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I agree with the posts above. I think there may be a couple of other factors at play here. First, a side note: I distinctly recall when Craigslist and some of the apps like Grindr were not letting people use terms like "bareback" or "cumdump" in their profiles without getting flagged and shut down. That led, in my opinion, to the emergence of "are you clean?" -- "DDF" (drug disease free) -- "anything goes" -- and blurring of the term "kink", etc. Now you can see PrEP on profiles everywhere, a blatant sales pitch for barebacking. In other words, people end up forcing themselves into boxes and they blur lines so as not to become invisible. Moreover, these profile owners do have friends/work colleagues on these platforms and this often drives their behavior. If you're into bears, I'd cruise on the sites/apps specifically targeting just bears (e.g. bearwww, GROWLr, etc). There are many out there. And once corona is a thing of the past, go to bear events/cruises/bars. I've been to a few and they're very impressive. They need our support. Deep friendships often form because true tribe members are often loyal and support these events. I know the younger generation lives on their phones and apps and that only adds to this confusion about labels and the need to fit in. I always say you can't fake the funk in person so put more emphasis on where people from your tribe congregate and less on what boxes they tick online. Also, consider putting a photo or two in your profile showing your "dream" guy. That way, maybe you get better results, or at least it discourages people who think they're in the tribe - but aren't - from approaching you.

My most recent addition to the roster is a bi-guy named Isaac. His wife is pregnant, so I've been having to step in and service his dick a lot lately. He's the guy who works for a well known international delivery service and shows up here in his work uniform. Yesterday, he was blowing up my phone asking if he could stop by. I eventually gave in. He said he wanted the room to be very dark this time. To add a bit more spice to the hookup, I left the door to my apartment open and put on some porn. When he entered my bedroom, he said hello but I refused to acknowledge him or look at him. That took restraint because he's very handsome and I love to watch him undress. He's a younger dude so without even me touching him, he gets a boner. My hole was already lubed up as I laid across the bed facing away from him. He started rubbing his throbbing cock against my hole. He then suddenly mounted me. It was super hot to feel his mushroom head cock enter my hole while I'm enjoying the porno. I think this whole scene really got him going because he could watch the porno along with me. After about 10 minutes his thrusts became stronger and he let out a loud moan, flooding my insides with hot cum. Upon pulling out of my hole, he takes both hands and slaps my butt cheeks hard. After he cleaned up a bit, he laid across the bed and started looking through his phone. Being the macho that he is, he really enjoys it when I suck him while he's on his phone. He occasionally forces my head down on his cock to remind me of his dominance. As he gets up to leave, I'm laying on the bed, legs spread, watching him dress. I'm enjoying this image of him as the man in a uniform, while I'm just a piece of fuckmeat that he has just emptied his balls into. He gives me this big shit-eating grin as he asks me if I liked it. I said yes and ask the same rhetorical question to him. He responds "Ja sicher!" (of course!) I can be a moody bitch and I don't always put out when he wants to fuck...but maybe I should now.

Wednesday afternoon, I met up with a guy I first met back in January. We fucked a couple of times earlier in the year, but then I chickened out because of corona and turned down his other offers to fuck. He's about my age and we click really well. He arrives, we have a drink and chat for about 15-20 minutes. The whole time I'm wearing a long tank top and nothing underneath. At one point I flash him my ass and ask if he's ready. Then our friendly banter turns into gentle foreplay and then into some serious fucking. I've learned how he likes it. I position myself on the side of the bed, head down for 30 minutes of non-stop fucking. I put very little lube in my hole to start because he's a multi-cummer. I offer up a tight hole to start. Load number one is planted in me after about ten minutes. I am always silent when he's fucking me because I like to hear his moans and changes in his breathing pattern when he's about to nut in me. Then, without moving, he continues to fuck. My ass is nice and slick now so I offer him a loose cummy ass to fuck until he shoots load number two. Mind you, this guy still has not pulled out my hole and has been fucking about 20 minutes continuously at this point. So I switch it up and start offering the snapback, where my hole is loose on the downstroke and then I grip his dick on the upstroke. At this point, he is churning the butter and my hole feels like the consistency of a milkshake. When he finally delivers his third load, he still continues to thrust into my frothy hole before eventually tapping my left cheek and pulling out. He falls onto the bed. I sit quietly while he recovers. We then chat a bit more. He chuckles loudly when I tell him I do certain exercises in the gym so that I'm strong enough to take the pounding without having to move or ask for a break. He then compliments me on how good my ass feels. I tell him how important it is for me these days to caress a man's body and to feel a connection. He slowly dresses and leaves, but texts me on the ride home in the train to say thanks again for the booty. At this point, I'm practically skipping and whistling because I have been fucked good by a guy I really like. My dick continues to ooze precum long after he leaves from the 30 minute prostate massage he has given me. He lives 1.5 hours away from me, but says my ass is worth the trip. He works in healthcare, and I learned I can fuck him even if corona starts to spike again because he is tested very often. If he has the slightest symptoms, he is tested and sent home to quarantine until he receives the results. I don't know what I did this year to deserve him but I'm very thankful.🙌

I don't know how interesting it is for the others to hear me talk about the complexities of that relationship, but here it is in a nutshell: long before we became a couple, he was in a relationship with another guy and was fucking me on the side. Because of this, I never trusted him to be monogamous, so I "forced" the relationship to be open from the start because I thought it might make the relationship last longer. Moreover, I think I would have physically harmed him if I found out he was doing whatever he wanted (we didn't live together) while I was passing up dick. I do understand how seeing me getting fucked hurt him because I think deep down, he wanted to be in an exclusive relationship but wasn't capable of being monogamous himself. We broke up in 2015 and still remain close friends to this day. We recently talked about this topic of monogamy. He reiterated again what I thought back then - he expects monogamy - yet he's still on every app and at one point was play for pay (he's conventionally very attractive). And to your point about not venturing into the dunes at the same time: this was easy because one of us stayed with our valuables on the beach while the other cruised. If neither of us was gone too long, there were no issues😅. By the way, I'm 99% sure he is the guy who pozzed me years ago. I was only going raw with him and two other guys at the time and the other two claimed to be negative when I confronted them. My ex refused to get tested when we started dating, despite me insisting on it. He eventually broke down and found out he was poz, with what the doctor called an "old" infection. He would likely not be alive today had I not pushed him to get tested because it took years to get his CD4 level out of the AIDS territory range. Even he would tell you this. We are in a way bonded together for life and despite everything that happened, I still have ❤️ for him.

Some years back, I was on vacation in Portugal with my bf at the time. We had an open relationship, but it was don't ask, don't tell. We had been at the beach for several days, with each of us venturing off into the dunes to have sex with other guys. One day, we decided to go for a massage at a place about 20 minutes from our usual spot on the beach. I had my massage first and left for the beach, while my bf received his massage. While I am alone on the beach, this guy who had been flirting with me a couple of days prior, started cruising me hard. In no time, he's fucking me doggy right there on the beach. Mid-fuck, my bf walks up and the guy says "Oh shit your friend is here!" He finishes fucking me and loading me. I was gutted. The look of disappointment in my bf's eyes when he caught me is forever etched into my memory. I didn't enjoy being caught that day.

This scenario seems perfectly reasonable to me. My car doesn't run on air if I decide to travel to the guy, so why should I not be willing to contribute if he asks (for a reasonable amount). I see it as a dick delivery fee, akin to ordering takeout. 🤣 If I like a guy and gas money means I get his load, then I'm down for it. I can't take this money with me when I die so...🤷‍♂️.

I am getting dicked down regularly by a guy who works for one of the bigger package delivery services. I would never have known except that he turns up in his work uniform quite often. My neighbors must be wondering why our building gets so many packages.😂 He's in great shape, which meant I had to improve my fitness in recent weeks to be able to take the pounding. Even though I tell him pump and dump is fine, he says no he needs a hole for 20-30 minutes. He claims to be married. I think he's one of those horndogs that will fuck anything that holds still long enough.

I'm based in Europe and, where I live, the outbreak has been under control since late May. That was when I resumed taking raw dick and loads. I haven't worked up the nerve to visit a sauna or a cinema. I'm impressed with the number of loads I've taken this year given the circumstances, as most of my loads usually come while traveling across Europe. I have been in touch with my fuck buds in different cities so they don't forget me. Gosh, I wish I lived in Berlin right now because I've been reading on message boards that the parks are HOPPING at night because the bars and sex clubs are closed. Hell, I may still throw caution to the wind and visit because loads are guaranteed if you are there.

I fully respect your view on this. For guys I already know, I don't mind helping them to get where I am. I'd rather make it easy as possible for him to come to me than taking my chances on strangers and getting flaked on. But it's gotta be top shelf dick. I've never regretted this policy.

Ok I'll see myself out of this thread because I have sent fuckbuds whole airline tickets to come fuck my brains out and load my hole repeatedly. 😂 But not for a first meeting of course!

I can confirm this. It's a trust issue sometimes. I think nowadays the attitude leans too much towards "it's my way or the highway". I have had a fuckbud for well over 15 years now. Early on, it was safe fucking, and then one day, I said I wanted to take him raw. He said yes and it's been raw ever since. I would have missed out on years of loads from him by insisting on raw from the start. To the point raised above about letting him start with a condom and then stopping him, I don't support that - unless I would be fine with him fucking me raw to start and then putting on the condom to cum. I wouldn't want the game switched up on me like that, so I wouldn't try that on anyone personally.

What about this place? I haven't yet ordered from them but will try soon. They certainly ship to Canada, and despite their name, they appear to be based in Buffalo, NY. [think before following links] https://www.torontopoppers.com

Hopefully you get tested regularly for it. It does its damage silently. Your liver could be irreparably damaged before you or the NHS know it. If that's funny to you, then 🤷‍♂️. LOL.

Like many of you, I am starting to have sex again post-lockdown. A few days ago, I invited this young Serbian guy over. He's married with a kid but is into guys with big asses (like mine) 😇. I'm not big on texting and he was sending me a ton of texts. I almost got angry, but then realized life without dick can make a bitch cranky. At one point, he wrote that he hadn't busted a nut in two weeks. I thought, yeah ok, he's exaggerating. When I opened the door, I noticed immediately that he was way hotter in person than his pics online. In no time, he undressed and unwrapped the most perfect post quarantine gift that I could ask for - a beautiful 7 inch cock with a mushroom head. It curved upwards, and surely had to be a prostate-pleaser... I think it surprised him that I kissed and caressed his body, but I hadn't touched a man this way in a while. By the time I started sucking his dick, he had had enough of my foreplay. He did that thing that most of us bottoms love; he started pawing at my ass because he was ready to fuck. I assumed the position and offered him my ass. He complimented me on its roundness and firmness. Once he was inside me, he told me how good it felt. Even though I had lubed up well and had used a butt plug, I was not ready for the vigorous fucking me gave me. I asked him to slow down. By then, the CBD oil was also kicking in and I took some poppers. I then submitted fully and took the dick like a champ. He said, "Tell me when you want me to cum." That struck me as odd, but then I thought maybe this is the agreement he has with his wife. So I said after a while, "Cum in me now! Fill me up!." He began thrusting even harder and let out a sound that let me know that he was releasing inside me. He rested a moment before heading to take a shower. His dick was still hard afterwards so I was able to resume the oral service that he had abruptly interrupted to fuck me. It was only the following day that I realized how much cum he had shot in me. I farted what I thought was air but then I felt a huge wet spot in the back of my boxers. Scared that I had had an accident👀, I cautiously removed my boxers to inspect them. I saw that there was nothing but semen - LOTS of semen. There was even more resting between my ass cheeks. He asked for a repeat two days later, and I said FUCK yeah. The lockdown was worth it if he was waiting on the other side. The best part is that he drives a truck for a delivery company and can literally come by and fuck me on a break or on his way home to his wife. Hallelujah 🙌. These hips are in service again. 🤣

If that app could somehow alert tops that there was a no-loads-refused cumdump ready to take loads three miles away, ...those perfect 10s would lose their minds seeing all the dick and ass go to those "uglier" guys. LOL.😂

Sometimes I wish the various apps offered a special chat room/area called "Sex Now" that you had to pay extra to enter. You'd have to say upfront if you were willing to host or travel. Everyone had to be willing go live on camera if either party requested it. This is to avoid getting catfished with old pics. Hopefully guys would show their dick and ass. People should probably wear sunglasses and a hat to protect their privacy in case people were taking screen shots with their phone. Let's face it - the way things are currently, it costs nothing to be a flake. If it cost you something, people would (hopefully) be less inclined to waste others' time and their own money and actually try to fuck. This is why bars with darkrooms tend to work well. You actually have to make an effort to travel there and you have to buy a drink. If you're horny too, you're trying to fuck something. @blackdude: I think the reason you have guys hitting you up online after seeing you in the bar is that some men - especially white men - don't want their friends to know they fuck black men. Sad but true in many cases.

I am going to assume, hopefully not wrongly, that you don't have any gay black male friends. If you don't, then make an effort to befriend some gay black men. Don't offer any of your warm moist openings to them at first. Get to know them as people. At some point, when the friendship has blossomed, put your proposal to them. They will likely gently explain to you how inappropriate and offensive it is. It doesn't really matter how pure you think your intentions are. It's how others perceive them. And perception is reality. Here's a link to the National Association of Black and White Men Together. Have a look. It's a wonderful way to get to know some black gay men. [think before following links] https://www.nabwmt.org/about-us/ Peace ✌️

Here is a source with many ways that we all can contribute to the movement, regardless of race. [think before following links] https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CjZMORRVuv-I-qo4B0YfmOTqIOa3GUS207t5iuLZmyA/mobilebasic

Stories like this one scare me because it makes attacks on gay venues socially acceptable in the current environment... [think before following links] https://www.advocate.com/world/2020/5/09/outbreak-among-gay-clubs-stokes-homophobic-resentment-south-korea

This does not bode well for people who have multiple sex partners. This virus is getting ridiculous. I'm already avoiding unnecessary contact with the public, staying 6 feet away, washing my hands constantly and disinfecting stuff. I do all that only to find out that taking a load may end up taking me out. Make it make sense.

I'm in a European city with over a million inhabitants that has (had?) a thriving gay scene. I just found out that one of the most popular gay venues here has become a casualty of Covid-19. This bar was the biggest one here and hosted naked sex parties, leather nights, water sports, sports-themed parties etc that people from miles away would attend. I have given and taken loads there. We also have five saunas, but I'm guessing at least two will close as well, especially those whose clientele are primarily men over 50. It may be a long time before these business resurface - if ever - because it may become increasingly difficult to get the necessary permits to operate such businesses as we deal with the fallout from the virus. Will gay men even support these venues in the future? Maybe everything will turn out well in the end, but frankly, I don't see how any gay venue at the moment can make a convincing case to local authorities that they are an essential business that can ensure social distancing. Let's face facts. These venues basically exist to offer gay men the option to have anonymous sex in close quarters. These men then go out into the general public and place society at risk. Are you seeing venues close near you?

Why wrap up when the virus is reportedly causing strokes now? [think before following links] https://edition.cnn.com/2020/04/22/health/strokes-coronavirus-young-adults/index.html

The bathhouse can seal off the dry sauna and steam room because those spaces are too tight for social distancing. If I'm really honest with you, even with those measures, I wouldn't feel comfortable hooking up in a bathhouse right now. When we emerge from lockdown here next week, I'm inviting a fuckbud I already know - MAYBE. I still think people think this virus is not that big of a deal. This is on a whole other level than STDs and HIV. You could be out of here in less than a week if you catch it. And you can multiply those reported deaths by a factor of 10 to get a feel of the real impact of this virus.

If a top is tall, skinny, bald or with a buzz cut, and has a big dick, I will pretty much bend over no questions asked. If a bottom is shorter than me, hairless, slutty and has a bubble butt, I'll usually want to fuck him.

I buy Psyllium Husk capsules from iherb. It's way cheaper than PFM and gets the job done. If you want the natural lubricant that chia provides, buy it separately, make a chia paste (1 part seeds, 4 parts water) and just add heaping teaspoons to your morning yogurt or juice. I tip my hat to PFM for their clever marketing, convincing bottoms that they have to have it. LOL. PFM is priced too high for what it offers. And I have tried it by the way.