fun surprises in life, I wasn't expecting it! We didn't get to fuck long, and he didn't cum, but I am hoping that just means he'll be thinking about my ass during work and want another round tonight!

I keep pretty clean so there isn't an issue for me, but I've been doing it so long now and am so turned on by the time we reach than point I doubt I would care (or be thinking while in the lust-haze) about anything other than having him in my mouth. It definitely seems to get the top into a more aggressive mood when he pulls out after cumming and I immediately start sucking his cummy cock. It's a bonus when I can get him hard again doing this, because the next fuck lasts a lot longer.