ellentonboy

I never thought of going to one of those events because I was already poz and I didn't feel like they would be any different from any other organized sex event. Most group events are bareback so why go to one of these, unless you may live in a rural area and really are not aware as to what is going on in your area. I have a Canadian friend who drove to two of these events, driving from Ottawa to Toronto, and each time he came back with an STD. I really felt bad for him. He's found it difficult to find the type of sex he desires, and when he travels to find it he ends up getting sick. I know I take it for granted that I live in an area where sex is widely available, I really don''t know how gay men today, who are sexually active, deal with that kind of isolation.

When I first start the use of "enhancements" I actually wrote out a bucket list of things I wanted to do sexually. DP was in the top 5. We had one very large dicked guy sitting with his back against the headboard, I sat on his dick facing him, and someone with a nice 7 inch came in from behind me to complete the DP. Happy to report I sustained no injury, the top guy was like 10 X 6 so he fulfilled his role, despite being someone of a prick. The average dicked guy was much more versatile and fun, to this day I still play with him and we look fondly back on that DP experience. I think it's all about the positioning of the guys., and not making them feel like they are some part of a circus act.....

I'll say this, I am not a huge fan of the management of BBRT or Adam4adam which have been my mainstream source here in this part of Florida for awhile. Now IF I were traveling, going to be out of town and having a bunch of free time (say in Philadelphia) those two sites worked well for me. I would change my profile completely in the sense that I tried to appeal to those who needed to be discreet, either due to the fact they were in relationships, or my favorite "I'm too well known here in this city". I nearly "hurled" every time I heard that comment. But to be honest if I posted something like "He'll never know, and, I'm here only till Monday morning". Following that up with, "Staying in a downtown, easy access location. I won't know your husband, partner, wife or friends". I even changed the first pic with a pic of me with my shirt off, holding my finger up to my mouth as if it "were a secret", and just cutting off the pic from my mouth on up so I wouldn't be easily identified. That works wonders for me. If they think you won't be around to dish the dirt, they'll respond. Now I agree, there is nothing better than promoting yourself in person. I was never really fond of bathhouses, not until I moved to Florida where I could get triple the action in a single eight hour session. But in places like Philly a good local watering hole worked well with the "after work crowd", followed by and 11 pm to 2 am "stand and model crowd". After that, there was an "after hours club" that had the horniest (and usually hottest) bunch of guys. It just killed me to pay for a guest pass at a bathhouse, and sometimes they would not even offer that, depending on the city I was in. So that' s my take on the current online sites, Sniffies is fine but I am not thrilled with the "hosting in my car" genre, when did that begin? Nastykinkpigs works as well, but call me vanilla I'm not into much of the kink offered on that site. A good gang bang? Sure - count me in. Being blindfolded and pissed on, ah, no thank you.

"Lady Graham" has he was referred to by former press secretary Jen Psaki at the White House, is no one to talk. Now I don't know how many posters are aware of this or maybe I saw it posted here, but Graham is no stranger to hiring male sex workers and those who do gay porn. I reached out to one of those individuals on gmail who worked for Dark Alley videos. He responded saying he was in the process of hiring an attorney, and that several paparazzi types had pics of young men leaving Graham's residence in the early morning hours. Now I have to go through my "sent mail" on gmail, but I did send a follow up email to that porn performer and didn't get a response. He told me he initially was ready to go to the press, that he just wanted some legal representation, and this information was going to be given to the press shortly. I just thought maybe the story had been "squashed" by threats or intimidation, possibly informing these sex workers they could possibly face prostitution charges. I noticed I hadn't seen the porn performers name as of late, don't know if he has left the industry or not. But according to him, Graham in no stranger to hiring these guys and that is was well known within the porn community that this senator could be a possible client. He claimed to have had sex for money with Graham on multiple occasions. I would not have been convinced by one article. But when I emailed the guy from Dark Alley, and he immediately wrote back and confirmed what I had read, I knew there was some truth to the story. I realize this is somewhat off-topic, but again it shows that hypocritical individuals are alive and well in the Senate, at least in regards to their sexuality. Anyone familiar with this story, or heard more about it as of late? Any updated information would be appreciated!

Treasure Island's new video "FRENZY" has an incredible cast, but I enjoyed the first scene the most with Logan Loads. He's being plowed by The Inked Pig and Excel Hung SF. Though they were kind enough to give Logan a bottle of poppers, he was still screaming and basically crying into the camera. Excel Hung SF and The Inked Pig were really fucking the hell out of him, and at one point Logan's eyes actually looked crossed. It was really something to see, no acting here that's for sure. I don't think sex should be painful, maybe Logan just "bit off more than he could chew" so to speak. It's a new flick, I strongly suggest you check it out. The scene I described is one I liked the most as I find Logan Loads to be very hot.

Thank you. Fortunately, I have a very competent infectious disease specialist who acted quickly and had the medication to me within a few days. Since my case was rather advanced, timing was really important. I had to get pre-authorization due to the cost. but after the drug test came back negative (and boy did Quest Diagnostics check for everything) my insurer called me and the specialty pharmacy delivered to my home. I could not be more thankful. Have a great holiday guy!

He can multi-task! Looked like the one photo he was about to take two cocks in his mouth. I am now following him on X (formerly twitter).

"monetize being the operative word"🤭.

I know we have not messaged each other before, but the group situations I merely happened to fall into (no pun intended) and I don't really know how to get back. Could you be so kind to add me to a few groups, please? My handle is "Ellentonboy"

The Philadelphia "Blue Ball" held in January was a circuit event I went to for years because A. I'm from Philly and could stay with my BFF. and B. It was one of the most economical circuit events to go to. The VIP, which included access to the "private lounge" included bathrooms with private stalls and doors that locked. This allowed you to play with people, without committing to leaving the event with them. Sort of a "test run" so to speak. That "uncharge" was next to nothing. I believe the three day event was $175 to $195, something like that. Or maybe that was because I was FWBs with some of the event personnel, I am not sure. Unfortunately, the organizers were arrested for embezzlement, all the proceeds were supposed to go to AIDS charities, not to decorate their condos. A bunch of them went to prison, both state and Federal. Fast forward, the "circuit boys" left (me) and the "do gooders" came in (those who did not, or would not, participate in sex in a public place or enhancements). The event is now nothing what is was like "back in the day", I still proudly have my "dog tags" that allowed me access to the "back rooms", oh excuse me, the VIP room.🤫 God I miss those days. wonton sex, no judgment zones, and non-stop flights from Tampa to Philly. My flight benefitss now make me change planes in Newark, it SUCKS!

@Ellentonboy - same as here.

Hey I did a UPS driver, who was in full uniform, in the parking lot across the street from the Ramrod in broad daylight. This was Lauderdale, like in the month of July. It was hot as hell, like having sex in a tin cup, but I enjoyed every minute of it. I should have asked him why he was drinking Corona's as opposed to making a delivery, but he made a delivery for sure. Just not the kind they leave in front of your door....

My doctor told me almost all sexually active gay men have or get Hep B, there wasn't much to be done about it. However, I got Hep C in 2018 and that scared the hell out of me, my urine was brown, and he had me on Mavyret for twelve weeks, not the normal eight. The medicine had no effects, when I saw the retail cost it blew my mind. Thank God I had no copay, and the way the medication is dispensed makes it easy to remember to take. Now every time I go to have my labs drawn he runs the Hep C numbers, so far it looks like I am undetectable. I am glad I mentioned it to my doctor. I initially thought my urine was that color because of "enhancements" leaving my body, but after awhile the pain was so great when I urinated I finally had to tell him. I am glad I did, Hep C had never crossed my mind. Using Mavyret was so convenient, easy, I'm thankful to be aline and not have to deal with it any longer.

I believe it is. I spent a summer hanging with a guy, around my age, whose number of sexual partners, per day, per week astounded me. In his home, he had a play room and sometimes he and his partner would have maybe 4 to 5 guys over at a time. I met him, randomly, though a mutual friend and he invited me back to his house to meet his partner. This new friend of mine, Johnnie taught me so much about sex being a "numbers game". and he proved it time and time again. Those participants who used to come to his house to play with Johnnie and his partner, would also come over within an hour of his partner going off to work. Johnnie was on unemployment that summer, and had me come over and meet some of these guys who he had sex with 4 to 5 times a week, many of whom were married with children and were unemployed. After finishing with them, we ate a small lunch, and got in his car. He would proceed to head to every book store in the Tampa area. He knew where to get the lunch crowd, he knew where to get the "just left work crowd" and there was one guy who he had a standing 6 pm fuck reservation with at a larger bookstore that had a huge booth in the back where they could get completely naked. There was also an upstairs area, where for a $10 fee, you could take all your clothes off and no one said a word. This upper floor was divided into different movie rooms, showing a variety of porn. I saw my friend going from video room to video room, stark naked with the exception of sneakers. We wore tank tops, shorts and a jock under our shorts so our clothes could come on and off easily. There was a downstairs area that was a maze, where there were dark corners, small areas where two to four guys could fit. In ONE day, he was fucked by 47 different guys. I valued his friendship, he and his partner even set up a room in their house so I could crash there, with a day bed and a private bathroom for me. I never got the impression that his partner resented me, but there were many mornings where I was already at the house and his partner was getting dressed for his ten or twelve hour shift at a hospital. He had to know we didn't sit around all day watching tv. I purchased the two of them a web cam program, and Johnnie got on that and showed me the video-private messages he had received from all the "elite" top guys in Tampa (in other words, those with 9 plus inches). Some would just send a pic of their dick, and that meant for him to head on over. I don't exaggerate the totals of men who went through that house, that play room had a camera set up in it. and they recorded EVERY session, just no sound. I mean I spotted the camera the minute I got there, they had merely put a piece of tape over the red light so people wouldn't notice it. Everything, at that time, was shot onto VHS. Oh, they didn't tape over those videos, not by a long shot. In the play room, behind a wall, were all the videos from over the years, with the dates on them, 100s of them. You could see some guys would actually look directly into the camera, but from the exterior it looked like it was non-functional. My favorite night had to be when I had lost my ignition key, and I was waiting for AAA to make me a copy. A French tourist drove up, looking for Johnnie's house. I just pointed, and said "That's Johnnie's house". While waiting for the AAA guy to finish making my key, we heard something like a crashing noise. Here. the French man had fucked Johnnie so hard his sling came out of the ceiling and the two feel forward. No penis was injured in this accident. They just finished on the floor. I asked him, after one 9 am to say 10 pm day, how many men he had sex with. He was unimpressed with his tally - he modestly said "47". 47 guys in one weekday, like a Tuesday or Wednesday. Johnnie got a job that fall, and I told him I thought we should slow down on the amount of time we spent together. I don't work, I wasn't working then, and I was a bad influence. I didn't want him to lose what was a very good job offer, and hanging out with me can be a distraction and will only deplete your sick leave balance (because you will be calling in and taking the day off, no doubt after listening to me rationalize why that is a good thing). So, do 47 partners in a day, (and that was an "average" day) prove that sexual addiction exists? I think it does. Sure I have read posts from individuals who say there is documentation from certain medical associations who claim "there is no such thing" or "no, it doesn't exist". But I am not here to go back and forth over who may be right. However Johnnie proved to me that sex can be a "numbers game". We are still friends to this day. He has mellowed some, he is still with his partner, but he does now work from home while his partner is still at the hospital. I don't ask personal questions because too much time has passed. He's having a Christmas party this year and I was invited, in the past, they have locked down the "play room" and I am sure that routine will continue. They're something creepy about getting fucked while Santa watches. They are big into Christmas, they have a huge home I don't know how long it must take to decorate but it must take days. Sorry, but I think sexual addiction does exist, some of us are better at controlling our addictions than others.....

I agree with what you are saying. It does depend on the individuals, I have had 40 year old men act like they were in middle school, and I also have enjoyed a recent high school graduate (over 18) who was mature, polite, and there for only one reason, because he wanted to have sex wit me. I do try to take it on a case by case basis, online I am not really the aggressive type, if I see someone in their 20s I don' normally message them. However, if they reach out to me first, and I even bring up the age difference, then I figure it's fair game and if they want to play that 's great. I know of one couple I played with who were 30 years different in age, and I have to say at first I found it a bit creepy. They seemed to be very fond of one another, but once the sex started I just let it happen and both times I have been with them it has been drama free and fairly good sex. So I am going to worry less about the numbers, again I don't hit on the twinkish 20 somethings but if one should be genuinely interested I might decide to go for it.

I have been to Maspalomas, I flew from JFK and changed planes in Barcelona. I was in my 20s and totally alone. Now Maspalomas had beautiful beaches, some top less, some totally nude. My air/hotel package included a breakfast buffet and dinner. What I found lacking was the night life. I ended up meeting a Lybian shop owner with a huge piece of meat who would continue to come to my hotel night after night, so I had my fair share of dick. Here is my question - is Grand Canaria the same as Maspalomas, the area with the beautiful sand dunes you walked across that eventually led to the beach? I am just a little confused if I go back again, where exactly do I decide to stay if I want to fuck around?

I would like someone to state what "old" exactly is? I do get somewhat "upset" when threads involving age pop up. I'll say this.....having sex with an 18 year old is not exactly my idea of a good time. Sure, it does wonders for my fading self-confidence, but in the end I am disgusted with myself. To me it feels rather gross. Now 28 is a different story, that does get my self confidence booming and I do feel like a new man after an encounter like that. I have had guys says "Oh, but fucking a guy your age is great because they have so much experience and they feel so....accommodating. Okay I used the word accommodating because I don't want to repeat what the man said to me. I would like to pose this question to BZ members - at what age is too old? Now I am smart enough to realize that this topic has already been discussed but I would like the 2024 versions. Should there be no more than a certain number of years between the two (or three) guys involved? If. you are in your 40s are guys in their 20s off-limits? If you are in your 50s, should the youngest you sleep with should be in their late 30s. It gets very dicey to me, when I meet someone who is obviously sexually interested. If he asks my age, do I tell him the real number (I mean the REAL number).???? I ask this because I run across guys from say 25 to 35 on a routine basis, and I hear "You look great for your age" or "Man I bet any guy would want to hook up with you". Well, not really. I just don't want to cross the line and sleep with someone who I could have fathered . I obviously am not holding a gun to anyone's head and telling them to get naked, but at some point I just would like to know what is "appropriate" rather than "inappropriate" Feedback, responses, slurs, have at it guys, Curious what BZ members think.....

As long as I don't mention"torrents'" correct? I am just giving you a hard time, our banter on this subject goes WAY back...For the record , between you and I, I have not told anyone how to go about getting a torrents account.

I had a very open and honest conversation with my doctor regarding this subject. He told me, in his opinion, he had no concerns with blindfolds, slings, sound depravation, live streaming, pic taking. What he did have an issue with is restraints, especially if you are alone and have no one to look out for you. We had issues in my geographical area with this kind of activity, and I am not saying that getting gang banged at a sex club, in a sling, is a bad thing. What I am saying is risky is having someone whose name you don't know, restrain you to the point you can't get up and leave when you desire. That's dangerous, and here in Florida we had two guys die and the murderer is now sitting on death row. I knew that murderer, a contractor with a beautiful home who seemed as harmless as could be. Turns out he had no problem with dismembering and disposing of bodies all over parts of Tampa, FL. Just saying guys......fantasies are great, but safety should also be considered.

I haven't paid in a long time, I will on occasion if I am going to travel and may want to meet as many guys as possible in a short period of time. However, the majority of the time I use the free service and if I can't get laid after sending out 30 some messages I have a problem. Usually the free version works fine for me, I live in a tourist area so there are always new people visiting the area. What struck as as odd was that I had the VPN for months, I purchased it for another reason unrelated to BBRT. It wasn't until this week that the block suddenly appeared. I thought it was something in my setting but only BBRT was giving me an issue. Now that I understand it was not directed at me personally, I'll use the site, but I doubt I'll give him my money anytime soon. have a good one!

Sure I use Malwarebytes for my MacBook Air and my VPN is set for New York City, actually downtown Manhattan. I purchased it awhile back and it wasn't until this week that when the VPN is turned on, I can't sign in. Again I found it so strange I can sign directly in if I turn the VPN off. I think the owner is trying to keep a number of former members off the site, so maybe he feels this is just a way to keep a large number of banned Apple computer users off BBRT. Funny, if I happen to go on Nastykinkpigs and forget the VPN is turned on, I get hit up by so many New Yorkers. I guess they don't bother to read the profile that clearly states I live in Florida. At least I get to look at pics of some very hot men - lol. Thanks for responding.

Considering it was Barebackrt.com, and no other site that was blocking me, I figured it had something to do with the owner. Now I haven't had any problems or issues with the owner, I have been on there for years and I haven't complained or done anything to piss him off. I do know, however, that lately he has been banning a number of long time members for various issues. I have tried not to "rock the boat". I figured it was not directed at me, but was a way for him to keep those out that he previously had issues with. When I turn the VPN off, I can sign on with no issues. The whole thing struck me as odd, I had become comfortable with using the VPN, now I will just turn it off when I want to go onto BBRT. That added layer of privacy, if there is such a thing anymore, made me feel somewhat better considering I have been hacked, and had devices ruined. Needless to say I don't want to relive that again. Thank you for responding, btw.

I noticed Brazil mentioned in this thread. Now, I have been three times and I had some interesting encounters with this whole situation. The first, which really pissed me off, is I stayed at a 5 star resort during the Christmas/NewYear's Eve period. In the room next to me were four young men from NY who were Jewish, wore black long sleeve pants and dress shirts in that God awful heat. Then New Year's Eve came around, and my hotel faced the ocean and you could see the people dancing in the streets and celebrating. I also heard, and noticed, that the chairs and table from my patio had been moved. It turns out that these fine young NY men had four female guests, all wearing skirts pulled up to their, you know, area. Earlier in the week I had invited a woman up for a drink to my room along with my bf at the time. Security grabbed me in the lobby (in their three piece suits - they didn't look like "rent-a-cops"), and told me I could have drinks with her, but only in the hotel lobby. So imagine my surprise to find the four young woman next door, having cocktails, and wearing little or next to nothing. I called the front desk immediately and reported the removal of my patio furniture. So I inquired as to why my fellow guests could have "visitors", and I could not. The man from the front desk politely told me if I wanted any kind of "companionship" it needed to be requested through the front desk, and they used certain "services" where the employees provided had been "screened" and were safe to have in my room. So in other words, if I wanted an escort for the evening (or hour I suppose) it had to go through the front desk of the Rio Palace Hotel. I was pissed not to be told of this rule. Secondly, the summer Olympics were in Rio in 2016. All you saw were billboards asking sex workers to get tested for STDs as the city was about to have many foreigners and they would be quite busy during that time period. It seemed to me the Brazilian government, or Rio's local officials, turned a blind eye to the whole subject. Either way, if you wanted sex and were willing to pay for it, it was available. So Brazilian posters, what do you say about my experiences ? I didn't post about smuggling a guy up through a service elevator or going to a sex club because there were no charges for the men I met in those instances. So why the double standard????

Hoping to get some input from other BZ members. For the last week or so, I have been signing in and out of my BBRT profile. One interesting point, if I turn on my VPN (and I have Malwarebytes for my McBook Air) I get an error message which reads "The owners of this website has banned the autonomous system number (ASN) your IP address in a (9009) from accessing this website. Now if I turn the VPN off, I have no problem logging in. Does anyone have an idea as to what is going on here? I would think if the owner had an issue with me he would have just banned me completely, especially from my home IP address which I have had for several years. I am NOT good with computers, or these kinds of issues, so if anyone can shed some light on what might be going on, or what may happen in the near future, I would appreciate it. For the record, I have had no issue with the owner, no communication from him that I had done something wrong. I live in Florida which may be part of the issue. But why let me in any old way, but not with a VPN??? Anyone know????

Well, I wish that has been my experience 100 per cent of the time. I happened to meet a guy off of the site Doublelist, who was dressed in a suit which was odd considering this is Florida. He came over during his lunch break. Since Doublelist guys are not the same as those you meet on a "conventional" hookup site, I went by the dick pic he sent and he turned out to be downright handsome. I gave him a great blow job, something he seemed to appreciate, and I thought - that was it, he's part of my "ONE AND DONE CLUB". Not necessarily a bad thing, in most instances from sites like Doublelist, it's nothing personal, we who make ourselves "available" are merely a "vessel" so to speak. Okay, so maybe a week later, he appears again in my inbox This time, with requests, and a new pic of him looking down over the top of his penis, which looks, seriously, like a boomer rang. I asked him if he had ever been told he looked like someone famous, and he immediately responded, 'Yes, the former baseball player, Alex Rodriguez". So apparently, despite his broken English, he was quite willing and able to spout the compliment he had heard previously. Like I mentioned, he had requests, this time to fuck me, as well as to walk in and have someone fucking me as well. Now I value my residency so I had to decline on the "open door policy". As far as finding someone to fuck me at high noon, with a few hours notice on a weekday, is not that easy (even for someone with my dubious reputation). So, I said yes he could fuck me, but I had to knix his other requests. Here's the funny part. I would say he was in his late 20s. He screamed "MARRIED" it was very obvious, and guess what. He had never used a condom before, He insisted on one, I was not about to pass up the boomer rang (you know the theory they keep coming back), so I had to find one that they used to give out for free as you exited your previously favorite bar. AND I HAD TO PUT IT ON HIM, HE WAS CLUELESS. It was not a Magnum, and he needed one. It fit barely on the tip of his dick. I was actually hoping it would come off inside me so I could keep it as a souvenir. He could not put it on, he had no clue, and I shuddered at the thought of how many times he had fucked his wife and how many children he had to feed. To think I had that dick in my mouth, ugh. But this is an example of a married man who did not want to fuck raw. I suppose I am a guy who is an example of a gay man who will make an exception when it comes to getting fucked raw. It was worth every boomer rang inch.