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I gave a guy three loads today. We tried for four, but it just wasn't happening. 😒 Congrats on getting five loads from one guy! Would that more of them would have been in your ass though....

In order of my preference, it's pussy then hole then cunt of the options listed in the thread title. (There is just something wholly pejorative about the word "cunt" in my mind that I can't see using it in a positive way.) I have never had sex with a woman and intend on dying without having sex with a woman. But somehow "pussy" for a man's asshole turns me on. I always confirm with the bottom first what term they use for that orifice, and will use the term they prefer. If the bottom doesn't have a preference, I will use the term >> I << prefer.

My bedroom this morning. Gave the same guy three loads.

I wouldn't even try to speak for all tops or even most tops. But this one loves them! But you probably couldn't have guessed that from my screen name.... 😉👅

I wasn't going to reply to this thread, but some of the posts seem like they're speaking directly to me. So, speaking for myself as a Black man, and NOT speaking for ALL BLACK MEN,,,, YES! I agree 1000%!!!!! EXACTLY! And I usually think it's that person's loss and not my loss! I realized a (relatively short 😕) long time ago that not everything is about ME! Someone posts a bunch of content that >> I << don't like? Well, they didn't post it for ME. They posted it from THEMSELVES! If I walked into a group scene (unlikely, but as a hypothetical situation) and every single person there wasn't my type, I would make my excuses and leave. If SOME people weren't my type, then I would focus on those who were my type. And I guess I'm just a slut, but if a man I'm not all that interested in presents me his hole to fuck and my dick is hard, I'm going to fuck him! Whether or not he's my type, be damned! YES! THIS! I like ALL races and most shapes and sizes. I also understand that's not the case for everyone! I've been told repeatedly over the last 30+ years, "It's not what you say. It's how you say it." In my mind (and I'm sure others will disagree with me), racism is less about what you like/don't like and more about how you EXPRESS what you like/don't like. "Sorry, I'm not interested" is QUITE the different statement from "Sorry, I don't like (insert particular group)." Reiterating that this is just from me, about me, as a Black Man, and NOT a statement about all Black Men, it's not that I don't/won't have sex with other Black Men! I do, have and will! But one of my interests (and despite years of introspection, I still haven't figured out WHY!) is hairy men. Genetically, Black Men are not hairy. Push a hairy Black Man my way, and I'm going to be ALL over him! Some other races tend to be genetically hairier, and I am initially more drawn to them than I would be to one of my Black Brothers. Another genetic trait many of my Black Brothers tend to have is a "phat" ass. Those don't do a whole lot for me. I tend to be more interested in cupcakes (you can cup the cakes in your palms) or flat asses. Again, other races tend to have those kinds of asses, so I am more drawn to those races.... And I'm not saying that I wouldn't fuck a smooth Black Man with a "phat" ass. That just wouldn't be the FIRST man I would fuck if it were a multiple choice situation. I've never fucked a woman and have no desire to ever fuck a woman. As I stated above, we all like what we like. And we shouldn't be faulted for that. How you would turn down an Asian or Black woman, at least for me, would determine whether or not you were racist. "Not interested." is quite the different statement from "I don't fuck Asian or Black women." This is a completely alien concept to me. But I'm not discounting anyone else's truth. I've had sex with White, Black, Latinx, Chinese, Filipino, Tongan (? Samoan?) and Southeast Asian men (that I can immediately remember so there may be more different men I've had sex with). I do see race. But race isn't one of the determining factors on whether or not I will have sex with another man. But I realize and understand that race IS a determining factor for some people. And I was with you until this. I grew up in an all black neighborhood. I went to an all-black Elementary school. I was introduced to white people in Junior High and High School. For college, I applied to one HBCU and two non-HBCU's. (Historically Black College or University) I got into all three schools. Even though I got a full scholarship to the HBCU, I chose one of the other schools on the other side of the country. Not because I wanted to "graduate" and find a place outside of black society, but because I wanted to get as far away from where I grew up as I could without leaving the country. And, although I had the opportunity to request the African-American theme house at the non-HBCU as a freshman, I didn't. Because I wanted to experience something different. If I had wanted the same experience I grew up with, I would've gone to the HBCU. I ended up getting placed in the Asian-American theme house. And I ended up living there three of my four years. My Junior year, I was a Theme Associate. My Senior year, I was a Resident Assistant. My skin tone is dark enough that I can never pass for anything other than Black. So, there is no way I can "graduate" and find a place outside of black society. I love my people. We CAN be fierce. We aren't always though. And just as I'm sure people see me as a representative of my race, I'm equally sure that people see my race as representing me.. I can love my people without feeling like I need to be immersed in "black society." Excuse me, but think I might 🥰 you! 😉 The "thug" stereotype of today is nothing more than an update from the Mandingo stereotype of the 70s. Gay Black men are seen as either macho thugs or effeminate queens. Heaven forbid we don't be at either end of the spectrum.... ✋As much as I like white men, blond, in and of itself, doesn't do a whole lot for me. Never has. A blond man has to have something else to catch my eye; otherwise, he goes to the back of the line behind brown-haired, brunette and redheaded white men. But I know I'm in the minority in that regard. American culture seems to have a boner for Blondes! I don't bottom much. But if a Latinx guy with a 9" dick wanted to fuck me, I probably wouldn't turn him down! And I would definitely choose to bottom for him before I'd choose to fuck a blond unless the blond checked something else off my list of 👅 👅 👅 As a general rule, whenever (the generic) you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing no one, especially yourself! Put out something you are happy with and don't worry about anybody who won't be happy with it! Women are sometimes told, "The best way to get over a man is to get under another one!" The same is true for gay bottoms. For gay tops, it's, "The best way to get over a man is to get on top of another one!" And I have stopped thinking, "my loss! 😭 " when rejected by someone. I now think, "HIS loss!" Those who can, do. Those who can't, criticize! Only YOU can do you! Other people are always going to try to live your life for you. But YOU are the only person who can live it! And NEVER give that power up to anyone else! Yes, there was a time when a Black person who looked at a White person in any way other than deferential or submissive was likely to be lynched. And that's the kind of thing that permeates through generations of Blacks in certain areas of the US. (I don't know about places outside of the US.) While I really want to claim BS to that, my second reaction is, "Yeah, that may be right." The DL movement started around Black men who had sex with other men on the down low. There would very likely be many fewer questions about "why do you know that White man (whether or not he appeared to be effeminate)" than there would be about "why do you know that gay Black man". Yes! See my statement above. As I've already posited, I believe it is ok to tell someone you're not attracted to them. It's HOW you tell them that makes the difference. "Sorry, not a match." or "Sorry, not interested." is fine. "I don't DO (men of a particular race or trait)!" isn't fine. And it's now past my bedtime, so I'm going to end this rather long post.

Like @YourNoLimitsBottom, I'm always in the mood for sex. (And I'm assuming this thread is about sex with another person and not masturbation.) And I'm definitely not going to cry if I don't get it! And I live in a big city. If I could've modified the answers, I would've selected, "I'm always horny and amenable to sex." I have a number of hobbies that require my full focus. And when I'm involved with any of those hobbies (which could be days or weeks at a time), I'm not actively looking for sex. But if someone hit me up and said, "Let's fuck!" I more than likely wouldn't turn him down! Even when I setup a sex session and the bottom flakes for whatever reason, I don't usually get upset. Cause I can turn my attention back to whichever one of my hobbies I'm currently involved with. And at the end of the day, I jerk off most nights before going to sleep if I haven't had sex with some guy during the day. So I still get that release. And without what can sometimes seem like an effort....

Hmmm.... Didn't think I had a negative outlook. My various conditions are well-controlled through medication and/or lifestyle changes, so I don't regularly even think about them. Yes, my conditions and I co-exist - they don't control me. But the thread asked about poz being exciting. For me, it's neither exciting nor boring. It just is. I wouldn't be surprised though if others fell definitively on one side or the other though.

While I agree that becoming poz was liberating (and have discussed that in other threads), being poz is as exciting as having diabetes, high cholesterol or high blood pressure - it's something I live with.

I've seen this same phenomenon with many different studios. Part of me wants to indulge the fantasy and think about how eating so much cum out of a bottom would be pure heaven! And part of me is pissed the F off that studios think I'm that stupid! I know that some men can cum like that, especially if they haven't cum in a number of days. But it's pretty unlikely that EVERY top in a porn movie is going to cum that much! And it doesn't help that we can all buy lube that looks like "fake cum" from many different vendors.... The "money shot" where the top pulls out to show he's coming is no longer necessary in the "fake cum" world. It doesn't matter if the top cums or not cause fake cum will be used to simulate the top's load. 😖😬🤬

Yes, he was facing me while riding me. There's another guy I have fucked in many different positions (on his stomach, riding me but facing away and with him on his side and he has come without touching himself in all three cases. But that could be as much from excitement as from me hitting his pleasure spots. Aww, thanks!

I fucked this guy (sadly only one session cause he's been out of town for a long time) and while he was riding my cock, the upward curve hit something inside of him and he came not once, but twice, without touching himself. That was the first and second time that had ever happened to him and he's a mature man like I am. I've fucked other bottoms who haven't cum hands free but have exclaimed that I was working spots no one else had ever worked. I attribute it to the curve of my dick working an area that a straighter dick never could touch. As a top, I pay attention to the bottom's reactions. If he reacts positively to something I do, I continue to do it. And if he reacts negatively, I don't do it again. In my mind at least, it's about mutual pleasure and not my pleasure at the bottom's expense.

Inane dialog including fake moans (so I have the sound down low) Fucking bareback (the only porn I watch) and then pulling out and cumming anywhere other than the hole (I would prefer an internal cumshot and the bottom push it out, but barring that shooting on the hole and then pushing the cum in with the dick will suffice) I don't mind the camera men except when one camera man is in the view of the other camera man (If the camera man is part of the action, that's fine) Intermingling scenes such that scene 2 starts before scene 1 ends and then moving back and forth between the scenes that way Obvious looping of action (replaying the same x seconds over and over again) to extend the length of the scene Hearing the director give directions Guys who obviously have no chemistry so the scene should've been left on the cutting room floor Scenes that are more than half oral (unless it's a blowjob vid and I don't watch those)

Yeah, I just got 4 more "You were added to a message" messages at 8:06 and 8:07AM.

Thanks @gingerdaddyG! it's always helpful to know "it's not just me"!

Although I was sexual as a pre-teen, penetration didn't happen until my teens. My memory is that I bottomed the first time. Don't remember when (or who) I topped for the first time though. In my 20s, I was officially versatile but tended more towards the bottom cause I thought I was a bad top who came too quickly. It wasn't until my mid-20s that I came to realize I'm multiorgasmic, so that first quick orgasm isn't the only orgasm. From that point on I starting topping more and more to the point where I pretty much only top these days. I'm not adverse to bottoming, but I wouldn't bottom for just anybody. Barring ED issues, I don't see myself ever going back to being a full-time bottom.

I think for a good percentage of men, the gender of the person they're fucking is unimportant. What matters is getting off. These would be the "any port in a storm" types where the storm is their need to cum by means other than their own hand. For them, "straight" is about who they would be in a romantic/sexual relationship with and/or who they are physically/romantically attracted to. When the little head is in control, that's lust, pure and simple - there is no physical or romantic attraction to the object of the lust, be it male or female. Just like such a man would fuck a woman if one were around, available and interested (and he didn't have to jump through too many hoops), he would fuck a man (or get blown by one).

I have a number of ongoing messages with another member. Over the last 3 days I have gotten 20 email notifications titled "You were added to a message" with the message being one of the ongoing message threads between us. But there is no new content from the other member. I'm able to add content to one of the existing messages and send it. When I tried to send a new message to that person yesterday, I got an error message that the person couldn't receive messages. Unfortunately, I didn't capture the exact text of the error. When I just tried again so I could capture the text, the message appears to have gone through. I also get daily site notifications that the member is now following me even though that person has been following me for awhile now. My confusion is around whether the issue is with my account or that person's account. Not sure if I should mention the other member's handle or not, so if additional info is needed, I'm happy to provide it.

Cigarette smoking is a dealbreaker for me. Pot smoking isn't really a dealbreaker. Even if a cigarette smoker doesn't smoke while we're together, the aura of cigarette smoke is present. Not my thing, but to each his own. Both of my parents smoked cigarettes. Thanks to my mother telling me at 15 or so, "You can smoke if you want to. But you better not touch my cigarettes. You better go buy your own," smoking wasn't something [banned word] that I had to sneak and I never thought it was cool. So I never picked up the habit. I used to say I'd take a hit of pot once every 2-3 years, but it's probably been 6+ years since I last took a toke on a joint. I'm not overly fond of the smell of pot, but I actively dislike the smell of tobacco.

Hairy! All day every day! And there is no such thing as too hairy either. Eating a smooth hole just isn't as satisfying for me as eating a hairy one. Naturally smooth is fine too - I wouldn't turn down a naturally smooth ass that I otherwise found edible and/or fuckable.

I've had men who are thousands of miles away hit me up. Some of them just want to give a compliment. I'll take it. Some of them are even coming to my state on vacation. But they're going to the Southern part and I live in the Northern part and that's still a few hundred miles away. My view on it is that if the universe intends for us to hookup, it will happen regardless of where we might be at the time of initial contact. And if we don't hookup, there's no harm and no foul in exchanging a few pleasantries. As others have said, the world needs more of that these days....

My bedroom today. Three loads to the same guy. I usually have to pee between orgasms or I can't come again even if I can fuck. On rare occasions I can stay hard after the first orgasm and continue to fuck. I dubbed this guy a unicorn cause not only did I stay hard and continue to fuck, but I came a second time! Then I dubbed him the King of the Unicorns when I came a third time without peeing between orgasms. That has NEVER happened before!

This! Most definitely! Hairy? Yes. Naturally Smooth? Yes. Manscaped? 😭 I prefer hairy. Naturally smooth is fine though. No need to reject a guy just because genetics didn't provide him with something that makes me 😍😍😍! YAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!! My tongue and cock both love a hairy ass and/or hole! Body hair traps odors. And that's why I love it! More to taste and experience! 👅👅👅 I really DO try to live and let live and accept people where they're at. But if I ruled the world, manscaping would be illegal. All that wonderful body hair being trimmed or cut away.... 😭😭😭 Would I have sex with a guy who manscapes? If I found something else about him attractive, sure.

Hundreds of VHS all went in the dumpster 11(?) years ago. I don't remember knowing of transfer services at the time. (Or if I did, I deemed them impractical/too expensive.) I kept the magazines (both softcore and hardcore) and some "novels" though. I have 5 Bankers boxes of softcore mags (stored on their sides like files instead of laid flat) that I plan on digitizing in my copious free spare time (of which I have none). The hardcore mags occupy a 4 shelf Ikea bookcase. I keep a random 5 in the nightstand for when I need to take matters in hand. Back to the original subject though, I would turn into a bottom again to be gang-banged by Leidermeister, Bruno and Chad Douglas. I know Chad has left us, but I'm not sure about the other two.

I don't understand the connection between the thread title and your question. No, not everyone is passionate, or even capable of passion. For some tops it's all about the proper amount of friction for the proper amount of time until they unload. For some bottoms it's all about getting the top's load inside them. For both of those groups, passion isn't necessarily part of the experience. Some people (tops and bottoms) see passion as a form of weakness and therefore refuse to allow themselves to show it. >> I << am totally the opposite. I'm going to bring some passion to the experience even if I know before I get my dick in the bottom that there won't be a repeat engagement for whatever reason. If my passion is rejected, there definitely won't be a second time even though I will still fuck and breed the bottom. If it's accepted but not really reciprocated, depending on how the overall sexual experience goes, there may or may not be a second encounter. If my passion is reciprocated though, we are definitely going to keep getting together until one of us tires of the other.... I try to accept people as and where they are. Somehow I find that easier to do when clothes are on.... (shrug) As I have gotten older, I have come to understand many of the different facets of the phrase, "the folly of youth".... I have disabused myself of many of the things I thought in my youth, like if a guy has sex with me, he's in love with me/wants to be in a relationship with me. 🤣 Even if my current self could time travel back and pimp slap some sense into my younger self, I wouldn't do it. My younger self had to go through those experiences and learn those lessons in order for me to be the person that I am today. (And my younger self was hardheaded and had to learn lessons the hard way anyhow, so wouldn't have paid attention to my current self anyway. And probably would've done the opposite of everything my current self said to do just out of spite.) So, what does passion have to do with eating ass? Although I must say that I do eat ass passionately.

YAY!!!!! Self-lubricating bottoms aren't unicorns!!!!!