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Reading this thread makes me wish I could create some type of resort that was affordable for men that wanted to get away from their "normal" lives and be sex pigs. Everyone would be tested for STDs upon arrival. If you were infected, you would be treated immediately. If you turn up healthy, you could immediately become a cumdump or breed as many guys as you could. When you left, you would leave with no diseases because you were tested going in. No discrimination would be tolerated. All would feel welcome regardless of age, build, looks or wealth. -
Barebacking in Portugal
bbzh replied to Italynocondom's topic in Spanish & Portuguese-Speaking Europe
I'm in Lisbon at the moment and have been here a few days. I've been fucked a few times already (sauna, bar with darkroom). Each time the guys rubbered up. My only rawfuck came from a young guy on Grindr. So this place is no Berlin or Hamburg. -
I don't mind having sex out in the open where other people can see, but that doesn't mean I want to put on a show. I'm not trying to attract a crowd. I actually find it way hotter to see other guys getting fucked while I am getting fucked. So I'm a partial exhibitionist. LOL. The more dimly lit the room is, the sluttier I get. It's been mentioned in some of the previous replies, but exhibitionism plays a key role in advertising what your intentions are. I have a build that makes most people think I am a top. When they see me sucking dick and taking loads, my evening goes much smoother.
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Hottest Condom I've ever seen... and I never thought I'd say that!!
bbzh replied to jamieroot's topic in General Discussion
I guess this is hot if you like the idea of shitting blood for weeks and not being able to have pain-free anal sex for a while. -
I'm not a whore. I'm not a slut. I am not a tramp. I am not loose. "I just have a friendly pussy."
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The more I travel, the more I am starting to think that it's important to know how guys cruise in a city before arriving there. Are certain apps the way to go? Do the guys visit bars with darkrooms? Is outdoor cruising the norm? Saunas? Craigslist? BBRT? GayRomeo? Squirt? As time is often limited when visiting a city, you kind of need to decide early on where to place your bets. Any by all means, get in where you fit in! If nobody else at the joint looks like you, it shouldn't be a huge surprise if you aren't getting laid. In other words, skip the leather bar if you are into wearing designer clothes and by all means, skip the naked party if you aren't keeping yourself in shape. My two cents. :-)
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I have taken 5 loads the last couple of days. The first two were at the sauna. There was a bearish guy with a nice cock that saw me in the steam room. I bent down to suck him and then while facing him, I inserted his cock between my thighs. Suddenly, I whipped around and eased his cock in my ass. I am not sure he was expecting that. In no time, he pulled out and my ass was slick - so I'm sure I got a load from him. Downstairs, this tall guy groped my ass. I led him to the sling room where he fucked me. Someone knocked on the door and wanted to join but he was turned off when we saw that we were barebacking. He tried to lecture us and we paid him no mind. The load went where we both wanted it. Barebackers 1. Condom Nazis 0. The third load came from a fuckbud. He's very reliable and always fills me up. After he left, I got online and found another dude. He only wanted oral but when I got him close to cumming, he asked where I wanted his load. The next thing I know, I was on the bed taking his load doggy style. I was a naughty boy and didn't tell him I had a load in me already. The fifth load was totally unexpected as I had already turned down another top. But he was so insistent that I said come over. He was an aggressive top and fucked my brains out. I went to bed with his load in me. Guys are extra horny it seems. Glad I can be of service. LOL.
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For me, butt plugs and dildos help remove trapped water from douching and they are particularly useful when I am being fucked by someone who has a thick cock. I hate to be that whiny bottom who takes too long to open up for the large ones. I think a hung top who has sex with the same bottom regularly would be able to tell the difference. I have one bud that I was nice and opened up for last time we played. It really turned him on and he bred me much faster than he normally does. I have another very long and thick bud that I will see end of next week. Just to show you how serious I take these "challenges", I bought a special plug from Fort Troff this past weekend because he loves to fuck really hard (jackrabbit style). I am so tired of having to ask him to go easy. I want to see the expression on his face when my walls swallow his beer can on the first thrust and I can take his vicious pounding.
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Fiber supplements like Pure For Men are very helpful, but I think every bottom is different and getting clean back there involves a bit of trial and error, a customised technique (e.g. the right amount of water and how deep to douche), a dildo, some dietary modifications and still a bit of luck. We've all had that sinking feeling of thinking we're ready and seeing that we're not. And we've all been worried we would serve up gravy but turned out to be clean as a whistle. And raise your hand if you've ever gotten a text from your favorite fuck bud after you've stuffed yourself full of greasy food? One of the reasons I don't top more is because in my experience, less than a third of the bottoms are 100% clean. And yes I do a finger test before I insert my dick (and yes I hate it when guys finger test me LOL). One of my fuck buds told me recently, your puss is always clean - how do you do it? I said well...it's complicated. But I'm a consummate professional at what I do and I know first impressions count. Serving up dirty cooch is a no-no.
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But let's be clear, I have not and will not stoop to this level: http://www.lovebscott.com/news/say-now-landlord-caught-sex-tenants-bed-using-dress-wipe-mess-video
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What makes me a whore: 1) having no idea of the number of guys I've slept with in my lifetime (I couldn't even get it to within 100 if my LIFE depended on it) 2) having had a host of STDs (comes with whoredom unfortunately) 3) finding random phone numbers in my phone of guys I've fucked and that I sincerely don't remember 4) fucking and getting fucked bb by guys in bars, saunas, cinemas, parks, at home, their homes 5) Being embarrassed if my friends and co-workers knew or found out about me 6) Sitting quietly when others are called whores knowing full well that I've got them beat 7) Advertising a cummy hole and having guys add their load 8) Learning to speak 3 additional languages to increase my chances of getting laid 9) Taking loads from men who I know are in relationships 10) Posting/sending pics to guys with cum running out of my ass I'm sure there's more but if the above don't make me a whore, then whores don't exist. LOL.
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There's safer options if your goal is multiple loads. But as long as you are fully aware of the risk you are taking and you are willing to accept all of the consequences, what more can anyone ask of you? I still say the risk you are taking is not in proportion to the expected benefits. But don't take my word for it. http://strutsf.org/hepatitis-c/#
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Didn't someone not too long ago say they contracted Hep C after going to one of these parties? I know that the thought of a sex buffet makes many people horny but I wonder if people really and truly understand the risk here. Getting fucked in a 1-1 hookup anonymously is risky (on a scale of 1 to 10, let's say's that's a 4). But going to a sex party and having group sex where unwashed dicks go in your hole after they've been in another hole?. Wow. (9 out of 10, maybe 10 out 10). I'd be willing to bet that most bottoms leave these parties with diseases from other BOTTOMS that they picked up via a top's dick. After your weekend of fun, swing by your local clinic and get tested for: HIV (if not already positive/on PrEP) Syphilis Gonorrhoea Chlamydia Hep C (this is the one silently attacking those who have group sex and share needles) - if Hep C positive, it's 12 weeks of antivirals (cost $80K) Have fun. Be informed. Take calculated risks. Bungee jumping ok. Jumping out a plane with no parachute. Yikes.
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This sounds like an accident waiting to happen. Pay for the dick when you need it. You are not getting over on him by exchanging housing for dick. I think he sees you as an ATM machine so he's got plans for you. If you think you are falling for him, tell him you want to date and get to know him while he maintains a separate residence. You will see how important you are in his life if he can't use you. Good dick will fuck with your mind. Proceed with caution.
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Any Tops Have Trouble Finding Bottoms To Fuck And Breed?
bbzh replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I'm not a top and even I find it very easy these days to bareback when I do feel like topping, so I can't imagine a top has trouble finding a bottom unless he is: 1) very old or unattractive 2) has an unusually small or large cock 3) exhibits some unusual behavior that puts people off or 4) is so picky that he only wants the hottest guy every time. I think this whole shortage of tops thing is somewhat of a myth. And I think it's disrespectful to the guys who fall somewhere along the spectrum of topping and bottoming. I get the impression sometimes that total bottoms would rather have sex with a total top, not even realizing that they are probably missing out on some hot sex with versatile guys. In a bar, no one has a T (top), B (bottom) or V (versatile) on their forehead. For the bottoms reading this, there are quite a few factors that influence how much sex a bottom gets - e.g. how attractive you are, if you take care of your body/work out, your age, where you live, whether you go out, how willing you are to be potentially rejected, how picky you are, how much you travel and whether you are willing to pay for sex. Of course it's easy to get jaded if you only sit online and look at the same profiles miraculously hoping 50 hot tops who happen to be attracted to you move to your neighbourhood. But one last point I'll throw out there is that if you are a good fuck, regardless of whether you are top or bottom, you should have some regulars. If no guys approach you for a repeat, that says a lot. -
I always thought people put in ridiculously old ages on purpose because they didn't want to reveal their real age. Now that I'm getting older, I kind of get it. If you like the pics and you want to meet, I guess the age isn't the most important thing.
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Not sermonising @melbare If you can, please point out whatever I said that was untrue. I'm sure Rawleather wants to live a long and healthy life and have great sex too - without his liver imploding. It's easy to get on here and talk about the "fun" part, which is having tons of unprotected sex, but there are real consequences that will have to be dealt with at some point. For the record, I am pro-bareback or I wouldn't be on here.
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I'm pretty sure he didn't give you meds for Hep C. Those are ridiculously expensive. Get checked for that next time. That's the one that is running rampant in the barebacking community. 1 in 4 HIV+ men are Hep C positive. And the scary part is they have no clue. If you engaged in any group sex (and it sounds like you did), you could very well have gotten it. And it's not cured with antibiotics. It's 12 weeks of antivirals if your insurance will pay for it. Some insurers only pay once your liver is damaged. http://www.healthline.com/health/hepatitis-c-treatment-cost#4 So if you had 83 cocks, who foots the $84,000 bill now? I'm all for guys having their bare fun, but far too often little discussion happens here about the costs, clinic/doctor visits and aggravation that picking up these diseases causes. One of these days insurance companies are going to start offering personalized pricing. This is one way to pass on the cost of barebacking and other high risk behaviours to the person who engages in them. That's really scary. Have your fun in moderation. Get tested. Stay healthy man.
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Prove that you didn't pick up or spread: 1) Hep C 2) Syphilis 3) Gonorrhea 4) Chlamydia 5) HIV and we'll present you with your very own ho trophy. LOL
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As SuccessfulChaser said, STIs come with raw fucking. There is no way to avoid them. You can fuck 1 guy and catch something or you can take 20 loads and get nothing. There is no rhyme or reason to it. There are things you can do to minimize your risk. For one, don't get on an assembly line with other bottoms (e.g. sex parties) where tops are going from hole to hole. That is just asking for trouble - especially if the top is not wiping his dick off. Make sure you are well lubed and take it slow with the hung tops. A roughed up, wrecked bloody hole is a sponge for the nasties. If you do find out you got something, tell your bf and go get treated at the same time. Otherwise, you are just passing infections back and forth to each other. Thanks for starting the thread. Too many guys are focused on getting laid, but bareback sex requires having a health strategy. PrEP is just protecting you from one of the big 5 (i.e. HIV). You are still at risk for syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and Hepatitis C. Most people don't get checked for Hep C as part of their routine panels. But chances are if you engage in any type of group sex or rough sex, you are at high risk. That one can't be cleared up with a shot. It's 12 weeks of antivirals that cost tens of thousands of dollars (but prices are coming down.) Good luck man.
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You all are being so kind and considerate. I think I feel a tear forming in my eye. Can someone pass me a Kleenex? While I am waiting, creativedude86, girl you is G A Y. It's alright. We still love you.
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It's not about slut shaming. It's about being a decent human being. If a person tells you at the start of a relationship that he expects monogamy, then it's on you to say that's not what you are looking for. If you want to be a hoe, be the biggest and best hoe you can be. But people you are intimately involved with should be able to decide for themselves if they want a hoe as a boyfriend/life partner. It's always interesting to see how men rationalize cheating. A great litmus test for how you should approach life is to answer the following question: if I opened up the front page of the newspaper (or for you millennials that would be social media), how would I feel reading about what I've been doing? If the answer is "I don't give a fuck". Then great, no need to be secretive. Live your life out loud. But if you don't want others to know who you are and what you are about, then maybe you want to have a closer look at who you are. You're probably ashamed of yourself and your behavior - or at the very least don't want to be judged. If that's the case, maybe an option would be to surround yourself with like-minded individuals so you're not reminded of your shortcomings. In my next relationship, if I can't do spot checks of my boyfriend's phone, then our relationship is over. LOL.
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You clearly want that dick and that load again. This isn't a relationship so why does he need to show respect? I can understand that you don't like to be talked to that way...but you can't cherry pick here. The dick and the potty mouth are a package deal. Also wondering if race isn't playing into this in an interesting kind of way...you are being dominated by this black guy physically and abused verbally and that could be what's got you in your feelings as a white guy. And to top it off, you have to pick him up and drop him off. I've heard women say you can't let men hit the bottom of your vagina. Big long thick dick that is administered properly will fuck up an otherwise normal thinking person. I can attest to that. I got some dick on Sunday like that.
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I laughed out loud when I read that because it captures perfectly just how much times have changed. There was a time when guys had so few options that they would savor the opportunity to have sex in a bathhouse. Now it's just a place where you go when you're not even that horny and turn your nose up at what's there if it's not to your liking. I am starting to believe those articles I read that millennials are having less sex than previous generations. I guess there is something inherently distasteful about putting your "candy" out there and having people walk by, look at it and tell you it's not good enough.
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I think PrEP was a brilliant move on big pharma's part. You've got neg guys taking (what is in most cases) the SAME PILL as positive guys. So they make more money off of the neg's guys fear of becoming poz - which is a jedi mind trick in itself since pretty much everyone knows being poz is no longer a death sentence. So neg guys are acting like poz guys to stay neg. Perfect. I wish I had bought big pharma stock 10 years ago. The PrEP guys are still at risk for catching all the other STIs - especially Hep C. I've read statistics that say there are 5 times more Hep C positive people than HIV+ people. And 1 in 4 HIV+ people have Hep C and don't even know it. There is no vaccine for Hep C but it can be cured (if you've got tens of thousands of dollars or health insurance that will cover it). Again, big pharma is cashing in on diseases that they can CURE. To the question about where does PrEP leave poz guys? Well, I think poz guys should just start lying and say they are on PrEP. There are always going to be guys that don't want to stick their raw dick in your hole. Being a cumbucket on PrEP does not make you any more attractive to them. It actually hurts your case. It's like presenting a guy a form with the disclaimer "I can transmit all these other nasties in the next few minutes but at least HIV isn't one of them. Ready to fuck?" My philosophy is 1) Fuck. 2) Get tested. 3) If you catch something, get treated. But all this "partial" prevention and trying to classify whores into poz and PrEP subcategories is actually quite humorous to me.
