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With you 100%, Ieatcumholes !!!!!!! A hairy guy, taking loads is about as hottttttt as it gets. If there's any cuisine more "haute" than eating a hairy Hole fucked full of Sperm by other Cocks, I certainly don't know what it might be. Two peas in a pod, buddy !!!

It's entirely likely. Most accomplished Leathermen also recognize that a new crop of Dom's need to be brought along, just as when they first began their Journey years ago. There must be publications specifically aimed at Leathermen in your area. That might be a good place to look. And never forget that your local Leather bar is always a good place to ask for advise. I very much hope you find what you're looking for. We need you, and other younger men like you.

Some of the above responses are just plain laughable ... profiles wanting to cuddle, and nothing else? But it raises a question in my mind: are there so many raw guys living in so many out-of-the-way places, that they simply cannot get real, regular, raw sex, and thus feel they must depend on the cruise sites? It sounds like these cruise sites are getting even worse than a few years ago when I finally gave up on them. I admire rawTOP for a number of things: 1. putting this existing BZ site together - extensive as it is. 2. Considering adding a "hook-up" function to BZ, so as to cut out as much of the phony bullshit on the other sites. That would be a tremendous undertaking, but often altruism is a very real part of men who realize how real the need is for genuine connection between us.

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Actually, I don't particularly care for conventional "lube" .... much prefer the bottom suck off some other Cock, then switch to mine ... a mouthful of Sperm is always the hottest - I might even kiss him - and it goes without saying a Hole full of loads off other Cocks is ideal.

and .... I'm outta doo-dads again, so this will have to do .... 😘

What a great post. I have a question: When a man fucks you, Breeds you, you can feel his Sperm shooting out of his Cock inside your Hole, of course. And if he needs to piss shortly after that, still inside you, Cock still hard, the piss will also shoot out in spurts (controlled by him), which you can also feel - spurt by spurt. Would it be fair to say that with each "type" of fluid exchange, you "feel" equally "Bred" emotionally? Equally inseminated? I would imagine that it does - despite the difference in the actual discharge. While taking a man's Sperm is rather more intense, more connecting, taking his piss would offer the same type of connection, if not quite as deeply. It would seem to me that taking a man's Sperm inside you would be even more deeply felt than taking the piss - Sperm offering an even deeper connection than piss? On the other hand, taking a man's piss is a lot easier to do in semi-public places*, but would imply a very close, existing and continuing connection. That would offer the thrill of displaying not only your lust, but your "connection" to the man as well - the very definition of realized, magnificent and lovely "connection" I tend to lose track of posts, in that sometimes I can't find them again. I'm sorry that's the case with this one .... *for instance, in the john at a gay bar - or merely sitting at the bar in a Leatherbar ...

Might I point out that getting your Hole fucked full is HIS job - not yours ...

wellllll ..... it did last through the mid-60's .... of course, I was an infant at the time .... 😁

I really have a tough time understanding why some guys seem to think that everyone is completely honest about their status in the fuckjoints, on the apps, in the parks, alleys, wherever guys meet up to Breed. A Top may not even know - even if he's tested monthly for std's. For some guys, there is a higher ethic than their hard Cock. For many guys, there isn't. This is just the way it is. Ergo, we should simply assume that all raw Cock may be infections in some way, and lay our plans upon that basis. This is entirely reasonable, since no guy runs to the doctors office for testing after every single load he takes or gives. Even if so inclined, a Top couldn't be absolutely sure unless he hadn't fucked anything since his last blood test. Guys should simply assume that every Cock might infect them with something or other, and make their decisions based in that reality. When we make the decision to live our lives "on the edge", so-to-speak, let's not drag Ozzie and Harriet along with us to the fuckjoints. As for the cruising apps, even entertaining the notion that some clown on the other end of a phone is worthy of trust is so disingenuous it's laughable. Lets just get our heads out of the clouds (!) and make our decisions based on what we actually know .... not on what we merely wish were true.

That - your first statement in this thread - should give you your answer. I agree with almost everything said by the other respondents, and am adding my 2 cents worth. By all means, discuss the upcoming plans with the long-term partner you love so much. Since you and he have had a (somewhat?) open relationship in the past, why not at least include him in the decision, rather than simply exclude him altogether? If you're afraid he might become hurt or angry, and you value your "very LTR" enough, you have your answer. Maybe be, however - even if he's no longer interested in the Lust-driven sexual behavior he once was - he would very much encourage you to go take those loads. We don't have enough information to opine on these fine points in your "very LTR", other than in generalities. You do. I would always vote for being honest first, and, depending on the reaction, make the decision you're wrestling with. In the end though, only you can determine which is the bigger betrayal.

Hmmmmmm .... I've tried to peddle that bridge before too .... maybe I wasn't asking enough ???

I think AmAndy is pretty much spot on. Some guys just feel good trying to make another guy feel good - even in some country he'll never visit. I guess it depends on the definition of "hit up"? Merely offering a compliment to some guy doesn't necessarily mean you're cruising him - unless there's more conversation alluding to a hookup that will never take place. But merely sharing a few kind words with someone hurts no one - and may make some guy's day. Where's the harm?

Currently there is a warning about meningitis spreading throughout the gay community in Ft. L., W.M., O.P., and neighboring areas. This has been reported by local tv stations. Meningitis is an inflammation (swelling) of the protective membranes covering the brain and spinal cord. A bacterial or viral infection of the fluid surrounding the brain and spinal cord usually causes the swelling. However, injuries, cancer, certain drugs, and other types of infections also can cause meningitis. (copied from the googler). Common bacteria or viruses that can cause meningitis can spread through coughing, sneezing, kissing, or sharing eating utensils, a toothbrush or a cigarette. These steps can help prevent meningitis: Wash your hands. Careful hand-washing helps prevent the spread of germs. (copied from the same). With the increasingly widespread raw Breeding in the bars, fuckjoints around here now, just a "heads-up" to all my friends (and potential friends) in the area. We're particularly vulnerable to this illness if we have other std's, This is for informational purposes only - not any kind of recommendation. And no, I'm not gonna either. A little more careful though, maybe .....

Read and learn, boys ..... There's a very talented practitioner of the seductive arts afoot .... <<<grinnnnn>>>

I understand how you might get that sense, but Dom Tops are just like everyone else, in the sense that they must learn their craft, just as everyone else must. Plus, it's necessary to learn some of the acts in depth, so as to be able to a) recognize, b) deliver, and c) wrap up a B/d or S/m scene successfully for the sub. Thus, before any in-depth "scene" takes place, the sub should do what he can to inform himself before any scene takes place. There are many skilled Leathermen around, talented and experienced in their craft. There are also a number of men who have all the right impulses at heart, but have not gained the experience to deliver a first-class scene to the sub. Fucking is probably the very last thing to take place in an authentic B/d S/m scene, so inform yourself as much as possible before you agree to participate in a scene. Read books on the subject; there are many out there. Talk to other Leathermen about what you're feeling. Recon can be a valuable place to start your investigation. Good Luck !!

If ^ doesn't tell you all you need to know, I wonder what will ....... wake up ....... "chat" on the cruise sites isn't worth the time it takes to tell about it.

VERY please to know that ... I'd heard from friends that it was getting dicey these last couple of years, and I'm glad you had a great time.

Hey there, BB-Beard Of course the covid situation has impacted everyone in the world - and particularly men like us. We've been so physically close to other men for most of our lives, it's been a sexual disaster too (for us barebackers). But you're not too late at all ..... maybe you're not 20 years old anymore, or even 40 - but your mind is still on having sex, and there's no reason at all you shouldn't have as much as you want/need. I'm a few years younger than you, but not all that many, and I still get all the Hole I need. You can get all the Cock you need too, Our life is populated with men of every conceivable "type", and other men that want what we've got. So get on that bike and go find some more, bud ... they're waiting for you.

Ever since PReP, I haven't really given it much thought, but you've got a point. While not only do I not ask, frankly, I just assume the Holes I fuck are positive, since I've already taken what steps there are to take. If the Holes I fuck are positive, then that bridge has been crossed already, and they have little to hold back their natural need to take a lot of Sperm up their Holes. It would follow that their sexual inhibitions have been jettisoned in favor of an "edgier" attitude - which I find attractive. It may also follow that their lack of inhibitions (or at least minimizing them) would encourage their most lewd, enticing behavior, which would certainly get them a gut-full every time.

any realtor in Wilton Manors will be either gay or gay-attentive. Many of the realtors in Ft. L. will be gay or gay attentive. They're business persons first, and they know where the dough is. I'd be stunned if any one of them looked down their nose at you for being gay. You may (or may not) want to soft-pedal the commitment to raw sex, at least for the first chat .... there are a handful of straight men and women in the real estate business around here. I actually know one !!! Good luck !!

May I add: circus barker, draft dodger, petty thief, conman, inveterate cheat, habitual liar, extortionist, sociopath, vanity beyond comprehension, utterly tasteless in his choice of sexual toys, choices in gold-colored radiator paint, just to expand the repertoire a little bit. I particularly like a moniker given him by our favorite Bootman: "Herr Furor" - so perfectly apt in every (of several) connotations ... the creature is beneath contempt in every possible way.

I fucked a neighbor between to a couple of trucks parked on my street ... described in more detail in an earlier post ...

Update, Muscledadbod : I have a realtor I work with, who understands my goals, etc. He brought over some documents the other day, and we chatted for a bit. He thinks the real estate bubble is within a few months of bursting, and reports that the instantaneous "listing a property/selling a property" bubble is fading quickly. He has sold a number of homes for clients, who were happily surprised at what they could sell their homes for, and "rent for a few months" before buying something else. A lot of these folks who figured they'd cash in, and find another place easily a few months later are winding up very disappointed. My point is, you should definitely have representation in the place you want to move to, before you jump. It's still dicey in the neighborhoods I described above. Oh - another update. That old abandoned gas station on the next corner South of RamRod is being redeveloped into an upscale ethnic (S. American, if I recall?) restaurant; this according to neighborhood "have you heard?" guys. There are what passes for modern Klieg lights covering the whole area where guys used to fuck, new fences, etc. I'm still waiting for the used furniture store to be converted to a fuckjoint ... the second floor could be made into a first class PigPen .... small enough to encourage intimacy, large enough to accommodate dozens of Breeders ...

Thanks, BootmanLA, for that information. I remember when all those other "world" this, that, the next thing started popping up on the site, but - being fairly single-minded - I didn't so much sniffing around the rubber / skinhead guys. I did, however, get maneuvered into going to the Int. Mr. Rubber event in Chicago, but a sweet boy I was porking at the time. I remember one of the suppliers begging me (along with the boy) to try on a rubber shirt. I got no more than my arm into it before I knew it wasn't for me. Couldn't get if off fast enough. BUT !!! I did notice, under a folding table, with some other stuff being stored there, a pair of Cavallo's in very nice condition that I picked off for 35 bucks !!! Later (or maybe earlier - can't remember) at another booth selling rubber gear, there were a pair of Wesco's standing in the corner, which I bought for the charming young man that conned me into going to the IMrR mart in the first place. Who would take off a fine pair of Boots and just let them go like that? Takes all kinds, I guess ....