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Choking is breath play-- but is really impact play? I wonder.... love being on the receiving and the giving end of breath play, but only if it's hands on...I don't consider it wise to use a belt....

I’ve been diagnosed poz for 10 years. Past 2 years, I’ve probably only taken about 8 bottles (8 month worth) of my HIV meds (Dovato). I went for my regular bloodwork and everything came back normal, including my lymphocyte subset panel and HIV came back undetected. I’m wondering if even need to take HIV meds?

I couldn’t have said it any better. I wear a jock to let tops know my ass is available for their pleasure.

While I have been having sex with men for a number of years as part of my open marriage it was usually at bathhouses or online hookups. My wife and I split up earlier this year. I had been talking to a guy online for a few weeks and he asked me out on a date. I have never been on an actual date with a guy. We went out last Saturday and had a great time. We went back to his place and one thing lead to another and we were in his bed having sex. Afterwards I fell asleep in his arms. When I woke up in the morning he had his arm around me. I dozed for a bit but woke up again to him kissing my neck. I pushed my butt back into him and he started grinding into me. I rolled over, shimmied down and started sucking on his cock to get him hard. Then he proceeded to fuck me. Overall an amazing night with dinner, two loads in me and a number of new experiences.

Near Home—May, 2024 I was still horned after my Friday afternoon of fun, detailed in the last post. But I had a work gig that kept me from playing on Saturday and Sunday. But it didn’t prevent me from setting up some dates. I arranged a time on Wednesday with the married bear who is such a good cocksucker. He was excited to come back to the playroom. I also made a date with a brand-new guy, a younger man. He was looking to me to work on opening his very tight hole and to be introduced to piss play. That was for Thursday. And here I was on Monday horned and in need. I went to the bookstore. I rarely went on a Monday. I had no idea if there would be anyone there. But even some good porn would work. So, off I went… The parking lot is sparsely filled. I consider turning around and going home. But I go in. As usual, I head to the straight theatre first. My cocksucker’s chair is taken by the one man in the theatre. He’s white, late 40’s to early 40’s, in decent shape. He is totally ignoring the porn and is scrolling through his phone. And answering the annoying ping of incoming texts. I sit to the side and open my fly. The porn is talky. I have been here for 10 minutes and they are still ‘acting’ up there on the screen. I wait it out. It goes on for another good five minutes. And when the sex starts, it’s a girl-on-girl scene. I look over at the guy on his phone. He has never even acknowledged I’m in the room, so I do myself up and go next door. No one is here. The porn is very twinkish—but at least there are some dicks and asses on the screen. I watch. My cock is semi-hard. When a cute blond begins licking a barely legal otter’s ass, my cock finally stands up. The door opens. A white man, likely in his 50’s comes in. He looks like he is using the theatre as a way to get off the streets. His clothes are filthy, his beard is unkempt and there is that sour smell of old body odor. “You want my ass?” he asks, the moment he sees me. I shake my head. “I love to suck…” He steps closer to me. The smell is overpowering. I do up my fly and excuse myself. I go back to the straight theatre. The guy is still engrossed in his phone. On the big screen television, the female couple simulate their orgasms as I sit down. The next sequence also has an interminable set-up scene, but at least it’s a young man and a young girl. They finally start to have the most white-bread sex you can imagine. This is porn you take home to the wife. The only good thing about the scene is that the guy shoots fast—and the video ends. I go out and tell the clerk to change the disc. She nods. The guy I thought might be homeless is also at the counter. He’s buying a sex toy. I go to the bathroom, piss and go back to the new video. I can’t believe it. I have actually seen it here. And it is another one where they act for a very long time before anything happens. I don’t even sit. I glance at Phone Guy (still at it) and check in next door. The unkempt guy is opening his purchase. I can’t see what it is, as his body is in the way, but I hear the hard plastic packaging being ripped open. I beat a hasty retreat. I cruise the racks of movies. I get points towards a purchase with every dollar I spend here. I often use the accumulated points to purchase porn. Nothing is calling me today. I also check the parking lot. Empty but for our four vehicles. I go back to the straight side. They are now having sex on the screen. I open my fly, but my cock is barely hard. I work him up a little. Phone Guy pays no attention at all. Whoever he is chatting with is one of those people who sends the text every sentence. The ding of incoming texts is constant—faster than he can answer them. I stop. I put my dick away. There is a loud crash next door. A metal chair has likely been tipped over. I get up. I hear the door bang. I go out and around. The gay theatre now reeks. It’s empty but for the packaging strewn on the floor. And a pink dildo covered in….well, you know. I walk out of the room. Out of the store And start my car. I should have stayed home… The original is here: From My Side of the Sling: Cell Phones and Sex Toys May 192024

For me, wearing a jock or assless underwear is my invitation to whomever to fuck my ass in a hallway or darkroom of a bathhouse. I never liked wearing a towel if I'm in a bathhouse to have sex. Walking around in a towel is way too much work. You want easy access. WOOF!

Great post thanks- Gargling with peroxide is even better

Love pee, especially mixed with sperm. The sight, smell and taste is intoxicating.

So they're really going to have to retire the phrase "World Wide Web"

Best ABS that I was a regular sucker at was down the road from all the bars and strips clubs so tons of blue balls coming in. THe clerk would let me stay in the end booth without paying as long as I swallowed him first. After a few weekends I started to recognize some of the cocks coming in. I started saying my first name and I guess guys started asking the clerk if 'Hugo' was working or not.

I run IT Operations for a large company. Most folks don't know the hard work that goes into keeping 'any' site running, patching stuff, upgrading stuff, testing stuff and keeping things secure. I truly appreciate the effort you put into providing us all with a safe place to talk about things that you just feel comfortable about asking/sharing with the community. For me, birthdays are an opportunity and celebrate living.... 15 is living pretty darn good. Hats off to you @ rawTOP

I'll be in Japan (Kamakura) in June. Looking to be severely used and turned out.

Very hot! Also looking for same. Andover, MA

Feeding a different hunger during his lunch break! Fucking HOT! Would love to do this every day!

Congratulations, rawTOP, and thank you! 🎉

The jockstraps probably are my article of clothing. The first adult man I ever saw naked was wearing a jockstrap and at that moment I became addicted. At one point I had over 250 jockstraps and I knew from whom most of them were taken. I love wearing a jockstrap. It shows off my ass. And anyone who knows me knows that I like to get fucked. But never take that to mean that I am a submissive bottom.

Link to the handstand ?

So guys walk around in a jock or assless brief exposing their ass but don't expect guys to think they want to get fucked? Yeah right....... 😉

Congratulations!! This has been my go-to site every day since I joined more than 10 years ago and it still is. Great topics from very sexual to very serious and everything in between. Up to the next Birthday! Kudos to the moderators too.

Somebody, please give that boy a sandwich with lots of protein.

Advice: Learn to love SMELLY cocks - they are the best!

I've always had the idea that wearing assless attire at a bathhouse or orgy was generally a good indicator that a guy was hoping to get fucked, I don't necessarily associate it with being a total bottom, and at least for guys who wear jocks tend to be pretty versatile pigs in those situations. Other forms of assless underwear does tend to indicate the wearer is mostly bottom, but I have found plenty of exceptions even to that. My issue is with local guys who bring an assortment of underwear to the bathhouse, and make circuits around the club in every pair. At least a handful of them have told me they had never heard of the association to assess attire and wanting to get fucked.

see .. some laws are good .. fucking good .. 😉

Hey all, I love using poppers in all senses. I know there are residual side effects, but does anyone have any remedies to get hard and stay hard and still be able to enjoy poppers. Obv if I use any ED meds, then Poppers are a no-go…