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Yesterday afternoon, I was in line behind a 25 year old who was making his 1st visit, at least to that particular bathhouse. The only reason I know is the guy working the window was going over the rules with him and told him he was eligible for a discount since he was 25. An hour or so later I saw him leaving, and I am assuming he left without having any kind of sex, since in spite of a decent sized crowd I don't think there was a damned thing going on sexually, the only thing I saw while he was there was guys circling, posing and completely ignoring each other sexually. I wasn't able to entice him to do anything with me, and there weren't any guys going at it to break the ice. If my 1st visit to a sex venue had been like that I'm not at all sure I would have gone a 2nd time. I had been hooking up with guys for more than 10 years in tearooms, parks, ABS, online hookup and private parties before I finally decided to go to a bathhouse. I had an online hookup with a guy from out of town the evening before this momentous date. He was asking me about the Denver sex clubs and telling me how great they could be, which pushed me over the edge. I went to the now closed Denver Swim Club at age 30. I went on a Thursday night, rented a room, took my clothes off and showered. On my 1st circuit around I came across 2 guys fucking, who both motioned me to join. The bottom immediately started sucking my cock, and before long turned around and backed his gaping ass on my cock bareback. I had only barebacked a handful of times at that point. The guy who had been fucking him stood up pulled off the condom (this was in 2000) and offered me his cock to suck. Within a few minutes the fucker and I started taking turns fucking each other while we fucked the bottom, all but my initial penetration of the bottom was condomed, until the 2 of us who were topping came. So within half an hour of my 1st visit I had fucked, been fucked and had a 3 way. If I remember right, I stayed about 3 hours, and fucked 5 more guys and got fucked by one more before I left. I came 4 times, and did relent and breed the 1st bottom bareback (3rd guy I had ever bred at that point in time) before going home. I went back Friday night, Saturday night (I hooked with the Wednesday online hookup), and by the next weekend was pretty much a sex club slut. What was your experience like, would you have gone back if your 1st experience was similar to the one I described from yesterday?

Care to list some of them for those of us who don't know where they are?

Sounds like a hot time. I have not gone to Slammer yet, but plan to when I'm in socal over the 4th of July. I'm also going to the Cumunion party at LAX on the 7/1. It is by far the best Cumunion party venue I have been to and the July party seems like it is one of the most active.

Stay on PREP and enjoy it. I wish PREP had been available when I was 29. My 30's were my best decade so far, I had an unbelievable amount of sex but most of it was with condoms.

Just got home from the bathhouse, I was about to give up and go home when I happened upon 2 couples sucking in the porn viewing room, so I decided to stay and watch in case it developed into an orgy. One couple didn't do much, but the other couple a black guy and a really cute twink eventually the black guy started fucking the twink and bred him pretty quickly. By that time another really young looking guy had entered the room and the cute twink talked him into breeding him as well. Then he practically pounced on my now rock hard cock and sucked me to the root. When he came up for air he asked if I wanted to blow a load and let me taste his cock. I answered that I would breed him if he returned the favor. He quickly sat down on my cock and rode me, while I complimented him on his cummy lose hole. Once I bred him I turned around and presented my needy hole, he got in many and bred me with a huge load after just 3 strokes.

I hate the chase but love the hookup. I have become pretty jaded about the "chase" over 15 years of living in the PNW, most guys here seem to be in it for the chase, but rarely hookup, and even if they do hookup don't penetrate. After hours of cruising, they just want to cuddle but won't touch your dick or let you touch theirs.

I don't know the exact difference between a bathhouse and a sex club, but would think a sex club has fewer facilities and services. At least in the past a bathhouse at a minimum had showers, saunas and private rooms, where as a sex club can be as simple as a common open play space with no additional facilities. I don't know of very many basic sex clubs in the US. There are Slammer clubs in a couple of cities, and I know LA has several venues (sex facilities that aren't exclusively gay) that are rented out for gay sex parties or host regularly scheduled gay sex parties. I personally really enjoying going to the Cumunion parties, and some other gay parties, at Sanctuary LAX which just has common play spaces, no private rooms and very minimal facilities (they do have a shower). It is just a sex club not a bathhouse, so everyone there should be there to fuck in group setting. It does seem to significantly reduce the cat and mouse cruising with guys that never hookup that goes on at many bathhouses. Even in a sex club you can still get too many guys that are there just to be spectators or are too choosy to actually find someone to have sex with, I'm not sure what the tipping point is but if they make up more than 20-30% of the guys in attendance they pretty much kill it for everyone.

If you do, or figure out during the meat up that it was a fellow BZ pig I hope you write about it here. You don't even have to identify the screen name. I personally get a boost from it when I recognize myself in a last load posting. I can't remember for sure, but I think I have admitted to being the other party in the thread a couple of times.

I knew that there was a possibility. I never lied about or hid that possibility. I also rubbered up for any guy that wanted me to, still do, and unless I'm fucking a guy regularly I always give them enough notice to have me pull out before I cum in them. I'm not claiming either innocence or ignorance, just regrets.

I know I was, it just removed one of the barriers from acting on it. I have little doubt that I would have done the same if I had gone on prep.

At this point in my life, I won't go home, or to a hotel room with a gay couple, but will happily play with them in an orgy situation. It just doesn't seem to work in a private 2 plus 1 situation. On the other hand it can work really well at a sex club or an orgy, most recently I took an awesome tag team pounding from a young gay couple (versatile top/versatile bottom) in a sex club where both of them bred me, and I bred the versatile bottom.

Since I've never been accused of it or caught people talking about me that context, I'm going to say no. Personally I can't reliably tell about others, I know flamboyant guys that are completely straight, and even more gay guys, that most people would never suspect, who admit to having never even attempted to have sex with a woman.

I agree with @Ieatcumholes, that it removed the last of my inhibitions. I was always a pretty big slut and had been topping mostly bareback for almost 20 years when I found out. I did not intentionally take a load in my own ass until after I was diagnosed. That said, if I had it to do all over again I would make a greater effort to stay negative and would have gotten tested and started prep as soon as it became available (assuming I was still negative). As it happened I found out I had stage 4 cancer a few days before I found out I was HIV positive, so it was many months between my diagnosis and the 1st time I took a load in my ass. I also have regrets about any guys I converted before I knew. I was breeding multiple guys every week at the bathhouse up until the Saturday before the events which led to the double diagnosis started. I would not have intentionally exposed anyone after learning my diagnosis, and as it happened I had been undetectable for more than 6 months before I was able to breed anyone.

I'm American. My ancestors stated migrating to America in the 1620's and were all here by 1850 and came from many different parts of Europe. It would be impossible to pin point any other national ethnicity other than American.

I've noticed a trend where guys insist on fucking standing up, and won't move even 6 inches from where the fuck was initiated. If you do decide to move even just enough that the bottom has something to lean up against or hang onto, move enough not to block traffic, or in a park move somewhere with decent cover to avoid potential arrest the fuck is over. If you happen to hookup with one of these kind of guys don't even suggest moving somewhere more comfortable like a bed, sling, fuck horse, or etc. they aren't going to do it. I have tried, and it is equally true of tops and bottoms. I would not have expected that it would be a problem in a piggy city like Chicago or among the kind pigs that would travel to IML.

I see more fetish parties for guys who like to admire and be admired in their gear (but not have sex) where I live. I haven't the Chicago listing for this weekend, but a leather party in Chicago even on a non-IML weekend would likely be an actual orgy.

I'm going to be in southern California over the 4th of July. Is this event a big orgy type event, or more of just a get together? I wouldn't be attending the event at The Barracks Friday night, I'm definitely going to LAX Cumunion that night, but could get a day pass for CCBC later in the weekend. I am a 6'2", 240#, fifty something, blonde, versatile bear.

I will be spending at least 1 night in San Diego in July. I am a very versatile bear who loves to fuck and be fucked. I have been to Club San Diego once, and it was a Cumunion Party night, and totally struck out, and really didn't see anyone else fucking either. Was I just there on a bad night? There was quite a bit of oral, which I don't enjoy unless it is leading to a fuck. I used to enjoy going to the now closed Vulcan, does Club San Diego ever have that kind of fucking activity?

I'm curious about this as well. I do okay with overt signals at a known cruising area, but not subtle signals anywhere else. Maybe I'm missing a ton of opportunities.

I've had several guys want me to fuck them recently, that obviously weren't experienced and got scared. One of them backed out before I even touched my dick to his hole, and the others clinched up and made it unenjoyable for both of us. I've also had a few that couldn't find a way to top me. It can be frustrating, but practice makes perfect. I don't think you harmed him, and you stopped as soon as he asked you to, so you did everything right. I'm flexible enough that I can find a way to make it work with another willing party top or bottom, but the other party has to be willing to at least try other positions if the 1st one we try doesn't work. It seems like there are a lot of guys that think they can only fuck in one position, and if that position doesn't work they are done.

At least here, the hookup apps seem to be dying faster than the hookup venues. There is actually a lot more fucking at my local bathhouse post pandemic than there was before, although it looks like the crowds are smaller. I can hope the crowd looks smaller because guys are getting their needs met and not staying as long.

I just noticed that Steam will be hosting a Cumunion party on 6/16/2022. I'm guessing that means Hawks won't be reopening that soon, even though the last date they posted was mid-May. There is still construction going on at the new site, so I haven't completely given up hope. Hopefully Steam can draw at least a few uninhibited sluts that night, and that the regulars don't completely kill the Cumunion sexual energy. I will almost certainly be there ready to fuck and be fucked.

Thank you, I did find that bulletin when I was googling late this afternoon.

@fskn How effective are our childhood smallpox vaccinations at preventing serious monkeypox disease? I tried to look up which vaccines were in common use in the US in 1970 (when I would have received mine), and their efficacy against monkeypox? Unfortunately I didn't have a lot of luck beyond that it was likely Dryvax manufactured by Wyeth. I haven't called my parents to have them check my vaccination records to see if I could get any more specifics (yes they do still have whatever was provided at the time). I do have the scar and know that my parents talk about insisting my youngest sibling get it in the mid 1970's after the smallpox vaccine was no longer mandatory. I just booked a trip for July to indulge my most hedonistic wants, and it has been a really long 2 and a half years since the last time I was able to make a trip like the one I have planned.

I'm not ashamed of being an uninhibited slut. Like @hntnhole I prefer to go to places where it is acceptable to do so very publicly, which makes it almost impossible to hide. I'm not sure what it says about me or my reputation, but if I'm somewhere where I have access to what @JamesL100 describes as "busy cruise visit" venues. I will stick my dick in 20-30 guys on a Friday night, and get 10+ guys to stick their dick in me, then go back and do it again the next night. So over 3 day weekend I may flip flop through close to 100 pigs (even if you count guys I flip flop with as 1). I just booked a trip for the 4th of July where I have an excellent chance of making it a reality.