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I don't see any "reaction" doo-dad for "blush", so - - - here it is: Thanks for the kind words.

It's a shame as budding power-dynamic and BDSM curious guys don't have a place to go and learn the ropes. Its very hit and miss finding genuine folks online.

I agree coming to terms there are treatments and options to prevent it are huge phew 😮‍💨 factors for me they allow, atleast me, the ability for fun without much of the worry.

If I see a profile that says "safe/condoms only" I don't bother messaging first. If they reach out to me, my first response is "raw only". Because apparently a lot of guys don't bother to read profiles. Or profile names. LOL. In person, dudes rarely insist on condoms. But when they do, I tell them I am on prep, doxy etc, and I want them to fuck me raw. Only ever had to turn down a handfull of dudes that still insisted on condoms after that. And as it is, I don't feel any sort of way about refusing a top that wants to use condoms. It's just not a match for what I want and what they want. Not everyone like the same cup of tea! Simple as that!

To my mind, it's the fading of these specialized organizations into our history. There are rather few "act-specific" * clubs around anymore. It seemed to happen somewhat obliquely connected to the advent of online cruising, the fuckapps, all of that, with the accompanying "de-personalization" of cruising, That's merely my own observation however. *meaning, B/d clubs, S/m clubs, Leathersex clubs, etc, around anymore. The venues still are, obviously, but the personal membership, interaction with, being with, other men with like interests, is mostly gone.

Choking, roigh face fucking, hard fisting, spitting, slapping, ATM,... All these "kinks" are now mainstream, expected from bottoms, or imposed on them... That s how I feel. Once again, not a complaint.

This is DEF something I want to do... Have it filmed.... and share it here. I think I have a good look for it 😉

Really interesting question. Like most of the comments, I've noticed what seems to be a general shift toward rougher, more aggressive sexual behaviour, both in porn and in real life. Maybe one plays off and reinforces the other? Watching aggressive porn sets the standard that "this is the norm", it gets acted in real life, rougher porn then gets more views, driving more rough themed porn to be made, reinforcing that this is how sex should be? I'm a submissive bottom and enjoy a take-charge top (assertive, not aggressive as another poster commented) but limits need to be recognized and respected. I was in a situation similar to the OP a few years ago, a young aggressive top who went over my limits without asking, and I went along with it. Maybe by not stopping I helped reinforce the behaviour? As for causes? Maybe it's porn, maybe it's society becoming more self-centred to take whatever you want (easier to beg forgiveness than ask permission?). I'm not a saint or a prude, love a dominant top, but I've also noticed a trend toward rougher, more self-centred sex becoming the norm over the past 15-20 years.

Might be in the extreme minority, but I DESPISE silicone and petroleum based lubes. They work great and all because of the staying-power, but that's also the downside in my mind. For me, they tend to get EVERYWHERE and then everything is just oily and slick for the rest of the night! Once that happens, it's near impossible to get a grip on a wall or bed frame or anything to get leverage. Plus, if you are a bottom that likes to occasionally dig out a load or two from your hole for a taste (like I am), I want to taste that cum--not the lube that helped it get in there. And those lubes just stick around forever! Spit and cum are #1 lubes for me; water based lubes like the KY Gel lube in a desperate pinch. And flavored lubes belong in the trashcan!!!

Uncut. My cousin´s. Amazing cock.

Yes, I refuse Tops that want to use condoms. It's their right and choice to use condoms. They need to find another bottom. If we fuck, I want your load inside my ass.

Having a lot of fisting friends, I can say this is less an emergency alternative and more an old faithful standard! They didn't call it the "Crisco Disco" for no reason... 😉

This isn't the craziest or most exciting thing but its all true at least. So this older guy I meet up with from time to time came over to my cabin one morning and he brought a friend of his. I didn't know the guy but I trust my regular and group stuff is a fantasy of mine so it was cool. I was waiting for them on my knees in the living room with a beanie hat pulled over my eyes. They walked in, stood me up and complained that I was dressed. They helped me remove my shirt and sweat pants and proceeded to caress my ass, squeezing and slapping it and putting their fingers in my mouth. I went to my knees eyes covered opened my mouth and felt around with my tongue for their cocks. I could feel that they were surrounding me and I took turns sucking them hard. A minute or two later they helped me up and walked me over to the kitchen table. They had a board with straps at each end that was fastened to my ankles which kept my legs spread apart and then bent me over the table. They also put straps on both my wrists and used a rope attached to the wrist straps and wrapping across the table and under to attach to the ankle straps. So I was tied down bent over the table and couldn't get up. For the next couple hours they took turns alternating between my mouth and ass. Whenever they'd get close to cumming they'd stop and shove a vibrating dildo in my ass until they wanted to continue pounding my ass and throat. It went on and on and I could feely legs shaking and buckling from exhaustion and the restraints were at times the only thing holding me up. At some point they did untie me and take off the hat that was blinding me. They grabbed a short wooden foot stool and placed an 8in black dildo on it. They told me to squat over it and I could feel the tip of the dildo against my already sore throbbing hole. They told me I didn't have to worry about the dildo stretching my hole as long as I could hold that squat. But my legs were already worn out from being tied up so long and as I slowly weakened and felt the dildo fill my ass I'll admit I was surprised how easily it was sliding in. I mean it was def uncomfortable and my hole was clenching around that dildo but taking their cocks for hours def made it less of a challenge. So before I knew it my ass was sitting on that stool with all 8 inches buried in my ass. They stood me up, pulled the dildo out with a sloock sound and told me to clean it while pushing it into my mouth. I showed them I'd been practicing by deepthroating it a few times. They enjoyed the show but quickly pushed me onto the couch and went back to pounding my hole. My regular did his usual which is get close to cumming and then pull out to finish down my throat but his guest decided to be my asses first and finished the event with hard deep thrusts squeezing my ass and shooting into me with grunts. I took it without question. After all my regular brought a guest so I had to make sure to be a good host. Well that's it for that but it was awesome and I'm hoping to someday serve a bigger group of guys

Early 90's Poz parties.. now that was a game changer

lol, maybe that was because of me … I was 2 weeks in Salvador in November 😛

You got fucker

Any Dom breeders here in Tampa?

Most of the times I’ve initiated DP, either me or the other top(s) have some sort of relationship with the bottom, know he’s into it, and enjoy seeing him react as we stretch his hole. When we’re just using some random boy for our own pleasure, I’d usually prefer to take turns rutting. Not something I’ve thought much about but I would guess it’s because I generally want to plant my seed as deeply as possible. Just given the angles involved, DP isn’t ideal for that - it can be fun for a few minutes and then I get selfish.

I would. Looking for someone filming in Tampa

If there profile's say safe sex or thay ask we want be meeting if any think thay just get blocked, as my profile all ways say BB/Raw

Much the same sentiment as other bottoms posting here. I don't mind if a top watches porn while they fuck me. Hell, if it helps them get off and dump that nut up in me faster, I am all for it! Normally I throw on some bareback/breeding porn on my laptop, have it sorta nearby but not in the way--so if they want it, it's right there for them to watch, or if they don't they can just ignore it. Only ever had one top that explicitly didn't want it, but I think it was more him worried about it being on my laptop (thought I might be recording him) and he just reached over and shut the computer, then fucked my brains out.

I am a big fan of Brandts Boys. Hot guys. Hairy guys. They all seem to like each other. Dies anyone know if they're still doing porn? I wish I had more of their videos.

i've noticed this as well and am always trying to figure it out. but kink has gone mainstream in a big way and even older str8 people are confused as to why things like "choking a bitch" are now just a standard part of usual sex and not reserved for niche kinksters. dont get me started on pegging which i'm still not sure is actually a thing average str8s casually do 😜