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So, per my usual routine, I went over to Ramrod for a beer before heading over to Slammer. There were guys fucking each other everywhere, just like it used to be. Apparently, the management got a "pass" on the rule re: no sex in the bar - for PigWeek. What I want to know is, if they can get a pass for PigWeek, then why not for the other 51 weeks of the year? For the sake of their patrons who bought drinks, drank them, got sloppy, and fucked each other all night long. For the sake of the "regulars" of loyal patrons who made the bar a "go-to" destination all these years? Last night, it was fan-fukkin-tastic. I suppose it will be tonight too. Are we back to normal over there? Anyone have the answer? I don't .....

Would a groping hand on my Cock (inside the jeans) count as a "proposition"?

I don't ask - am almost never told by the bottom. There are guys with identifying ink in the fuckjoints, which only means to me that they're licentious pigs - just my "type". I just assume the bottoms are, hence the PrEP. Knowing that I've done everything I can to avoid hiv, I just do what I've always done. Emotional health is important too. I get tested monthly for the lesser bugs, get them cleared up, and back to My Life (as I want to live it) when that's over with. I can't imaging going without raw Hole ...

The only one I know about that's popular with our lot, is the Link motel, over on US 1. All the guesthouses have action going on, but the Link seems to be where a lot of locals go for either a quickie, or a longer, multi-guy event. It's not close to any other gay joints (that I know of anyway), but that doesn't mean all that much either. US 1 (aka Federal Highway) is a divided, 4-lane road, mostly retail/businesses, and plenty of traffic. I'll always recommend Inn Leather, down by the airport, but I'll bet they're full through P.W. You'd need to rent a car or take a lot of ubers to get to the hotspots. Same with the Link. Any other Ft. L. guys have more to add?

Well, now you know why so many of us that want to ditch Old Man Winter move to Ft. Lauderdale. It's not always like P.W. of course, but just think of P.W. on a smaller scale - every weekend* *weekends tend to start early here - like Thursdays, for instance ... but there's always pigsex being celebrated around here.

What diminution in stamina takes away, decades of experience helps make up for ... Just sayin ...

Thanks for the verrrrry kind words ... we locals do like to please.

Welcome, Mike. Looks like you're already part of the crowd around here. Hot pic !!! We look forward to hearing more from you.

Whew !! Homo Depot is within walking distance (for smaller items). Lowe's is a "drive-to" destination for anything. btw, the john at the H.D. on Sunrise & 4th is a hotttt cruising spot - as most locals must surely know.

It seems to me that there's a "built-in" disparity regarding pigsex, in that Tops can only deliver X times, and bottoms can take loads until their Holes are so full the loads are leaking out of their ass. The Tops would love to Breed in each and every Hole they rut in, but physiology simply doesn't allow that. Sure, there may be Tops that can Breed a dozen times in a couple of hours, but if there are, they're a very lucky and rare breed. Oddly, I don't find much complaining by bottoms in the fuckjoints I go to - often they'll say thanks for the fuck, despite not getting the load. That said, the focus needs to be on how many raw Cocks the bottom has taken in a night, how many men he's shared his Hole with, how many men he's "connected" with that night. The actual number of loads should be an ancillary issue, second in importance to sharing their Holes with many Cocks. Lots of Tops rut in a lot of Holes, and then go back and find their favorite one of the evening, when it's time to pump out the Sperm - the one they want to connect with in a deeper way.

First, welcome to BZ. All kinds of guys enjoy this site, and for all kinds of reasons. We hope to hear more from you. I see in your photo that you're familiar with Leather gear. If that means you have connections to the Leather Community in your area, I would plumb that resource to the greatest extent you can. If that doesn't mean established connections, then I suggest you be proactive in establishing those connections, since those are the men that have already formed their Leather Identity, and can help you with identifying/developing yours. By all means, reach out to the Bd/Sm Leather clubs, organizations in your area. There are Leathermen who can and will assist you in all kinds of ways - but only if they know you're there.

You're entirely correct, of course; the educational system in FL being only one of the worst. Public school educators have left the state in droves, and who would blame them? Even the private schools have lost substantial staff, thanks to the state government. Sadly, that is also completely true. While Broward County is the most "Democratic" county in the state, the influx of pinheads has diluted that status somewhat - which is one of the reasons I'm active politically for Liberal/Progressive/Democratic causes. We won't know what the impact of the Democratic movements are until the elections, but there's a better chance of less repression here than in other areas of the state. re: the real estate prices, they're not rising so fast at all these days: a few months ago, prices were rising exponentially, and folks were buying. Now, not so much - at least around the neighborhood where I live. There are areas/neighborhoods with substantial gay homeownership, and it feels less threatening. I don't mean that everyone fucks their neighbors (but it happens, of course) - I mean that we have neighborhood block-clubs, organizations, etc, and look out for each other. At the very least, it feels a bit more insular. I think the restrictive access to women's healthcare is the "wild card" all over the country. Note the recent elections in the East/Midwest states: really pissed off women (and their supporters) came out in droves to vote the R's out. And all the R's can do is go on about Hunter ... impeaching the President .... it seems that we're in the midst of the Triumph of Un-Reason in the Republikan Partei.

That's true, but apparently it's thinner in some areas, which allows those subterranean faults to develop fairly easily. I don't have "facts" to offer, but some say the rock layer is thicker here, less so farther from Ft.L.

Similar event here, years ago. As I recall, I wasn't even sure I knew what the actual proposal meant at the time, and I too just kept walking. Can't even remember what the guy looked like, anything about him.

??? Whaddya mean ??? Who doesn't want a free, instantaneous swimming hole in their back yard, complete with crocodiles, iguanas, and heaven-only knows what else ???😁 Fortunately though, sinkholes are only common in certain areas, with one exception: The city streets are all asphalt, which cracks in the sun, which creates fissures in the asphalt, which fissures widen and deepen during the rainy season, and the city doesn't quite do a very good job of keeping the holes (which will swallow a car-wheel and not even notice) filled. Some of the major arterials are concrete, but it's hardly common.

Well, call me an optimist, but there's at least a decent chance. Our Dancing Daughter - Margo Rubia - has been lying low these past months. The other Senator - the moon-faced one with nothing but those staring, blue eyes in the entire face - was actually considering a run, but support didn't materialize. I think the "wild card" this time around is the issue of women's health care rights. That, in and of itself, may be enough, but there are other hopeful signs too. The educational system has been gutted, since teachers no longer can. No one likes that. While the "cost of living" is reasonable, certain issues like homeowner's insurance has not been addressed. Gas is under $3 here, grocery prices aren't that terrible, given that a lot of stores offer "bogo's" which doubles the value, particularly for groceries. I guess I'm just better at being an optimist than a pessimist. We'll see ....

To the O.P.s'. question: I think we social/cultural "outcasts" need to be sure to be inclusive of everyone in the bathhouses (or any other queer sexual venues). I wouldn't want to fuck one, but I surely would talk to them, do what I can to embrace their presence. I know I'm an oddity, but - I've never cared much for women in general, and certainly not sexually. If we want/believe in "inclusiveness" (meaning we plain old regular gay guys), then we need to express inclusiveness in our own behavior, and to all our brothers (and sisters) at the very least.

btw - all you guys that are coming for Pig Week: Don't assume it's going to be sunny and in the 80's around here. It's been chilly (I mean, down to the high 60's at night - the mid 70's during the days, maybe the high 70's if sunny) around here these past several days. Bring something warm for the evenings too; just a pair of cum-fuck-me's won't cut the cold-mustard. For all the rest of you guys, don't laugh - I lived back North for most of my life - I know what ***real*** cold is.

Neither do I - but, I have to shell out as little as possible via sales taxes, etc. At least we don't have a State income tax for DullSantis to plunder. After all, high heeled elevator boots don't come cheap !!!

Well, I've been reading this thread for a while ... all I can say is, I've never run into a Hole that's too loose to Breed, with one exception: the bottom had just been taking fists (I mean clenched hands), and fist was all that he could even feel anymore.

Reminds me of the Music Hall dance floor at Man's Country ... jammed dance-floor, half the guys fucking the other half, and doing a fairly good job of dancing all the while too.

In my opinion, Island House in KW is the "go-to" guesthouse. They're all expensive, but that roof-top "sunning" area can be a lot of fun. It's been a while since I was there - hope that rooftop is still as active as it was. I don't think it's any harder to get to than the others, and it's quiet enough you can actually sleep at night.

re: guesthouses .... This is just my personal opinion, but I think a lot of the guesthouses are overpriced for what you get. The way I see it, I don't care if all the furnishings at the guesthouses are chi-chi enough, all I care is that the furnishing are clean, comfortable, all of that. That, plus there are only X amount of other guests to fuck in any single guest house, which limits your pool of spur-of-the-moment tricks. It's been years since I've been to Palm Springs, so my comparison might be a bit dated. That said, I don't much care how pretty, how muscular, how this or how that the other guys are, I only care that they need to get fucked. So, (trying to be completely fair) I'd choose Ft. L. over P.S. We can't shove our Cocks up the latest, most fashionable shirt, we can't fuck the fanciest haircut, all that matters to me are the Cocks Breeding the Holes. Just one more point: the tubs here will be swinging during the days too. Sure, go there to get/give some loads, but plan on the real action for the nights. Check out the websites for both the tubs, there may be plans for something that appeals to you. Have a pervectly filthy time of it - !!!! 😁

As I recall, the Ft.L fuck-apps are full of listings for raw guys; pages and pages of them, any time of day or night. I prefer the in-the-flesh fuckjoints, and there's a bathhouse on Broward (0 hundred N/S) called "Club Fort Lauderdale" that's probably the nicest tubs I've experienced in the US - on par with the nicest ones in Europe. It's quite active, and while I don't go there often, I've never even seen a rubber there. When I do go to a bathhouse, I like "Clubhouse II" over on Oakland Park Blvd. It's more like many of the domestic bathhouses, in that it's a bit "seedy" over there, not as many "posers", not as many young guys preening, showing off, waiting for the 'perfect' trick to show up, just guys that need to fuck. Google each of them; most guys will find what makes their blood boil. As to the plain old fuckjoints, some of the bars have backrooms, but my favorite is Slammer, at 321 W Sunrise. Every guy should at least go there one night, just to experience it. Now that Pig Week is upon us, it'll be even more crowded on Fri/Sat nights. It's closed on Mon, Tues, Wed, unless there's some special event, so check the website. Unfortunately, our best sleaze-bar - Ramrod - is still out of commission, as far as I know. Fucking is no longer allowed anywhere on the premises, the area around the adjacent used furniture store (called Decades) is still being raided by the cops occasionally. That said, guys cruise/fuck over there all night long anyway, and some guys get off on that risk, but I wouldn't recommend chancing it. By all means, stop in for a beer, just to steep in the atmosphere - but keep your pants up. There are many gay guesthouses that allow guys to ditch their clothes, swim suits, and fuck each other, but some are a bit on the chi-chi side, so each guy should check out some of these guesthouses to make sure he's getting what he likes. Some are almost palatial, and the rates reflect that. Some guesthouses offer "day-passes", so local guys can go for a day to rub shoulders (and more) with the visitors. My own favorite is Inn Leather, down near the airport. The name is not indicative of what kind of sex takes place there, merely that the Leather Ethic is observed. There are slings in every room, placed right in front of windows, so guys cruising around outside can easily watch, and step into the room (assuming the door is left cracked open) and join in. There's very little "pretense", guys go there fuck, and I've never so much as seen a rubber there. I'm sure that any guy needing more information can ask any BZ'er that lives here for tips/advice. Fort Lauderdale can accommodate almost any kind of action a guy can dream up.

Well said, brnbk. When some folks criticize issues they don't fully understand, going on in meandering thought-fragments, they only demean themselves. Far better to ask for more information politely, and learn more about something rather than becoming a pedant. Most of those born into/raised in the Western religions know rather little about Islam, or other Eastern faith traditions. It's only those who actually are curious, and make it a point to learn about traditions other than our own. It's "baked in" to the deficit of intellectual understanding, curiosity about other faith-traditions, other cultures, other ways-of-life. While it's a pleasure to poke at insincere public figures, they have entered the public sphere to spew their lies, so they shouldn't be surprised when others point out the "financial flatulence", etcetera, and criticize the liars. That said, manners always count, regardless of the issue at hand. Thanks for the post.