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I'm not sure I 'get it' regarding A.I. Sure, a couple of those - well - depictions? - were quite well done, a couple weren't, but what's the goal here? Produce phony porn? Elevate the male physique beyond almost anyone's ability to achieve it? Challenge Michelangelo? Pictures can't fuck, porn actors can and do. Maybe a handful of us here on BZ actually do look like gods ... and the rest of us don't. Are we supposed to feel 'less-than' because we don't look like a sex-god? Perfection is alright I guess, but I'd rather fuck regular guys - like me.

Agreed, 100%

I am not familiar with the complexities of your culture, but I rather doubt it. He may be wrestling with coming to terms with his own issues of sexuality, and that can be quite a process. Just be there for him, in whatever way he seems to need you. A cheerful smile can do wonders for a man going through a difficult time; give him plenty of that. Remember that the turtle won the race, not the hare ....

How about PIG ... it wouldn't be an insult to me. I've been called a pig before - all I did was smile, nod, and keep on doing what I was doing. "Sticks & Stones" - blah blah blah.

I've written my perspective before on BZ, but it bears repeating: I simply adore cumdumps. These are men who have done the introspection, come to their self-realization, done the work (or, in some cases, had it done to them), and arrived at their self-realized Truth. I'd trust my wallet to a cumdump before I'd entrust it to some haughty, self-centered Top. I know I'm in the minority on this particular thread, and I don't care. Without the dedication to their sublime calling, where would we Tops be? Going hungry - that's where.

You're right, of course. When the porn companies institute certain "rules", or any other kind of company/business, it's to a) maximize profits, and b) avoid penalties. Business is business.

I agree with virtually all of the above rejections of condoms in porn. There is, however, one potential "business" reason that the actors (Tops) are asked to pull out, at least for the initial spurt of Sperm - that being so the viewer can see that the Top actually shot his load, It can be proven a lot better though, when a Top pumps the Hole full of Sperm, and then gets down there and eats the load(s)s out of the Hole. So yeah - the load belongs INSIDE the Hole, and not anywhere else. Rubbers and fuckflicks are like oil and water: nothing but a waste of time and loads.

You're entirely correct, of course !!! Thanks.

As soon as we get the more pressing issues resolved (guns, dead kids, cretins in Congress / States), I think standardizing English is a splendid idea !!! Ya, youse rite as rain 😉

LOL .... no, he surely doesn't. There are a number of things he doesn't deserve .... feeding himself, for instance ....

Actually, I have. When we were little kids, my dad said "now we're in America, and we're going to go see it". I can't remember how long it took, but we actually drove through all 48 contiguous states. I don't recall whether the mountain you reference was Stone mountain or Lookout mountain, but I do remember the '29, '30 Stutz I saw parked in a gas station with a for sale sign on it. I know it was in the South somewhere. Admittedly, I've been vehicularly-oriented long before I knew what my Cock is for.

Darkrooms (really dark ones) serve the same function as glory holes. They remove all the other senses except hearing, and nothing else matters but Cocks rutting in Holes, Breeding Holes, grunts and groans of sexual depravity. What could be more enticing ???

After reading through these replies, I think that the descriptor "bottom" is too vague regarding how we become bottoms or Tops. There may be different reasons some guys bottom, one of which may be the component of submission in their nature. Submissives are usually bottoms, and Dominants usually aren't. But that isn't carved into some mountainside somewhere. When a burgeoning gay boy is growing up, it seems to me he is naturally (and at the same time) developing his Dominant or his submissive, in-born nature. It's that natural affinity for submission (in this case) to feel more comfortable, more inclined, more fulfilled to offer up his Hole to Dominant men. The instinct of all men for sexual conquest takes different forms, but might derive from the basic instinct - one way or the other. Whether the guy is butch as nails, or not possessive of the cultural definition of masculinity in some way, maybe their sexual desire is naturally driven one way or the other by their inborn-nature. Add to that the cultural conditioning, and we wind up with self-assigned roles that may or may not reflect that in-born foundational nature to submission or Dominance. It's an interesting thread - thanks, all you guys .....

Either is correct, except the past tense of "slide" is "slid" (I know, sometimes correct grammar makes no sense at all). How interesting that he not only allowed it, but smiled when you ran a finger through his hair. That was a fairly clear message, and your reward was a smile !! I think you've got his Cock's attention, especially since you text message almost daily, but go slowly - a brief smile isn't a direct invitation either. Reel him in gently, obliquely, very gradually, and when it happens (sounds like it will at some point), we're waiting to hear the good news. Remember, the turtle was slower than the rabbit in the race, but the turtle won after all 😉

I hope so too, but then I'm not familiar with social norms in your country. In any case, you can be open to more, and obliquely allow him to know that, but nothing blunt or obvious. If he's "available", trying to send you a message, he'll try again. I would if I were him. Try to find out one or two of his other interests, and talk about those with him. Sounds like slow and gradual might work. Maybe surprise him with a nickname of your own choosing; that would be following his lead, but not in an domineering way. I wouldn't "worry" though - that takes too much of your time and energy. Give him your warmest smile next time - nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck !!!

Welcome to BZ, bottompussy. You mention "other" Tops ... does that mean you sometimes Top too? Or that you already know some Tops?

I agree. The question wasn't clear. You're entirely correct. I define a cumdump as a bottom that doesn't care who the Top is, positioned in place (usually on hands & knees, head down, ass up) offering up his Hole to any Cock that's hard enough to at least rut in it, and better, Breed it. The bottom doesn't need to see or hear anything, he only needs to feel a hard raw Cock rutting in his Hole. If spoken to by the Top, of course the bottom should answer, but that's ancillary to the "definition" of a cumdump.

1. To answer the original post, not much when I'm out at the fuckjoints for the night. That said, the un-asked, if ancillary issue is, what does the Top do about it? 2. Tops can get down there, and mouth-lube the Hole. They can offer gentle advice to the bottom, i.e. 'try to push it open for me', 'try to push my tongue away with your Hole', and then affirm that if/when it happens. Tops can also simply tell the bottom he has to take a few more Cocks before the Top can get in there, and go rut in other Holes for a while and come back later. 3. Tops don't want to injure a bottom - they want the bottom to open his Hole up. Tongues, fingers, toys, verbal encouragement can all play a part in that. But, if none of it works, then the bottom probably needs a mind-fuck most.

One thing that is surely a part of it, is that they (perhaps unconsciously, perhaps not) envy our courage in living our lives according to our own needs. We tend not to honor (or even acknowledge) their assumed right to dominate everything, and we march to our own truth. That's gotta stick in the craw of the R's who have devoted their lives to maintaining their philosophy, however depraved it may be.

My impression is that the responsibilities of moderating are spread between a relatively thin pool of volunteers. If that's the case, I can at least understand how a snap decision can be made, even one not well thought-out. I know some guys get an infraction for whatever (I have), and take it personally, (I didn't), but they're not charging us dough to take part in what is a pretty cool site. There may very well be some moderator that's a bit full of himself occasionally, but on the whole BZ is well worth taking part in. I'm sorry the guy whose input you admired got pissed off and quit. There's still a lot of worthwhile commentary here that's useful for a lot of guys too.

Well said. I simply don't understand it either. Our system of Government depends on citizens exercising their right/privilege to vote. If we don't vote, how can we be officially "heard"? Complaining doesn't help. Becoming involved, taking part in government is what helps. All elections are important, and these days, the local/State elections are even more important. No political party offers a panacea of making everything perfect, but if we don't participate, who are we to bitch if we can't be bothered to vote? A vote can be a positive gesture or a negative one, and both are legit. Vote for someone you like, vote against someone who had demonstrated enmity to what you hold dear, but at least do one or the other. I don't get it either ...

We might have to MOVE there, given the political situation in the US.

Really ??? As once said on screen in Casablanca - "I'm shocked ... shocked" Thanks for the great line, Claude,

Men are men. Due to where we (meaning, our ancestors) happened to be born, some of us are pale, some of us aren't, but we're all the same, despite what area of the globe our ancestors came from. We wear differently shaded skin, but underneath the degree of melanin, we're all the very same. There are simpering queens who's ancestors lived south of the Equator, and butch, bull-Cocked men from the same area. There are simpering queens who's ancestors lived north of the Equator with the same variations. We are all men (on this site, gay, and rawfuckers), and the degree of melanin in one's skin is as important as whether we wear a black shirt or a white one. It's just not relevant to our humanity. So what on earth does it matter what color a man's "shirt" is? When all is said and done, we're men that fuck each other, and that's that. Ditch the grievous errors of the past, and embrace the better parts of ourselves. What it boils down to is the fact that the Caucasian Nations industrialized farther and faster than the rest of the world. The constant and pressing need for new sources of raw materials forced these Nations to steal the resources of other areas of the world, and thus began the foul notion that the Caucasian Nations were "supposed" to colonize the world, according to the wishes of their "God". And thus began the pretense of relieving their guilt, since their clerics, dolled up in their long dresses, ruby slippers, fancy hats, insincerities, indulgences, lies, the whole rotted mess, told these Caucasian nations it was God's will. Thus, the force of their more advanced killing power forced the system of Colonization upon equally intelligent, equally productive, equal in every way except industrialization into a lesser status, for the greed and enrichment of those Caucasians. The only possible purpose of said colonization of said non-Caucasian nations is, of course, the rape of their natural resources, which tragically included the subjugated inhabitants themselves. So what possible connection is there to who we fuck, here and now? How do the inhumanities of our ancestors require us to continue this moral rot? Tops: Breed in every Hole you can, and be thrilled to do it, regardless of the amount of melanin in the skin. Bottoms, take every raw Cock and load you can, and thrill to the sensation of the loads being pumped up your gut, regardless of the amount of melanin in it's skin. It's the sharing, the connection, the thrill of sharing wanton sex, Lust-driven sex that's important. But there is hope. The world is changing fast, and the Caucasian nations are only just beginning to reap their whirlwind. Those descendants are only beginning to pay the price for their privilege, centuries too late, but then the piper sometimes takes his time about coming to be paid. The piper always does show up eventually, doesn't (s)he? The "Moral Arc of the Universe"* is excruciatingly long, but there can be no question that it does indeed bend towards Justice. *MLK jr.

Good suggestion; they're tiny, and could easily be inserted into a small cube of cheese, for instance, or a grape, or anything else. or just gulped down with a swig of beer - "root" or "real" ...