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Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?
hntnhole replied to bbicurious's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
That's because it is. There's no sense of connection, there's no actual connection. The actual "mating" of the two guys - for however long or short the fuck takes - is incomplete when there are barriers involved. Might as well just use a dildo ... just another form of rubber. -
Server migration today! Post problems here.
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Tried to log in a few minutes ago - everything looks different - where are the notifications of comments currently posted by others? I don't see the dropdown box of current comments. -
"Does S Carolina Have Two [homophobic] Gay Senators?"
hntnhole replied to tallslenderguy's topic in LGBT Politics
LOL ..... I didn't mean to construe that I expected it to happen !!! Did you know that Harold Washington - the first African American Mayor of Chicago was gay? His other half (absolutely beautiful, but I can't remember his name) was one of the earliest we lost to hiv. He was very quietly spirited out of town, back East to wherever he was from - to await his passing. But, it was Mayor Jayne Byrne that put an end to the cops raiding the bars. She was a total lush, and she was a lot of fun too. It seems there was a direct ratio between financial success and nailing the closet door shut; the more they had to lose, the more the hid who they really are. It's nice to be "comfortable", but even better to be honest. -
Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?
hntnhole replied to bbicurious's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Well said, Konrad. Another, maybe more clear way of describing that magical moment of "connection". It's a really important part of the whole mating event, at least to me, and it takes place in our minds, our soul. -
Agreed. It's the mindset that allows the bottom to exercise his Lusts at any time, any place, any hour. It's the awareness that he simply needs raw Cock - regardless of the numbers - to be the man he was born to be. It can be hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, whatever his cravings demand, as well as the willingness and ability to sate those Lusts. A truly "free" slut/cumdump is guided by what makes him feel most fulfilled.
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why do tops care what a cumdump looks like?
hntnhole replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
I think our buddy from the Pacific NorthWest put his finger on the answer: So many of us depend on the ether to hook up, that the guys who are out to create mischief have achieved a certain measure of prominence on the cruise apps. That could be why so many guys want to see who's cruising them, and make a judgement (unfortunately required on apps) as to whether the guy is on the level, genuine, all of that. He does mention in his reply that guys who live in areas that offer plenty of actual physical places to go fuck/get fucked don't need to use the apps - they can go to whatever fuckjoint they want to, whenever they want to, without depending on what comes over the ether into their phone. To the OP's question: basically, we don't. We care about your Hole, whether it's been fucked full already (yummmm), whether you're exhibiting the "submissive" qualities, whether you're burning up with Lust for load after load, all of those piggish cues. We don't care if you're blonde or black-haired, we seldom care much about your Cock, we don't much care for your race, we only care that you've surrendered to your Lust for hard, raw Cocks Breeding your Hole. -
I agree, to some extent. The crucial thing is, your mind - your Lust - is where it needs to be. Maybe your Hole isn't, but the crucial thing is you're mentally connected to your calling. As long as you do take loads when you can, it's all good.
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Not a fan of getting mine much more than a quick lick, and I don't really like that either. They're not interested in some guy trying to get them both into his mouth. At all.
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if if if .... the moon may just crash into the earth and wipe us all out too. To the OP, deal with the facts as they are today, just as many of us did when hiv came along. If/when the facts change, then we'll all alter our behavior to deal with some new threat. I rather think that the medical professionals are watching carefully, and if/when some other horrific disease appears, we'll be the very first to know - take whatever the appropriate steps are, and go on with our lives. I remember all too well the horrors of the hiv crisis, and you and I both took the appropriate action and lived through it. We'll do that again if we have to. In the meantime, live your life on your term, take the appropriate precautions, and then jump onto the pile and enjoy the hell out of it. Maybe tomorrow will never come, but it's far more likely it will, right? 😉
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I think that a lot of married guys like rawfucking other guys because they know the bottom won't get preggers. Plus, the bottom won't start adding all kinds of other layers of demands on the married guy, like many women do. Most of us only want the sex - whether T or b - and after all - a hard, raw Cock is a hard, raw Cock - full balls are full balls - it's all the bottom wants or needs.
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Discussion on Racism and Fetishizing from Spun BBC Worship
hntnhole replied to ellentonboy's topic in General Discussion
Please allow me to disagree. This site (and most of the threads) are for every guy to read, respond to whenever they are inclined to do it. True, some guys try to speed-read through a post and miss a point or three. That's not on you - that's on them. The discourse is one of the main reasons a lot of us bother to come to BZ in the first place, and your input is well worth reading, just like every other guy. Some folks just don't know how notice the difference between critical reading / responding to the thoughts, perceptions of others and offering intelligent, germane responses. Lets lay the blame on the educational system - or just overlook silly stuff altogether. Your thoughts are just as important as any other guy's thoughts, and much appreciated. Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater, as the old saying goes (although it's worth keeping in mind occasionally). The fact that you're here, offering your thoughts, considering the responses of others, is the "win". -
"Does S Carolina Have Two [homophobic] Gay Senators?"
hntnhole replied to tallslenderguy's topic in LGBT Politics
I figure that he's (L.G.) waiting until retirement (one way or the other) to do what he can to stem the tide of rampant homophobia that seems to be overtaking his political party. It wouldn't surprise me at all if some of the worst of the gay-haters in the R party are, in fact, gay as a gaggle of geese. (how was that for dose of alliteration?) Frankly, it's as much tragic as anything else, that a gay man hitched his financial / career wagon to such an odious entity as the R party. Just ask the diddler-of-the-wrestling-team a couple of states north of S.C. That one's emotional health has been completely corrupted, stunted, shut-down. Point: When some measure of personal freedom is denied, there's always a price to be paid - individually, as a member of some group, or some other construct. Living a lie always corrupts the soul. -
"Does S Carolina Have Two [homophobic] Gay Senators?"
hntnhole replied to tallslenderguy's topic in LGBT Politics
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ....... Madame Graham is thiiiiiiiis close to being officially outed. I have no idea about Scott, but just because he's not married doesn't mean he fucks /gets fucked. If Scott actually is gay, his mind has been royally fucked by the religious garbage we're all up-to-here with. Better, if he actually is gay, then he's at least cognizant of the kinds of issues we're facing. Not that he'd have the balls to resist very hard, but at least he might grasp the situation. I'm not sure I could get to the john fast enough to hurl my breakfast. I bet the escorts doubled - no- tripled their usual prices for that porky little queen. -
Discussion on Racism and Fetishizing from Spun BBC Worship
hntnhole replied to ellentonboy's topic in General Discussion
Beautifully conceived, and composed with uttermost grace. I'm with you, 100%. -
So I walked over to get a haircut yesterday, and while en route, some guy handed me a palm-card advertising a "New, Private Men's Club: Sauna". It's called WS, Wilton Social Club. The piss reference is a bit obvious, but I asked the googler and there it was. Looks a little bit on the chi-chi side to me, but then I tend to like the more run-down type of fuckjoints better anyway. Odd location of 1061 W Oakland Park Blvd - basically OPB and the 95. The photos of the insides (including some towel-clad-musclemen) were a bit of a tease, so while it's clearly gay-oriented, it might be a bit on the upscale side as well. The hours are very generous: M-Th, 8am to 2am, Fri, Sat, Sun, 24 hours. Also a couple of "pizza" nights. All the usual no-no's: "alcohol, drugs, weapons, illegal activities", but no mention of phones. When any of you go over there to take a sniff - or you hear about it from other guys - let us know. Always good to have resources, right?
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Would you ever fuck with a homeless person?
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
Sorry ... RamRod. It's an infamous bar in Ft. L. that is undergoing a change in ownership, some renovations, and thus no sex in the bar until all of that is done. It's open for business, you can stop in for a beer and a blab with buddies, all of that - just no sex. -
Welcome to all you new (official) members. We're looking forward to hearing a lot more from you !!
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Would you ever fuck with a homeless person?
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I'm sure there are plenty of guys on drugs taking loads at RR and Slammer - but they keep it away from prying eyes. If they're caught, they're tossed out. I guess I'd need a definition of "addicts" first though; "casual users" are different from "addicts", as far as I understand it. At the fuckjoints, I wouldn't know - or care, for that matter. -
Watching the action for a bit - waiting my turn ... In a darkroom, feeling my way in, hands reaching out to fondle my Cock, balls .... returning the favor. That's about it for "foreplay". I do remember kissing a guy at some point who'd just sucked a Cock off ... that was fun .... but I guess I'm not much of a "foreplay" guy.
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Neither do I - and that doesn't bother me one little bit. In the fuckjoints, it's the Hole that I'm interested in, not the name of the owner. If the guy tells me his name, ok - I'll tell him mine - but only for the sake of exhibiting decent manners. To the OP though, no, I don't. I give them - I don't take them.
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^ There's your answer. Every guy is different in some way, and it's all good. Do whatever it is that brings you to the razor's edge, do it, and then do it all over again. Line 'em up and knock 'em down.
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There are "really psycho" guys everywhere, and tragic results occur regularly. If you want to present as a fully-bound sub, you not only need a big, burly "doorman", you need to do a negotiation (explained previously) to protect yourself from some of these "psycho's". Most guys don't believe a great fuck is worth getting seriously injured or killed for. It happens. Protect yourself. And then, offer up your sweet young Hole to any/all B/d S/m Cocks you can find.
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<<< ahem >>> Neither do I ..........
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How to tell if an introvert likes you? 😀
hntnhole replied to Carlos1881's topic in General Discussion
Thanks, ejaculaTe, for the post and the very interesting article. So, to the 9-point signs: I must fall into the "mixed bag" crowd; a couple applied, most didn't. So maybe there's such a thing as mostly one with some qualities of the other in that mixed bag. That said, it was a most interesting discussion by the author. Thanks for posting it. -
How to tell if an introvert likes you? 😀
hntnhole replied to Carlos1881's topic in General Discussion
This is an interesting issue that I don't really understand. I've been told since adolescence that I possess some kind of - oh - aloofness? - that others may find off-putting. That's the very last thing I think that I display, or try to display. I'm not insecure in who I am, and while everyone can always improve themselves in some ways, I'm not ashamed of who I am, I actively try to be the best human being I can be. Does that make me an introvert? An extrovert? To the OP's original points, I have friends that answer my call, or call back. That doesn't mean they do or don't want my Cock - it's just what friends do, right? I have friends who come over when they feel like it, or want some 'alone' time with me. That doesn't mean they need to get fucked. It means they want to spend some time with a friend, doesn't it? Yesterday I went over to a local sportsbar to watch games with a friend. We ate there (locals: Gym has great bar-food, and it always comes exactly as ordered), we talked about all kinds of things (Bears lost, of course). I have friends I can call on for help if I need it, and they know they can and do call me if they need something. But none of them (all but one knows what a sexual pig I am) seem to be looking for anything more than that. I really hope this thread takes off, because I'd love to know more about this particular issue.
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