advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀

[Falls727]

I would tell myself to completely whore myself out to any man who wanted to fill me up; to never use a condom and live raw; to party more; to move out of that tiny village much sooner; and, to tell myself to forget the guilt associated with religion! It was used as a tool for mind control. Live your life to the fullest and never have any regrets!!!

[BadStoneZA]

"Grow a pair and get on the apps, you are ok looking enough for a good chunk of dudes to totally want to fuck you."

[ffWhole]

On 3/3/2024 at 6:54 PM, ffWhole said:

Yes when I left my country when I was 21... take the sexual oportunities that were presented to you with a lot more kinky confidence, never go back home... keep traveling and buy all the BTC in 2010/11

And fuck the women but for Gods sake... don't fall in love...
Stay single and safe yourself from a nasty divorce and a lot of pain.
Forget friends and family... forget materialism... 
Memories are the best thing nobody can take from you. Travel ! ! !
Be, and stay the Nomad...

Adapt quicker and sooner to become the cum addict you care to be now.
Life to the fullest and hardest you can.

[drm1234]

I replied to this thread earlier but I've since thought of a specific incident that happened to me years ago that if I could go back, I would give myself some advice.  I was out cruising one night when I was in my early 20s (I'm 60 now) and got picked up by this total silver daddy driving a 1960s Chevy Impala.   We went for a ride and he found a quiet spot where we parked and I gave him a blow job.  After I swallowed his load, I sat up and started to undo my pants.  He looked at me and shook his head no.  I don't remember if I said anything but I remember being really pissed that he wouldn't reciprocate.  I doubt I said anything rude to him but I'm pretty sure I sulked like a spoiled little boy until he dropped me off.  

If I could go back and give myself some advice, I would tell me to stop acting like a spoiled little brat, thank the man for his sweet load and offer to do it again any time he wanted it.  I know now that the purpose of giving another man a blow job is not to get one yourself, but to use my mouth to give the most pleasure that i can.  And that my reward is not getting my cock sucked, but getting a load in down my throat.   

[hntnhole]

Have the wherewithal to listen to myself and start earlier .... 

(and I really should have kicked that withered old cunt Lily Swanson in both shins that time after Sunday School - not just one - but I was only 5 or 6 years old, so ......)

[BlueSaphir]

I would say have more confidence and be more open about your sexual journey.  Be more proactive with sexual health by staying on Prep. 

[VivienCumSlut]

4 hours ago, BlueSaphir said:

I would say have more confidence and be more open about your sexual journey.  Be more proactive with sexual health by staying on Prep. 

What made you stop using prep?

[Olderkinkybiguy]

I’d tell my teenage self that social conformity is counter productive to ones happiness. No matter what they tell you, deviant behavior is not a mental illness. Success is not a suitable replacement for emotional connections and sexual gratification. People lie. acquaintances are not friends. Mistakes are not failures. Their are reasons why things feel good; do more feel good things. Age has momentum. Decide likes and dislikes from experience, not beliefs. Never trust a fart. When others tell you it won’t hurt, it probably will. A slut is just someone having more sex than they are; be proud you stand out. In the end, it’s not about how much you have, but how much you did. 

[BlueSaphir]

5 hours ago, VivienCumSlut said:

What made you stop using prep?

I never used prep. I didn’t think contracting HIV would be possible in a rural area. Let alone I was afraid to even ask about when I was covered in my family health insurance plan via dad employer.