NWUSHorny

Just the label is new.

I thought the puppy thing was just a PNW phenomenon. It has been a thing here for the entire 16 years I've lived here, and I had very little idea it even existed before that. We are starting to see a lot of other animals too, now.

I've been to CumUnions in several cities since the end of COVID, with varied success. The 1st post COVID CumUnion and 1st ever at Steam Portland was in the top 5 best ever for Portland, but all that I have been to since were pretty much complete blue ball fests (I was out of town fucking my brains out the night of the 1st post CumUnion at Hawks PDX, so I have no idea whether it was good but the more recent ones have been more blue ball fests than they were prior). First post COVID (and only post one I've attended there) CumUnion party at Steamworks in Seattle was a complete blue ball fest and the best one I've been to there. LAX Sanctuary (I've only made it to 1 post COVID party)slightly below average by pre COVID standards still a lot more fucking than at really good CumUnion in Portland or Seattle. CCBC in Palm Springs slightly above the pre COVID average (but I've only been to 1 post COVID), I had a lot of fun. Sniffles is worthless here unless you want to video chat or are looking for a platonic cuddle buddy.

Yet this region is known for its surplus of bottoms, which makes me seriously question it. In almost any other region of North America, when I go to a sex club and get ready to leave there is at least 1 bottom ass up presenting himself to get fucked even at off peak times, here it is less than 50% even at peak times. I guess it is possible that it is so imbalanced that they have given up.

I think some area have a severe deficit of DTF guys, bottom, top and versatile. I know I complain about the amount of sex I'm getting where I live versus other places I've lived and traveled to, but sex can be had here it just takes an enormous amount of time and effort, and often involves "hooking up" with multiple men who aren't actually DTF before you find someone who actually is ready and able to hook up and actually fuck.

Introvert, except when in comes to group sex. I want my pole in every hole and every pole in my hole 😁

I'm not sure that these apply outside my local area, I haven't noticed them anywhere else. Men bringing dildos to sex clubs and wanting to use them instead of a real life hard cock Going to sex clubs and only wanting to cuddle, most of them get pissed off if you try to involve a cock, either theirs or yours Guys walking around the sex clubs with their dick locked in a chastity device They never were big on fucking (some of them know a 1001 ways to have really great sex where no one has to touch an icky dick) since I've lived here, but these "trends" make it even worse.

It happens, luckily I haven't had one that tried to use it against me in any way. The biggest incident happened over 20 years ago, I fucked a guy at the bathhouse, multiple times both Friday and Saturday night, on Monday morning I started a new consulting project and found out he was the IT director I would be working with for the next couple of months. We didn't fuck again, for several years.

At least immediately following the pandemic there was a pronounced increase in sample rutting as well as one on one hookups, at least in Portland, but unfortunately for me it pretty much returned to normal. I absolutely love sampling multiple holes and poles during a night at the sex club especially big dog pile type orgies with lots of partner switching. I started going to sex clubs when I lived in Denver, and on the weekends I considered it a total failure if I didn't dick and/or get dicked by at least 25 different guys. In almost 9 years of living there I failed at most 10% of the time and I went almost every Friday and Saturday night. to normal. The fact that sex clubs and cruising in general doesn't work that way in every city, is the primary reason I'm sexually incompatible with the PNW. I think I've been to Palm Springs twice since the pandemic but had not noticed a difference in sample rutting there. At least at CCBC, it seems to be expected and I'm more than happy to comply with that expectation. The only time I've ever been to All Worlds was before the pandemic and on a weekday and it was much slower than a weeknight at CCBC has typically been for me. I've been trying to make it to a Cumunion party there, in the hopes that there would be a significant amount of hole and pole sampling happening.

Unfortunately this seems to be a common expectation in Portland, that if you fuck with them you won't fuck with anyone else in the same night. In almost 25 years of going to sex clubs, I've only had this happen once outside of the PNW. It definitely puts a huge damper on trying to get a good group orgy going.

There are a lot of guys that seem to want a somewhat weird form of serial monogamy out there. They aren't really monogamous and know you aren't either, but only have sex with 1 person in the same day. Ironically I more often have this problem with non-cumdump bottoms than tops or versatile guys.

Except for the part about having the fuck instantly step out of a portal, you can mostly achieve this by using the apps at a gay sex mecca, at least on the weekends. I know I've done successfully both ways in Palm Springs. The key is having guys that are actually DTF in a compact geography, which most localities don't have. If we had the instant portal that horn dogs from anywhere in the world could just step through it . . .

I went into one at the beach during rainstorm in Hawaii with several guys in it, I wound up fucking a twink undestall, then stepped out of my stall to see a pair openly fucking in a big shower area as well as a blowjob happening at the urinals. If I had realized we didn't need to be discreet I would have tried to get him out in the open.

University libraries seem to be great places for them. There were at least 2 isolated men's rooms in both the main and undergrad libraries where I went that were active every afternoon. Those weren't the only ones on campus, but we had almost 40K students and had a 2:1 male to female student ratio, so there was a lot of cum flowing.

That is true, the most active ones I'm aware of were mostly isolated at the end of a hallway you could hear people entering or up or down a flight of noisy metal stairs.

My reason for faking both the orgasm and the sex sounds is to encourage the other party. The last thing we need where I live is to discourage guys from becoming sluts, and because there is so little casual sex a lot of them are pretty inexperienced.

That's why I do it, it happened to me the 2nd time I was fucked. It is an amazing feeling.

I always try to give a bottom at least a few seconds advanced warning that they are about to get bred. If it is a new fuck it is always verbal, with repeat fucks it may just be speeding up and grunting. I also make an effort to keep thrusting in hopes a squirt will land directly on the prostate.

I'm envious. Was guy #2 the same guy you rode from under the stall? I love to breed or get bred by the same guy I've just bred or got bred by.

Experience helps in locating these kinds of locations. My most recent encounter was in LA last summer, I was at the beach and just went in to use the facilities for there intended purpose, and wound up exchanging some cock sucking with 1 of the 2 guys who were in there when I entered. Since I can't remember if I've ever found a tearoom encounter here in Portland (I have lucked out a few times at rest areas on I5) and hadn't been traveling much due to COVID, so it must be like riding a bicycle.

You have to make your determination on a variety of factors. In addition to the foot tapping somme combination of, has he been in the stall for a long time, with no obvious signs he is taking a shit, you can also quite often tell from either sound or the shadows on the floor if he is jacking off, which is a great indicator that he is there for sex. He may also initiate the exchange by tapping his foot, or bending down to just above eye level with the bottom of the stall wall repeatedly. Less frequently coughing in a manner that is obviously fake when you have heard it several times. You generally aren't going to know, understall action probably 75% oral, and at least 90% mutual. So the best assumption is you will be both sucking and getting sucked. If you want to negotiate in advance go the toilet paper note route or whisper your intentions if safe to do so. There are almost as many variations as men doing it. It signifies interest in doing something. Generally if you respond in kind he will move his foot towards yours until they are touching or start tapping more enthusiastically. If you have responded he may start subtly running his finger along the bottom of the stall wall or start bending down for a peek. Also look for any of the signals I described for #1. It almost always starts as oral, and usually doesn't move beyond that. If he tries to push your hand towards his hole while you are sucking him, it's a signal he wants fucked or if he is brazen will turn around and present his hole, if he moves his fingers towards your hole while he is sucking you, he is most likely looking to fuck. Typically the facilities that are used have walls that stop at least a foot above the floor, so getting down on your knees and sticking it under or squatting to fuck will suffice. Crawling under the wall does happen, but keep in mind how much time you have to recover before attempting such a move. If someone comes in, you scramble to get back on your throne, and wait until the newcomer leaves or signals he is there for the same purpose, if he is experienced he can usually tell you were engaged in activity and accelerate his signals. If he is there for the same reason give him a show or if he is next to your stall invite him to join. I'm a 53 year old who has several vertebrae fused and can still manage it when I get the opportunity. So I would say no. If you are alone, or everyone in the washroom is confirmed as being there for the same reason there is sometimes verbal communication. I've also mentioned passing toilet paper messages under the wall several times. Your hookup may know of a better location, often somewhere with a locking door, or go home with them, that 2 or 3 of you can go for some real fun, which does require more communication. It depends on the washroom, you do sometimes double up. One of you can squat on the toilet or raise up your feet if someone comes in. It frequently happens in single stall washrooms or anytime both understall and urinal cruising is happening, and can if there is ample warning result in some decent orgies in front of the stalls. This pic looks suspiciously like the one of my favorite tearooms from my undergrad days. It was definitely the best choice ion campus if you wanted to fuck or get fucked. I had a lot of 3 way fucks in that handicap stall, and at least a handful of groups of this size or more in front of the stalls.

It's not just older guys at the venues I frequent. It is mostly what I call "functional lesbians" i.e. they don't fuck or get fucked, most of them don't suck or get sucked, and in quite a few of them won't touch a cock or allow you to touch theirs, but still want you to "hookup", i.e. hang out naked with them for several hours. A few of the "functional lesbians" are fisters or fistees. A lot of them are starting to bring their dildoes to the bathhouse. One of the bathhouses hosts massage and spa events where penetration and sucking are not really welcomed by the attendees, and the other has installed special dildo washing facilities and is hosting toy play parties (I haven't been to a toy play party so I don't know if the attendees object to penetration with a a cock).

I actually think for most it is probably more of a matter of finding an active facility, if you are there actively looking for sex the signals become fairly obvious. If you happened there for the intended use of the facility or you aren't actively looking for sex you are unlikely to notice. I was lucky enough to grow up in an area with an abundance of these "facilities", and I think I could have figured it out without reading a 200 page book.

@408curious I'm curious why you consider yourself "straight" if you enjoy sex with both genders? I had a discussion with a "gay" that had sex with both genders but was adamant that he was gay. I've considered myself bisexual for as long as I've known what that meant, I fantasize and enjoy sex with both genders, I've had a lot more sex with men than women, but have never developed or had any interest in developing a romantic attachment to a man. I'm absolutely certain I'm both bi and fully versatile. I absolutely love MMF 3 ways, but don't think I have ever bottomed in that situation when the other man was more than 25.

I've heard promiscuous men of all sexual persuasions called, and have been called these a few times myself: Horndog Himbo Man ho Salty dog Satyromaniac Scamp Personally I kind of like "salty dog," since I love dogpile group fucks.