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NWUSHorny

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  1. How does the bathhouse/sex club/sauna type establishments differ from adult bookstores or theaters that allow, either legally or illegally depending on local law, sexual activity to happen on their premises? I've been propositioned by other patrons in the theaters and bookstores to either pay or get paid for sex a lot more times than it has happened in bathhouses.
  2. I'm not sure, since I identify as versatile and do not exchange money for sex period, I have not actually sought the discount anywhere. I will admit this discount has been offered to me, but I have always refused. I've always hardcore about not paying for or getting paid for sex and have always unequivocally refused all offers. My adamance to not get paid for sex is the main reason I did not really participate in any porn when I was younger, although I am visible in the background but not having sex (wearing a mask) in 3 orgy movies (2 gay one bi). After moving to the west coast and experiencing laxer laws about sexual devience, I've also been discomforted with winning free passes for winning in various sexclub contests over the years, I really enjoyed participating in the contests but haven't for the most part used the free passes that came with winning them (at one point I had collected a several year supply of lube and did accept at least 1 jockstrap). I also have a hard and fast rule not to enter the same contest again once I have won it.
  3. As someone who has always been totally versatile, I can't imagine not being willing to do one or the other. I would also add, that you are far more likely to get loads at the sauna if most of the guys there are versatile and willing to help get and keep the ball rolling than you are if you go as a total bottom. Take a look at this poll while the intention wasn't to poll tops versus bottoms, you should notice that 50% of sauna goers are total bottoms versus only around 10% total tops. I have long suspected if the ratio skews even slightly higher towards total bottoms, that the sauna/bathhouse/sex club action simply stops. So I believe that if you want to collect a lot of loads and you do have the natural inclination to be at least somewhat versatile, you will actual get more loads if you are willing to flip.
  4. To be fair, there are bathhouses that offer discounts to tops on certain days, I'm not real sure how they determine which guys are really good unless they know them. I also had an uncomfortable situation, at least for me, several years ago at a bathhouse in Denver where several employees were offering to let me in for free. Since I was regularly fucking the employees in question it felt way to much like prostitution, and for the record I refused after the first time. It had not occured to me at until just now, but maybe they were actually whoring me out without compensating me. Even here in no fuck Portland I have at times felt like one of the bathhouse owners has struck me as trying to overly accommodating to me but has not actually tried to comp anything for me, because to quote him, "the sexual energy you bring in." So it is entirely possibly I have been used in the way you are saying, although I don't exactly feel abused since I definitely enjoyed myself. In another way, in my situation, it is pretty close to the opposite of men paying the brothel, since I'm almost certain none of them have extended the freebies and good will for me to be a bottom. I have fucked literally thousands of horny bottoms for them free of charge. Apparently I'm not o bothered since I'm about to leave for the baths.
  5. Most definitely, and as a versatile guy I feel like I'm doing something wrong if the bottom I'm topping isn't hard.
  6. I did not know that. I did know it was of Swedish origin but not much more. My only real familiarity with the word smorgasbord was limited to what we now call buffet style restaurants, where I had lots of variety and could eat my fill. It definitely works, since I have definitely buttered a few goose (and gander) as well as been buttered myself on the table, so to speak.
  7. I'm the 1st born male, and definitely bisexual. I've known I was attracted to both girls and boys since I was sexually aware. My 1st time having sex was with a girl at 14, and did not start exploring sex with other guys, I think mostly due to cultural conditioning, until I was 19 and in college. I don't seem to have whatever gene or at least it hasn't been activated, to develop a romantic attachment to another man, although I do have and have developed them several times with a woman. I have had a lot more gay sex, because of it's availability. Once I discovered that smorgasbord of gay cruising and hooking up at 19 that pull has been hard to resist, even though I developed several romantic attachments with women throughout my 20's and early 30's and tried to settle for maybe just a gay fuckbud or occasionally random hookup on the side, it simply doesn't work for me. At 53 I still pop a boner at inconvenient times, for both sexes, for me it is simply easier to go find anotherrandom guy to enjoy my boner with than a woman, so that is what I usually try to do.
  8. That depends on the location. Here in no fuck Portland it is completely legal and a lot of the book stores have well maintained glory holes and more often than not small areas for group sex including furniture to facilitate it. Despite all of this "openess" to sex, fucking or even sucking among the bookstores patrons is less frequent here than in other parts of the world I have visited for both gay and straight sex.
  9. Been there done that, as well as bred quite a few BBC men with my BWC. Being willing to return the favor seems to go a long way toward making it happen.
  10. Why can't I find couples like this where I live, or anyone into 3 ways for that matter? You aren't being a "prick" for refusing him. He should be used to it. I'm not that much above average and it happens to me, the flip side is a lot of other guys are actually seeking him out for that very same reason, and in an active club there usually isn't a shortage of versatile guys to fuck his boy while he fucks them.
  11. I would definitely try that if I was working somewhere it was possible. I know some of them have lunchtime specials.
  12. I'm not personally interested in having a separate gay social life. Common interests outside of sex are more important considerations for friends I want to spend time with, I don't want to limit it to any one aspect. I'm also bi, and I have never really developed a romantic attachment with another man, and suspect I never will. I have had romantic attachments with a handful of women, but when it comes down to it, I've never been able to make a commitment to anything that resemble faithfulness. I'm okay with being friends with benefits with another man, but my main attraction to gay sex has always been the variety and ease that come with random hookups.
  13. @occumhungry It is interesting to see an outsiders review of the Portland bathhouses, I'm glad you found someone to actually hookup with at Hawks. I hope that if you ever get back up here on a weekend that you try and review them for weekends as well. Generally speaking bigger crowds don't equate to more sex, just guys being friendly. In my opinion based on going to bathhouses in quite a few cities is that the sexual intensity at the Portland clubs is usually extremely low. I see in another of your posts, that the 1st bathhouse and Cumunion Party that you attended was at Club 1350, which I have been to several times and was one of my favorite bathhouses. Unfortunately in my experience the kind of sexual action that 1350 had on a regular weeknight is more intense than a Portland Cumunion Party. FYI the Cumunion Parties at Steam are on the 3rd Thursday and Hawks is on the 1st Saturday.
  14. As long as you are allowing guys to remove the plug and give you the real thing, it's not a problem. The problem here, is guys who bring their toys but don't give or take real cock. I'm imaging this will turn out like the Fetish Fridays they tried several years ago, they got guys to come model their gear but were so disruptive for guys actually there to have sex that they became known as No Fuck Friday, causing their regular customers that like to fuck to stay away.
  15. Update: it looks like they really are encouraging guys to bring their toys. Thursday nights are now Toy Drive Nights, with this advertisement: "Bring your toys to show off the collection or buy any from our selection with 20% off toy purchases." I know they are just trying to get admission paying bodies in the door, and aren't actually suggesting guys to come in and play dildos in lieu of fucking, but this is in the PNW and unfortunately it is going to encourage even more anti-penis behavior in gay sex venues where it is already rampant.
  16. Very interesting topic, because of this I've decided to use the perorative "time wasting cock blocker" next time the occasion arises. It shouldn't take long, I'm pretty much guaranteed to wind up behind a "time wasting cock blocker" driving 15 mph below the speed limit in the passing lane, anytime I get in the car here.
  17. I don't think Hawks customers get the concept, last night there was a guy using one laying on his back with his head sticking through the hole into the playroom instead of his ass. He stayed that way for at least on hour, with no takers that I noticed. Guys are always trying to reconfigure the slings to use them for sucking instead of fucking so this was really no surprise.
  18. The 2nd guy to ever fuck me, and the guy who taught me the joy of flip fucking. We were 2 well hung 21 year old college seniors that fucked each other at least 3 times a week, during our last undergrad semester. I often wish one of had made an effort to keep in contact.
  19. @PromiseYouPullOut They do have a dark room in a cargo container on the south patio, but last time it wasn't really finished, I'm also a little bit concerned that it won't see a lot of winter use since you have to walk outside to get to it. The fuckhorse has been is in there part of the time and there has been a small mat on the floor that was more of a tripping hazard than anything else, everytime I have been there. There is also a semi dark group play area upstairs that has fuckbox style openings to 2 of the rooms (which may be the what@PdxPiggieis referring to), as well as a semi dark are with 2 slings. I'm planning on going to the Cumunion party tomorrow night.
  20. The majority of my friends are not friends with benefits. That said, I have occasionally developed friends with benefits situations with both men and women, but they are a distinct minority of my friendships.
  21. Guys have wierd fetishes and hangups, and they are more common in some locations than others. This particular one is fairly common in the PNW, it seems like guys have found 1001 ways to have sex without letting someone touch their cock or having to touch someone else's cock. At the opposite end of the spectrum, I've also encountered guys who will let you suck them, even fuck you, but not cum in or on you but want you to watch them cum, then won't even let you lick it up afterward (another PNW specific fetish as far as I can tell).
  22. Maybe, but at an orgy you need to keep a tally on each cheek, one for cocks and one for loads. I don't do it, but some tops count penetrations as breedings just like some bottoms. For me an exact count isn't that important, if I fuck or get fucked by 10 or more guys over a period of a few hours, I had a really good time. I know my cum is in at least a couple of guys and can hope that I have a couple of loads in my hole.
  23. I agree, it we want to use terms that are actually derogatory they would be more like: Poser Cock tease Hole tease Cock blocker Prude Time waster Picture collector
  24. I'm a bit of a slut, and prefer to play at sex clubs or orgies, so to be completely honest, I don't always even remember exactly how many cocks have been in my hole or how many holes I have fucked.
  25. Damn, just checked the Wallbanger Club San Diego and it looks like the last event on their schedule was in February 2022.
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