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I agree. The question wasn't clear. You're entirely correct. I define a cumdump as a bottom that doesn't care who the Top is, positioned in place (usually on hands & knees, head down, ass up) offering up his Hole to any Cock that's hard enough to at least rut in it, and better, Breed it. The bottom doesn't need to see or hear anything, he only needs to feel a hard raw Cock rutting in his Hole. If spoken to by the Top, of course the bottom should answer, but that's ancillary to the "definition" of a cumdump.

1. To answer the original post, not much when I'm out at the fuckjoints for the night. That said, the un-asked, if ancillary issue is, what does the Top do about it? 2. Tops can get down there, and mouth-lube the Hole. They can offer gentle advice to the bottom, i.e. 'try to push it open for me', 'try to push my tongue away with your Hole', and then affirm that if/when it happens. Tops can also simply tell the bottom he has to take a few more Cocks before the Top can get in there, and go rut in other Holes for a while and come back later. 3. Tops don't want to injure a bottom - they want the bottom to open his Hole up. Tongues, fingers, toys, verbal encouragement can all play a part in that. But, if none of it works, then the bottom probably needs a mind-fuck most.

One thing that is surely a part of it, is that they (perhaps unconsciously, perhaps not) envy our courage in living our lives according to our own needs. We tend not to honor (or even acknowledge) their assumed right to dominate everything, and we march to our own truth. That's gotta stick in the craw of the R's who have devoted their lives to maintaining their philosophy, however depraved it may be.

My impression is that the responsibilities of moderating are spread between a relatively thin pool of volunteers. If that's the case, I can at least understand how a snap decision can be made, even one not well thought-out. I know some guys get an infraction for whatever (I have), and take it personally, (I didn't), but they're not charging us dough to take part in what is a pretty cool site. There may very well be some moderator that's a bit full of himself occasionally, but on the whole BZ is well worth taking part in. I'm sorry the guy whose input you admired got pissed off and quit. There's still a lot of worthwhile commentary here that's useful for a lot of guys too.

Well said. I simply don't understand it either. Our system of Government depends on citizens exercising their right/privilege to vote. If we don't vote, how can we be officially "heard"? Complaining doesn't help. Becoming involved, taking part in government is what helps. All elections are important, and these days, the local/State elections are even more important. No political party offers a panacea of making everything perfect, but if we don't participate, who are we to bitch if we can't be bothered to vote? A vote can be a positive gesture or a negative one, and both are legit. Vote for someone you like, vote against someone who had demonstrated enmity to what you hold dear, but at least do one or the other. I don't get it either ...

We might have to MOVE there, given the political situation in the US.

Really ??? As once said on screen in Casablanca - "I'm shocked ... shocked" Thanks for the great line, Claude,

Men are men. Due to where we (meaning, our ancestors) happened to be born, some of us are pale, some of us aren't, but we're all the same, despite what area of the globe our ancestors came from. We wear differently shaded skin, but underneath the degree of melanin, we're all the very same. There are simpering queens who's ancestors lived south of the Equator, and butch, bull-Cocked men from the same area. There are simpering queens who's ancestors lived north of the Equator with the same variations. We are all men (on this site, gay, and rawfuckers), and the degree of melanin in one's skin is as important as whether we wear a black shirt or a white one. It's just not relevant to our humanity. So what on earth does it matter what color a man's "shirt" is? When all is said and done, we're men that fuck each other, and that's that. Ditch the grievous errors of the past, and embrace the better parts of ourselves. What it boils down to is the fact that the Caucasian Nations industrialized farther and faster than the rest of the world. The constant and pressing need for new sources of raw materials forced these Nations to steal the resources of other areas of the world, and thus began the foul notion that the Caucasian Nations were "supposed" to colonize the world, according to the wishes of their "God". And thus began the pretense of relieving their guilt, since their clerics, dolled up in their long dresses, ruby slippers, fancy hats, insincerities, indulgences, lies, the whole rotted mess, told these Caucasian nations it was God's will. Thus, the force of their more advanced killing power forced the system of Colonization upon equally intelligent, equally productive, equal in every way except industrialization into a lesser status, for the greed and enrichment of those Caucasians. The only possible purpose of said colonization of said non-Caucasian nations is, of course, the rape of their natural resources, which tragically included the subjugated inhabitants themselves. So what possible connection is there to who we fuck, here and now? How do the inhumanities of our ancestors require us to continue this moral rot? Tops: Breed in every Hole you can, and be thrilled to do it, regardless of the amount of melanin in the skin. Bottoms, take every raw Cock and load you can, and thrill to the sensation of the loads being pumped up your gut, regardless of the amount of melanin in it's skin. It's the sharing, the connection, the thrill of sharing wanton sex, Lust-driven sex that's important. But there is hope. The world is changing fast, and the Caucasian nations are only just beginning to reap their whirlwind. Those descendants are only beginning to pay the price for their privilege, centuries too late, but then the piper sometimes takes his time about coming to be paid. The piper always does show up eventually, doesn't (s)he? The "Moral Arc of the Universe"* is excruciatingly long, but there can be no question that it does indeed bend towards Justice. *MLK jr.

Good suggestion; they're tiny, and could easily be inserted into a small cube of cheese, for instance, or a grape, or anything else. or just gulped down with a swig of beer - "root" or "real" ...

When I started to have sex with other guys, there was no other way - nobody used condoms, except a handful of guys that had fetishized using them. 99% of guys fucked raw. Of course, this was before hiv arrived on the scene.

Same here. If I travel away from home, I fukkin expect a decent bed, a toilet and a shower - at the very least.

I was a Cub Scout too (and my mom was "Den Mother" 😒), as soon as Webelos came along (I'd forgotten all about it until Ellentonboy jogged my memory), and it was sort of a introductory contrivance into the actual Boy Scouts. My mom had had enough, and I had experienced more than enough. I guess I'm not cut out to go camping, thank Whatever.

Which, I'm assuming, also includes the armaments industry - with the politicians pants down, bent over, spreading their cheeks to receive the shovels-full of money from the industry that is providing the equipment that's mowing down little kids in school, on and on, ad nauseum. Here in FL, our - I can't even describe him as an actual governor - is busy restricting books, endorsing hatreds of every kind and description, signing bills that allow the nutcases to carry guns without even obtaining a permit, every anti-social thing he can come up with. At least, his battles with Mickey Mouse aren't proving so successful - not quite yet, anyway ....

In some cases, particularly the more steeped in religious fervor they are, the reverse can be true here: "with my family, I could end up dead". It's either get out or be suffocated.

I'm probably around B+ to C-, #2. I don't shoot anywhere near as far as I could years ago though, but I still hear occasionally that they can feel it.

Once real love is experienced, I think every human being feels that way. I'm happy for you that's the case. "Alive" is as fine a descriptor as any.

When all is said and done, and considering the ease with which straight men can pick up women, a self-identified "straight" guy can call himself Santa Claus if he wants to while he somehow, mysteriously, inexplicably finds himself someplace where gay men are fucking each other. Look at what he does, pay no attention to what he says.

LOL ..... where was my mind ??? Of COURSE you're 100% correct !!!

The original post reflected straight women, and life-experience is what it is.

#1) Some may interpret the "dark" side as somehow unworthy, less-that whatever the side of "light" is, and I think that' a self-defeating notion. I realize there may be a bit of a language barrier, but know that you are one of the sons of Light, not darkness. All of us - every one of us - are that. #2) No, you are not "lying". You are protecting yourself from the judgements of others, and that's something only prejudice on the part of others derives from. So, protecting who you are, maintaining your privacy is hardly "a lie". Females are constantly on the prowl for guys to ensnare, and good for you for protecting who you are. You owe these girls exactly nothing. You reference the phrase "atm", which I assume is "at the moment". I would ask you to consider that the current situation is indeed "momentary", in the grand scheme of your life. One day soon, you will complete all the necessary requirements for certification, and be able to relocate to a larger, more accepting city where there are not relatives around every corner. It may seem like forever, but it isn't. Our sexual drive is a strong one, regardless of whether it's same-sex driven or opposite-sex driven. If you can have a bit more patience, my guess is you'll have boys/men lined up at your door, wherever you choose to relocate to. Taking regular "vacations" can help too. Breeding Zone can be a helpful resource, but the principal resource is your own determination to survive, conquer your studies, become a truly productive man, and get outta Dodge as soon as that comes to fruition. You have so much to offer ,,,, just try to wait a little longer until your life becomes your own, without all the expectations of others weighing you down. My best wishes to you, Marsian. Please reach out to us when you need to; every one of us is here to offer input for your success. #3) A good answer would be something along the lines of "I'm concentrating on my studies, building my career, and I'll let you all know when I decide to alter that fact. #4) Of course not !! While it's true that it can be more difficult to find the love of your live within the gay-world, it happens every hour of every day somewhere. It may be further compounded by the area you live in, which may (or may not, considering how your cousin feels when you find out what that is) be further inhibited by the "everybody knows everybody's business" construct, but that's something that can be endured. You're young, you have needs, but you're hardly the only guy with those needs: we are everywhere.

Any guy that doesn't must be subsisting on a diet of communion wafers ....

Excellent advice to get on PReP from numerous respondents. I concur 100%.

501's. Helps keep the laundry pile down. Summers, just the regular shorts. I like guys to look at my Cock, while they pretend not to.

Well done. Added to the official lexicon !!

I too regret to read about this inexcusable behavior, particularly in the fetish-wear shops. Here in the US, it's not difficult to watch the fetishization of what "attractive" is (or supposed to be), if one happens to own a tv and watch it occasionally. The loooong series of commercials in between segments of the actual program are filled with nothing but "pretty products", and are repeated constantly. Every conceivable kind of beauty creme, tooth-whitening product, represented by painfully skinny women, smiling, showing off for the camera, with rather little reason, the men with puffed and blown dry hair, wide self-satisfied smiles, peddling every kind of beauty product imaginable. Talentless actresses/actors peddling worthless products, all in the hopes of peddling what someone somewhere has declared miraculous. There's even one homely bitch lately who has invented a special deodorant specifically for assholes !!! I mean real ones - where last night's dinner exits from. Of course it's supposed to work from head to toe too. Regrettably, it seems people will buy almost anything if they think it might allow them into the prized "Beautiful People" crowd. It appears that bad manners has been one of the US's chief exports.