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New things are often "worth it". You may not want to get in on the action, but it's still "worth it" to find out. At CumUnion though, I think it might be best for you to hang back, watch some of the action before you jump in; I haven't so much as seen a condom at CumUnion in ages. Here in Ft. L., the event alternates between one of the bathhouses and the best fuckjoint in town, and I haven't seen a rubber in either of those joints, ever, no matter how jammed they are with Breeding men. You may find it productive to just go - watch - absorb the experience, and then figure out if you ever want to attend again. There's nothing wrong with experiencing new things, but it may not be your cup of Sperm either. Nothing wrong with deciding against attending orgies either. It's your decision, and yours only. Good luck !!
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Well put, fuzzybttm. Usually, one of the Tops is already celebrating one of the acts already, when the other approaches to join in. The second one usually (and naturally) takes his cue from the first guy, but that's not always the case - and it should be. After all - it's the second one that's joining a Breeding already in progress. Thanks for pointing this out.
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I concur. While I voted "no", and generally wouldn't consider "outing" as acceptable, there can be situations wherein I would consider calling them out, as Bootman writes above. For instance: If one of these insufferable "televangelists" railing against gay folks to raise even more money, all the while ignoring the message of the One he claims to follow is in the pigpen with the rest of us when the cameras aren't around, I just might try to find an identifying birthmark or some-such, and do it. The guilty party chose long ago to point the finger at those who are honest enough with themselves to live their lives according to their very real needs, harming no one, while the shit-peddler chose to go after the dough and victimize his own kind in the same effort. As to the closeted pols, most of them aren't blaring condemnation for gay folks. The ones doing that job are, of course, the hets, trying to pick low-hanging fruit off the Tree of Hate.
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and when it turns out they're bottoms, it's exponentially hotter 💦
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Welcome, Jude Hope you enjoy BZ, and contribute often to subjects that interest you. Have to admit that seeing your screen name, location immediately summoned memories of McCartney ... and a smile.
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Ahhhh .... thanks for the clarification. Per the above, I think that would be the height of selfishness. Just because a guy is Topping, it doesn't relieve him of the responsibility to display common good manners. I know some Tops think their Cocks are battering rams, and that's a matter of disinclination to give a hoot about what the bottom is experiencing - i.e. selfish behavior. I'm assuming the disinterest in the hammering has been communicated to the Top, and he's aloof to your enjoyment. In this kind of situation (and referencing the reply just above this one), and assuming you've communicated your disinterest in that kind of action, maybe you could allow that guy to understand by standing up, turning around and saying (with a smile) something like "You just don't get it, do you Sir ...". Walk away and find a more caring man with a more experienced Cock. It takes two men (or more) to make it a good scene, not just one.
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I would suggest that is unlikely. I'm not all that familiar with the current state of the cultural repressions in your country, but if you explore some of the sites related to Leathermen, Leathersex, sexual "toys" (which sounds definitely are not), B/d or S/m play, you may discover some resources to investigate. It that turns up anything of interest, take care to investigate the Top thoroughly. This kind of sexual interaction can be dangerous, if entered into without the proper pre-scene negotiations. Good luck !!
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..... and too loudly, too often, too insistently, and with too much braggadocio. It's not just off-putting to bottoms, it's embarrassing to other Tops as well. methinks me agrees with tallsplendidguy yet again. ooops .......... I mean tallslenderguy ....
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News about Apretude (cabotegravir) 2-month injectable PrEP
hntnhole replied to fskn's topic in PrEP Discussion
Very informative replies - thanks, all you guys. -
News about Apretude (cabotegravir) 2-month injectable PrEP
hntnhole replied to fskn's topic in PrEP Discussion
Are shots more effective than the daily pills? -
Your favorite porn bottoms/subs/cumdumps
hntnhole replied to pussiboy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Jake Nicola GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR !!! -
We don't, of course. Thus, it's every guy's individual responsibility to take whatever precautions he deems "enough" on his own terms. We're only responsible for taking care of our own health, (or not). Talk (or text) is dirt-cheap - what counts is what we do ourselves to protect our health (or not).
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Welcome cs4feeder & ATLFaggot. Glad you're (openly) with us all - we look forward to hearing more from both of you!
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First, thanks for the kind words. To your quote above, I would offer that you need to really make sure of what you want sexually, how far you're wiling to go, what sexual acts you're not willing to perform, what you are, etc. Take all the time you need to reflect on these questions, and when you have, offer your "firm limits" before committing to a scene. There is no shame what-so-ever in backing out of a serious scene if you're not thoroughly convinced of your safety, that your stated limits will be respected. I've gone into how to conduct a B/d S/m negotiation some time ago in another thread here, so I won't do it again. The point however, is take care of yourself, your well-being first, and then offer your Top the best you have to offer. Done right, it can be magical. Done wrong, it can put you in the hospital. Good luck !!!
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Where do you usually pee around the house?
hntnhole replied to bbboyfucker's topic in Watersports Discussion
Outside, in the back yard. Once a year or so ago, one of those little drones caught me (one of the neighbors, most likely), and I just smiled and waved with the unoccupied hand. -
I had to travel quite a bit for the businesses years ago, and had fun in many larger cities. San Fran was great, NYC was great, loved NOLA too for all kinds of reasons. However. Having spent most of my adult life in Chicago, now Ft. Lauderdale, only Berlin can compare to either of them for total descent into debauchery. I've been most fortunate, and I wouldn't change a thing.
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Having re-read the actual post (not merely the title), I see you're completely correct. Thanks. As to the actual post, frankly, I don't know. Jawbones only open so far, and then that's it. Attempts to "force the issue" could result in serious injury, which of course, is the very last thing any of us want to be a part of. Any of you "beer-can-Cocked" guys have suggestions?
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I'd rather call it "affectionate reinforcement". When a bottom holds the concept of degradation* close to his heart/mind, it's often a mirror image of his true self he's actually referencing. The bottom loves submission, he loves himself for his submissive bent, loves his sexual Lusts, and - for want of a better word - calls it degrading or humiliating. A perceptive Top can either "go along" with the degrading mind-fuck, or work the sub's Lusts - whether voracious or ethereal - as a positive, fulfilling, self-realization experience rather than something degrading or humiliating. There's an old saying amongst those who structure their lives in harmony with the Leather Ethic: Don't tear a boy down, in order to rebuild him according to one's wishes, start with what is, and build a boy up to his potential. Enable every part of the innate submission, and in a positive, reinforcing manner. *I'm not referencing a classic B/d S/m scene, which requires a negotiation, all of that ...
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Accepted, with the understanding that if we don't do what we can to advance equalities, we're enabling the inequalities, regardless of the source. This concept applies in general, everyday life, on websites, in the fuckjoints, everywhere. I don't think that we're all perceived as equal - far from it. That doesn't mean that it's too difficult to advance a more enlightened m.o. in our own daily lives; at the grocery store, walking down the street, in the fuckjoints, whenever the opportunity arises. Call it tilting at a windmill if you'd like, but at least we can try to make things better in however minute a way. No one would claim that we're all perceived as equal, but we can still take a stand against the inequalities of prejudice - whether in the greater population or merely in our own.
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I had a tenant years ago (recently separated female, gigantic tits, in a fairly rural area N of the city) who had a female friend up the road (skinny, decrepit, impossibly homely, cunty in every possible way), and they'd drive down to the city together occasionally and hang out at a well-known "pickup" bar out on the NW side. Painted up like street whores, just laughable. The tenant was simply determined she was going to get both my other half and I in bed, and the old tarantula up the road made it crystal clear she wanted to be in on it, if it ever happened. They seemed convinced that there was a gold mine between their legs; that no male - gay/straight/inbetween - could possibly resist their vomacious advances. Long story short, buck-toothed blimp-boobs was not renewed when lease-time rolled around. After that, for a while we let buddies from the city use that place occasionally - and then we always accepted invitations if we were around.
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^ This. Short, sweet, and perfectly on-point.
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The way I see it, it's the TOPS responsibility to open the Hole properly. The bottom has to be willing, of course - but the delightful work is the Top's job.
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A hard, raw Cock on an "experienced" Top can go a long way in making up for some lack of visual enticements. The nights are made for group Breeding. Pictures may supplant a thousand words, but no Top fucks photos.
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Really .... it used to be there were more guys fucking than not .... but it was a few years ago. Behind those tents the vendors set up it was madness (meaning the dirrrrrty, good kind).
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You reference "in a group setting"; Swapping Cocks is the whole point of group sex. Of course no Top would mind at all - it only makes the group scene all the hotter. I can't imagine bottoms minding either. To the "don't pull out" issue, would you mind so much if the guy rutting in your Hole pulled out and kneeled to increase the pleasure by eating it - tonguing it - savoring your Hole - before Breeding it? Since you're describing a "group setting", maybe there's already a load or three up your gut - you wouldn't mind a tongue exploring it, would you?
