Wow - as a total top with a genuine 9 inch cock (not AOL inches...) I have to say I agree with most of what is said. We tops are stupid if we use poppers (exception: the spray stuff makes my rod harder, not softer - but I still don't go there, they are fucking poison). Let me address a couple of points from a top's perspective that don't exactly piss us off, but are a disappointment (bottoms beware - if you are a pissy queen of a bottom who bothcs about everything, it's a huge turnoff):
1. Mess. Pretty obvious. I have rarely met a bottom who doesn't sometimes have trouble getting totally clean. But some bottoms actually just don't want to bother. That's an immediate exit for me.
2. Bossy bottoms. I am there as a TOP, and I want you in the position that I prefer for a good deep breeding. If one doesn't work because of leg problems , or pain at the angle in your shitter, that's one thing. But I want you on all fours or face down completely for breeding, NEVER standing up. It's my job to make your hole feel good. It's also your job to make my cock feel its best. I want to take some time , both pounding and doing long deep strokes real slow to feel your cunt walls on my cock.
3. Bottoms who think their holes are the center of the universe and want you to fuck them RIGHT NOW even though your status says "For Later" or "Late Night " or even " Not Looking". I change my status when I go on sites to fit what's going on. I wish other tops would too.
4. TWEAKERS. JUST NO.
5. Bottoms who just lie there expecting me to do all the work. You need to beg for my cock and load deeper and deeper, and know how to use your cunt muscles and move your ass to help suck me off. It just makes my cock that much harder, and I will breed you with a bigger load and get the big head of my cock up beyond your second ring that way too....a good sperming.
6. I have never had a bottom ask me to pull out to shoot, and I hope I never do. Holes were meant to be spermed.
7. Yeah, am I the only top who LOVES to stick his poz cock into a guy's cum filled hole with other guys' sperm loads in there? Love it - love to get down and smell the jizz in a hot man's cunt.
8. EXTRA POINTS always go to a bottom who is also able to shoot his load in my mouth after I have dumped a few loads in his hole. Even MORE extra points to a bottom who stays hard while I pound his ass, the way I used to when I was more 50/50.
9. I agree - any city I go to, I hear the same thing from bottoms." I can't find any real tops who can fuck me the way you do". Hell, should I start a school? LOL
10. Bottoms - by ALL means, have a sense of humor. If there is a tiny little morsel of shit on the end of my cock, I am not going to lose my mind, and you shouldn't be embarrassed. It's life, and we will try again. By the same token, if the top can't get hard , it might be because you don't turn him on in person like your outdated pictures did, or your place looks and smells like a pig sty (one of my own pet peeves). If it doesn't work out, both should feel free to say so - WITH KINDNESS - and go your separate ways. Bitchy bottom (and you know who you are) are the bane of our lives.