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When I started to have sex with other guys, there was no other way - nobody used condoms, except a handful of guys that had fetishized using them. 99% of guys fucked raw. Of course, this was before hiv arrived on the scene.

Same here. If I travel away from home, I fukkin expect a decent bed, a toilet and a shower - at the very least.

I was a Cub Scout too (and my mom was "Den Mother" 😒), as soon as Webelos came along (I'd forgotten all about it until Ellentonboy jogged my memory), and it was sort of a introductory contrivance into the actual Boy Scouts. My mom had had enough, and I had experienced more than enough. I guess I'm not cut out to go camping, thank Whatever.

Which, I'm assuming, also includes the armaments industry - with the politicians pants down, bent over, spreading their cheeks to receive the shovels-full of money from the industry that is providing the equipment that's mowing down little kids in school, on and on, ad nauseum. Here in FL, our - I can't even describe him as an actual governor - is busy restricting books, endorsing hatreds of every kind and description, signing bills that allow the nutcases to carry guns without even obtaining a permit, every anti-social thing he can come up with. At least, his battles with Mickey Mouse aren't proving so successful - not quite yet, anyway ....

In some cases, particularly the more steeped in religious fervor they are, the reverse can be true here: "with my family, I could end up dead". It's either get out or be suffocated.

I'm probably around B+ to C-, #2. I don't shoot anywhere near as far as I could years ago though, but I still hear occasionally that they can feel it.

Once real love is experienced, I think every human being feels that way. I'm happy for you that's the case. "Alive" is as fine a descriptor as any.

When all is said and done, and considering the ease with which straight men can pick up women, a self-identified "straight" guy can call himself Santa Claus if he wants to while he somehow, mysteriously, inexplicably finds himself someplace where gay men are fucking each other. Look at what he does, pay no attention to what he says.

LOL ..... where was my mind ??? Of COURSE you're 100% correct !!!

The original post reflected straight women, and life-experience is what it is.

#1) Some may interpret the "dark" side as somehow unworthy, less-that whatever the side of "light" is, and I think that' a self-defeating notion. I realize there may be a bit of a language barrier, but know that you are one of the sons of Light, not darkness. All of us - every one of us - are that. #2) No, you are not "lying". You are protecting yourself from the judgements of others, and that's something only prejudice on the part of others derives from. So, protecting who you are, maintaining your privacy is hardly "a lie". Females are constantly on the prowl for guys to ensnare, and good for you for protecting who you are. You owe these girls exactly nothing. You reference the phrase "atm", which I assume is "at the moment". I would ask you to consider that the current situation is indeed "momentary", in the grand scheme of your life. One day soon, you will complete all the necessary requirements for certification, and be able to relocate to a larger, more accepting city where there are not relatives around every corner. It may seem like forever, but it isn't. Our sexual drive is a strong one, regardless of whether it's same-sex driven or opposite-sex driven. If you can have a bit more patience, my guess is you'll have boys/men lined up at your door, wherever you choose to relocate to. Taking regular "vacations" can help too. Breeding Zone can be a helpful resource, but the principal resource is your own determination to survive, conquer your studies, become a truly productive man, and get outta Dodge as soon as that comes to fruition. You have so much to offer ,,,, just try to wait a little longer until your life becomes your own, without all the expectations of others weighing you down. My best wishes to you, Marsian. Please reach out to us when you need to; every one of us is here to offer input for your success. #3) A good answer would be something along the lines of "I'm concentrating on my studies, building my career, and I'll let you all know when I decide to alter that fact. #4) Of course not !! While it's true that it can be more difficult to find the love of your live within the gay-world, it happens every hour of every day somewhere. It may be further compounded by the area you live in, which may (or may not, considering how your cousin feels when you find out what that is) be further inhibited by the "everybody knows everybody's business" construct, but that's something that can be endured. You're young, you have needs, but you're hardly the only guy with those needs: we are everywhere.

Any guy that doesn't must be subsisting on a diet of communion wafers ....

Excellent advice to get on PReP from numerous respondents. I concur 100%.

501's. Helps keep the laundry pile down. Summers, just the regular shorts. I like guys to look at my Cock, while they pretend not to.

Well done. Added to the official lexicon !!

I too regret to read about this inexcusable behavior, particularly in the fetish-wear shops. Here in the US, it's not difficult to watch the fetishization of what "attractive" is (or supposed to be), if one happens to own a tv and watch it occasionally. The loooong series of commercials in between segments of the actual program are filled with nothing but "pretty products", and are repeated constantly. Every conceivable kind of beauty creme, tooth-whitening product, represented by painfully skinny women, smiling, showing off for the camera, with rather little reason, the men with puffed and blown dry hair, wide self-satisfied smiles, peddling every kind of beauty product imaginable. Talentless actresses/actors peddling worthless products, all in the hopes of peddling what someone somewhere has declared miraculous. There's even one homely bitch lately who has invented a special deodorant specifically for assholes !!! I mean real ones - where last night's dinner exits from. Of course it's supposed to work from head to toe too. Regrettably, it seems people will buy almost anything if they think it might allow them into the prized "Beautiful People" crowd. It appears that bad manners has been one of the US's chief exports.

Not in my book !!! Sounds fantastic ... and please keep us apprised ...

Thanks so much, Baretop4ever, for that tremendously explanative reply !!! I have no plans to travel there, but I feel as though I have a fairly complete sense of what's what after reading your suggestions. We appreciate it.

Looks like lots of guys find kissing a really important part of fucking/Breeding. I weigh in on the "mix-machs" scale as follows: if it's all that important to the bottom, I'll include it in a scene. Not so much for me, but to invest in kissing to make the bottom enjoy it more, and thus I enjoy it more. But the only way I find it exiting is if the bottom has just sucked off a Cock or three.

Darlexx (oops) is what sleepsacks are made of. The sub is restrained inside the gear, and cannot get out. I used to allow a bit of an "eye-rest", so they could absorb the full panoply of sensations, but always watched carefully. Some guys don't react well to being completely immobilized, and the Dom must let them out at once if that happens.

Agreed; please do. Mail-order delivery is available, so are the testing kits. All you'd need is a buddy who can accept the deliveries for you.

I'll be heading over there later on tonight. Even drove by to make sure their parking lots aren't still flooded. Slammer, baby !!!

I may well be wrong, but my understanding is that the eyes (and maybe the area around them) is what is most identifiable. The more that's covered of course, the less chance, and a full hood may prove uncomfortable. I've never investigated, but maybe one of Darlex wouldn't be too hot (temperature-wise, I mean 😉)

Actually, I heard they met with an unfortunate fate some millennia ago, but we can rebuild them !!!! We all know what Sodomize means, so to Gomorrah-ize a hard Cock must mean something even more lovely .... kudos to the guy that can come up with the most delicious, depraved description of Gomorrah-izing ....

I too miss fskn ... I hope he's well, and doing what he does best !!!