NWUSHorny
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Asexuality seems to be an up and coming thing for some reason. -
So that is what they were at the bathhouses for in Portland this weekend. LOL They certainly weren't there to fuck or even suck.
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It's been big in Portland for the entire 16 years I've lived here. I hadn't really encountered it before I moved here, and still haven't seen it much anywhere else in my travels.
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Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I'm not sure that is helping them here, "Spa Night" parties seem to be the best attended events, and pretty much any fetish event that isn't explicitly about sex is better attended than CumUnion. -
I went to Palm Springs over the 4th of July last year, and it was brutal in both good and bad ways. I've thought a little about moving there, but can't get past the climate, I actually enjoy all 4 seasons and don't deal well with extreme heat, and it looks like it would a little higher cost of living (I may want to retire in the next 10 years). I'm lucky enough to be able to live anywhere with my current job and am probably looking at somewhere back in the Midwest since all of my family lives there and my job is based out of MN, plus both the sex and cost of living would be better there than here. If I don't go to the Midwest, I will probably move back to CO, the sex has always been good for me there, I love the climate, and the cost of living is pretty comparable to here. The sex probably isn't going to be as good as it is in Palm Springs in any of the places I'm considering, but I at least have always had better luck in the cities I'm considering than I do here.
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Sounds like a great time. I need to figure out a summer sexcation too. My biggest problem is limited time, and need to spend it working towards relocating to somewhere I can get more casual sex on a regular basis, and as much Palm Springs has been good to me for sex I don't think it is where I want to live. FYI, thanks for the effort in trying to top to make sex happen.
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At the very least there is a severe shortage of flip fuckers. I've never understood why so few verse guys are up for doing both in the same encounter.
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Another change, not sure it qualifies as a trend, is presence of FTM and more recently MTF that still have their male sexual equipment (I'm not sure why they would want to go to a gay sex club, but Hawks PDX has made an effort to make them feel welcome) in gay sex clubs. To be fair the vast majority of them were not old enough to go to sex clubs 10 years ago.
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Maybe they will go with "power cuddler" instead. Locally that term seems to be more popular than "side". There seem to be many new ways to say "we can have gay sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch yours." Who knows, maybe my label "functionally lesbian" will catch on, since for some reason it hasn't made anyone mad yet (I'm not sure how actual lesbians would react to it).
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Just the label is new.
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I thought the puppy thing was just a PNW phenomenon. It has been a thing here for the entire 16 years I've lived here, and I had very little idea it even existed before that. We are starting to see a lot of other animals too, now.
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Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I've been to CumUnions in several cities since the end of COVID, with varied success. The 1st post COVID CumUnion and 1st ever at Steam Portland was in the top 5 best ever for Portland, but all that I have been to since were pretty much complete blue ball fests (I was out of town fucking my brains out the night of the 1st post CumUnion at Hawks PDX, so I have no idea whether it was good but the more recent ones have been more blue ball fests than they were prior). First post COVID (and only post one I've attended there) CumUnion party at Steamworks in Seattle was a complete blue ball fest and the best one I've been to there. LAX Sanctuary (I've only made it to 1 post COVID party)slightly below average by pre COVID standards still a lot more fucking than at really good CumUnion in Portland or Seattle. CCBC in Palm Springs slightly above the pre COVID average (but I've only been to 1 post COVID), I had a lot of fun. Sniffles is worthless here unless you want to video chat or are looking for a platonic cuddle buddy. -
Yet this region is known for its surplus of bottoms, which makes me seriously question it. In almost any other region of North America, when I go to a sex club and get ready to leave there is at least 1 bottom ass up presenting himself to get fucked even at off peak times, here it is less than 50% even at peak times. I guess it is possible that it is so imbalanced that they have given up.
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I think some area have a severe deficit of DTF guys, bottom, top and versatile. I know I complain about the amount of sex I'm getting where I live versus other places I've lived and traveled to, but sex can be had here it just takes an enormous amount of time and effort, and often involves "hooking up" with multiple men who aren't actually DTF before you find someone who actually is ready and able to hook up and actually fuck.
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Introvert, except when in comes to group sex. I want my pole in every hole and every pole in my hole 😁
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I'm not sure that these apply outside my local area, I haven't noticed them anywhere else. Men bringing dildos to sex clubs and wanting to use them instead of a real life hard cock Going to sex clubs and only wanting to cuddle, most of them get pissed off if you try to involve a cock, either theirs or yours Guys walking around the sex clubs with their dick locked in a chastity device They never were big on fucking (some of them know a 1001 ways to have really great sex where no one has to touch an icky dick) since I've lived here, but these "trends" make it even worse.
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Stories about a hookup that turned out to not be random?
NWUSHorny replied to BurnAfterReading17's topic in Your Last Load...
It happens, luckily I haven't had one that tried to use it against me in any way. The biggest incident happened over 20 years ago, I fucked a guy at the bathhouse, multiple times both Friday and Saturday night, on Monday morning I started a new consulting project and found out he was the IT director I would be working with for the next couple of months. We didn't fuck again, for several years. -
At least immediately following the pandemic there was a pronounced increase in sample rutting as well as one on one hookups, at least in Portland, but unfortunately for me it pretty much returned to normal. I absolutely love sampling multiple holes and poles during a night at the sex club especially big dog pile type orgies with lots of partner switching. I started going to sex clubs when I lived in Denver, and on the weekends I considered it a total failure if I didn't dick and/or get dicked by at least 25 different guys. In almost 9 years of living there I failed at most 10% of the time and I went almost every Friday and Saturday night. to normal. The fact that sex clubs and cruising in general doesn't work that way in every city, is the primary reason I'm sexually incompatible with the PNW. I think I've been to Palm Springs twice since the pandemic but had not noticed a difference in sample rutting there. At least at CCBC, it seems to be expected and I'm more than happy to comply with that expectation. The only time I've ever been to All Worlds was before the pandemic and on a weekday and it was much slower than a weeknight at CCBC has typically been for me. I've been trying to make it to a Cumunion party there, in the hopes that there would be a significant amount of hole and pole sampling happening.
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Unfortunately this seems to be a common expectation in Portland, that if you fuck with them you won't fuck with anyone else in the same night. In almost 25 years of going to sex clubs, I've only had this happen once outside of the PNW. It definitely puts a huge damper on trying to get a good group orgy going.
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There are a lot of guys that seem to want a somewhat weird form of serial monogamy out there. They aren't really monogamous and know you aren't either, but only have sex with 1 person in the same day. Ironically I more often have this problem with non-cumdump bottoms than tops or versatile guys.
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Except for the part about having the fuck instantly step out of a portal, you can mostly achieve this by using the apps at a gay sex mecca, at least on the weekends. I know I've done successfully both ways in Palm Springs. The key is having guys that are actually DTF in a compact geography, which most localities don't have. If we had the instant portal that horn dogs from anywhere in the world could just step through it . . .
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I went into one at the beach during rainstorm in Hawaii with several guys in it, I wound up fucking a twink undestall, then stepped out of my stall to see a pair openly fucking in a big shower area as well as a blowjob happening at the urinals. If I had realized we didn't need to be discreet I would have tried to get him out in the open.
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University libraries seem to be great places for them. There were at least 2 isolated men's rooms in both the main and undergrad libraries where I went that were active every afternoon. Those weren't the only ones on campus, but we had almost 40K students and had a 2:1 male to female student ratio, so there was a lot of cum flowing.
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That is true, the most active ones I'm aware of were mostly isolated at the end of a hallway you could hear people entering or up or down a flight of noisy metal stairs.
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My reason for faking both the orgasm and the sex sounds is to encourage the other party. The last thing we need where I live is to discourage guys from becoming sluts, and because there is so little casual sex a lot of them are pretty inexperienced.
