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I think the orgasm from masturbation can be quite satisfying if there has been a long build-up to cumming. But oftentimes, I will decide oh I want to cum right now and finish up as quickly as I can. Big mistake I feel. I've never had the pleasure of cumming while being fucked but I know that my orgasms are very intense if a nice sized dick has massaged my prostate for a while before I get seeded. The very best feeling is when I continue to leak pre-cum hours after I have been fucked. I could even pass up cumming if I have been milked properly.

I am lucky enough to have a perfect fit. We don't live in the same city but we meet up in different cities. He is about 7 inches and thick. To make the sex even hotter, I use a specific butt plug when I know he's coming over. I thrust the plug in my hole to open myself up just before he fucks me so he can just sink his dick in. He moans like crazy when my ass opens up around his dick. When he starts to thrust, I milk his cock with my ass muscles - so much so that he dives in deep to keep from cumming. I then stop teasing him like that, take a hit of poppers and let him use my hole until he is ready to blow. When he cums, he stays inside to allow me to milk every last drop out of him. Even if I get in a relationship, I will not stop fucking him because we are...a perfect fit.

How about we skip the finding a replacement part and say if you are a no-show, you have to pay $25 (instead of $10) to attend a future party. And if you are a no-show a second time, you are permanently banned from the group.

I wonder if this experiment could work. Someone organises a party in a city. Max attendance is 15 (5 tops, 5 versatile, 5 bottoms). Donation of $10 required. Venue: someone's home or a hotel that rents rooms by the hour. If you can't make it, you have the option of finding a replacement or receiving a one month ban. Host should try to include a few new guys each time. The money collected covers the room, lube, paper towels, some drinks and light snacks. Leftover funds go to the host. Party starts at 8 pm and ends at 11 pm. Entry only possible from 8 to 9 pm. Bottoms have 10 potential partners. So do tops. Versatiles have 14 potential partners. If you don't like it, you're only out $10 - but you could end up giving or taking a few loads.

1. I like the instant feedback and knowing if someone is interested (or not) so I don't waste time. 2. I like being able to observe and figure out who is into what (top, bottom, versatile, oral, anal etc). 3. I like being able to switch roles. Online I am a versatile bottom but if I am in a topping mood, the anonymity of the bathhouse allows me to do that and I know I will get all the ass I want there. 4. If the weather is cold or dreary, it's very nice to hang out, enjoy the sauna and the steamroom - and get laid too. 5. I find the steamroom to be great relief when my sinuses are acting up. 6. In the bigger cities, bathhouses tend to stay open 24 hours, or at least are open non-stop over the weekend. You don't even need to book a hotel! 7. Some bathhouses offer full meals, which can be quite tasty and priced affordably. 8. Often you can get a nice non-sexual massage at a sauna on very short notice. 9. Because guys are moving between cabins, darkrooms, showers, steamroom and sauna, it's harder for them to be glued to their phones. 10. Hygiene: Most guys shower before and after sex - this and having paper towels available really cuts down on STDs.

I have another theory about the drop off in party attendance. Could it be PrEP? Before barebackers were sort of closeted/shamed and needed the parties to find other barebackers. Now you can look on almost any app and people are pretty open about using PrEP, which is clearly saying "I bareback". Therefore the only incentive to attend a party now may be for group sex. Personally I am divided on the idea of group sex - more potential partners, but also a bigger risk of catching something. I'd probably skip parties altogether if I had enough regulars.

Maybe the parties are being marketed via another channel? For example in Germany, I know of quite a few parties that never get advertised on BBRT. Posting a private party in Berlin makes very little sense to me because there are so many venues organising parties where you are almost guaranteed sex. Maybe guys are tired of no-shows and that's why the parties are disappearing? When I was in Barcelona a few months ago, someone on Grindr hit me up to invite me to a private party. So, I think the parties are still happening. The invitations are not being broadcast for all to see.

I think most guys these days use apps/websites to be entertained and not to hook-up. Maybe you score easily if you are a new visitor to a city or if you are one of the outliers (total top or super sexy bottom/versatile). Side note: I am also starting to think most verse guys are really just closet bottoms who don't want to be called bottoms because let's face it, bottoms are a dime a dozen. I just spent a few days in Berlin. Had a decent amount of messages online but when I went out to the bar, I got dicked DOWN. In fact I gave one of the employees at one of the bars my number. He called me the very next morning before 8 AM saying he was in the neighborhood. Fifteen minutes later I was getting plowed and loaded in my hotel room. So yeah, you can sit online and hope a fish bites your hook or you can go where there is a barrel of fish and enjoy as many as you can. One more thing, I have had good success at getting other visitors to a city to meet me at a bar and we hook up there. I do think that's kind of odd but I think it's all about leaving options open. If we don't like each other, then we've got plenty of other choices at the bar.

Interesting discussion here. I'm still firmly in the "ignore" camp. I recently had a guy write me a second time after I ignored his first message. I responded with "sorry not interested". He wrote back "why?". And I replied "I don't owe you an explanation." (I said that because I didn't want to insult his looks). My new rule now is, if a guy writes me twice in a short window of time, he's getting blocked. Just like I don't feel obligated to engage a telemarketer who contacts me, I don't feel obligated to go out of my way to make people I don't know feel good about being rejected by me. Getting a tepid "thanks" or an outright rejection from a guy is far harder on my ego than being ignored. No answer is an answer. I wish more of these chat sites had a way of making people "disappear" from my view and me from their view once it's determined we are not a match. I suddenly feel more empathy for women who have to deal with this type of stuff online and in public from men they are not interested in. It's exhausting.

The process of getting ready to bottom can be rather simple, but there are things we do that can make it very complex. It has five phases (at least for me). I know this thread is about getting the water out, but for the novices out here, I'd thought I'd go a bit deeper. 1 Diet: you need to observe how your diet affects your bowel movements. What things firm up your stool? What things make it messy? Are you taking fiber supplements? Yes Pure for Men is helpful but I've found that psyllium husk tablets are cheaper and work just as well. I take 3 to 6 a day depending on what I've been eating or if I plan a weekend of sex. 2 Timing of meals: it really does matter. We all dread having pigged out on greasy food only to have someone want to fuck us. But that's the breaks. Again this is something you have learn by trial and error. Maybe the meals should be heavier in the morning and lighter as the day goes on. 3 Use of over the counter aids such as Imodium: I only resort to this for weekends where I plan to be fucked over a 24 to 48 hour span. I don't think my body particularly likes it when I use Imodium but for me it seriously slows down all the traffic to my anus. But I've found I've got to take it anywhere from 4 to 8 hours before I plan to play. I've even been known to take it the night before. It really does make the clean out process a cinch. It's my insurance policy of sorts. 4 Cleaning out: the crazy thing here is that water is your friend and your foe. I'm not into fisting so I don't do those really long and deep cleanings. I control very strictly the amount of water I shoot up there, the pressure of the water I shoot up there, how long I hold the hose in there (eg 8 seconds) and how long I hold the water before evacuating (75 seconds). I use a Squatty Potty to release the kink in my bowels (or simply prop my feet up on something). Note: you have to totally relax and let the water run out. It doesn't work for me to force it out or spray it out. That relaxed motion of letting the water run out helps me avoid water getting trapped up there (along with propping my feet up). I douche several times until the water is clear. Usually when you see what looks like clear mucus come out your hole, you need to stop right there. 5 Testing: To make sure there is no water left, I use a butt plug while standing to fuck my hole. I usually stand in the tub while doing this in case the water that escapes is not clear. The final test is to close the lid of the toilet and actually sit on the butt plug while taking a hit of poppers. I really work my hole all over the dildo. Because my hole is relaxed and most open then, any additional water comes out. Then I'm ready to get fucked. So I say ALL THAT to say there are a lot of moving parts. Our bodies are different so this may not work for you. It's really about trial and error. If you have a mishap, try to understand why. And for goodness sake, if you mess it up, take it easy on yourself. Your asshole does have a day job. LOL.

Pride would keep me from occupying a sling for too long. The longer you are in the sling without anyone fucking you, the more your stock price plummets. If no one is approaching you, it seems to repel others and suddenly you are at risk of becoming invisible. Foot traffic near the sling drops off. I saw this guy hog a sling recently in Barcelona at a sex party. He wasn't a hottie (but not ugly either) but the guys simply ignored him after a while. While he lay there, tons of guys were fucking just feet away from him. I agree that the sling is a good way to advertise you're a bottom but let's not forget that it may not be where a top wants to fuck you. You could very well be missing out on a load in a cabin because you didn't vacate the sling. How's that for irony? LOL.

Interesting approach. (Straight) men typically do not like to be looked in the eye at all by other men unless they are acquaintances. It's as if you are questioning their masculinity if you do. So maybe by focusing more on the crotch and less on the eyes shows them you are not trying to dominate them. It's still worth exercising a bit of caution (even with the crotch watching) out here in these streets. I still think should any type of aggression or assault occur, the gay guy will be blamed for provoking the straight guy. That sucks of course but we as gays are still in the minority.

It's still open. I was there about a month ago. It's not my favorite place because your clothes stink terribly from the cigarette smoke. The darkroom is pitch black dark (and of course I was naughty by using my cell phone light to look around). It turned out that was important because there is a step down to get in the darkroom and it can be a little tricky if you don't see it. There are a set number of lockers for your belongings or if you want to strip down. I prefer S.L.U.T club in Hamburg way more than Talstrasse 8.

At home I use coconut oil. It's odourless and tasteless if a top wants to eat me out. It's solid at room temperature but if it gets too warm, it liquefies. Therefore I tend not to use it when I'm out. When I'm out, I use Pjur Back Door.

I don't like to serve gravy so I will try to weasel out of bottoming if I can't clean. A few months ago at the beach, my fuck bud wanted my ass. I was unsure about it but I had been taking tons of fiber pills. He plowed right in and the runway was clean. If it had been dirty, the ocean was right there. LOL. When I top, it really depends on my mood how picky I am. If I find a not so clean bottom, that's usually the end of the fuck. And I'll usually tell the guy. As awkward and embarrassing as it is, I think most bottoms want to know. I'll then go wash off and choose another hole.

When I read the title of the post, my mind went in a totally different direction. I thought it was going to be about how bottoms could team up to lower the costs of traveling for sex. But I guess that's tricky as bottoms can be competitive and the fur might fly if one is paying half the hotel costs and the other is getting all the action. And then taking this into an entirely different direction, I never understood why more tops don't offer to whore out visiting bottoms for a donation. I get turned on by the idea of a top bringing guys to the hotel to fuck me or him taking me out to a local park (someplace I'd never venture on my own) to get guys to do me.

I get exactly what you mean tallslenderguy. Over the years, I have developed something akin to relationships with tops that I don't see that often due to distance. We are both into each other physically and sexually. In fact, I'll even invite them on all expense paid holidays where we are monogamous with each other for that week. If I had several tops that I could regularly be with, I would gladly give up anonymous sex. I think I'll try to move in this direction in 2019. But it only works if the tops are into it too. Maybe my mindset will change again, but these days, I don't see much value in being community ass or trying to get chosen by community dick.

Thanks OP. Nice post. I prefer quality over quantity these days - and regulars over anonymous dick. I also constantly run these algorithms in any group setting where I try to figure out what and who to do to minimize STDs. And I always say a silent prayer for the guys who just bend over and take every single cock or fuck every single ass. I got a nice dose of Hep C doing that a few years ago (now cured thanks to a clinical trial). All you need is a top to fuck you with blood on his cock from fucking a Hep C positive bottom and then bam it's your problem. For this reason, I will not allow tops to enter my hole immediately after pulling out of another bottom. I will wipe his dick off with a towel or if I'm really pressed will suck it and spit it out. Maybe I've avoided a few STDs because of this, but who knows? So yes, quality over quantity. In 2019, I'd rather have 50 loads (one a week) with no STDs than 100 loads and three STDs. I know that all it takes is one load to get something, but I've been in the backroom of Bull in Berlin at 4 am and thought "hmmm, somebody's leaving here with an STD tonight!" It's all about calculated risks.

Most usually mention Berlin but I have taken an impressive amount of cock and cum in Hamburg, just an hour away from Berlin.

Hide it in the trunk of your car (if you have one) or buy a small suitcase, and a lock for it, and keep it under your bed. Don't pick a loud color though.

A few weeks ago while I was in Fuerteventura, I was at the beach with a friend. He asked if he could give me a massage. I knew that was not a great idea because he loves playing with my ass, but I said yes. After 5 minutes, he had a raging hardon and said he wanted to fuck. It was late afternoon/early evening and we were on a deserted stretch of the beach. He mounted me and was fucking me deep. In the distance, I see a hetero couple walk by but there was no point in stopping then. I didn't intend to put on a show but sometimes shit happens.

I won't hook up with anyone who won't give me a phone number so we can exchange at least a couple of text messages. It is the only way I will give anyone my address. Besides, I need a way for the authorities to track him down if anything happens. I never use the phone number to contact the guy after the hookup. I revert back to the app or website where I first met him if I want a repeat. That way, I don't interfere with his personal life/relationships in any way. Asking for a number is (in my view) a small price to pay to have raw sex. It also discourages flaky behavior. I fully understand if people don't want to give out their number but those are my rules so that I feel at ease. I figure if I'm not willing to share a phone number then I might as well go someplace like a bar or sauna and have truly anonymous sex. The other dealbreaker is if a guy insists on kissing beforehand. I know some people really really like it but for me it's all about the chemistry. I know it sounds weird but I'd rather rim your clean hole than kiss you.

Yes generous. I've been known to provide airline tix, hotels, meals etc - but it takes time to get to gold status lol. Just spent several days in the Canary Islands with one of my favorite tops.

Happy to spend time with guys into fucking chub ass. And I'm kind and generous to my tops.

I get tested at least twice a year. If I feel I've caught something, I get it checked out immediately. I've been around the block, so I'd advise young people who are "out there" to get tested regularly and definitely for HIV and Hepatitis C because those are the ones that if left unchecked can wreak havoc on your body over time. There's no shame in getting tested. Just say you were with someone and you found out they had something. No need to run down every trick you've had. It's not a confessional. ? Also, I was kind of shocked when a doctor told me that he believes that if you don't have symptoms, you don't need to test and treat. Anyway, I think the health care system approaches this stuff the wrong way. If left to me, I would probably offer DISCOUNTS on insurance to people who came in for a full panel of tests twice a year and showed interest in helping others stay healthy.