KingB028

1000% agree with you. Nothing to regret or be ashamed about. I have so much respect for cumdumps. Once you submit to your desires, and allow yourself to be controlled by lust, you will start living your best life.

Absolutely love cum kissing

For me, when i top, gloryhole breeding is the absolute pinnacle of anon sex. It sits right there at the top. What i prefer though depends. It depends on my mood, and what has occurred before i entered the gloryholes. Sometimes i want to take a look first, sometimes i want to get sucked. But in most cases, i want to see the ass already there, ready for me to split it open and breed it. And to those guys who take anon loads via gloryholes, shout out to you. I salute you. The community should honour you. What you do is provide an essential service. Back in COVID times i'd put you down as essential workers (or volunteers)

You should just take as many loads till you lose count. That for me is the ultimate cumdump goal

Yes it is. And i am one, and proud too. Some are coffee addicts, some are addicted to social media. the list is endless. Addictions become an issue only once they start harming someone. mine Doesnt so i fully embraced it

Its simple. Men and women are wired differently, esp in the way we view sex. They say prostitution is the oldest profession...and thats for a reason. Men are wired to separate sex from emotions. We can fuck each other with no questions asked. That's the reason why cruising, saunas and bathouses exist. For men, its a need. Simple. Women in most cases cannot separate emotions from sex. Men can easily fuck and forget. Most women cannot.

I used to avoid married guys. Mainly for ethical reasons. However, truth be told, it was just a waste of time. Married guys are everywhere. Its impossible to avoid them. My approach is now completely different. I have more of an "each to their own" type mindset, no judgement at all. We are all adults, and responsible for our own actions. So if they are cheating behind their wives backs, then that is their cross to carry. I have no guilt or shame. M2M bareback sex is highly addictive, probably more addictive than any substance. Once you start, its impossible to stop. That "only a man knows what a man needs" statement is very true. The majority of the guys i fuck at my local cruising spot are married, most never even ask about condoms. Same thing with the bathouses, saunas and bookstores. I've got a few married guys on my regulars roster, incl one guy who lives just down the road and pretends to be walking the dog yet comes to my place to get my load. Some guys try to insist on calling themselves straight, but its just a label. You cannot fight your urges. I've actually found it harder to fuck married gay guys. So called married straight guys are easy. And most are taking it raw. Like i said its addictive. That's just how it is

Haven't used any type of commercial lube in years. It just ruins everything really, from the smell to the taste Spit and/cum only. Its natural and generally makes the fucking better.

Agreed. "Are you clean" is an extremely dumb question. No one who is in the BB game should ever ask that, because its pointless. Its not like there is anyone who gets tested daily. However, what i found is some people do not like to take responsibility for their actions. Once you start fucking raw, you need to accept that there are risks. I remember blocking a married guy who tried to lecture me about the risks of BB, yet he was the one who came to me looking for cock, and he never got tested. He was so naive to believe that if someone said that they are clean, they meant it. Its guys like that who end up exposing an innocent person (in this case his wife) to all sorts of things she didn't sign up to. These days i'm quite blunt, i tell them that if you want all that clean stuff, then go have safe sex. But in most cases i have learnt to avoid the type of people who ask these questions, because usually they are trouble

Yup. Have dealt with those before. And you are right, most of them married/partnered men who lived a double life and never got tested. Asking if you are clean is trying to pin all the responsibility on you instead of them

Really love the friction, and general challenge to open it up. Love it when i go all the way in and feel that sphincter gripping the base of my cock. Not a fan at all of loose, sloppy holes. And because i only use spit or cum as lube, a really tight hole feels so good

Only a man knows what a man needs..... That statement best answers the question in the topic. M2M sex has many benefits that prove to be just irresistable for married men. 1. It can be anonymous...which is the preferred scenario for a lot of married guys. No talking, no chit chat. Just fucking 2. Its very easy to get. No dates, no flowers, no endless messages, no feelings or emotions, or money spent 3. Its very very satisfying. The is no bullshit when 2 men fuck. No shame if you cum early. 4. It encourages you to release your primal urges. Just fuck/get fucked and breed/ get bred. Like how we are meant to. 5. Bareback M2M sex is highly addictive. Once you start, there is NO stopping I used to avoid married men, for ethical reasons. But now several of my regulars are white married guys. And ofcourse a lot of the random and anon guys i fuck are married too. Life is too short to live it whilst being denied what you really need and want.

Used to happen to me a lot. In the earlier stages. At first, i was struggling to deal with my sexuality. The guilt would totally consume me. I'd delete all contacts/emails, and clear out my porn. Only to find myself back at square 1, even worse than before. Whilst it might not work for everyone, for me just accepting who i am helped. I'm a proud sex and porn addict. Just accepting that also helped me to cross the full bareback threshold. I live a hedonistic life, with no fucks given and no regrets. To put it simply, i just continued fucking until all that guilt and sadness was gone. I'm also extremely lucky to have found a partner who not only understands my needs, but encourages me aswell. Just give yourself some time, it won't happen overnight

I think for me it happens in phases. As a top, i don't have a particular type. Just depends on my mood. Chubs, twinks, regular guys, muscular guys, fem. I fuck them all. However there has to be a certain attraction for me to fuck you face to face. Anon breeding is different though. And i do lots of it. I absolutely love gloryhole breeding, and thats the best equivalent to a no loads refused bottom, because i fuck any hole there. I also do a lot of cruising after dark, and sometimes you just find an ass bent over on a park bench, and i breed it. No questions asked. I'm not sure if there are any tops who exclusively do that, but wouldn't surprise me if there are. Esp married or attached guys who love the anonymity and are just looking to breed with no eye contact or words spoken

I remember during the good old days of Craigslist hookups, there is a guy i met who was the same. I responded to his post and we started chatting. He had advertised himself as a total cumdump but only takes "clean loads". So ofcourse, after telling me how much he wanted my BBC, he asked if i was clean. I could have easily said yes, like most of the guys, but the stubborn streak in me emerged. I told him that " i don't really know, but it doesn't matter, right?". That ignited a bitter argument, where he insisted that he only takes clean loads. I asked him how he knows, and well, he said "because i ask all the guys before and they tell me they are clean. and i've never caught anything". Needless to say, i was gobsmacked by how dumb and naive he was. I told him that i get tested regularly, but since i am quite a sex addict, i never really know, but thats part of the game when you bareback. After realising that it was not going to go anywhere, i very politely but firmly told him to fuck off and look elsewhere. He was a sore loser, (as he kept telling me how much he wanted my dick even after i said no), he even went further to make a post supposedly warning people that they should stay away from me because i'm spreading bugs. Lets just say it turned nasty for a bit, but it came back to haunt him as one of my regulars took it personally and decided to expose this guy to his wife. Yes, i do have to mention that the guy was mid 40s, married with 3 kids. Living a double life (no judgement there), but he would rent out a hotel room when his kids and wife were away and act as a cumdump to random "clean" dudes. He never got tested because his belief was that he was having sex with only clean guys. Whilst i don't have a problem fucking married guys, i'm glad i didnt fuck this one. He was endangering an innocent third party due to his rank stupidity. I've met many more who share the same belief as him. All you have to do is tell them you are clean and they accept it.