When You Let A Guy Bareback You,

[herenow46]

I think cumming in the ass is a given during bareback sex and cumming in the mouth is a given if giving a blow job. If the bottom does not want the cum it is up to him to specifically negotiate that up front. However, at this point in my life I say "Why the fuck would you not take the cum?" Now, I love the cum so much. If I don't get the cum the sex act feels incomplete.

 

When I first started taking raw cock I asked for the tops to pull out. I now see it was just a hesitant step toward allowing what I really wanted - kind of like when I first came out I was "bi-sexual" for a little while before I finally admitted to be being gay.

[Subbottom27]

I have recently learned to appreciate the spontaneity of great sex.  Especially as foreplay turns into barrier free insertion without a mention ever being made of whether a condom was expected or required.  Breeding sort of takes that spontaneity up a notch.  When a top is  unexpectedly fucking bareback he seems to emit an energy  that can be felt and as he gets close to cumming the energy is amazingly high and i love giving him that high.

[MarlboroPozChemPig]

I only trick with infected pigs who are into disease exchange so it's not just implied I want an internal jizzing...I spell it out publicly on basically all my profiles.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

As I said earlier, I'm to get cum at all times. I insist on him fucking his seed into me. So even he pulls out to jo it, I definitely want him to fuck it into my hole.

[BBPaulZA]

For me if Im sucking your cock, you can cum in my mouth. No permission required. If you're fucking my ass, you can cum in my ass. No permission required.

[Bubblebootie69]

if a guy is fucking me raw i assume he is going to shoot inside me , same with a blow job,after all thats what i want ...hehehe

[Guest Pwrfkme06]

If a guy grabs my ass and says he wants it he gets it

[TigerMilner]

I agree with the statement about not fucking raw if you aren't prepared to take his load. However, I disagree with the last sentence. The bottom is just as much a human being as the top. It IS about his pleasure also. And he does not give up his right to make decisions concerning himself. The top does not have the right to do whatever he pleases with a bottom unless that is agreed upon by BOTH the top AND the bottom. Bottoms are not mindless, empty beings put on this planet solely for the use of tops. In fantasy, that may be hot, but in reality it's not. I've seen too many fucked up minds in bottom men because they were used and disrespected by a top they have been with. I worry with this trend I see where guys are ok with just being a hole to fuck. What happens when the day comes when they are no longer found desirable by other men? They are going to feel that they are of no use to society and become extremely depressed. Maybe suicidal. Respect needs to go both ways. And I do say that respectfully.

I would like to clarify that my comment about not being a controlling little bottom was not meant to imply that bottoms should have no say nor be treated without respect.  You can be in control of yourself without being controlling.  You can even be in control of the situation without being controlling.  Although my own life does not really support that, I am not a controlling little bottom.  Maybe I should have said, "Don't be a little bitch."  That is what I meant.  In my opinion, guys who let a man fuck them raw but insist that he pull out are probably guilt-ridden control freaks.  And if they think they are protecting themselves against any kind of infection, they are wrong. 

[RWHID]

Nothing needs to be discussed with me because I hate condoms. I usually make it clear I want it raw in my ads, so they already know. If I don't it's really up to them. If they pull out a condom, so be it, if they don't, even better.

[Guest]

i dont make any assumption, it's up to the top whether they wanna cum inside or not. though my preference is to take a load inside...

[cam1972]

I would like to clarify that my comment about not being a controlling little bottom was not meant to imply that bottoms should have no say nor be treated without respect.  You can be in control of yourself without being controlling.  You can even be in control of the situation without being controlling.  Although my own life does not really support that, I am not a controlling little bottom.  Maybe I should have said, "Don't be a little bitch."  That is what I meant.  In my opinion, guys who let a man fuck them raw but insist that he pull out are probably guilt-ridden control freaks.  And if they think they are protecting themselves against any kind of infection, they are wrong. 

 

Now that I can get on board with. I agree.. If you are going to bareback, they need to accept the fact that infection can occur whether the guy pulls out or not. So let him unload inside you.. You are already 3/4 the way there.. Maybe 9/10's...

[bbbpmm]

If a guy slides into me bareback, I think it's implicit that I want him to cum in my ass. No discussion required.

[joethomas]

As a top, I pre-cum so much that even if I did pull out of a bottom before I cum, it accomplishes very little in terms of his protection. He'll already have taken much of my load anyway.

 

And as a bottom, early in my days as a barebacker: I once asked a top as he was pounding me to pull out, but I asked just seconds before he was ready to cum. He shot me an angry glare, pulled out and immediately shot on my chest, then promptly asked me to leave. I was mad initially, then later realized that I'd misled him by offering to bareback in the first place. Lesson here for bottoms: If you have the balls to start the job, then you better finish the job.

[seaguy]

Porn is a lot different to me. I have never had a top who could control his cum as they do. I did have a guy who did porn tell me this. They will fuck for a while. Then stop. Top jacks off till he cums on the add. Then he push it in when he gets hard. They edit it so it looks like all done a one time. It may actually take 5-10 mini between pulling out and. Cumming

It's called editing.  Often they might look like they are controlling themselves but the actual cum shot was edited in later because they did cum too early.  It's just as hard for them to keep from cuming as it is for everyone else.

But it's a major turn off when they shoot the load on people's backs or stomachs though. It's better when they shoot it right on the asshole and then shove it in. The best is still cuming inside and see the bottom's hole leaking with cum afterwards.

Totally agree if they pullout and then end up blowing it on the bottoms back or stomach its wasted and they might as well have used a rubber.  I would even add pulling out and shooting it in the bottoms mouth.  If that dick was in the bottoms as bare that is where the load belongs.  If it is not shot in the ass it should be pushed in after cuming on the bottoms hole and crack.

[drscorpio]

If a guy slides into me bareback, I think it's implicit that I want him to cum in my ass. No discussion required.

Bitter experience has taught me that you need to beg for that load inside you at least once. I have lost more loads onto my back than I care for. Too many bottoms are training tops not to shoot inside.