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Agreed. Put another way, part of raw Breeding is the "connection" we can create with a "brother". It can last for a long time, it can last for a few moments, but we've "connected" deeply, spiritually, carnally with another man, and that's what's so compelling about raw fucking. Now that we can take pills to protect our heath to a very substantial measure, it's like the old, pre-hiv days. There are some guys that fetishize condoms, and that's fine. But the rest of us don't require barriers anymore, and that ineffable, sweet, lovely, magical connection is well-worthy of pursuing over and over and over again.
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On the whole, your reply is spot on. The above sentence though, does not ring true to me. To straights, who have never bothered to entertain a moment's worth of thought as to why things are what they are, it may seem that cumdumps are emulating the female reproductive role, but that is hardly true for the men who actually do it. There are perhaps exceptions, (i.e. men who use female clothing, etc), but that's a different issue that may result in cumdumpery or may not. I believe that men who practice cumdumpery are men who have either a) spent the time and effort to answer the question of why via a process of intellectual work, questioning their sexual drive/identity, and arrived at some answers unrelated to females at all, or b) their innate nature was recognized by an experienced man who helped them realize their calling. We don't need to emulate or even consider what straight folks do, or why they do it. We aren't straight. Even the bi guys don't identify as that. They say they're bi. Cumdumps aren't "emulating" anything - they're doing what makes sense to them, what they believe they must, structuring their sexual lives according to their own self-perceptions. Whether that realization comes via self-introspection or via input from a more experienced man who recognizes what the cumdump does not yet recognize in himself, the result is focused not on emulating women, but on self-realization, self-fulfillment, self-acceptance. If this is "misogynistic", merely because females have no important place in the issue as I see it, then that's ok with me.
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Another productive thing Tops can say when they're about to Breed: Lean over his back so your mouth is close to his ear and quietly say or whisper something like "now I'm going to make you one of MY boys ..." They usually love that.
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Apparently, I make guttural, growling sounds when I unload. Does that count? I always try to give good verbal feedback - sometimes it's just not more than "good boy", or something innocuous, but at least something. I think it's important to encourage the bottom in at least some small way, even if it wasn't a mind-blowing fuck.
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I seldom hear this, but when I do, I just say something like "sure - I showered just before I left to come here ...."
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LOL ..... never heard THAT one before !!!
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Is anyone using AI to generate erotic/explicit images?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm not sure I 'get it' regarding A.I. Sure, a couple of those - well - depictions? - were quite well done, a couple weren't, but what's the goal here? Produce phony porn? Elevate the male physique beyond almost anyone's ability to achieve it? Challenge Michelangelo? Pictures can't fuck, porn actors can and do. Maybe a handful of us here on BZ actually do look like gods ... and the rest of us don't. Are we supposed to feel 'less-than' because we don't look like a sex-god? Perfection is alright I guess, but I'd rather fuck regular guys - like me. -
Agreed, 100%
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I am not familiar with the complexities of your culture, but I rather doubt it. He may be wrestling with coming to terms with his own issues of sexuality, and that can be quite a process. Just be there for him, in whatever way he seems to need you. A cheerful smile can do wonders for a man going through a difficult time; give him plenty of that. Remember that the turtle won the race, not the hare ....
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How about PIG ... it wouldn't be an insult to me. I've been called a pig before - all I did was smile, nod, and keep on doing what I was doing. "Sticks & Stones" - blah blah blah.
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I've written my perspective before on BZ, but it bears repeating: I simply adore cumdumps. These are men who have done the introspection, come to their self-realization, done the work (or, in some cases, had it done to them), and arrived at their self-realized Truth. I'd trust my wallet to a cumdump before I'd entrust it to some haughty, self-centered Top. I know I'm in the minority on this particular thread, and I don't care. Without the dedication to their sublime calling, where would we Tops be? Going hungry - that's where.
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You're right, of course. When the porn companies institute certain "rules", or any other kind of company/business, it's to a) maximize profits, and b) avoid penalties. Business is business.
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I agree with virtually all of the above rejections of condoms in porn. There is, however, one potential "business" reason that the actors (Tops) are asked to pull out, at least for the initial spurt of Sperm - that being so the viewer can see that the Top actually shot his load, It can be proven a lot better though, when a Top pumps the Hole full of Sperm, and then gets down there and eats the load(s)s out of the Hole. So yeah - the load belongs INSIDE the Hole, and not anywhere else. Rubbers and fuckflicks are like oil and water: nothing but a waste of time and loads.
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You're entirely correct, of course !!! Thanks.
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As soon as we get the more pressing issues resolved (guns, dead kids, cretins in Congress / States), I think standardizing English is a splendid idea !!! Ya, youse rite as rain 😉
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LOL .... no, he surely doesn't. There are a number of things he doesn't deserve .... feeding himself, for instance ....
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Actually, I have. When we were little kids, my dad said "now we're in America, and we're going to go see it". I can't remember how long it took, but we actually drove through all 48 contiguous states. I don't recall whether the mountain you reference was Stone mountain or Lookout mountain, but I do remember the '29, '30 Stutz I saw parked in a gas station with a for sale sign on it. I know it was in the South somewhere. Admittedly, I've been vehicularly-oriented long before I knew what my Cock is for.
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Darkrooms (really dark ones) serve the same function as glory holes. They remove all the other senses except hearing, and nothing else matters but Cocks rutting in Holes, Breeding Holes, grunts and groans of sexual depravity. What could be more enticing ???
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After reading through these replies, I think that the descriptor "bottom" is too vague regarding how we become bottoms or Tops. There may be different reasons some guys bottom, one of which may be the component of submission in their nature. Submissives are usually bottoms, and Dominants usually aren't. But that isn't carved into some mountainside somewhere. When a burgeoning gay boy is growing up, it seems to me he is naturally (and at the same time) developing his Dominant or his submissive, in-born nature. It's that natural affinity for submission (in this case) to feel more comfortable, more inclined, more fulfilled to offer up his Hole to Dominant men. The instinct of all men for sexual conquest takes different forms, but might derive from the basic instinct - one way or the other. Whether the guy is butch as nails, or not possessive of the cultural definition of masculinity in some way, maybe their sexual desire is naturally driven one way or the other by their inborn-nature. Add to that the cultural conditioning, and we wind up with self-assigned roles that may or may not reflect that in-born foundational nature to submission or Dominance. It's an interesting thread - thanks, all you guys .....
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Either is correct, except the past tense of "slide" is "slid" (I know, sometimes correct grammar makes no sense at all). How interesting that he not only allowed it, but smiled when you ran a finger through his hair. That was a fairly clear message, and your reward was a smile !! I think you've got his Cock's attention, especially since you text message almost daily, but go slowly - a brief smile isn't a direct invitation either. Reel him in gently, obliquely, very gradually, and when it happens (sounds like it will at some point), we're waiting to hear the good news. Remember, the turtle was slower than the rabbit in the race, but the turtle won after all 😉
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I hope so too, but then I'm not familiar with social norms in your country. In any case, you can be open to more, and obliquely allow him to know that, but nothing blunt or obvious. If he's "available", trying to send you a message, he'll try again. I would if I were him. Try to find out one or two of his other interests, and talk about those with him. Sounds like slow and gradual might work. Maybe surprise him with a nickname of your own choosing; that would be following his lead, but not in an domineering way. I wouldn't "worry" though - that takes too much of your time and energy. Give him your warmest smile next time - nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck !!!
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Welcome to BZ, bottompussy. You mention "other" Tops ... does that mean you sometimes Top too? Or that you already know some Tops?
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I agree. The question wasn't clear. You're entirely correct. I define a cumdump as a bottom that doesn't care who the Top is, positioned in place (usually on hands & knees, head down, ass up) offering up his Hole to any Cock that's hard enough to at least rut in it, and better, Breed it. The bottom doesn't need to see or hear anything, he only needs to feel a hard raw Cock rutting in his Hole. If spoken to by the Top, of course the bottom should answer, but that's ancillary to the "definition" of a cumdump.
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Attention TOPS: what do u think of really tight holes?
hntnhole replied to a topic in General Discussion
1. To answer the original post, not much when I'm out at the fuckjoints for the night. That said, the un-asked, if ancillary issue is, what does the Top do about it? 2. Tops can get down there, and mouth-lube the Hole. They can offer gentle advice to the bottom, i.e. 'try to push it open for me', 'try to push my tongue away with your Hole', and then affirm that if/when it happens. Tops can also simply tell the bottom he has to take a few more Cocks before the Top can get in there, and go rut in other Holes for a while and come back later. 3. Tops don't want to injure a bottom - they want the bottom to open his Hole up. Tongues, fingers, toys, verbal encouragement can all play a part in that. But, if none of it works, then the bottom probably needs a mind-fuck most. -
One thing that is surely a part of it, is that they (perhaps unconsciously, perhaps not) envy our courage in living our lives according to our own needs. We tend not to honor (or even acknowledge) their assumed right to dominate everything, and we march to our own truth. That's gotta stick in the craw of the R's who have devoted their lives to maintaining their philosophy, however depraved it may be.
