TigerMilner

Some guys swear they make their dicks stay harder. I've never been a fan of them for myself or my sex partners. They sometimes hurt my teeth too if a guy gets aggressive when I'm giving him head. I like the leather ones better for that reason.

I want to say just be a top, but I remember when I met my first partner and started getting fucked regularly, it hurt. I wanted it, but I hated that it hurt it so much. Getting fucked is definitely something you learn to do better. I've always been a bottom, but I wasn't good at it til I set my mind to it and learned how to do it. Learning to relax the sphincters, especially the second one, is important. Douching is one way to make your self relax. When you are not concerned with holding in a bowel movement it becomes much easier to relax. The book "The Joy of Gay Sex" was extremely helpful to me when I was young. I was not much younger than you are now when I set out to do this. My first partner was a total top with a big dick so I had to learn to like it or just get raped a lot. I not only learned how to do it, I learned to love it. But I do believe that being a bottom is part of who you are just as being a top is part of who you are. Its how its meant to be. Here is a link to the book on Amazon. I highly recommend it. www.amazon.com/The-Revised-Expanded-Third-Edition/dp/0060012749

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I think I comment first about it being easier with two big dicks. I did not say it only works with two big ones. Depending on the determination of the two tops, any size dick will work, it's just that it is easier to keep them both inside and moving when they are 8" or more. Of course, from a bottom's perspective, it might seem that the smaller the dick the easier it would be since you wouldn't stretch quite as much. But, until you do it, you have no idea how good that stretch feels.

Well Kenaibull pretty well covered the basics. Also some bookstores have backrooms that are dark and have maybe a bench or a mattress. Inserection in Atlanta is an example. You pay admission to get in and then there is a maze, booths with gloryholes, and two play rooms. Man I love that place. I've had some really hot times there. It is an upscale adult boutique, but this part of the place is downstairs with a separate entrance from the boutique, so the straight people are bothered. You kind of have to know about it to get in, but fortunately, a lot of guys know. It depends a lot on the city. Some cities don't allow bookstores with glory holes. Some don't care. Orlando used to have some but then the city council got involved in wanting to clean up Orange Blossom Trail and suddenly all of them disappeared.

Anyone who has actually worked for TIM would have signed a confidentiality agreement that would preclude them from revealing any details about the process. "Tricks of the trade" are closely guarded secrets. They especially would not be able to reveal anything that might be considered illegal such as drug use on the set.

I agree 100% with what Cam1972 said. I get off on knowing he is inside me. The physical submission is hot but there is most definitely a mental submission that goes along with it. And yes, I want it to end with him cumming side me. I too have a fuck buddy that has been around for years. Saturday night he was being really dominant, and because he knows me so well he knows how to push my buttons. He started teasing me that if I didn't do as instructed, he would use a condom on me. Not withhold the dick, but with hold the load. I don't know why, but it turned me on. Mostly because it was him mind fucking me. I don't know how I would have felt if he had actually used the condom, but then again, I behaved as told. I didn't want to find out.

Damn Jessieboy, this is sounding hotter and hotter everytime I hear something. Just stay cool. My fear is that the one who loose in this situation is you. Keep a cool head and don't fall for this guy no matter what.

I got it using Google on both browsers. I don't understand. RawTop should definitely know about this.

Im going to be in Dallas Labor Day weekend. Can you give me the specifics on this Bath House? Address?

Im on a Mac and got it using Firefox. I also tried using Safari and worked as well.

I just tried it and it worked fine. Same for Machomoe.

Same thing with CumUnion in Tampa. I've been and it seems like any other Saturday night at the Ybor Resort and Spa (which is basically a bath house that has hotel rooms). No difference that I can tell. I was hoping it would be more crowded and maybe a more outgoing crowd, but just seemed the same to me, which is not bad, just not special. At the least in Fort Lauderdale where it is held at a gay resort and not a bath house, it is an event so it is something different. Everyone is there to fuck.

If I were you, and I have been, I would leave well enough alone. I wouldn't tell his brother. He has to live with his brother, you don't. You don't want your feelings of guilt to create a situation that would make you feel better but cost two brothers their relationship. Leave it to him to tell his brother. Cheating is a moral judgement. If it makes you feel bad about yourself you shouldn't do it. On the other hand, it is him who is cheating, not you. If he is using this girlfriend as a front to hide his true homosexual orientation, that is not something you should feel bad about. That is on him. You should just keep quiet and enjoy what you are getting from him. Unless it makes you feel bad, then you should not. It sounds pretty hot. Often the fact that something is forbidden is what makes it seem so hot. Ask your self if you would be so into this if it was out in the open? Would he still turn you on?

Good for you. Sounds like it was hot. You should seriously look into PreP if you want to stay negative and seek out Undetectable guys.

You are right that the way to handle it differs when he is in your home versus when you are at his place or somewhere else. Fortunately this was a Grindr hookup so he didn't have my phone number. He does however have my gate code, which I regret. He also recognized me from my videos which always puts me in a potentially awkward situation. Maybe I should take the name TigerMilner off my profile. I have to admit its flattering to be recognized but sometimes I like to be anonymous. I didn't get a stalker vibe from him, just a sense of violence that I think he thought was dominance. I think men who get off on exerting dominance need to know that there is a difference in domination and in violence. The latter is not hot.

A man I hooked up with today has me wondering how other guys handle when a hook up is an asshole? I got a bad vibe the minute I opened the door and saw he was at least 10 hard years older than his picture and stated age. I was horny and not feeling confrontational, so I just went with it. I started sucking his dick immediately before he could have an opportunity to try to kiss me as I was not going to do that. He got hard really quickly then started forcing me down on his cock and gagging me, not in a hot way but in a way that seem overly forceful. I took it. Then I thought if I could just get him to fuck me that would be better. But he got behind and tried to jam it in dry. It was not working and I said "the lube is right there". When I said that he drew back and slapped my ass so hard I swear I almost turned and hit him back. It was not hot and it was not called for. It was as if he was punishing me for suggesting lube. Then he took the lid off the lube and poured about half a $12.00 bottle down my ass crack, all over my bed and onto the floor. None of it got on his dick. Then he again shoved his dry cock into me. He fucked me hard and violently. Nothing was hot about it because i was not into him and I was pissed off. Still, I wasn't feeling in a confrontational mood, though at several points I almost just told him this was not going to work. I have done that before. But today I just thought get him off and it will be over with. He pulled out of me as if to deny me the load that he knew i wanted and layed out on the bed and told me to get beside him and suck his nipples. Then he told me to lick his arm pits (he was wearing deodorant so licking his pitts sucked!) He was jerking his cock. When he got the message that I wasn't going to lick the deodorant off his pitts he pushed my face down to his cock and told me to beg for his load. I know he was purposely not letting me have the load. Finally he shot all over my face and shouted out a major grunt as he did so. I got up and got a towel and wiped my face off as he dressed and I got rid of him without much talking. All day it has been bothering me that I didn't kick his ass out earlier. I've met guys at the door and turned them away if they just weren't what I expected or weren't what they described and a few times I've told guys this just isn't working, I'm sorry, you have to go. It pisses them off but sometimes it just doesn't work. I'm wondering how often does this happen to you and how do you handle it?

I like to rim a top if it is him showing his dominance over me. Its hot when he makes me do it. I don't like to initiate it because some tops don't want their hole touched at all and I like that kind of top the most. It has been said before in this thread that rimming often leads to tops becoming bottoms and I do not want to "convert" any top to bottom. But I do notice that married men will become loyal fuck buddies if they get a good rim job each time because most wives won't give them that.

I love having two dicks in me at once. It is an awesome feeling, especially when they start to shoot their loads, one always triggers the other and suddenly it gets very warm and slick. It is amazing that it doesn't hurt. The asshole can stretch a lot more than we realize. It is also alot easier with two big dicks (over 8") than with two normal dicks because with smaller dicks someone is always coming out. With two big ones both tops can fuck and feel each other sliding along the shaft and you are not always stopping to re-insert. I wish it happened more often!

Not long ago I accidentally snorted a nostril full of the stuff as I was not holding the bottle. I find it hot when a guy sticks a bottle under my nose and closes one nostril for me, but in this case we were not quite in sync and I would up with it up my nose. It does burn like the others have mentioned. Other than that I've never had issues such headaches. I fucking love getting poppered up and going at it.

Good boy!

I always wondered how that was legal. I mean they were in your face prostitution. I do agree that there are more important things they could be going after. They weren't hurting anyone, if anything, helping people. Boo hiss

I agree that Jason is hot, but my fantasies are quite different than yours. In mine he's the dumb jock who I convince to let me suck him and then when he's rock hard I bend over and let him fuck me til he busts. Good either way man. Good one.

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You are right that some guys never get it. It varies greatly from person to person. For me, it was awful. I've never been so sick. I could barely get out of bed for nearly a week. Fever, aches, only one day of projectile vomiting and diareah, but it took me three weeks to feel well again. I knew immediately something was wrong because I don't get colds or flu normally. It happened 2 1/2 weeks after the fuck that did it to me. And the guy I got it from had similar symptoms before me. I went and got tested for HIV with a fever of over 101 and still tested negative. I tested again 30 days later and there it was.