Anyone else like a soft cock when they fuck their bottom boy

[mnbare]

Was fucking this shaved smooth tight little latino boy, when I got to his place him and his buddy, also a tight latino guy, were both naked watching porn, playing with each other ass (as good btm boys should be). I joined in, they started sucking me and we played. at no time did my boys get hard. I fucked and filled em both, at no time were they hard. I love seeing my boys flacid cocks flop around as they beg to be filled.

 

I'v fucked a few guys who don't get hard, and i love it. Any times like a flacid btm boy? Any bottom boy stay soft? (why)

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Of course I stay soft. I am focused on my tops. It is why I also stay in jocks. And wear thongs. 

[Guest shybottomhole]

I almost always stay soft when getting fucked too.  One time years ago I stayed hard and the otter Top stopped fucking me, told me to jerk off -- which I did -- and scooped up my load to add it to my hole. As he resumed fucking me he told me that it's disrespectful for bottom boys to stay hard and I should learn to focus on His dick and nothing else. Next time he fucked me he said he was proud of me for staying soft. That bit of praise felt so good!

[NLbear]

3 hours ago, shybottomhole said:

I almost always stay soft when getting fucked too.  One time years ago I stayed hard and the otter Top stopped fucking me, told me to jerk off -- which I did -- and scooped up my load to add it to my hole. As he resumed fucking me he told me that it's disrespectful for bottom boys to stay hard and I should learn to focus on His dick and nothing else. Next time he fucked me he said he was proud of me for staying soft. That bit of praise felt so good!

Different tops, different likes. I usually get hard. Not always, but a skilled top gets me hard pretty easily or at least semi-hard. Some tops say it is a turn-on their fucking makes me hard. It proves their skills as a top and what they can do to me with their dick. Sometimes I stay soft but when he hits the right spot I start leaking pre-cum from my flacid dick. Feels amazing. Again, some tops are turned on by this, others don't like it when I get hard or start leaking cum but I can't help it. I know others here feel different about this but when a top makes me hard or cum by just fucking me those are the best sessions for me.

[Guest KptNLine]

16 hours ago, shybottomhole said:

I almost always stay soft when getting fucked too.  One time years ago I stayed hard and the otter Top stopped fucking me, told me to jerk off -- which I did -- and scooped up my load to add it to my hole. As he resumed fucking me he told me that it's disrespectful for bottom boys to stay hard and I should learn to focus on His dick and nothing else. Next time he fucked me he said he was proud of me for staying soft. That bit of praise felt so good!

When I first started having sex, I would get hard initially, when I was sucking cock for example. But I'd often lose my erection quickly when giving a blowjob. If I did keep it, as soon as a cock would go into my ass, I'd go soft. It wasn't that I didn't enjoy it, I have just always lost an erection rather quickly, and always during anal sex. When I first started having sex with my husband, this was simply "the norm" for us. It was just understood that I was probably going to be soft, despite being horny and turned on. I think an erection is partially physical (as evidenced by me sometimes getting hard when blowing a Man), but mostly psychological. 

For me, as a bottom (and a locked bottom at that), I want the focus of the sexual encounter to be on the Man I'm with. For example, if I'm blowing a Man, my locked cock tells him that it's okay to simply lie back and enjoy it. He doesn't have to worry about getting me off - and the truth is that I get off on that. In the beginning, my husband would sometimes try and play with my cock (before I was locked) as I would massage or blow him. Now, he simply lays back, puts his hands behind his head and lets me suck him. I suspect that the boys you played with are so accustomed to sucking cock and getting fucked, that they don't have a psychological drive to get hard anymore. Now if you played with their cocks, I suspect physiology would take over and they would get hard.

When I get unlocked now, I generally stay soft throughout the entire sexual encounter, which I like, and I have yet to find a Man who cares one way or the other whether I'm hard or not. My soft cock reaffirms that we're both going to experience pleasure from his cock. 

[ChainedBoy]

When I bottom, I tend to stay hard most of the time...it’s just how my body responds. Of course, I totally ignore my cock as my entire focus should be on the Fucker using me. I’ve attempted, off and on, to work on my dick control as I would like my dick to be soft and worthless to further show my submission; but that has eluded me this far.

When I top, I ignore the bottoms cock entirely and prevent him from touching himself throughout and after the fuck. For his pleasure should be derived from my satisfaction. At times, I will be generous and allow the bottom to stroke himself to cllimax - that is if the mood strikes me.

Do I prefer fucking a soft dicked bottom? I’m starting to, yes.

For awhile I would say I didn’t care either way as I would ignore it anyway. But over time, I have really started enjoying watching a bottoms soft dick jiggle around on his belly...his entire focus thus being on his boypussy pleasing my cock.

[Cumjunky215]

My fb for the last few years broke me from getting hard while he fucks me.  He'll suck and kiss me and I start getting aroused but he made it clear he liked my dick soft when he's plowing me.  It starts to deflate now when he gets my legs on his shoulders, and a few times I start humming while soft from his fuck.  But it's all about me being bred and pleasing his dick.  Fine with me.

[Ozpig]

My ex taught me that I was never to get hard when he or other tops fucked me. He told me it was my job to concentrate on my tops - not on my own sex and I came to understand that. He often would put on a lesther glove and masturbate me until I came then use my seed as lube for his cock or for th tops he had invited over to fuck me. I was often caged during gangbangs so I could not get hard. It worked for me as I almost always stay soft now and just am totally addicted to being fucked and bred. 

[Guest Memphian]

I'm always hard when sucking cock or getting fucked.  Most tops seem to like it, as it proves how much I love their cocks.  I don't' touch it or pay any attention to it because I'm all about his cock.  One top made me cum in missionary with no touching and that really turned him on.  It was weird.  It felt like an orgasm but there was no real ejaculation.  

One black regular I had would always comment on how hard my "clit" was and he would make me jack into my hand and eat it after he had put his load in me.

[Guest FinalDL2021]

On ‎11‎/‎18‎/‎2017 at 7:49 PM, Guest shybottomhole said:

I almost always stay soft when getting fucked too.  One time years ago I stayed hard and the otter Top stopped fucking me, told me to jerk off -- which I did -- and scooped up my load to add it to my hole. As he resumed fucking me he told me that it's disrespectful for bottom boys to stay hard and I should learn to focus on His dick and nothing else. Next time he fucked me he said he was proud of me for staying soft. That bit of praise felt so good!

I am always hard, and precuming, while I am being fucked by a guy. mostly its involuntary, due to the intense sensations, brought on by this experience. The other side of it, is years of Heterosexual conditioning, and that being hard in the bedroom with a women, is a must. I would like to find a way to get my dick soft, or at least partially soft, while I am getting fucked, it would be the ultimate in becoming feminized.

[tallslenderguy]

1 hour ago, Futile2Resist said:

I am always hard, and precuming, while I am being fucked by a guy. mostly its involuntary, due to the intense sensations, brought on by this experience. The other side of it, is years of Heterosexual conditioning, and that being hard in the bedroom with a women, is a must. I would like to find a way to get my dick soft, or at least partially soft, while I am getting fucked, it would be the ultimate in becoming feminized.

i think this is a fasinating topic.  To me, an erect penis is a sign of arousal.  i spent a large part of my life married to a woman and never once had any issue getting erect, indeed, it was ridiculously easy.  But i haven't been with a woman since 2008 when i divorced from my wife.  i've had the opportunity, but no interest.   Like your self though, my psychology with men is totally different. "Conditioning" is a curious word... maybe combined with how we're wired? i'm almost exclusively bottom, and ideally don't want to use my penis. i do, i edge a lot and eventually cum, but psychologically i'd love the kind of relationship where my orgasm was in the hands of a Top, controlled, caged.  i love the idea of a Top controlling my orgasm and by Him wanting me totally cock receptive.  Nowadays, the things that get me erect are Tops who are ass obsessed, who need or want to breed and are not interested in my penis. Or even better, are interested in purposely minimizing my penis.  For me, it emphasizes the opposite dynamic of the relationship.  i've had some Top/Dom guys refer to my penis as a "clit," which makes it hard as a rock. They don't miss a beat when it does smiling and acknowledging my "engorged clit."  i'm not the least bit feminine, but get hugely turned on by a Top who feminizes me (seems you do too?).  

If a guy shows interest in my penis as a 'cock,' i can't get hard to save my life.  i confess there are times when i see a soft, smooth boy ass and sometimes wanna breed it, but cannot get hard even if i try.  This was never a problem in the past, and it's totally psychological, because i physically have no problem getting hard. If that same boy looks at me and says: "you can't breed me with your fag seed, you're going to take my cock and seed."  Well, just sitting here in the air port writing that made me rock hard.  

When i get fucked now, i am soft. If i think i wanna use my penis to penetrate, i stay soft.  Any talk of me getting penetrated or bred, i get hard and as soon as it starts, i get soft. If a top goes for my penis, it goes soft.  For me, it's all psychological. 

[find91]

Honnestly, soft or hard I really don't matter because your dick is irrelevant to me. The only time I would care are bottoms that jerk off and nut before me and can't get fucked. But if a bottom is soft during fuck or hard their hole usually tells me if they are liking it. And the moaning helps too LOL

[find91]

On 11/19/2017 at 12:33 AM, NLbear said:

Different tops, different likes. I usually get hard. Not always, but a skilled top gets me hard pretty easily or at least semi-hard. Some tops say it is a turn-on their fucking makes me hard. It proves their skills as a top and what they can do to me with their dick. Sometimes I stay soft but when he hits the right spot I start leaking pre-cum from my flacid dick. Feels amazing. Again, some tops are turned on by this, others don't like it when I get hard or start leaking cum but I can't help it. I know others here feel different about this but when a top makes me hard or cum by just fucking me those are the best sessions for me.

Perfectly put. I'm top but some tops really need to get over themselves. I like to be pleased but everyone is different and have different bodies. Like you said, some guys get hard while they fuck while others stay hard, most of the times the bottom doesn't have much control over it ( unless they do chastity training but again not all bottoms are into that. There's a point where no amount of external validation will solidify your ego if you aren't actually confident in your skill.

[coastalbender]

I have always stayed soft while getting fucked. A couple of tops have asked, and I tell them the truth: I love the feel of cock inside me so much that I don't care about my own. It just turns mine off so I can give 100% of my attention to their cum.

[Guest]

I love it when bottoms are hard.  I read what so many bottoms here are saying, but it just SEEMS like they're more into it if they're hard.  I recently reconnected with a bottom buddy after he was gone "dating" someone for 3 years.  I used to just do "ass up" pump n dumps on him, usually in a jock.  I never paid attention to his cock, and it seemed like he preferred it that way.  This time around it's more full on sex, which is definitely my preference!!  We now always start making out as soon as he comes in the door....by the time I start taking his clothes off and pushing him down to his knees his monster uncut cock is rock hard every time.  I'm vers and it kinda kills me that he's a total bottom.  I still gag it down my throat some before I turn my attention to his bubble butt, and I'm pretty sure he likes it.  Each time I've fucked him this go-around he's been naked and rock hard - never touching himself till after I've bred him.  Then he keeps riding my cock after I cum and jacks himself off.  Last time I scooped his load up and shared it making out..  I get that some pigs are collecting loads and going for quantity.  If a bottom keeps their cock trapped in a jock or other clothes (or is just soft anyway), I take the clue and just breed and go!  But I LOVE if they're hard and even better if they cum!