FunCheerSlut

I love this community and forums. I learn something new every-day. I had no idea that "Spartacus" was a gay-guide book or that it had evolved into a smart-phone app (like almost everything). Thanks for sharing! I too am looking forward to being able to travel again soon. If anyone would like to invite me to their city and whore me-out frat-house style (love those Fraternity X and Sketchy Sex videos) please let me know. I will even bring my cheer-gear in the local sports team colours. LOL

An erection and maintaining that erection until he finishes - is all a "good top" requires for me to be happy; no matter how long in duration his hard cock requires use of my horny holes. I enjoy taking a hard cock for even a few strokes if that's all it takes to get him emptying that nutt out (hopefully balls deep). Anything that gets in the way of getting or maintaining a hardon is a big deal breaker or red flag for me. I do love to feel an orgasm regardless of how much cum the top ejaculates.

I have not done this yet and I would certainly love to experience this...It sounds easier said than done; but I am down to try!!

Recently, I had planned to have a fun "sex" weekend where my goal was to enjoy taking as many hard cocks as I could reasonably find. I think going into the weekend I had at least seven or eight guys scheduled to come over within the next 48-72 hours. As we all know - scheduling is the most challenging part of all this so I wanted to give these guys time to get a plan or an alibi together so we could improve the hook-ups chances for success. It is also why when the planets finally do line up and someone actually claims to be "ready" at the same moment you are - you have to go for it...even if it ends up like these experiences. I know my friends, I have been there too. It's all too frustrating. Everyone thinks the gays have it all figured out with these apps, but little do they know it's next to impossible to actually use them as they were designed. I often wonder what it is, what voyuer or picture collector is just using it as a means to get off. Needless to say, I do not get it. I feel that it is a fundamental lack of maturity and not actually taking ANY personal responsibility for what they want or how to get it in a gentlemanly way. I try not to take any of it personally and like you I am always on the look out for other easier ways to satisfy our carnal animal desires to get off WITH ANOTHER PERSON, not the idea of another person or what one might do if they were to go through with it...anyway, I digress. At the end of the "sex" weekend I think I ended up having three nice hook-ups. Only ONE of those hook-ups ended up being with one of the original scheduled seven or eight. The rest of them fell apart for one crazy reason or another (I actually had one guy tell me his sister died, and maybe she did - what do I know. but then he kept writing me back wanting to have more sexy chat). The other two, ironically, were Grindr meets in the area. So, as frustrating as it is - I just have to keep my expectations and my horny alter ego in check. Wink xoxo

Please follow the advice of health care professionals. In the big picture what is another day or two or three or four? There are consequences to our behaviour whether it is popular to point that out or not. Please get tested and treated. xoxoxo

This thread has generated a lot of opinion; so I guess I will add my 2 cents. The challenge in responding to this is that it paints "all bottoms" with the same broad brush stroke(s). Not all bottoms are the same, nor do they have the same desires. When you take this question in the context of a more recent post by the OP who also admitted to wanting more of a connection with a sexual partner - then the answer is any position where the bottom can reach his cock and stroke it. For example, if I knew that I were going to have a nice long sex session with @Sharp-edge where we have a date, and drinks, and then get naked and fuck - then I would absolutely want to play with myself and have an orgasm at the end of our session. I am happy with a nice robust one on one meeting and do not mind completing it and myself with an orgasm. Having said that, my cheer slut friend, would rather just put her horny holes on a fuck bench or against a tree or hang out ass-up in a frat house man-cave to get as many hard cocks and cum up in her slutty holes as possible. In other words, I am perfectly interested and desire both type of scenarios and/or encounters. I think I would be limiting myself by only choosing to engage in meaningful one on one sex versus being used like a pin cushion. All this to say, let the bottom do whatever the bottom wants to do. Communicate what type of bottom you're seeking out in that moment and hopefully you can negotiate a like-minded encounter leaving both satisfied. The reason I would not want to masturbate or jerk off, or even cum is because as other threads have pointed out -- as soon as the bottom cums, it severely reduces ones appetite to manage and take more cock. Which contradicts my desire (at times) to service and take as many hard cocks as possible. So, it just all depends. Good luck!

Love this thread! Great advice guys. Keep your holes healthy (even if that means taking a break from sex to allow it to recover)!

The last part is perfectly stated. xoxo (My personal preference is for guys who want my horny holes sloppy and well used with cum running down my ass/leg but I have never gotten to experience that...yet).

I wanted to create this light-hearted topic in light of some other recent discussions I was reading through. SO - If you stumbled onto a magic lamp or a genie in a bottle and you were granted three (3) wishes -- what would they be?? Now, in full-disclosure I am sure I could come up with some better wishes, but here are a few just to get things started. Wish 1: The ability to get fucked anytime, anywhere, by any size cock without the need to do any douching and to NEVER have any mess to deal with. I like spontaneous sex and I would relish the opportunity to take any cock anywhere. Wish 2: I would wish for a type of "slut-signal" that I could put up (like when you need to call for Batman using the bat-signal), that would cast a horny spell over any of the Tops in my immediate vicinity so that they are drawn to the sweet and lustful honey trap that is also my horny holes. Where they would feel compelled to come empty their nutt. Wish 3: The ability to "shape-shift" into whatever form that Top finds desirable so that he not only wants to fuck me, but he is so turned on by the object of his desire in front of him that he is extremely aroused, he is entirely engaged, and he is able to achieve his best possible orgasm (and more than once). A fourth wish would be that he has a bunch of buddies or friends he could bring along so they could enjoy utilizing my holes as a group. (sorry these are bottom-centric wishes)

This is a great topic / thread and I agree that there is some excellent feedback and sage advice here for all. Aging in the context of our culture and societal norms (in North America anyway) is a disadvantage generally. The young, smooth, and tight are generally preferred over experience, maturity, and tenure. Someone alluded to this as the great "pay-back" for the short-sightedness of youth who will also find themselves in this situation one day. It also sounds like local or regional availability of men and related challenges play a lot into one's personal experience. Sounds like this is where one's attitude can make all the difference. Whenever I use to complain about things not being how I would prefer them or want them to be...my actual father would always just reply with, "Life is what you make it." So, embrace the desire to remain sexually active and find like minded people and have fun out there guys.

I love this topic and thread. I love hard cocks and getting them off (like the rest of you). I found the website glory-hole-2-go or something like that. You can get a nice robust canvas system that is portable and can be popped up using tension adjusters just about anywhere. Seems like they have given this some serious thought and have created a few unique designs to meet any number of settings.

Great question, but it entirely depends on the scenario. Typically or generally I would say that my goal is to get that load buried balls deep up in my ass. However, I was having a fantastic fuck recently and for reasons beyond our control we had to stop before either of us came. In this instance, I am looking forward to finishing what we started and the fuck was great despite not getting any cum.

Thanks for this update!! I have not actually made it to Montreal as anticipated yet...so this is very timely and helpful feedback.

I do not guarantee kissing as part of any hookup, generally. I am down to kiss if there is chemistry and attraction, but if the goal is just to get your dick sucked and breed me - then I am usually only down to kiss if I am attracted to the top.

Fascinating topic. I was raised extremely conservatively and through my rearing, cultural norms and expectations, etc., I did find that YES, I was actually capable of monogamy. I was monogamous for at least 10-11 years, and was not looking to change that. Then, my bf decided he wanted to start sucking dicks. A variety of dicks, but mostly from guys who truly enjoy and appreciate oral. That was not me...being a total bottom when we met, I was never really interested in blow-jobs until after we agreed to open our relationship. I do not recall asking for this, but agreed to it. Why not? What's the down side, right? Could I return to monogamy?? Hmmm, perhaps that is the follow-up question which would also be interesting to put to the community and to see those responses. I would be torn. If you find a great partner in crime you have to hang on to that person, because otherwise we know and have read from others about the potential for loneliness, etc. On the other hard, it is (or can be) difficult to live with other people in our modern world. So, Is it possible to have one's cake and eat it too??

To add my own experience, I only had one such scenario that stands out. I had a guy hit me up on gay.com back in the day. We chatted and once we had establish somewhat of a rapport he would give me more information. Eventually, we agreed that we would meet and he asked me to come to his office. As it turns out, he was a doctor and had a small practice and asked me to drive around and park in the back. He waited until everyone had left for the day and then he let me into the back door and took me into his office. He then went into one of his exam rooms and got the type of exam paper you put down on the exam table. He got me undressed sitting in his office and then he started to suck my dick until I got nice and hard and he wanted me to fuck him while on his back on his desk. I did this a couple of times over the course of one summer. He loved it.

#jealous #wishiwereyou I am your biggest fan @DannyBoyCMH and truly enjoy hearing about all of the fun things "we" have been getting up to. As you know I am living vicariously through you. wink

You must be quite well endowed - or let's just say better endowed than the "tops" themselves. Isn't it fascinating how everyone can become submissive for a nick cock! LOL Maybe you need to keep it "hidden" from them by wearing a jock-strap or back-less briefs...??

Technically, I think my younger brother was the first person to actually penetrate me (he is only 18 months younger). I never really counted that, and it was only a few times during high school. When I was 19 I was working at a "Hastings" which was books, movies / rentals, and music. I had a guy check-out through my line, he rented a movie...I did not realize it but the receipt printed with my name on it. He called the store back later that night and asked for me. After some conversation he came back to the store and through my line again. I had never been pursued like this before, so I was eager to see where this was going. He was a decent looking slightly older college guy. He invited me over to his apartment after work. I went to hang-out with him before going home after work. We did this a few times during that summer. The end of my shift always aligned with when his girlfriend was calling him from Orlando...apparently she was at Disney on a summer internship and he was fucking around with me. My sex-capades have always seemed like real "duds" LOL. This is why I continue to live vicariously through @DannyBoyCMH.

Can I be 1-10? I want to be all of those guys.

Great topic; I appreciate hearing from other's who may have had a personal or close contact with an experience they can share. HPV sounds intimidating because of all the various strains. It sounds like each strain may manifest itself differently, with the most obvious being warts. I wish there was other more documented findings of HPV and how it manifests and how it is transmitted, etc. Do you know what a pap smear will produce in terms of testing for or diagnosing the presence of a type of HPV? Are we also saying that like Herpes simplex these sores or warts have to be present to be tested and a diagnosis confirmed, and that asymptomatic people aren't being tested not for any other reason than they are not showing any physical wart or other manifestation? Any additional insight into this would be very helpful, thanks!

The following experience is the entire reason I still use Grindr at all (based on my geography anyway). A rather sexy 38 year old middle eastern man messages me and we chat. It does not take long for us to determine that we are compatible for one of our favourite activities = flip fucking. I welcome him inside and gave him a glass of water. After some small talk he leaned in and began kissing me and we were off to a very erotic start. One thing leads to another and we are into the bed room and naked and writing on top of one another. We take turns sucking one another's cock and fucking one another's ass. He has to hold back and let me do most of the worst as he was so close to cumming pretty quickly. It doesn't matter, I enjoy a nice 20 minute fuck. Those can be satisfying too! He lost his load balls in me and then continued to fuck it deeper into me for a few minutes as his cock was winding down. That was my favourite part. <happy fucking all>

I also want to get fucked in the ass!! With or without my cheer gear - up to you studs! I am available later this week so please get at me!!

This makes the most sense to me too. The only "quasi-acceptable" excuse I would believe is that your partner generally does NOT bottom and he does NOT let anyone fuck him including you. Since we know that is not the case here; the double-standard is what I find most troublesome in this scenario. Which is at the centre of your partner's unstated fears. A 3rd party might provide a path towards resolution; otherwise, it sounds like you are "stuck".

This resembles my attitude and desires. Well said @Close2MyBro!! I usually set some time aside to go on a slutty binger (about once a month - if I am lucky) and that gives me something to look forward to while balancing all the other crazy demands of life.