NWUSHorny
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It doesn't happen the majority of the time, but it isn't rare either for a guy who is topping me to either try to jack me off or ask me to jack off and cum while they are fucking me. I've even explained to a few, if they can fuck the cum out of me great, but if they can't I'd rather fuck it into a hole. Occasionally that even leads to a flip fuck with mutual breeding, which is of course my favorite scenario. I mostly fuck in sex clubs and bathhouses and almost always have a hard dick while I'm getting fucked. -
We have the exact opposite at byhouses here in Portland, the bottom areas of the suck ramps almost always have a few hopefuls waiting around, and if cocks are being offered for sucking guys will line up 3 or 4 deep to suck them, but very few guys are looking to fuck or be fucked. I'm fully versatile, and unlike most of the country where there is a shortage of tops and a surplus of bottoms, there is a shortage of both here. I see guys getting offended by the idea that you thought they wanted to either fuck or get fucked, in both ABS and bathhouse situations, a lot. I don't know which is worse, the guys that get offended by the idea of fucking, or the ones that know 1001 ways to have sex without touching a cock and insist on telling you about them.
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I can't find the article at the moment, but the psychologist who started promoting "side" as a gay sexual position did so because he thought the term asexual was offensive. Personally I can't comprehend not wanting my cock stimulated and cumming often, but I've learned that there are a lot of "sides" that don't want to include touching each other's cocks when they play (talking to guys at my local bathhouses), as well as total anal bottoms that don't want to have their cocks touched or to cum (here on Breeding Zone). I've learned a lot in my sexual frustrations over the last couple years, when I was traveling several weeks out of the month and could meet my needs in other cities I really didn't care that much why no one was fucking here in "no fuck land".
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"Side" seems to be becoming the accepted term for guys who neither give or take dick. There is some debate about whether guys who only do oral should be included in the "side" classification since there is a large number that don't even participate in oral. I'm still waiting for a definition of "power cuddler", that was the hot self descriptor for BBRT profiles that don't fuck a few months ago in my area.
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The bathhouse hosting tonight's Cumunion, already has 2 parties a month where they issue glow stick wristbands by position. They already have colors for top, bottom, versatile, oral and none of the above and I hear complaints that just 5 options is inadequate. Maybe, I am starting to see their point since this guy probably picks the versatile wristband, even though he is really a bottom. Before now I thought they were upset that there was no options for cuddlers or tit play, which are both popular bathhouse activities here. To be fair 75-80% are selecting the oral and none of the above hues, so maybe they have a point about the number of options being inadequate even if you take the loose interpretation of versatile out of the equation.
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Unfortunately "side" has been completely preempted by the guy where, "you can lead the dick to the hole, or the hole to the dick, but you can't make him fuck." I'm just as happy if they identify themselves that way up front. Maybe I can get them to wear a scarlet "S" on their foreheads in the fuckjoints and cruising spots, so I don't have to waste my time with them.
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It is pretty simple for me to answer, I'm versatile. As long as there is mutual attraction and the other party isn't "functionally lesbian" we can fuck. Unfortunately we have the same problem at the in person hookup spots as we do on the apps,
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I know I'm being snarky, but if that is the case, it seems to me that he might fit in better at the other bathhouse's regularly scheduled "Toy Box Thursday" (dildo play date), than go to the Cumunion Party tonight. He could even get a discount rate for showing them his dildo(s) when he checks in at dildo play date.
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It almost seems like the hookup apps need to take the initiative and create a list of questions to determine what a posters position is, BBRT already has questions on whether you give or take loads for both anal and oral. It would probably look something like this: NOTE: If you only perform an activity with someone you know, and not with someone you just met online or while cruising you should answer no to the question for the purposes of this hookup app. 1) Do you engage in anal sex with online hookups or in cruising situation? 1a) Will you penetrate an anus with your penis? 1b) Will you allow your anus to be penetrated with a penis? NOTE: If you answered no to both 1a and 1b you do not have an oral sex position. 2) Do you engage in oral sex with online hookup? 2a) Will you insert your penis into someone's mouth? 2b) Will you allow a penis to be inserted into your mouth? NOTE: If you answered no to both 1a and 1b you do not have an anal sex position NOTE: If you answered no to 1a, 1b, 2a and 2b, you are a "side" please list your desired activities.
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What should gays do to stay politically "relevant"...?
NWUSHorny replied to harrysmith25's topic in LGBT Politics
I'm absolutely certain that emulating the Que, Que for Quoquo puffs right is going to make being gay more politically relevant or accepted. The only thing it has done for the MAGA is create even stronger resistance to their increasingly radical agenda. I lean pretty far lower case l libertarian, i.e. live and let live as long as you aren't harming others, but also believe that to really make that work you have to lead by good example. -
That is a typo, it should have read, unfortunately I would consider him to be a bottom, not even close to versatile. He is most definitely not versatile, or a top. On the other hand guys here bring dildos to the bathhouses here, and post hookup ads to play dildos.
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It seems to me that there is some significant variation in how guys on the hookup apps are interpreting this, and not just the "sides", where there doesn't seem to be any kind of agreement on whether being a "side" includes oral. I was just checking out the attendees for tomorrow nights Cumunion party on BBRT, and one "versatile" looks very promising until I read what he wrote, "I consider myself verse, take cock and use my mouth, fist and toys on a hole," unfortunately I would consider him to be a bottom, not even close to versatile. I should probably just stay off the hookup apps completely while I'm in the PNW.
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I would love to figure out the repression thing. I have never lived any where as open and accepting of perversions and fetishes, or as repressed and inhibited about fucking each other, as the PNW.
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They call Vancouver Island, where Victoria is located, Canada's banana belt. It very rarely freezes in Victoria, and they react to it the same way they do if it freezes in Florida (I've been in both places when it happened). Both Victoria and the city of Vancouver, which is on the mainland across the Strait of Georgia from Victoria, have very visible gay populations. I would consider relocating there if not for the lack of sex thing.
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I've worked quite a bit in BC. Vancouver, BC is a beautiful place with a fairly mild climate, but if one of your priorities is find a lot of casual sex partners that like to fuck, you should probably keep looking. That region of North America, including the Pacific Northwest of the US is very accepting of the gay lifestyle and Vancouver has a decent number of bathhouses, but as far as finding casual partners to do the deed with, you are probably better off in Wausau, WI (I have lived or worked in several smaller midwestern cities, but not Wausau). PNW men have lots of "gay activities" that they are into, but few of them involve penentrating or being penetrated. If you just like the beautiful setting and the acceptance of the lifestyle, personally I'd pick Victoria, BC instead, even though they no longer have an open bathhouse. Having a sex club isn't much of a benefit if no one is looking to fuck.
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Your Unfulled Fantasy And If You Could Without Consequences
NWUSHorny replied to Jamie85's topic in General Discussion
Sounds like my kind of fuckjoint. I think the key word here is fucking, and when it comes to the physical act of fucking, i.e. penetration with a penis, there aren't many things I haven't tried at least once. -
Your Unfulled Fantasy And If You Could Without Consequences
NWUSHorny replied to Jamie85's topic in General Discussion
Can you define vanilla, I want to be sure I will be welcome before visiting this establishment? I generally consider myself pretty vanilla, in that I don't have much of any interest in kinks, fetishes or mind altering substances. Really the only thing I'm into is, mens poles poking around in other mens holes. I have one of each that I want to offer up to all willing takers in almost any situation, preferably in a big dog pile group type situation. -
Working Man asks for money while I'm sucking him
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in Cocksucking Discussion
On the few occasions this has happened, I have stopped it at the 1st mention of it becoming a financial transaction. -
Based on the drawing, I am no longer a virgin. I have been all of the guys in that drawing multiple times, however I would say that I have never been gangbanged. To me being gangbanged means being fucked by at least 10 guys continuously over a period of at least a couple of hours. I have participated in events that qualify several times as a top, but not as a bottm. To be perfectly honest prefer dogpile type orgies where guys flip positions, which I have been lucky enough to participate in many times.
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In an active fuckjoint, most of the bottoms and tops will either adjust automatically or move on to someone who can accomodate them. It is a bigger problem in places where there isn't an active casual fuck scene and guys don't have the experience, and it may be hours before another interested partner appears, so guys that actually need to fuck put up with a lot of discomfort when the other party can't be persuaded. Personally I can't even comprehend fucking in a bed, and sticking with a single position for the entire fuck, but that may be yet another area where I'm unusual.
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My personal experience is that Club Z is friendlier for the PNP crowd, as to the sex is six of one, half a dozen of the other.
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You would think, however I have encountered too many guys both top and bottom that only fuck in a single position. If their favorite position doesn't work for any reason they simply can't fuck.
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What is the best time to go on Wednesday nights? I'm considering spending next week in Palm Springs.
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Where is the best sex club / bathouse in the US?
NWUSHorny replied to CommunityCunt's topic in General Discussion
At the rate bathhouses are closing, I could be wrong on a few of them, but I think the western US has multiple metros with more than one. Seattle, Portland, LA and Phoenix I believe all still have 2, and Las Vegas definitely has 2 plus I believe a new one has opened.. I thought SF Bay was down to 1 with the closure of the one in San Jose? Unfortunately I wouldn't put any of the ones I've been to in those cities that are still open on my list of bests. All of my bests have closed in the last few years. -
@hntnhole Since I had the Cumunion website up to see if there were any parties I wanted to go to on my long weekend next weekend, it looks like in Ft Lauderdale Slammer will have parties on the 1st Wednesday and the bathhouse on the 3rd Saturday going forward. Just in case anyone wants to hookup and fuck or get fuckd by a blonde bear, I will definitely be at the Hawks PDX party tomorrow night, and am giving serious thought to going Palm Springs and staying the entire week and go to the CCBC orgy on the 21st. If I don't wind up going to Palm Springs for the week I will be at the Steam Portland party (I can't bring myself to call either Portland Cumunion event a orgy) on the 19th.
