KingB028

Guess i can call myself the married men connoisseur. 11 out of my 35 regulars are married guys, and i fuck all of them raw. Gay bareback sex is way too addictive, once you start, its impossible to stop. One of these guys lives down the road from me, he pretends to walk the dog yet he comes over to take my load. The guys i fuck are now beyond that stage of caring any bit. Ofcourse it has taken time, but that's we we are now. Some of them even top some of my other regulars in front of my after i have loaded them up. I've always found it easier to convince a "straight" married man to take it raw. That's how most of them want it, esp those who say safe only

1000% agree with you. Nothing to regret or be ashamed about. I have so much respect for cumdumps. Once you submit to your desires, and allow yourself to be controlled by lust, you will start living your best life.

Absolutely love cum kissing

For me, when i top, gloryhole breeding is the absolute pinnacle of anon sex. It sits right there at the top. What i prefer though depends. It depends on my mood, and what has occurred before i entered the gloryholes. Sometimes i want to take a look first, sometimes i want to get sucked. But in most cases, i want to see the ass already there, ready for me to split it open and breed it. And to those guys who take anon loads via gloryholes, shout out to you. I salute you. The community should honour you. What you do is provide an essential service. Back in COVID times i'd put you down as essential workers (or volunteers)

You should just take as many loads till you lose count. That for me is the ultimate cumdump goal

Yes it is. And i am one, and proud too. Some are coffee addicts, some are addicted to social media. the list is endless. Addictions become an issue only once they start harming someone. mine Doesnt so i fully embraced it

Its simple. Men and women are wired differently, esp in the way we view sex. They say prostitution is the oldest profession...and thats for a reason. Men are wired to separate sex from emotions. We can fuck each other with no questions asked. That's the reason why cruising, saunas and bathouses exist. For men, its a need. Simple. Women in most cases cannot separate emotions from sex. Men can easily fuck and forget. Most women cannot.

I used to avoid married guys. Mainly for ethical reasons. However, truth be told, it was just a waste of time. Married guys are everywhere. Its impossible to avoid them. My approach is now completely different. I have more of an "each to their own" type mindset, no judgement at all. We are all adults, and responsible for our own actions. So if they are cheating behind their wives backs, then that is their cross to carry. I have no guilt or shame. M2M bareback sex is highly addictive, probably more addictive than any substance. Once you start, its impossible to stop. That "only a man knows what a man needs" statement is very true. The majority of the guys i fuck at my local cruising spot are married, most never even ask about condoms. Same thing with the bathouses, saunas and bookstores. I've got a few married guys on my regulars roster, incl one guy who lives just down the road and pretends to be walking the dog yet comes to my place to get my load. Some guys try to insist on calling themselves straight, but its just a label. You cannot fight your urges. I've actually found it harder to fuck married gay guys. So called married straight guys are easy. And most are taking it raw. Like i said its addictive. That's just how it is

Haven't used any type of commercial lube in years. It just ruins everything really, from the smell to the taste Spit and/cum only. Its natural and generally makes the fucking better.

Agreed. "Are you clean" is an extremely dumb question. No one who is in the BB game should ever ask that, because its pointless. Its not like there is anyone who gets tested daily. However, what i found is some people do not like to take responsibility for their actions. Once you start fucking raw, you need to accept that there are risks. I remember blocking a married guy who tried to lecture me about the risks of BB, yet he was the one who came to me looking for cock, and he never got tested. He was so naive to believe that if someone said that they are clean, they meant it. Its guys like that who end up exposing an innocent person (in this case his wife) to all sorts of things she didn't sign up to. These days i'm quite blunt, i tell them that if you want all that clean stuff, then go have safe sex. But in most cases i have learnt to avoid the type of people who ask these questions, because usually they are trouble

Yup. Have dealt with those before. And you are right, most of them married/partnered men who lived a double life and never got tested. Asking if you are clean is trying to pin all the responsibility on you instead of them

Really love the friction, and general challenge to open it up. Love it when i go all the way in and feel that sphincter gripping the base of my cock. Not a fan at all of loose, sloppy holes. And because i only use spit or cum as lube, a really tight hole feels so good

Only a man knows what a man needs..... That statement best answers the question in the topic. M2M sex has many benefits that prove to be just irresistable for married men. 1. It can be anonymous...which is the preferred scenario for a lot of married guys. No talking, no chit chat. Just fucking 2. Its very easy to get. No dates, no flowers, no endless messages, no feelings or emotions, or money spent 3. Its very very satisfying. The is no bullshit when 2 men fuck. No shame if you cum early. 4. It encourages you to release your primal urges. Just fuck/get fucked and breed/ get bred. Like how we are meant to. 5. Bareback M2M sex is highly addictive. Once you start, there is NO stopping I used to avoid married men, for ethical reasons. But now several of my regulars are white married guys. And ofcourse a lot of the random and anon guys i fuck are married too. Life is too short to live it whilst being denied what you really need and want.

Used to happen to me a lot. In the earlier stages. At first, i was struggling to deal with my sexuality. The guilt would totally consume me. I'd delete all contacts/emails, and clear out my porn. Only to find myself back at square 1, even worse than before. Whilst it might not work for everyone, for me just accepting who i am helped. I'm a proud sex and porn addict. Just accepting that also helped me to cross the full bareback threshold. I live a hedonistic life, with no fucks given and no regrets. To put it simply, i just continued fucking until all that guilt and sadness was gone. I'm also extremely lucky to have found a partner who not only understands my needs, but encourages me aswell. Just give yourself some time, it won't happen overnight

I think for me it happens in phases. As a top, i don't have a particular type. Just depends on my mood. Chubs, twinks, regular guys, muscular guys, fem. I fuck them all. However there has to be a certain attraction for me to fuck you face to face. Anon breeding is different though. And i do lots of it. I absolutely love gloryhole breeding, and thats the best equivalent to a no loads refused bottom, because i fuck any hole there. I also do a lot of cruising after dark, and sometimes you just find an ass bent over on a park bench, and i breed it. No questions asked. I'm not sure if there are any tops who exclusively do that, but wouldn't surprise me if there are. Esp married or attached guys who love the anonymity and are just looking to breed with no eye contact or words spoken

I remember during the good old days of Craigslist hookups, there is a guy i met who was the same. I responded to his post and we started chatting. He had advertised himself as a total cumdump but only takes "clean loads". So ofcourse, after telling me how much he wanted my BBC, he asked if i was clean. I could have easily said yes, like most of the guys, but the stubborn streak in me emerged. I told him that " i don't really know, but it doesn't matter, right?". That ignited a bitter argument, where he insisted that he only takes clean loads. I asked him how he knows, and well, he said "because i ask all the guys before and they tell me they are clean. and i've never caught anything". Needless to say, i was gobsmacked by how dumb and naive he was. I told him that i get tested regularly, but since i am quite a sex addict, i never really know, but thats part of the game when you bareback. After realising that it was not going to go anywhere, i very politely but firmly told him to fuck off and look elsewhere. He was a sore loser, (as he kept telling me how much he wanted my dick even after i said no), he even went further to make a post supposedly warning people that they should stay away from me because i'm spreading bugs. Lets just say it turned nasty for a bit, but it came back to haunt him as one of my regulars took it personally and decided to expose this guy to his wife. Yes, i do have to mention that the guy was mid 40s, married with 3 kids. Living a double life (no judgement there), but he would rent out a hotel room when his kids and wife were away and act as a cumdump to random "clean" dudes. He never got tested because his belief was that he was having sex with only clean guys. Whilst i don't have a problem fucking married guys, i'm glad i didnt fuck this one. He was endangering an innocent third party due to his rank stupidity. I've met many more who share the same belief as him. All you have to do is tell them you are clean and they accept it.

All my experiences have been through third parties. Some years ago, i realised (via FB) that 2 Filipino guys i was fucking regularly were brothers. After lots of persuasion, (moreso with the older one) managed to convince them to come to my place for a combined all night session. It started with me fucking them separately, but once they got drunk and things started getting wild, they did fuck each other. Twice too. Hottest thing i ever experienced. The next day they woke up with deep regrets. The older brother virtually ex-communicated me and the younger brother (sorry this is not one of those fairytale "we all ended up fucking till happily ever after" tales). It seems the whole thing brought up some unwanted trauma from their past, in their teen years with a certain uncle. I did keep on fucking the younger brother (and his workmates too😂). I still get a massive hard on when i think about that encounter, always wished we could have done it more times. However, i was a bit selfish and manipulative, though it was their decision to do it. Oddly though, the younger brother never really showed remorse for it.

We should not forget that barebacking is still stigmatised and considered a [banned word] in the wider community. What i found from my own personal experience was that you get judged once you mention you are a barebacker. They see you as reckless and dangerous. Also, there is a big misconception that the bareback lifestyle and bug chasing are the same. I know several barebackers who will put "safe sex" on their profiles, just so that they don't attract unnecessary attention. Then once they start chatting with a fellow barebacker, they open up. Also, some guys are trying to fight it. I've been there before. Doing a bit of bareback then go back to safe sex. Living in denial. Truth is, gay bareback sex is so satisfying and addictive, once you start, its impossible to stop. Once i realised that, i embraced the true bareback lifestyle. No sitting on the fence. Go all the way

Way back in 14', there is a guy i used to fuck on the regular. He was around 28 and quite good looking. Met him off Craigslist, he lived quite near, and we would meet up Sunday afternoons, that's when he could sneak away from his GF. He had a fairly big cock, around 7-8 inches and good girth. First time we hooked up, it lasted about 30 mins. After the customary foreplay (kissing, sucking), i fucked him in the usual 3 positions - missionary, riding and doggy. He came 3 times from each position, in such a short space of time, and i'm talking about significant loads here. By the time i came he didnt want me touching his cock (in fact he really didnt from the start but i just did) because he knew he would blow another load. As our sessions became regular, i tried in vain to make him eat his own cum. But he refused. But i did manage to use his load as lube and fuck it deep in him several times. Loved fucking him, and i didnt even have to tell him to cum before. 5 mins into fucking i knew that if i just touched his cock he would explode. Never knew his name too (not that it matters...lol). Just saved his contact as "Cumming bottom"

Spit for me. Lube makes it too easy. I love the friction and resistance. Cum is the only alternative after spit

Agree with most here. Bugs come with the territory when it comes to the bareback game. Its something you have to learn to live with. I've had my fair share, no real pattern really. Its been more chlam than others, though i remember an epic 2 day bareback party i attended in 2019 where we all ended up with gono. I get tested regularly enough, but no real regrets. Its part of the game

Used to do safe...its just not the same. Too many hassles too. I used to do the occassional bareback, and damn it felt good but would have so many regrets after. But my uncontrolled sexual urge led me to do the common sense thing - which is to go full bareback. Honestly life has never been better. Besides, i was totally struggling to get (or stay) hard with a condom. Bareback just makes more sense, feels better, easier.

I guess for me, the label is quite fluid. Pretty much, i'm a guy who exclusively has sex with people who have dicks, regardless of how they identify. With guys, i mainly top. Its just the nature of the business. BBC is in massive demand where i am, so it makes it easy. With trans, drag queens etc, i go full versa, and sometimes mainly bottom. Its my preference. I have (and will) bottom for guys certain times, i've had a few of my twinks i have trained to be vers by allowing them to top me (and others), but, in most cases, my interactions with guys are with me as a top. Hence i chose the label versatile.

I tried monogamy several times. It just didn't work. In the later years, it became a massive disaster. I consider myself a sex addict. Can never really get enough. And that always posed a big problem. In some encounters, it wasn't even a relationship. But i was something casual that the other person wanted to become a monogamous relationship. I guess the turning point was when i met my current partner, who is trans. She fully understood me, what i need and how i operate, because she is similar. Once you separate love from sex( or, mainly lust), then you are free. My partner and I get along on a non sexual level, the way we talk and have similar interests. My lust however means that i cannot be satisfied by just her, and same applies to her. So we both have several sexual partners, and engage in a lot of casual sex. Its not a big deal. She encourages me to go cruising or fuck anons because that's what i need. When i tried monogamy, i still had a lot of sex outside the relationship. Always tried to hide it, had feelings of guilt. Led to a lot of arguments and toxic vibes. Now none of that exists. To those who practice monogamy and stick to it ( trust me, there are lots of monogamous gay couples that i've had sex with because i am the exception to the rule), then i applaud you. If it works for you, then do it. However, its NOT the "one size fits all shoe" that society tries to portray it as.

ALWAYS deep inside. That's where it belongs That whole pulling out thing is for porn. and its bullshit