BBRT where you live... Good or bad?

[PIGTONIGHT]

in FL, its a good consistent option

in KS, its a few chatters, no connections yet

I travel a lot, and it is still probably the best overall site for actual hookups

[Loveitraw]

One thing I've found after using multiple sites over the last few years is that they are largely similar. The same guys crop up often with mostly similar profiles. And the same local density never really varies.

There are timewasters and flakes on all of them. This has always been true and its sad to say that if you want to use these sites, unless you happen to be an actual porn star, be prepared to be ignored and messed around.

There are enough genuine, and quite nice, guys out there to make it worthwhile but it does take patience. This is especially true as all communication through these apps is stilted. So messages can go back and forward over several hours before any real connection can be made.

Unfortunately its also true that these apps cater to the selfish drive in us. What do I want? What can I get? Because we are looking for what we want its easy to overlook the What can I give? What am I bringing? side of things. We're all a mess of mixed up wants and needs and sometimes you just have to be a bit flexible.

TL;DR Timewasters - it will happen

Broaden your horizons.

Be patient.

Try to be kind, or at least polite.

[RawNerdUK]

I just use it to window shop, as I am not of interest in to the guys on there where I am... They want super buff super piggy guys.

[Johnjohn]

I've been with BBRT for a number of years but I've never had much luck. It seems that if you are older than 40 and not gifted with extreme good looks and a sculpted body then you don't stand a cat in hell's chance of hooking up with anyone.

[RawNerdUK]

8 minutes ago, Johnjohn said:

I've been with BBRT for a number of years but I've never had much luck. It seems that if you are older than 40 and not gifted with extreme good looks and a sculpted body then you don't stand a cat in hell's chance of hooking up with anyone.

Yeah that is where I faii too... Too old, not hung enough and not buff enough..

Us 'Uglies' need sex too lol

[Loveitraw]

3 minutes ago, Johnjohn said:

I've been with BBRT for a number of years but I've never had much luck. It seems that if you are older than 40 and not gifted with extreme good looks and a sculpted body then you don't stand a cat in hell's chance of hooking up with anyone.

I do mostly agree with you here. I've had some luck with BBRT, more with other sites. TBH my first rule is read the profile thoroughly and not just because I want to see whether we'll match. The first thing I consider a red flag is when the profile preferences wouldn't include the person posting it. If they wouldn't choose themselves why would anyone else?

No pics = pass

Generic porn pics (as in copied from another source) = pass

No answer in a reasonable time or just ghosting = block.

Its a process and you have to look after yourself as much as possible.

You have to do a lot of shucking before you find a pearl.

[VersGuyAnon]

I've had virtually no luck at all. 

Edited March 8 by VersGuyAnon

[RawNerdUK]

Starting to think I should delete me account on there and other places... Become a Nun lol

[DJ2023]

BBRT is totally redundant for me!

[Man4manplay]

I'm from San Juan Puerto Rico here works for tourist mostly that come for vacation and want some local ass, but other than that not that popular. So if you are in town and want to breed an ass let me know

[LetsPOZBreed]

I gotta say, London has become quite dead on there for the most part.

Sure, you get the party listings (the same hotel for each of them) and the guys on there that I'd want to play with only sign up for those - it's not my scene anymore.

So, yeah.  I've occasionally gone to the saunas and got some play, but I want a good passionate rough-n-tumble 1 on 1.  That's just not something I'm able to find anymore.

[Njn0mc]

South Carolina is bad.. only one and was fake

[Guest]

Nobody wants to play. Not just on BBRT, but Squirt, A4A, Sniffies, and Doublelist, are all duds. Have had some success on Grindr, but mostly not.  Free raw ass is being given away and either I get flakes or no response. Very few guys in my area. Either have to look around Baltimore or Philly and for me that's a huge pain in the ass. Don't want to drive an hour just for a hookup.

[marriedsub]

Can't say there's a lot of activity on BBRT, CuriosChaser, NKP, or Sniffies over here in Sweden.

[JamesL100]

Meanwhile at the other end of the interest scale, a cumdump in a hotel gets 50 or even 100 'attendees' yet neither he nor the tops post anywhere how cum-tastic the event was?