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Same here. I only had a blindfolded fuck as part of role-play once when I was in my 30s. I was still pretty picky at that time and had hooked up with an average but nice looking guy around my age (and tbh because I had seen a pic of his big dick). He suggested the blindfold as it would "increase my senses" (or something similar). Went along with it. After a while he started talking and it took seconds before I realised he wasn't talking to me but to someone else. And I felt a second pair of hands. #1 said to go for it to the other guy. Incredible long fuck and he made me cum halfway before he was done. #1 went next. Solid fuck too. When the blindfold came off I saw that #2 was an older guy probably close to 60 (or at least old looking to me at that time). Afterwards I had to admit I would probably never had hooked up if I had known upfront. Started to change my mind about having sex with "older" guys. Still took a while though before I responded to older guy's invitations.

Yesterday I spent sunbathing at the pool of the Adult Only/gay friendly (my guess is 70% gay) hotel in Gran Canaria. Late afternoon I went back to my room and was followed into the elevator by a guy I had seen at the pool. Late 30s maybe Arab looking guy. Broad built but fit and hairy. Wore skimpy light blue speedos with a prominent bulge and a sexy butt. He only had his towel and suntan lotion with him. It was hard NOT to look at that bulge in the small elevator. He caught me looking and winked. Got off on the same floor and saw him disappear into a room a few doors down from mine. He saw me going into mine. In my room a logged into a "dating site" and after only a few minutes got a message asking "Have we just met in the elevator?" Almost blank profile but he was only 12m (about 40ft) away so could only be him. Told him probably yes. Immediate return message: "Want to suck my cock?" with a pic of a very tasty fat cut cock which made me instantly horny as fuck. Of course! Went to his room. Still in his speedos. Went to my knees, pulled down the speedos and went to work on his hairy balls and thick cock. To my disappointment he shot within only a few minutes. Cleaned up his cock and moved to stand up when he said to keep sucking. He was still hard. Damn, I love cut cock! After a few minutes he told me to move to the bed (one of the two, both with rumpled sheets) and to put my ass up. Asked if I had a condom, told him no. Asked if I had one in my room. No again. He just grabbed lube and greased my hole and after poking a bit with his dick head shoved his dick in right to his balls. Fuck! That hurt! Started hammering my hole for what I think was about 10 or 15 minutes and with a final thrust released load #2. Couldn't help myself and squirted on the sheets. He pulled out and told me I'd better be going as his boyfriend would be here soon. Got back to my room and a few minutes later another message from him: "That was nice. Same time again tomorrow?" Of course! That should be this afternoon. Got to make the most of the last vacation day! Also have a 'date' later today with the two British couples I met earlier this week. Hopefully will be nursing a sore hole on the flight back home tomorrow 😉

Exactly that. When I grew up the image that society had of a gay man were two 'celebrities' on TV. Both flamboyant men with a limp wrist. They were well liked because they were extremely funny (and bitchy), but those projected an image in the mind of the general public that all gay men were like that. That image was only confirmed by very camp TV shows from the UK like "Are You Being Served?" where one of the most popular characters was a very effeminate store clerk (loved that show btw). Older guys from the UK will remember that show. These porn videos proved that wasn't so. To respond to someone else, I did see the French Cadinot films as well but they never did much for me because those were mostly about young boys having sexuals escapades. Same as the Czech movies which came much later. The porn I liked was proof that it wasn't always the skinny young guy that got fucked by butch guys but masculine men liked to take cock up their butt as well.

Dental Care has never been a big thing in Europe until the last decade or two. Unlike in the US. Many people have bad teeth, me included because when I was young you went to see a dentist only once a year for a check. Corrections were so expensive you could only afford those if you had rich parents. Anyway, I never cared for the videos coming from Czech Republic etc. They usually had skinny twinks in them, which was not really my cup of tea at all. I preferred masculine muscle guys with big dicks, and almost all of those vids came from the US!

Growing up in the 70s limited my exposure to porn. As a 14-15yo all I could do is going to a shop where they sold magazines and cigarettes and watch the covers of gay magazines, even do a quick browse before getting caught. As a 16yo I would go out to the bars with schoolmates (drinking age was 16 at the time, it is now 18) and sometimes feign tiredness just before 12am and then rush to the local cinema where they showed a Late Night Special, a (straight) sex movie. They let me in even though I was clearly not 18 yet (the age limit), probably because there were usually only a handful of people in the theatre. They were silly German or Swedish movies with titles like "With you horn between my Alps" or "Swedish girls on vacation" and the likes. The women were of course the stars of the movies (for the male audience) but I couldn't care less. I got to see naked guys and dicks fucking! Not that they were very attractive but that wasn't the point. I got my opportunity to see a real gay video when I moved to a big city to study at 17 and found the nerve to go to a sex shop. What happened there I have told a few times already in other threads so I won't go into detail. But it was the first time I sucked cock and got fucked. By the videostore clerk (hot guy). I went back to that videostore many times and watched gay porn until the coast was clear (no other customers) and the clerk came into my booth. But it also started my fascination with gay porn. There still wasn't an other opportunity to watch porn until the PC came along. I got one early 90s and was hooked. I could spend hours watching porn although it wasn't easy to find the right websites. Advantage was that most of it was for free as there were not many pay sites yet. And I think I then developed my preference for masculine hairy tops. Twinks or femme guys didn't do anything at all for me. They still don't but maybe that is because I am a bottom and those twinks were too (mostly). I also learned about the various positions you can fuck, even though some were clearly not very comfortable to do but done anyway because of the camera angle. I agree with @CuriousDallasthat most major studios porn is boring nowadays but at the time those were a major turn on, even though it was condom porn. I watched everything, from Falcon to Chi Chi LaRue and others. But I started to have a preference for Colt, Titan and Raging Stallion simply because the actors/models appealed to me the most: masculine men fucking masculine men. My all time favorite being movies from director Joe Gage: porn with a storyline. Now I mostly watch amateur porn. I don't buy DVDs or download movies because I only watch them once (there are exceptions). I even watch a twink being nailed by one or more masculine guys, as long as he doesn't squel too much 😉

Good luck. There is some good stuff out there. I bought one on eBay. Brand is InTouch. Very thin material, unlined, 1" side and low back. Makes a great bulge and becomes slightly transparent when wet so I can only wear it where it doesn't raise straight eyebrows but it certainly helped me getting attention and new 'friends'.

On vacation in Gran Canaria at the moment. Befriended a 50s couple from the UK around the pool. Turns out they are vacationing with another couple (40/30s). Average guys with average cocks (except one really hung) but very hot. What started with drinks in their room ended up in a fuckfest with the four of them: two tops, one vers and another bottom. Three hours of play with lots of poppers and fucking. Being the 'new' guy I got most (all but one - I think) of the loads. Staggered back to my room with at least 5 loads in my hole and one in my belly (from the bottom). Missed diner but didn't mind hehe! They are here for the rest of the week so that's going to be fun 😉

I don't like violence at all so I'm afraid that at the beginning of the "fight" I will give up pretty quickly and roll over pushing my ass up.... 😉 Doesn't mean I don't like a rough fucker though!

I had forgotten about the mail oder catalogues! I remember going through those when my mother wasn't looking, going straight to the Men's underwear section and drooling over the hot bodies and bulges 😉

I love spycam porn clips but I wonder how you can hide a spycam in a hotelroom? At home I could imagine you could find a way to set up a hidden cam but there aren't many possibilities in a hotel room.

@Riverfk and @DannyBoyCMH: For God Sake: meet! Fuck each other silly and report on it here. Getting tired of the constant teasing between the two of you in about all threads I read. Get it over and done with. Eh...can I watch btw? 😉 Back to topic. These guys I am happy to watch wearing a thong

Well, what did you expect? You yourself admitted you started your marriage with a lie. Sorry, but staying in your marriage is not fair to your wife. She is trapped in a sexless and loveless marriage while you go off hunting for cock. You reduce her to being a housekeeper and a nanny. Set her free. She may find someone else to be happy with while she is still young enough. And you will be free to go after your own lifestyle. Wether or not that is hedonistic is up to you. Don't use your wife and marriage to 'protect' yourself from your sexual desires. Yes, it will be hard for the kids having their parents going through a divorce. But that is better than seeing their parents in a loveless marriage for the next 15 years. Not a good example for them. Be honest with yourself and your family.

Pedalling back to your friends house with a cumfilled ass must have felt great.

Have you tried Recon?

Two hot tops, especially the blonde stud!

My feeling is that you only get away wearing a thong if you have a prize winning pornstar ass. As others said there are plenty of sexy speedos out there that emphasize your assets. Indeed, get one that is unlined. When your package attracts attention so will your ass.

Maybe you can share a bottom 😉

Anyone know who this is?

One more reason to stop shaving your body hair

I hope you find plenty on Tuesday. Once you start sucking cock you can't stop (and can't stop thinking about it...)

You are so right. There is no right or wrong way. Tops and bottoms come in all types. I read plenty of reactions on this site from bottoms who don't care about their own pleasure. All they want to do is to please the top (well, they get pleasure out of that). Good for them but I am not one of them. I want my fun too and nothing (for me) feels better than cumming from getting fucked. And I love tops who can do that to me with their cock. Even better if they can keep it up for a long(er) time and make me cum again (and the top too). And there are tops who only see the bottom as a hole to get off in. Also good for them if the bottom is into that too. That as well is not me. I like it when both top and bottom get pleasure out of sex equally. I am an active bottom even though I like being pushed around a bit, but I am not a sub. Some tops don't like that either. I was never submissive and I never will be, be it during sex or in real life. We can still have sex but there will probably not be a repeat. There is a reason my regular tops are my regulars. In short, do what you like and find someone (top or bottom) who is into that too. If someone wants to submit and be just a hole go for it. If that is not your thing, like me, find someone else who is more on the same page when it comes to sex. Sex is supposed to be fun so do whatever suits you best. There is no judging who is "better". Just do what you like best.

I am with @RandyCubbyon this. I get hard when I am being fucked. And I stay hard until I either cum or deflate after he is done. Can't control it, it just happens. Too bad if they don't like it. Some of my regular buddies love seeing that they turn me on and I get hard when they fuck me, others don't really care I think, at least not enough to comment on it. I can't remember having a top ordering me to go soft. One in particular makes it his goal to make me cum handsfree by just fucking me and takes pride in it when he sees me shooting my load uncontrolled.

In that case there may have been a valid reason. He should have let you know however, it's the polite thing to do. Certainly if he wants to get together with you again some time. I can understand you're frustrted after going through all the effort to please him and done what he asked.