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So, I was quite busy again last week. My bf was on another business trip. Got loaded on Monday and Tuesday. And on Thursday I was finally topping again. 😉 Found this guy in a neighboring apartment building and he‘s really patient with me given that my topping skills are not the best. We want to meet again so I can practice more 😉 Tbh, I‘d love to top more. And I really appreciate to get the opportunity to practice with him. 🙂

@blackrobe, thank you for being open and honesty about your mental health struggles, and your graciousness in accepting the op's sincere apology. I think different people get turned on by different things. Some guys like sports and watch it all day, some soap operas and TV shows, and some like politics I am a political junkie.; it's a form of pornography for me — the way it plays on me. I can spend hours, arguing, re-arguing, ranting, judging, hating, and rehashing key personally held political beliefs.- Others on this site can testify to that 🙂 . Sometimes especially when I get negative feedback I am aware of how invested I am in my arguments and in proving them right! and the attacks on my arguments or my styles/tenor of argument can feel very personal. Thus, I can see how reading an article could cause you personal distress. Is there any other kind of topic forum that you would like to see on BZ. Like maybe one related to Mental Health of gay men/sexually active gay men or perhaps a gay book club? Also, if you have the time do take a look at my earlier post about Cardinal Henry Newman and how he fought against the homophobes of his times and choose to live with a same-sex partner, a fellow priest, even though being gay was illegal at that time in England. Reading about gay men who heroically lived gay lives has always inspired me, when I struggle with feeling down.

NO! The only ones that can complain are those involved. As an way over 60 bottom I truly enjoy a younger man's interest of either lust or genuine connection. The raw energy fuels my own lust and fun. They truly make me stronger and energetic. I for one welcome advances from younger men through, I've seen more than a few discussed by my interest.

My pleasure! Glad that you and others have enjoyed reading a story from the archives.

Wow - loving this story and your writing.

My first real fuck buddy was just this random guy i found on chatrandom. He was in the same city as me and he drove so we decided to meet up. We got a motel room and he fucked me so good and got my pussy real sloppy. i remember he had a really nice and sexy scent. cologne mixed with his natural smell, it made me wild. He couldn't cum and he was exhausted so we called it a night. it was hot though. he bred me many times on future occasions though. i liked how he never suggested a condom. just went with it

Some poz bottoms seem to not want to state their status because I sense that others reject them [for both: some people, believe it or not, don't want to fuck poz guys; and being rejected doesn't feel great], which is a fair enough reaction. I will ask them, if they ask me, otherwise I just make it clear that if we fuck it's no rubbers and I don't pull out.

My answers: The good: A late evening arrival who role-played he was raping me, and forcing me to say how much I wanted it. A daddy and I repatedly working over a horny (and very passive) college student who came inside me four times. At the end of my first event - realizing I can be openly slutty with a community of people who celebrate this as a good thing. Meeting new tops some of which are becoming friends. The bad: As an experiment I openly posted a hotel room # on Grindr resulting in a mess of erratic people showing up. A guy who wanted to watch and refused to take off his clothes. A guy who wanted to play, but who put on a women's bikini and announced he wouldn't top. A rather hot-looking guy who freaked out when he realized he was getting someone else's cum on his dick. Needless to say that event didn't go very well. A hygiene failure early into one event. I took a shower, re-cleaned out, and the rest of the day went fine. The guy in question understood it happens, but I was embarassed. I've made new changes to my preparation routine because of this. Becoming inwardly (but not visibly) upset at people who aren't following the rules. For example, someone that showed up at my event and announced he wanted to bottom, followed by someone announcing he only wanted to fuck him and didn't want to touch me. Lesson learned there: boot such people instantly. The practical: Novice cumdumpers need to learn lessons that experienced cumdumpers take to heart. Knowing in advance how to handle a negative situation will make you a far more effective host. It's not kind to be overly-flexible with one person if it ruins the experience of others (including yourself). Be prepared for strong emotional and physical response after your events. Aftercare far more important than people realize. Have someone you like present to help you through it. You'll have an approximate "ceiling" of 20-30 loads in an evening without refining your event and having someone help run the room. You can't recruit more tops when you've got a dick in both ends. Just because you bottom well for 1-4 loads doesn't mean you're ready for 50. Stress test yourself periodically to see how well you can take it. Some guys will enter the room, decide the vibe isn't for them (for any of a thousand reasons), make an excuse, and leave. Don't be annoyed at them. They're what I call "Ghosts". They kinda float in and float away and don't affect your event as a whole. Lots more stuff. I hope top have my guidebook done in a week or two. I'll post it on BZ when it's ready.

I'm writing a guide to hosting amateur cumdump events. I'd like the community's input on the following questions so I can include the answers in the document. All responses will be anonymized. 1. What particularly good (hot, intense, or emotionally-fulfilling) moments and encounters have you had at cumdump events? 2. Same question, but bad (gross, distracting, off-putting) incidents. 3. What practical advice would you give to an aspiring amateur cumdump? My own answers in the first reply.

@bttm4all I love it if you continue the story. Your writing is just so filthy and completely horny that I be criminal for you to not finish this story.

The later

Wish i had known you 5 years ago...i am older, dominant and more

Wish I was one those lucky boys

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If you had been in my town, I would have been happy to, especially with that delicious looking ass.

That's fair - but the girth usually makes 'em work pretty hard and struggle good. It's still quite lovely! But ya its not DP with two real cocks!

As a reasonably hung and very hard top, I do love hearing and seeing my boys squirm and struggle for a bit to take me to the hilt. Early on felt a bit guilty about that until I realized while they never admit to *liking* it per se - they almost always keep coming back for more. So there is a thing there even if you aren't a power bottom.

i do fucking love to see a biohazard or scorpion tattoo of the top while it's almost too late to refuse the load