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Same here .... I posted (for once) about the only reason I didn't get there last Saturday night though. It'd be fun to Breed with another (known) BZ'er ....

You're really polite and polished, aren'tcha .....

In my opinion, hands are best used to enhance the physical sensation of the mouth/tongue on the Cock. Hanging on to the legs is ok, gentle. slow touching elsewhere is ok, i.e. stroking the balls, chest. If we wanted to fuck a hand, we'd just stay home and violate one of our own .....

Some suggestions: 1. As above, sizing is crucial. Go to an auto parts store (they can be a panacea for "dual-use" items), and buy a few "0-rings" of different sizes. Often you can buy an assortment of sizes for chump change. Try several of them on (singly, I mean) to find the best fit, and then measure the inside diameter of the one you like best, to determine what size you find most comfortable. 2. Cockrings are usually sold by the inside diameter. Buy what you like best from any Leather-goods supplier online, specifying inside diameter. One of my favorite suppliers is Gear Essentials, which feature fine-quality stainless cockrings which can be engraved with any number of designs. However, any reputable supplier - Mr. S., for instance - will have a selection in stock. If the above isn't working for you, at least take a tape measure and find the appropriate circumference, and then measure that to determine the inside diameter. Good luck !!

Since you're already familiar with SoFL, I would suggest one of the 3 or 4 largest metro areas in the country, and on a holiday weekend. Otherwise, Amsterdam or Berlin, also on a holiday weekend (in that country), when more Breeders are likely to be active. I would also agree with EW, in that the numerical count isn't as important as the thrill of slutting in a new location. Good luck, and have a great birthday !!!

I don't get it either. Looking at it from a different perspective, PReP enables cumdumps, and the Tops that use them, to live a longer, healthier life taking / giving more loads then they otherwise might. Refusing to take easily obtainable and appropriate steps seems a bit nihilistic .... why even bother wasting good food feeding themselves?

I agree it has either damaged me or at least formed my sexual identity. I was naïve didn't know I had homosexual tendencies. he was 37, dad's friend one day came over when I was alone and took what he needed. lasted till I was 23 I'm so sorry this happened to both of you. Is there some way you can manage to forgive these men? I don't mean in-person, meeting them or anything like that. What I mean is reflecting on how poorly they behaved, how it affected you, and come to terms with it? That might help assuage the harm somewhat, if you can shuck off the burden these men shackled you with. Counseling can help, but maybe you could start that process yourselves, and at least mitigate the negative feelings? We need both of you - each of us is of value to the greater barebacking community, and in the fullness, richness of your humanity.

Isn't there one already? I noticed that some guys have figured out how to post photos of themselves by creating a "gallery" (above, 4th from the right). I don't now how to do it, but some guys have figured it out .....

Of course. I have before*, and would again. Since I've taken every precaution available, and considered, weighed the potential future outcomes vs the benefits I'm already experiencing, I wouldn't seriously consider any other potential relationship. *kept a positive cumdump Breedboy for about 3 years, which relationship ended not because of anything "status" related, but entirely because of addiction to drugs, and the resulting behavior. It was the behavior that was negative, not his sero-status.

LOL ..... that's an outrage on two different fronts: First, wasting a load on a metal pipe, and not pumping it up another guy's Hole - and - not realizing that the way to make love to a car is to take it out, break the speed limit and let him (the car) be King of the Road for a while. A 440 w/thermo-quads leaps to mind .......

Dullness is hardly ever an attractive component of a person's character, which continues to be the case in this moment. How disinteresting. A television drama is the basis for this regrettable post? btw - it's SUBJECTIVE - something called an "adjective" when used as you attempted. It can also be a noun, depending on usage. This word can also be used in the context of philosophy, but let's not even consider that in this case. I wonder if anyone was listening .... To the allusion to fraternities, et al: I have been a member of these organizations, initially social (as you alluded to) and then professional, for many years. While there were a number of gay guys in the social (undergrad level) fraternity I belonged to, I recall not one mention ever of any kind of group sex, let alone the crime of rape. In the event you have attended some institution of higher learning, and experienced a fraternity-sponsored rape, you might have some basis upon which to rest your spurious claim of "The same situation, different perspective" Yes, there's a website called Fraternity X - which you're likely familiar with, containing totally fantasy-based productions, virtually devoid of what are called "production values" in that particular industry. Rape is a crime, not only against the violated person, but against humanity itself.

Some of us absolutely LOVE it .... but, I guess we all like what we don't have ourselves.

So, last Saturday I decided to walk over to the Ramrod - best cruise bar in town - for a beer before heading over to Slammer, my favorite fuckjoint. Got to RR around 9, it was already jammed. There's the main bar in front, to the left of that is the pool table area, now covered with plywood, since guys fuck on it - around it. Then, there's the bootblack's station opposite one of the johns (open - no walls or doors), and finally in back you get to the Patio bar, an open-air area. There's a corridor off the patio bar that leads around a corner, past another john, and back to the front bar. That corner - on the SE corner of the building - is the traditional fuck/suck area. A relatively narrow corridor, with benches built into one side. I hadn't intended to sit back there and have my beer, but the front bar was full, the patio bar was full, and I guess I was lucky to find even that one spot to sit back in Pig Alley. Sat down next to a good-lookin kid, who's boyfriend was sitting on his other side. Guys passing by, cruising everyone, blah blah blah. So a guy stood against the wall, opposite the boyfriend, cruising him. The guy sitting next to me wasn't all that happy about it, but I didn't find out about that until later. After a few minutes, the boyfriend and the guy cruising him took off their shirts. Nice-looking kid, black hair, nice body, nice bulge next to me was not at all impressed when his bf took out his Cock and the guy cruising the bf started sucking it. Shortly after that, cruiser and bf got up and walked away, leaving the guy I was sitting next to alone. I'd noticed that he was eyeing my Cock, so I just asked him if that was his bf who'd just gone off to fuck the cruiser. Kid said yeah, and he knew his bf was going to Breed the cruiser, but was pissed off that the bf didn't allow him (the kid) to take raw Cock. Raw is apparently fine for the bf, but not the kid. Saw my opening right then. So I started talking to the kid about how unfair it was that he wasn't allowed to take loads, but his bf could rawfuck any guy he wanted. Kid said yeah, it was unfair, eyeing my now granite-hard Cock in my jeans. There were other guys sucking Cock in that hallway, a few taking it up the gut. I mentioned that I was heading over to Slammer in a little while to Breed Holes at some point. So I just asked the kid if he disliked taking raw Cock, and he looked at me and said "are you crazy?" Put my arm around his shoulder, and started in on how unfair his bf was, denying him the pleasure of taking loads in the bar, watching other guys in front of us sucking Cocks, fucking, all of that. He said he wanted to take as many loads as he could - but that before they went out to the bars, his bf always Bred his Hole, and thinks that should be enough for him. By this time, the kid’s Cock was about to rip through his shorts. I just said stuff like "how unfair - you deserve the same as every other guy here, blah blah blah, and he felt up my Cock in my jeans - asked me if I'd fuck him (duh), and I said of course, but I want to eat your Hole - taste your bf's load - slurp up your Hole a bit. The kid was eyeing other guys Breeding within a foot or two of us, and when he stood up and pulled his khaki’s down, a very nice Cock sprang up, hard. So I did what I told him I would do - got up, turned him around facing the wall, bent him over and ate that beautiful Hole full of thick black hair. After eating his Hole, (bf might be an asshole, but his load tasted good in the kid’s Hole) stood up so he could suck my Cock in front of the other guys sucking Cocks, Breeding. That was ok, but not what I wanted, so stood him up and turned him around again, gently pushed him over the bench, bent over his back and quietly said "you want my load up your gut, don't you .... and you want all these other guys to watch, don't you .... The kid said he did - said “yes Sir” - so I started to fuck him. His Hole was great - actually, he was a great fuck - and in a few minutes I bend over his back and whispered a question in his ear. Something like "you want more raw Cocks, don't you - there are guys on each side of you waiting their turn - you want them too, don't you ..." The kid sort of groaned - and answered that yeah, he did want them. I just said something like "then you should have them" ... pulled out and stepped aside. In a matter of 15 minutes that sweet boy took 4 loads. So, I got on my knees and ate that Hole again, and it tasted just perfect full of Sperm off other Cocks. I hadn't shot my load yet, and asked the kid how long he was going to wait for his bf to get back. The kid just answered "fuck him". He asked why I hadn't cum up his Hole, and I reminded him I was headed over to Slammer to Breed, but asked if he really wanted my load - to which he said something like "yeah, I want your load in my ass real bad ..." Not a grammarian, but this wasn't in grammar school either. This was at least 30, more like 45 minutes after I'd first sat down next to him. SO !!! I said that since I live only a few minutes walk from here, how about I fuck/breed you in my sling? That kid's eyes opened so wide I thought his eyeballs would drop out, and he just nodded. I don't think he'd ever been slingfucked before. Well, we both pulled our pants up, and as we left that area, a number of other guys caught my eye, seemingly wanting to be invited too. But, one step at a time. So we went back to my place, and had a fantastic night of it. The poor kid had been mind-fucked into keeping his Hole closed to every raw Cock but his bf's, while the bf rawfucked any guy he wanted to. Turns out his name is Javier, and he wants to come back next weekend. He didn't mention where they lived, but I think it's some distance away. So, I didn't get to Slammer last Saturday night - but it was a very worthy trade-off. This is why I don't post on that "last load" thread. I get raw Hole easily - any guy around here can - and it's a bit unseemly to go into stuff like this all the time when so many other guys have to wait weeks or months for something like this. Of course, this is one of the main reasons I chose Ft.L. when I decided to relocate. I had fb's who'd been here a number of times, always full of great stuff to report when they got back from here. Haven't had any reason to regret moving here at all.

Well, thanks .... if I could still blush, I'd at least try .... but it's years too late at this point. Still, you understand how magnetic, how irresistible the urge is, so crucial to our well-being fresh Hole is; how important it is to Breed often. I'd go taggin Holes with you any time ....

I don't care all that much if it's phoney - I just wish they weren't all kids. Seldom bother with that site ......

I agree with both of these replies. I don't think of my sexual needs as an addiction, I think of them as an important part of my life, but only a part. I think of addiction as something that controls us, and I simply refuse to be controlled by any "thing". I control myself, and take care to satisfy all the facets of my life. I think that if we surrender our lives to X - whatever that is - we can lose control of our lives, and I don't want that for myself. Sure - by midweek I'm half-hard most of the time, and very much ready to feed my sexual Lusts again. But Breeding Holes is not an addiction; it's merely a choice. I choose to use my Cock on every Hole I run across at specific times; i.e. weekends. I never miss an appointment because I couldn't help myself having sex instead. To the Bible waving hatemongers, I suggest those folks learn to love themselves, instead of hating others. I pour nothing but scorn upon those poor folks who discard their humanity in favor of some silly, pie-in-the-sky contrivance. These are pitiful creatures, who have been fooled into believing in hatred of "the other", rather than the Message of the one they say they follow. Merely humanoids to be pitied from afar. It reminds me (as a Northerner for most of my life) of a nest of baby robins. The mother flies away, eats worms, partially digests them, then flies back to the nest to find half a dozen tiny heads, mouths wide open, squawking for the mother to puke some of the worm crud down their throats. When one of the baby robins doesn't holler loud enough, it gets skipped, and eventually dies. Congregants in a church remind me of that every single time I encountered the sad sight.

First year of undergrad - maybe second month? The frat-bro that brought me out sucked me off one night in the auditorium where this huge old Moeller lived, and then kissed me .... first time I'd tasted Sperm. Then he gently guided my head down to his Cock, and I started to suck it. Laughably, what went thorough my head was "it doesn't really taste like anything ..." I don't know what I thought it would taste like - any other bit of skin, I suppose - nothing. But when he shot, I instantly knew I wanted sex with men .....

Well, it's even worse .... the fuckjoint has showers, some with the appropriate nozzles .... he wouldn't have even had to go back to his car.

For me, this is the entire point: spreading my Seed to as many men as I possibly can. The thrill never diminishes, the chance to "connect" with a fellow barebacker, just doesn't fade. If I weren't as - oh - self-controlled? - I would almost surely be in the fuckjoints a lot more than I allow. That said, I can attest that there's something about one's loved one. The scent (these are called pheromones, right?), the magnetism of a loved-one's body is irresistible. That was true in my case, for 30 years. Even just driving home from some appointment (or, for that matter, a quickie at some t-room), my Cock would get half-hard knowing he'd be there.

One thing I almost always do it take a quick "sniff-test" - even in the darkrooms. It's not 100% infallible, but it's a fairly good indicator. A few weeks ago, some guy (don't know which one it was, I was several Holes away) must have just let go, and the room cleared out in an eyeblink. Very poor form on that guy's part; totally self-centered.

If there's anything hotter than sidling up to a wet Hole full of Sperm off previous Cocks, I don't know what that might be.

There's one more than came to mind after last night - and it's not particularly any guy's "fault". When a guy's butt cheeks are so fat, his Hole is several inches behind the cheeks, it's not as much fun. I like to get my entire Cock in the Hole - to the Cockroot. That's how I can deliver the best fuck possible. Merely rutting between the cheeks, and barely getting my Cock into the Hole isn't anywhere near getting all the way in. I happen not to be swinging a PornCock, but it's not that small either. Rutting between the cheeks just doesn't cut it for me.

This is the entire point, there reason darkrooms even exist: Every other sensory input is either absent, or vague at best. No interfering, extraneous sounds; only the grunts, groans of primal Breeding. That connection between raw, rutting men is, simultaneously, both the lowest and highest common denominator of men sharing their deepest, most demanding needs. It's sharing, over and over and over again, ourselves, our Lusts, with each other - giving what the other guy needs, taking what we need from him - nothing more, nothing less. There's just nothing else like it.

If you go to their website (info@321slammer.com), I bet you can get the info you need for direct shipment. It's a bit of a tighter ship with these new owners (I don't think painting the doors to all the cubicles orange was necessary !!!). But, they did install showers, so there's that. Otherwise, pretty much the same place it always was - which is fine by me.

Last night at Slammer .... no idea who's Hole it was though .... never do, for that matter ...