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Agreed. But, there are measures to be taken to remove the source of the ever-increasing meanness. One substantial measure comes up in just a few months .......

I've noticed that the line between aggression and Dominant skill in Tops has become more blurred as well. For my money, there are too many men that enjoy Topping, but simply haven't learned their craft, and too many bottoms that will accept that deficiency. I blame - at least partially - or dependance on the ether to communicate, rather than in-person cruising (which can give each guy the opportunity to at least get some kind of idea what type of man the other is). While compu-cruising, or the fuckapps is easy, convenient, all of that, it's no match for in-the-flesh meeting, and a brief exchange can go miles farther than trying to get a feel for a guy via the electronic means. That way, there's no hiding behind some make-believe persona some guy has cooked up (or worse, convinced himself he's actually become the imaginary guy). Sometimes, "convenience" isn't all it's cracked up to be.

What is his screen name on BBRTS?

I totally get the "need for validation" aspect of it. Relate to that.

First, welcome, DanMac - we're glad you've joined up. To the quote above: That may be the case, but bear in mind that 1 in 12 males have some version of color vision deficiency, so depending on color(s) may not be all that reliable. For instance, I'm red/green, and had to learn to look for which light on a traffic light was actually lit up, rather than what color it was. I could always see the yellow one though. And, I can't recall seeing polka dots at all - regardless of preferred sexual depravity or position. Maybe it's a special "Aussie" thing? Most things about Aussie's are rather special anyway .....

Younger guys are sold the idea online that sex is theirs to take - just read half the stories on this site (and I'm sure there's worse out there.) They have no reference for the difference between fantasy/play and real life. You say "Agressive encounters happen very often without being "consensual"." Well, that's rape when it happens in the real world.

I gotta say, I live for complements. Part of is a natural need for validation, but part of it is for genuine feedback. I'll always want to improve my service. I've joked about printing up some customer satisfaction surveys for afterwards. I certainly get off on a guy telling me I'm better at it than his wife or girlfriend. Or that my mouth feels better than her pussy.

Same fuckjoint as usual .... so far, it's never been a disappointment 😉

Some food for thought from a Brazil-fan (never been to carnaval though): 1. whenever I aimed for sex, it didn’t happen (expectations vs. reality) 2. carnaval is not matinee , it’s about letting go, yes but to have sex, you have to SHOW you are available … shy is not your friend, Brazilians don’t want to get harassed but flirting is key, otherwise they might judge us quickly as arrogant / cold hearted Europeans 😉 3. the action is NOT in Instagram-rich tourist places … if you want to see the real Rio, go in the dark streets 3.a and yes, most definitely, leave ALL valuables in the room! Do NOT bring your phone. WALK, explore, have some cash for a cab for the way home, no bling anywhere; just you and your horniness. I always have a „throw away smartphone“ with me that I could easily hand over if getting robbed. It only contains one credit card data and uber app and Google Maps. DONE. 3.b try become friends with Cariocas; the best sex I had in a Favela but I would never recommend anyone to go there at night by themselves - you won’t only loose your watch and wallet there … (whenever I go to suburbs - usually São Paulo - I go with people I met before and somewhat trust 😉 - they take me and bring me to a save spot where I can get an uber back home) 4. don’t accept any cock blocking behavior - this is Rio - leave egoism and jealousy at home. 5. the kissing is the „can he fuck“ test - if you fail there , nobody will wanna fuck with you. So don’t underestimate this challenge. 😉 6. to give you perspective: huge events like carnaval might increase pressure of „something must happen“ - I made the experience that off-season travels are my jackpot time: once in São Paulo , a hot breeder understood that I am a natural born cumdump and asked me if so would take ANY dick, if he takes care of me. I said yes… 4 hours later I was railed by a line up of men, cumloads dripping down my legs, dicks the size of kids arms , old and you, muscled bodybuilders and thin homeless - all loaded me up … I just happened to be a white slut being available (time, location and no competition that night were the formula 😉) 7. while saying all this and enjoying being a slut myself , let’s keep in mind they might be annoyed when tourists think they can just get what they want. At the end we all are human beings and maybe a cute flirt and some decent friendly behavior is exactly what will open the door for you to some little adventure 😈💦

Do you mean that guys carry different colored glow sticks to indicate what they're prowling for? I hope things haven't sunk to that - please please please say NO .....

Fuck that’s hot… got excited reading that. Most definitely love the slut life and being a total cock whore. I’ve accepted the risks and have experienced the consequences (STIs and other negative outcomes). I just can’t help myself. Like you, being a slut is what works for me and I’m satisfied with that choice.

I can't remember being asked at all. Not sure why; I think I look like any other guy in the fuckjoints - even back in Chgo I don't recall being asked, and around here, I'd be stunned if a guy would ask. It wouldn't surprise me if there were more poz guys than not at Slammer.