norefusal
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fav (most orally pleasurable to me): head over edge of bed gettin throat fucked like my mouth is a cunt fav (most versatile go to move): on my knees, where i belong 😜 fav ( group setting like in a sauna): bent at the waist so my ass is available for spit roasting, preferably by an unseen stranger
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i moved from NYC to Pvd RI on the eve of turning the big 5oh- biggest mistake of my life! lol i was very lucky to have come out in my late 20s at a time when NYC was like one big bathhouse and you couldn't swing a cat by the tail wout hitting 10 hot guys up for it at any given time on any given day. don't get me started because i have too many "and this one time at band camp" stories of misadventure. sometimes i regret not being even bigger of a whore than i was but i liked my life at the time so also no real regrets. now i'm well worn and world weary and just reg ole vanilla sex is zzzzz. so it's hard being a past-your-prime pig slut in a town that feels like you took a time machine set for 20 years ago to get to. -
define "a lot" please. i average twice a day but i have no idea if that's "normal" or not 😜
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no body knows u better than you. i had a bf once he held off jackin off for as long as possible because the orgasm was better. i'm the opposite. if it's been too long i cum too fast and it's like eh. but if i just came and there's barely any new batter in the balls, somehow the orgasm is explosive even if the load is small. when i was younger i was not only more vers but i tended to be a more selfish bottom in the sense it was primarily an orgasm enhancement so i got fucked in order to cum better. now i'm more of a true bottom in the sense i just love the feel of dick up the ass so it more about being of service and getting the top off so i can have that load. before i used to get confused when bottom in porn lost their hard on. now i've become that guy lol
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depends. some guys specifically request i not. everyone has their likes n dislikes it's not up to me to judge. 😈
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i'm in the minority that picked the tortoise over the hare 😜 i only have FBs that are good at fucking. if he's crap in bed he doesn't get a second ride. so... a year of solid dependably good sex vs a crap shoot of unknowns that history tells me will be 10% great, 30% eh that was ok, and 60% omg do they really have no idea how bad they are at sex? i'm stickin w the regular paycheck. tom, dick and harry may not be new but at least i know they're good.
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i find being a "ws top" if that's the correct term, more difficult than expected. it's surprisingly difficult to pee on command with a stranger. i also find being a "ws bottom" most enjoyable when it with a regular FB. but overall i find that not too many guys are into it unfortunately.
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me i prefer spontaneous sluttiness not having be be prepared like a boy scout i prefer gettin a dick sloppy wet w my mouth before bending over i love gettin my hole eaten out and slobbered over and if the vibe is right, i prefer a hot top to force fuck me in a sorta cnc way
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Jock, Thong Or Nothing? What Should A Bottom Wear?
norefusal replied to bikeorcock's topic in General Discussion
i wear what i'm told to wear or what I know will attract the type of top im looking for on that night. a filthy cum n piss stained jock for example pretty much says no is not in my vocabulary 😜 -
What annoys you most about gay porn.
norefusal replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
the uselessness of online searches! i type "verbal toxic top pozzes neg bugchasing faggot" and get a dozen results: first video uses condoms second video has a woman in it third video the top pulled out and cums on the floor fourth video the two guys never say a word it's like "did i stutter? where's my verbal toxic pozzing of a fag?" -
sucking dick and more specifically swallowing cum is considered "low risk" so this is a personal choice of how much risk you are comfortable with. the advice from experts is always going to be a CYA scenario as the whole safesex message relied on a "assume everyone with a penis is a pathological liar not to be trusted" mentality
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Anyone else have a cut/uncut family difference?
norefusal replied to cumfillthishole's topic in General Discussion
every blood relative who's junk i've seen has been cut. OT but there is a special mixture of lust and shame that came w those teens years changing in the same room as your cousin and totally droolin over and being jealous of their big meat 😜 im naturally attracted to anyone who "different" so almost slll my BFs etc are foreign born and thus uncut no matter their race. but i also have a preference for dark meat (sorry to be unwoke) so that also tends to up the uncut %. as for medical justification: i never bought the argument when my ex tried to tell me ikea throw in extra screws, and i never bought the whole "your body come w spare parts u don't need" concept either. guys who want their son's dick to look like theirs are weird. jmho. as for identity issues: i personally could give a flying fuck. why waste time dwelling on what u have no control over. it is what it is. not to overshare but several guys have looked right at my flaccid dick and asked since it is somewhat "not obvious " if i'm cut or not but i also don't waste time dwelling on that especially since if everything is going to plan, i won't be flaccid for long 😜 -
Gay sides on hookup sites and in in person sex venues?
norefusal replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
i'd assumed it was: top = i fuck (ass) bottom = i get fucked (up the ass) side = no fucking (no anal) -
agree to disagree perhaps im lucky but SM is not riddled w asshats for me. these jerks are the exception and not the rule and that's why i report them. i also report them as a record. if grindr is or isn't doing its job is not in my control but i'm not going to ignore bad behavior due to pessimism about the world in general. if enough people report the same guy eventually they'll have to stop ignoring the complaints. jmho and ITA w everyone who says you just keep being you. i wish i was closer so i could come dump a load in you myself you beautiful shameless man slut 😜
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what am I doing wrong? (be nice in your replies haha)
norefusal replied to a topic in General Discussion
this. it's shocking to me how uninterested in sex most men are. my local sauna is regularly packed with guys wondering around for hours never engaging in sex. -
am i the only one who has no fuckin clue? i mean, i know i was a tween but it wasn't a memorable moment at all and that's assuming i was aware of it. i could have easily had a wet dream and i didn't notice the stain in my undies. some of us aren't that self aware lol
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i hope you reported him before blocking him. his comment was antisocial, demeaning g and abusive and he should be warned by the admin to start behaving like a civilized person or be banned. sorry you had to face that. some people are so damaged they only know how to hurt others rather than heal.
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lol i was going to ask if you were a time traveler from the 1950s until i realized you just live in FL. 😜
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squirt and sniffies both have good info you may be asking for too much tho because most of these places rely on easy access and frequent user turnover and thus the thrill of possibly getting caught is part of it for some guys, as is the thrill of being watched and the thrill of group participation etc
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not sure why everyone is misinterpreting my comment. i'm not saying it's wrong to ask questions. but the OP didn't word the post like he's asking about a status. he phrased it like he's demanding to see a test result as a requirement to sex. hipaa may not cover private citizens demanding health information that is none of their fucking business, but i still say demanding to see someone's test results goes against the spirit of the law. it's our own private business. we can voluntarily share as most of us often do, but requiring to see a medical test result? uncool. and let's be truthful, THE only reason most of us list our statuses online is to increase our chances of getting laid because irrational prejudice against hiv+ men is still pervasive in current culture. also uncool
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What's the hottest thing a hookup has said to you?
norefusal replied to jackbottom's topic in Your Last Load...
"i fuck you more often then i fuck my wife" -
are we sure it's neither illegal or immoral? it's sounds like a direct violation of the hipaa act as well as an over reach of one's authority. you have the right to refuse to sleep with people but you don't have the right to request they seek medical help. if you can't trust someone don't fuck em. otherwise, that's why condoms exist.
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i think there are two different things going on here and it's interesting that everyone seems to be focusing on the bottom- rivalry aspect of it. it was a 3-way! ymmv but in my whole life i've once and only once had a great 3-way where no one felt left out or miffed that the other two seemed more into each other etc. even then it only considered great if u focus on just that day. it's also the only time i've ever gotten an sti so... but otherwise, the sex was great 😜 i love group sex. but there's something about the elusive 3-way that seems so hot in theory but somehow is always the worst sex in reality. i've sworn off doin couples for the moment. the jealousy factor is too much but also what really put me out the last time was all the non-verbal communication between the couple. like they're talking about u right in front of you ugh
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i went thru a somewhat similar phase from about 50 to 57. its hard to pinpoint an exact cause and perhaps it is more of a perfect storm. suspect #1 i start high blood pressure meds at this time and soon coupled them statins. suspect #2 itd been married and monogamous for 13 years and had hit my runners wall with the gay porn version of groundhog day that closed relationships are suspect #3 a combo of #1 and depression. we moved back to my hometown and i feel it was a big mistake. it wasnt just my husband i no longer wanted to fuck- the whole idea of sex was like "ew! are people still doing that?" i actually thought when we moved here "thank god everyone is so ugly, i wont be tempted to cheat" but now i readily fuck those exact same guys then one ffreaky friday, something unexplainable happened and my middle aged dad bod suddenly became possessed with the libido of a teenage boy.
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sounds to me like you want your cake and u want him to eat it too 😜 he fucked u didnt he? now what? your saying saying gettin bred doesnt count cause he wont out himself publicly? wtfc. is he your bf or an nsa hook up? pick your battles. thats my 2 cents
