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What's the hottest thing a hookup has said to you?
norefusal replied to jackbottom's topic in Your Last Load...
"i fuck you more often then i fuck my wife" -
are we sure it's neither illegal or immoral? it's sounds like a direct violation of the hipaa act as well as an over reach of one's authority. you have the right to refuse to sleep with people but you don't have the right to request they seek medical help. if you can't trust someone don't fuck em. otherwise, that's why condoms exist.
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i think there are two different things going on here and it's interesting that everyone seems to be focusing on the bottom- rivalry aspect of it. it was a 3-way! ymmv but in my whole life i've once and only once had a great 3-way where no one felt left out or miffed that the other two seemed more into each other etc. even then it only considered great if u focus on just that day. it's also the only time i've ever gotten an sti so... but otherwise, the sex was great 😜 i love group sex. but there's something about the elusive 3-way that seems so hot in theory but somehow is always the worst sex in reality. i've sworn off doin couples for the moment. the jealousy factor is too much but also what really put me out the last time was all the non-verbal communication between the couple. like they're talking about u right in front of you ugh
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i went thru a somewhat similar phase from about 50 to 57. its hard to pinpoint an exact cause and perhaps it is more of a perfect storm. suspect #1 i start high blood pressure meds at this time and soon coupled them statins. suspect #2 itd been married and monogamous for 13 years and had hit my runners wall with the gay porn version of groundhog day that closed relationships are suspect #3 a combo of #1 and depression. we moved back to my hometown and i feel it was a big mistake. it wasnt just my husband i no longer wanted to fuck- the whole idea of sex was like "ew! are people still doing that?" i actually thought when we moved here "thank god everyone is so ugly, i wont be tempted to cheat" but now i readily fuck those exact same guys then one ffreaky friday, something unexplainable happened and my middle aged dad bod suddenly became possessed with the libido of a teenage boy.
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sounds to me like you want your cake and u want him to eat it too 😜 he fucked u didnt he? now what? your saying saying gettin bred doesnt count cause he wont out himself publicly? wtfc. is he your bf or an nsa hook up? pick your battles. thats my 2 cents
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to me its more about generations than age or type. gen z is the first gen raised on pornhub on their phones and it shows. these guys will do the kinkiest shit and seem to think its just what sex is. after they cum their the sweetest guys. i got a couple of gen z FBs goin atm. its the main reason i dont really like guys my age. either they refuse to fuck rough or they think they own me just because they bred me - start tell me what to wear and who i can see - fuck off. although my gen z FBs are slim an young PoC guys, i wouldnt call them twinks per see. ive know too many milenial twinks: silly, gender neutral, overprivledge white guys w strong opinions on everything who dont like to be challenged or contradicted. ive really come to hate twinks over the years because of these types.
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ive been on descovy for well over a year and havent noticed any issue w bruising
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sex is not very woke. but that doesn't mean we need to make being unPC a lifestyle. u felt the need to tell us right away he was latino because you are sexualizing him by race. macho possessive latin guy oh no. danger. lol u also seem to hint that u both loved the dynamic when horny. why whisper hes the only cock for u unless the possessiveness was turning u on. and maybe he came quickly because he was turned on by fucking a used cummy hole. then he slut shamed u. humiliation is also a big turn on sexually ya dumb slut 😜 so which is it? are u guys enjoying some fun role playing? or is he too controling for your free spirit. only u know the answer to that. sounds like you might have to *gasp* have an adult conversation with the other adult youre adult fucking. oh no.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
norefusal replied to a topic in General Discussion
one day i was watching batman. they jumped onto the firepoles as bruce and wayne and arrived in the batcave as batman and robin. i then realized that for a split second while descending the poles they would have to be naked next to each during the costume change and i couldnt get the image of batman and robin naked together on poles out of my mind. too young to know what sex was exactly but i knew i wanted in on this 😜 -
just to clarify, as i feel people may be misunderstanding my comment from a hindsight perspective: my memory from having lived it was that the CDC in the early days of the epidemic told us to avoid cum at all costs. it wasnt until the mid 90s iirc that we were being advised that swallowing had been reclassified as "low risk" due to the reasons you list above. Anyone who lived thru the everchanging narrative of the recent covid pandemic can understand that in the early days of "mysterious gay cancer" the message was to lock yourself in the house and speak to no one. 😜
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tbh i get "u clean?" most often from "str8" cheaters so i get why they're being uber careful- ish. i of course will literally say anything to get dick and honestly, gettin barebacked on the sly by some bitch's dog of a husband is hot. why bother pointing out that last week's clean lab results don't prove i wasn't freshly loaded up by one of this weekend's anon guys? im not dumb. lol
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im a cock-half-hard kind of optimist who's view of nsa hook-ups is u can have quality, or quantity, but u cant have both. because im arguably a sex addict, i tend to think the only bad sex is no sex so... you got head, you fucked ass, pissed on the bitch... this is more than most fags are willing to give, so take the win an move on to the next bitch. but u sound like u def want quality over quantity so imo the moment he spat your load out you should have kicked his ass to the curb. if u dont want less dont settle for less.
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i absolutely can tell the difference both as top and bottom. its not dramatic or a deal breaker but raw just feels better period. but im more a "its not if u win or lose but how u play the game" kinda guy who enjoys the actual fucking of fucking. too many guys imho have their eyes on the prize and the whole world has become cum addicts. its one reason why ive stopped topping random hookups. i barely get it in and already theyre beggin "breed me daddy!" stfu and enjoy how good im fuckin u. but in truth, im just being used as a cum dispenser for their crazy collecting addiction. yuck.
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im gonna rest my vote on the word "favorite". yes, i enjoy suckin dick of all skin tone etc but my very first experience as a teen was when a guy my age rough skull fucked me w bbc and it was da bomb. thats really the snake ive spent all these years chasin, the dream im tryin to relive over n over. sorry if thats not woke. i eat all flavors of ice cream, but choocolate will always be my fav 😜
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Any cumdumps here that are neg and drug free?
norefusal replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
im currently a drug free anon cumdump using prep as a firewall against pozzing. i feel like this is currently the norm in the gay community and its a sellers market for the few tops left. luckily st8 guys seem to have grown more comfortable with the whole "its not gay to like breedin a dude's ass" but im here to learn more about bug chasing so i can make an informed decision rather than randomly make a life altering decision out of lust. and its made me rethink a lot of stuff i took for granted: like all those poz dudes who explained it away as a sort of woops moment. um.. were they all actually passive aggressive "dont ask dont tell" chasers playin russian roulette until their turn came around? is the desire to be pozzed more widespread than obvious on the surface? -
he whips his dick out, you open your mouth, he insert the tip, you both relax and allow nature to take it course. soon another mans dick is spirting warm liquid in your mouth and down your throat. im very oral and love givin head so this next step was a no brainer for me. piss is bitter tastin but oddly i love the taste like most sex things, its so easy when u like the guy and am turned on. i very quickly discovered via multiple partners that im not really interested in the piss but its the dominance that i get off on. the original guy who trained me to drink from the tap was a patient dom who understood mentoring. sometimes if he realizes via the apps were in the same bar, he'll refuse to acknoledge knowin me publicy but text me to meet him in the back and swallow a full bladder. then he goes back to ignoring me. the fact that its a total dick move is what makes it so hot.
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ok, lets be real: no one is fuckin capital G gayer that st8 guys! all their obsessive bonding over men-only activities and events, gang showers, towel fights, admiring each others muscles st8 male culture is so fuckin gay its insane. anyways i loved the boyscouts an all that outdoorsy male bonding w no girls allowed. didnt duck any dick but belive me, boyscouts made me gay lol
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yeah. its somewhat counterintuitive but its like a hybrid method of cruising lol in the truck stop areas sometimes guys ignore each other as they walk around but then someone in a car will text u on an ap "red car up front" an youll hook up lol another time at a bathouse i hooked up with a guy id been chattin w for months online who just texted me what room he was in n i went over ive also live met guys at the club by pokin someone it says is 38' away n theyll respond "over by the pool table, come say hi" weird times we live in
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sex addiction is like every other addiction. only u know if u control it or it controls u. ie ur not interested in love or u feel u dont deserve it. me, i like to have my cake an it it too. i was a full year into bein all loved up w my ex husband before i stopped serving every anon guy in the gym locker room. eventually i went back to my old ways. didnt live him anyless, just got to fuck a lot of rando too. win win 😜 but to answer your question, if ur into humiliation, havin a fb who whores u out to his friends or films u gettin pounded by rando etc add another layer of enjoyment to it. also, hookin up w randos while on a zoom group chat an lettin the other guys see u gettin used is 🔥too
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lol are u still able to drive to these places or do they only let u in if u pull up on a horse😜 i dont walk around the bathhouse w my phone or document any action but ive hooked up w many a dude via the apps. he'll text what room he's in an if hes fun it will turn into a group event vs all the guys just walkin round peekin into doorways but not engaging in any actual sex. ive even had guys come to the bathhouse cause i hit them up online. an dont get me started on all the princess an the pea guys clutterin up crusin spots, rejectin 99% of the guys hittin on them because they'll only get off w their 1 perfect ideal dream guy, but thats a topic for another thread 😜
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4me raw cock n spit go together like pb&j i never carry lube w me an enjoy the idea of just usin spit as i take dick in a public restroom or park or whereever i used to use lube more for the times i dont open up so easy but now i embrace the 30 sec of pain when a top forces his way in. its kinda hot in a cnc kinda way. now i usually just lube if the guy is starting to get annoyed an i might loose him - like sometimes at the bathhouse in a group situation the guy will get frustrated that im not some loose old whore w a gaping hole an just move on to the next hole. luckily for me there are still guys who enjoy a tight hole an will be verbal about it while they pound u
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it can def fall in the "careful what u wish for" category lol one time i went to hook up w a stranger, no pics, min chat, i was really wingin it. on the ride home my ass was so tore up an abused but i knew if future me traveled back in time and told past me "dont go. he'll turn out to be a young fit guy w bbc whos gonna rough fuck u like he hates u including DP w his bbc an a huge dildo that he'll just do w/out ur consent, also film the whole thing w/out ur consent, then after he breeds u he'll literally throw u out like youre trash" i know past me would be "gat outa my way! thats exactly what i want!" 😜
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"safe sex" is a worse case scenario extreme measure. sometimes i look back at all those neg bfs that i used condoms w and think "what for?" its all based on the idea that all men are slutty liars. when i started anon bbing id always pull out at last minute so no one was actually gettin bred. by the time i started breeding it was with people i knew were neg. by the time i started taking no questions asked anon loads i was already on prep so... by the time i took my first known poz load from an undetectable guy i knew there was a risk, but like a1% risk of an undetectable guy pozzing up a bottom on prep. it was thrilling but it was really "risky-ish" and not really risky w a cap R.
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before smartphones we had to leave the house and get strangers to like us by talking. most kids never had to learn to literally charm the pants off of someone, and it shows. texting a completed stranger "hung?" as a way of intro? are you a psycho or somethin? who raised u?
