LOL I'm mostly a bottom. Say 65% bottom/35% top fucking, but I think it's due to the medications that I've been taking for about 16 years now and maybe age that I can't get it up at a moment's notice. It could be my testosterone levels (I'll have to check into that.). Anyway, I like bottoming and there are various levels of bottoming & topping. If you ever fucked me, you would know that not all bottoms just lay there and want to be ravaged! I love to be ravaged, butt I'm definitely not going to lay there like a lounge lizard! I'm going to be fucking your cock with my ass muscles, so if the top gets tired, I can take over & continue the session until he gets his 2nd or 3rd wind. A good bottom can be in control of the sexual situation & a good partner, whether bottom/top/versatile, should be open-minded to appreciate that their partner can do that. Now, I've had my share of tops that hate my guts, since I was too tight for them to put it in. While there are some bottoms that just lay there, there are also some tops that think they can just shove their cocks up your butt with ease. Of course, you tops need to know where the hole is, first of all. I've had some "tops" that think they have their dick up my ass, when I could telling them my hole is lower. lol For God's sake, if you first don't succeed, put your finger in the hole and then put your cock head where your finger is. lol So everybody is different and you can't lump all bottoms into one category, while lumping all tops in the opposite category. For I might be a fucking bottom, most of the time, I'm a fisting top (I have major control issues.) & I've been fisting (off & on) since I was 23. Y'all have fun out there!