What Do They Call You When They Don't Know Your Name?

[ErosWired]

One fond memory I have from a few years ago is of a Top calling his friend to come fuck me. When the friend arrived, my back was to them, and the guy came over to me and got right down to business without a word. He did a very thorough job, too, and shot a fucking flood, and then I collapsed onto my back and he onto his haunches and we both took deep, satisfied breaths.

"Hi, I'm Chris," he said.

It struck me as terribly funny then, and still does. Fuck the fucking fuck out of me first, introduction afterward. And I don't mind one bit. Anymore, half the time I don't get an introduction at all, if I even see a face in the first place. That's okay, too. I really am just a cunt.

But lately, with those guys who either spend some time at me, or who come back for seconds or thirds, I have noticed that even if a first-name introduction does occur as a formality, hardly any of them ever remember it. Instead, when they need to use a name to address me, they just use "Handsome."

First of all, I dispute this vigorously as a descriptive term applied to me, unless they simply mean "not balding" or "not hideous" or "not toothless" - all of which could be the case.

I mention this because it's a term that has popped up more frequently than "Daddy" - my dislike of which I have written of elsewhere but which I have never actually expressed to anybody personally - or "Buddy" or "Dude" or even "Man".

What do guys call you in those moments non-heat-of-the-fuck moments when they don't know your name? In BDSM scenes and relationships, I'm sure that the traditional conventions of Master, Sir, Boy, Slave, etc. are observed; I'm more asking about vanilla-world situations. I'm interested in knowing whether men call other men "Handsome" as a default, because it's a low-risk compliment that can be levied even if you know nothing at all about the other guy besides what his ass feels like on the inside, or because it's safe across age lines, or for other reasons. Is this common? Is it so common for the word to have lost significance in the context?

 

I know, I think way too much. Still, if you have an answer...

[Guest btchbyl]

i get called different names. slut, cunt, used whore, bitch, sperm bank, dude, jizz bucket, pocket pussy are some of them. 

[deadaccount]

I remember back in my more vanilla days I arranged an anonymous meet up at a cruising ground during the day and was sat down smoking when this hot guy dog walker who I wasn’t sure was the guy or not cruised me. My handle at the time was slut1980 and he walked past about four times and finally came over and said ‘cumpig’ I said fuck yeah and was on my knees in no time. 

That’s where I got my name from although I’m nowhere near vanilla anymore?

[Willsuck4cum]

I get Guy, Bud/buddy, Bro, the occasional dude. I grew up on a farm so it’s like a flashback when they call me Guy....little do they know I used to answer to that nickname growing up

[SubFFboy]

I use "Hey mister" or "Hey handsome" if I can't remember (or was never told) their name and they aren't a Dom.

I always do my very best to remember whether to call someone Sir, Master, Daddy or Boss as each dominant top I've had the fortune to serve has his own requirements around what he is to be called and how he will address me. However, my memory is extremely bad, so sometimes I will ask again and I will gladly take whatever punishment is required for forgetting.

If I'm asked, my preference is to be called "boy", and you don't need to pay for my therapy to work out why.

 

[Guest AmbertheTG75]

Either sissy slut or bitch or cum whore lol

[Guest MorganStar]

babe...

or bitch

[Ozpig]

My ex  called me "his cumpig" and most of the tops both regular and casual call me names like "slut" "pig" "whore" - all of which I love. They suot me better than my real name anyway

[phukhole]

I'm usually called something more role-fitting. I will often get "hot fucker", or "piggy fucker" or just "yeah, fucker". Sometimes I'll get "cutie" or "sexy" or some non-committal label.  Sometimes, I'll be called "pussy" or "faggot" or "bitch" - those are mostly guys who think they're alphas (but usually aren't).  I love hearing "fuckhole", so it's become my moniker, of sorts.  It fits and is easy to remember - especially when you've just shot your load in my hole. The action reinforces the name, which suggests the action, which reinforces the name... ?

[Guest BBBoyfromTN]

I usually get "guy" or "buddy" if I get anything at all. Sometimes bro or dude. I usually use guy or buddy myself. Most of the sex I have is anon and even with guys I've hooked up with multiple times I don't really know their names. And who knows if the names they give me are legit or not? I give out a different name with tricks who ask. That way when I get a random text I know it's for sex. One of the guys I hook up with regularly does the same thing...he hustles/escorts and doesn't want people calling him by his real name. I've had a lot of guys call me pig, slut, whore, etc while fucking me too...that's cool too.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

8 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

I usually get "guy" or "buddy" if I get anything at all. Sometimes bro or dude. I usually use guy or buddy myself. Most of the sex I have is anon and even with guys I've hooked up with multiple times I don't really know their names. And who knows if the names they give me are legit or not? I give out a different name with tricks who ask. That way when I get a random text I know it's for sex. One of the guys I hook up with regularly does the same thing...he hustles/escorts and doesn't want people calling him by his real name. I've had a lot of guys call me pig, slut, whore, etc while fucking me too...that's cool too.

I usually get something similar too. However, I’ve been called “boy,” “bitch,”and “slut” too. I’ll answer to anything if I’m being bred.

[Guest HornedBottom]

I get pig a lot “ that’s it Pig take my cock” “You like that don’t you, Pig”

a few times I’ve gotten calked “Faggot”  and “Slut”

[Guest Givemeyourload06]

faggot

[crawford912]

On 5/20/2018 at 10:55 AM, Givemeyourload06 said:

faggot

I'm a big fan of 'faggot' lately. but I'm also used to being called whore, slut, cumpig... and many others walking down the street. I love them all. 

If there's going to be an introduction when it comes to a sexual partner, i'd rather it come after he cums... I feel like i'll have a slightly better chance of retaining it if I can associate it was a positive memory? But I have an even better chance if a friend was in control of the situation (whoring me out), and remembers who he's had fuck me. If find they're typically more coherent, and really... think about all the guys who've fucked in your life... it's A LOT, right? how the fuck can you be expected to keep track. 

Just call the tops something that praises them, and degrade all the bottoms with something like faggot, and you're all set.

[Guest perverthomoslave]

I've only gotten called faggot before, but I'm ok with any degrading term