advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀

[Willing]

34 minutes ago, PozBearWI said:

Would he have had you asked him?

I think so 😵, he caught me jerking off once,  he walked in and I was giving it hell,  he smiled and backed out and shut the door,  always wanted it to be that he just walks in and smiles and shut and lock the door 😵

[PozBearWI]

Whatever he did or didn't do would have been the right thing.  Clearly he decided to give you space; it would have been up to you to approach him for further dialogue.  

[BlindRawFucker1]

Take advantage of the sexual opportunities I had while in junior high and high school.

 

Enjoy being a young, gay, horny boy.

 

Missed sexual opportunities are at the top of my life’s regrets.

 

Who knows where I’d be today, but those regrets wouldn’t be haunting me during sleepless nights.

[hornyirish]

Cheating happens - all men are whores.

Don't hold grudges - find another top or bottom to enjoy as soon as possible.

Develop a range of fuckbuds - it's not likely one man can satisfy all your needs + cravings. 

Travel as much as possible, while men are the same the world over there are local flavours / looks that are worth experiencing.

Never use condoms.

Stop jerking off - sex is better with at least one other person involved........

 

 

[Erik62]

That would need to go somewhere into the deepest & darkest BOWELS of the BACKROOM 🤣🤣🤣. 

[POZLOADTAKER]

Do everything everyone told you not to do. 

[will_zeis23]

Take every opportunity with your cousins. Hook up with guys in school. One of your friends is gay and a great way to start real expeiences. Stay active and don't be afraid to hookup. 

[Erik62]

On 2/17/2025 at 7:25 AM, hntnhole said:

Have the wherewithal to listen to myself and start earlier .... 

(and I really should have kicked that withered old cunt Lily Swanson in both shins that time after Sunday School - not just one - but I was only 5 or 6 years old, so ......)

As a gay man coming out in the early 80's, I would recommend not being so cautious. This was a time of free sex, chem experimentation, leather clubs & travel to the cities of whatever kind of sex a gay man seeks. For better or worse, I would say jump into experimenting with all kinds of sex & drugs.

  Be A WILD, DIRTY COCK HUNGRY SEX PIG, SLAM & EXPLORE YOUR LIMITS. 

Edited April 28 by Erik62

[Westlonlad]

Don't leave The Hoist in Vauxhall early on that summer night in 2001. It was just a bottle of poppers...

[BBTV6]

Having already dressed up in female attire for the first time at the age of 13, I realized how nice it is to be a woman and should have followed through, still as a teenager, with full male-to-female (MTF) sexual reassignment surgery (SRS) to replace my cock and balls with a vagina, then to live on with a good approximation of a female body, which I wish I could have had at birth.

The only downside: I would lack certain well-known typical female chacteristics and experiences, but otherwise feel quite fulfilled as a woman. I would enjoy no-meds anal, oral and vaginal sex, one after the other, prereably anal and vaginal, or even all three simultaneously, with three sexual partners taking turns in each hole. I would have been a completely uninhibited female whore and wouldn’t want to be paid for the sex I give men.

Admiring women, I would also have been a nice, sweet lesbian girl and woman right from the beginning with lovely, passionate sex and love-making among like-minded females, without pregnancy risks to consider.

 

[hntnhole]

10 hours ago, Erik62 said:

in the early 80's

I've been criticized for repeating stuff from previous posts, so I won't do that here. 

That said, "in the early 80's" I was in grad school.  Had started fucking guys a decade prior, the summer before undergrad.  Thus, I started as early as I could in that village (but actually a fairly large city)  I called home, as soon as I was outta high school.  

Edited April 28 by hntnhole
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