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..... and too loudly, too often, too insistently, and with too much braggadocio. It's not just off-putting to bottoms, it's embarrassing to other Tops as well. methinks me agrees with tallsplendidguy yet again. ooops .......... I mean tallslenderguy ....
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News about Apretude (cabotegravir) 2-month injectable PrEP
hntnhole replied to fskn's topic in PrEP Discussion
Very informative replies - thanks, all you guys. -
News about Apretude (cabotegravir) 2-month injectable PrEP
hntnhole replied to fskn's topic in PrEP Discussion
Are shots more effective than the daily pills? -
Your favorite porn bottoms/subs/cumdumps
hntnhole replied to pussiboy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Jake Nicola GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR !!! -
We don't, of course. Thus, it's every guy's individual responsibility to take whatever precautions he deems "enough" on his own terms. We're only responsible for taking care of our own health, (or not). Talk (or text) is dirt-cheap - what counts is what we do ourselves to protect our health (or not).
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Welcome cs4feeder & ATLFaggot. Glad you're (openly) with us all - we look forward to hearing more from both of you!
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First, thanks for the kind words. To your quote above, I would offer that you need to really make sure of what you want sexually, how far you're wiling to go, what sexual acts you're not willing to perform, what you are, etc. Take all the time you need to reflect on these questions, and when you have, offer your "firm limits" before committing to a scene. There is no shame what-so-ever in backing out of a serious scene if you're not thoroughly convinced of your safety, that your stated limits will be respected. I've gone into how to conduct a B/d S/m negotiation some time ago in another thread here, so I won't do it again. The point however, is take care of yourself, your well-being first, and then offer your Top the best you have to offer. Done right, it can be magical. Done wrong, it can put you in the hospital. Good luck !!!
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Where do you usually pee around the house?
hntnhole replied to bbboyfucker's topic in Watersports Discussion
Outside, in the back yard. Once a year or so ago, one of those little drones caught me (one of the neighbors, most likely), and I just smiled and waved with the unoccupied hand. -
I had to travel quite a bit for the businesses years ago, and had fun in many larger cities. San Fran was great, NYC was great, loved NOLA too for all kinds of reasons. However. Having spent most of my adult life in Chicago, now Ft. Lauderdale, only Berlin can compare to either of them for total descent into debauchery. I've been most fortunate, and I wouldn't change a thing.
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Having re-read the actual post (not merely the title), I see you're completely correct. Thanks. As to the actual post, frankly, I don't know. Jawbones only open so far, and then that's it. Attempts to "force the issue" could result in serious injury, which of course, is the very last thing any of us want to be a part of. Any of you "beer-can-Cocked" guys have suggestions?
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I'd rather call it "affectionate reinforcement". When a bottom holds the concept of degradation* close to his heart/mind, it's often a mirror image of his true self he's actually referencing. The bottom loves submission, he loves himself for his submissive bent, loves his sexual Lusts, and - for want of a better word - calls it degrading or humiliating. A perceptive Top can either "go along" with the degrading mind-fuck, or work the sub's Lusts - whether voracious or ethereal - as a positive, fulfilling, self-realization experience rather than something degrading or humiliating. There's an old saying amongst those who structure their lives in harmony with the Leather Ethic: Don't tear a boy down, in order to rebuild him according to one's wishes, start with what is, and build a boy up to his potential. Enable every part of the innate submission, and in a positive, reinforcing manner. *I'm not referencing a classic B/d S/m scene, which requires a negotiation, all of that ...
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Accepted, with the understanding that if we don't do what we can to advance equalities, we're enabling the inequalities, regardless of the source. This concept applies in general, everyday life, on websites, in the fuckjoints, everywhere. I don't think that we're all perceived as equal - far from it. That doesn't mean that it's too difficult to advance a more enlightened m.o. in our own daily lives; at the grocery store, walking down the street, in the fuckjoints, whenever the opportunity arises. Call it tilting at a windmill if you'd like, but at least we can try to make things better in however minute a way. No one would claim that we're all perceived as equal, but we can still take a stand against the inequalities of prejudice - whether in the greater population or merely in our own.
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I had a tenant years ago (recently separated female, gigantic tits, in a fairly rural area N of the city) who had a female friend up the road (skinny, decrepit, impossibly homely, cunty in every possible way), and they'd drive down to the city together occasionally and hang out at a well-known "pickup" bar out on the NW side. Painted up like street whores, just laughable. The tenant was simply determined she was going to get both my other half and I in bed, and the old tarantula up the road made it crystal clear she wanted to be in on it, if it ever happened. They seemed convinced that there was a gold mine between their legs; that no male - gay/straight/inbetween - could possibly resist their vomacious advances. Long story short, buck-toothed blimp-boobs was not renewed when lease-time rolled around. After that, for a while we let buddies from the city use that place occasionally - and then we always accepted invitations if we were around.
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^ This. Short, sweet, and perfectly on-point.
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The way I see it, it's the TOPS responsibility to open the Hole properly. The bottom has to be willing, of course - but the delightful work is the Top's job.
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A hard, raw Cock on an "experienced" Top can go a long way in making up for some lack of visual enticements. The nights are made for group Breeding. Pictures may supplant a thousand words, but no Top fucks photos.
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Really .... it used to be there were more guys fucking than not .... but it was a few years ago. Behind those tents the vendors set up it was madness (meaning the dirrrrrty, good kind).
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You reference "in a group setting"; Swapping Cocks is the whole point of group sex. Of course no Top would mind at all - it only makes the group scene all the hotter. I can't imagine bottoms minding either. To the "don't pull out" issue, would you mind so much if the guy rutting in your Hole pulled out and kneeled to increase the pleasure by eating it - tonguing it - savoring your Hole - before Breeding it? Since you're describing a "group setting", maybe there's already a load or three up your gut - you wouldn't mind a tongue exploring it, would you?
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I disagree. We're all equal, and need each other to make a better life for ourselves. Just because one guy is a Top or Dom doesn't inherently make him "better" - it just offers him the opportunity to be more in control. Self perceptions always require an honest, straightforward reflection on identity, which some Tops seem unable to execute deeply very well. The same applies across the board to bottoms. Every guy, regardless of inclinations, needs to do the work to make himself a better sexual performer. Bottoms are not inherently "less-than"; if anything, they're inherently "more-than". Where would we Tops be without raw bottoms? To the rest, what you're asking for is common courtesy, which is hardly too much to ask. I know that some - perhaps a preponderance - of Tops have inflated notions of what "controlling the scene" actually is, and too many get away with it. That said, it sounds like someone needs a first-class TOP, and soon .... just sayin🤞
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Keeping count is probably the last thing on my mind. As I see it, getting out there and celebrating the act of mating with many of my peers overcomes* any other measurement. It's the experience - getting my Cock in Holes, repeating the act over and over and over again that counts. It's all about the "connection" I sometimes go on about. *(I just couldn't bring myself to use the filthy word that came to mind - associated with card-playing, orange hair and an abject failure of humanity)
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Interesting topic - Fortunately, I don't have enough experience with that other stuff to offer any thoughts on why - or even if they actually are/aren't.
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and, likely himself the most. That poison has to come from somewhere ....
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Plus, it's less likely the Ashamed Boys will wind up in your driveway with their ak 44's - or whatever number they're up to. Speaking of which, now that Ricky is headed off to the clink, I'll bet there are plenty of the already incarcerated that are trying desperately to get him assigned to their prison ... Ricky's got one fancy pair of lips, and they're gonna be sucking off prisondicks reeeeeal soon. That ass is almost certainly going to fetch plenty of prison-dough for his new Daddy. He's only in his mid-to-late 30's, two divorces under his belt, so there may be some kind of "confusion" in play already. He may appear to be butch as nails, but I'm betting he'll become the personal breedbitch of some hardened criminal before he even arrives at the clink. Let's cross our fingers it'll be Rikers !!
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Yuk ..... the very notion makes me wanna hurl .....
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Thanks, Spunkinmyarse. I used to stay at the Art Hotel (I think it was called that), just above Prinzknecht, so it was really convenient. I wonder if that dump of a hotel is still there too. It was cheap, particularly if one was willing to fuck the proprietor - which I wasn't. I think it had been a grand, old apartment building - probably pre-WWII - that escaped the bombing. The "bathroom" consisted of a portable shower w/commode in one corner of what was once a large, probably beautiful room. When the hot water ran dry, you better have been finished, since it took around half an hour to heat up a new batch. But, I couldn't have cared less - I wasn't there for those amenities in the first place.
