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There's another, if ancillary issue involved here. From a Top's perspective, natural lube is the only way to go. Commercial lubes just don't taste anywhere near as as good as natural (spit, loads) do. There's one brand (not sure what it is, but I can tell the bottom used it on the initial "sniff-test"), and I'll say something acceptable, get up and move on. Whether natural (spit or Sperm), it's the Top's job to make sure the Hole is opened up well enough so there's no pain for the bottom. Bottoms don't "owe" it to Tops to just take it if the Top doesn't know enough to lube up the Hole (or at least, get his tongue in there and find out) before he shoves it in.
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Simply because it's the honest thing to do (if you're asked). If you're not asked, then the issue is moot. But I'm betting you already know that.
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I'm so very sorry to know about this loss you've suffered, Gingerguy. Loss like this is probably the most terrible to bear - suddenly the loved-one is simply gone, leaving us with a hole in our hearts. Of course you're wondering "where he is". The simple answer is, none of us know. Some of the more attuned folks believe that there's something after this life, but no one really knows what's next. religious traditions have been promising that they know where we go, and I don't believe they know anything more than the next guy. Most folks sense that this isn't the end - the journey continues in some way, I don't think there's anything wrong with talking to him at all. I lost my life-partner years ago, and I still talk to him, laugh with him, pretend he's around, as if he actually were. There's plenty of time to visit the grave. Remember that the only thing there, however, is the body he used to walk around in, and his essence/spirit/whatever is free of that body now. The physical place where what he doesn't need anymore isn't all that important - but keeping him close in your mind is. Even if you could take revenge on whoever did this, it sounds to me like you already know that won't bring him back, and retribution is for smaller minds than yours. Just try to celebrate his life, the time you had together, and take strength from his memory. It won't happen right away, but at some point it will - if you allow it. Best wishes ....
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Neh-ver. I get plenty of exercise, I eat healthy, and I don't care if I'm not "built" ... I get my share of Hole, and that's what matters to me.
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Yes, some guys do say that. Other guys say get on PReP, get tested frequently, get all the vaccines for the various bugs you can, and get your ass into the pigpen with the rest of us happy barebackers. Protect your health first, then get your ass busy 😉
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To the title of this thread, no. Sexual orientation is, to my understanding, part of our make-up. Whether we have blonde hair or black would be another example. Blue eyes or green. Prone to be skinny or fat. Physical characteristics. AGREED !!! Sexuality is, to my mind, something that's inborn, just as build, hair color, eye color, is something (a real gift, imho) we're born with.
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So this presents an interesting possibility: While I'm sure same-gender attraction has been around since we came out of the caves, could it be that there are - percentage wise - more same-gender orientation guy around, because the earth is overpopulated, and it's the cosmos' response to that fact? Nah - it's probably just because there are so many millions of straights that our numbers are increasing in proportion to the general population ... or, maybe not so many guys afraid to be who they are these days.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I promised not to tell .......... -
Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
So I checked - CumUnion is tomorrow night, and there are 56 signed up. Not the best number ever, but it'll do - but then, Slammer is so much closer - that place will be packed. It's been cool weather here, which tamps down the Lust for outdoor Breeding, but warmer today, and tomorrow we're supposed to be back to the low-mid 80's. -
Those days are long gone, but I still get plenty of Hole ... it amazes me ....
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Welcome, RBMI & DoNotPullOut1973 !! We're glad you're here, and look forward to hearing more from each of you. Cheers !!
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Not a deal breaker for me, unless they think they can smoke in the house. Now THAT'S a deal breaker .....
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Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
You, my friend, belong here with us in FORT BREEDINGDALE !!!!!!!!!!!!!! -
Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
They haven't lost their appeal at all. I enjoy them. -
Have any of you worked at a adult bookstore?
hntnhole replied to JezzabellaCD's topic in General Discussion
Nope. Never worked at one - only helped meet the payroll ... -
Maybe, but it's surely a question of the Top opening the Hole properly too. If a thick-Cocked Top just walks up and tries to ram it home, well, that's on the Top, not the bottom.
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Never-the-less .... the science of acoustics informs us differently. Thanks, as always, for your excellent input.
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Actually, I think that sexual orientation is something that's inborn in us. It may take years to bubble up to the surface (to your religious comment), and depending on how steeped in that bullshit a kid is, it may never rise to the surface of his consciousness. I think that the control exerted by the hets, the religious, is the "construct". We live (at least here in the US) in a social construct that disavows our legitimacy, and thus our humanity, all based upon our sexual identity. They exert cultural control, and choose to disparage us, repress us, consider us 'less-than' themselves. Nice belief-system, huh? About the farthest thing from the belief-system they - like the proverbial "noisy gong" - loudly claim for themselves.
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What did it feel like the first time you were called "daddy"?
hntnhole replied to fuckyouraw777's topic in General Discussion
Actually, I like it (just DAD - "Daddy" not so much). -
Raw Vikings - Barebackers From The Nordic Countries
hntnhole replied to KnkyWnky's topic in Scandinavia
Do ex-pats count? -
If wishes were horses (and some are - horse-Cocked, I mean), we'd all be doing everything we want to do. How about collecting/freezing your own loads as you jack off? Elsewhere in other threads I've described a cool way to collect, store them. I suppose your own loads aren't as exciting, but at least you'll know what to expect when the opportunity presents itself. Why not try it, Marky ... you already know you want to ....
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Well, put that embarrassment aside, as it's only productive as a potential inducement to alter your thinking. Congratulate yourself for arriving at a new level of understanding, and keep asking yourself questions. And, trying out those new answers with active use. Embarrassment is a great motivator, but what really counts is what happens after that particular realization comes. Congrats !!! 😉
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POLL: How many guys have YOU FUCKED or have FUCKED YOU in ONE DAY?
hntnhole replied to a topic in General Discussion
I can't say I try to count .... also, can't say I see the point of it .... -
Of of my regular answers, when someone asks me why I fuck exclusively raw, is "You mean there's some other way to fuck???" I haven't heard that line about cleanliness in ages ... That usually cuts the chatter, and gets down to the fucking.
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Welcome to the whole bunch of you guys !! We're happy you've joined us, and look forward to hearing our thoughts on the various "threads", i.e. subject matter. As you can see, there are many different threads, some will be more to your liking than others, so be sure to add your voice to the various conversations. We want to hear from each of you guys.
