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I fucked and got fucked multiple times at the sex club last night. The most public was I rode one guys cock while he was sitting on the couch in a brightly lit porn viewing room.

I definitely qualify as hypersexual, and have to limit the amount of time I spend trying to get laid. I don't see it as a bad thing as long as you can keep it from taking over and ruining your life.

As a versatile guy I say hell no, you are removing half of your sexual allure with that cage. I would also add, that nothing does more to prevent sex at an orgy than a surplus of total gotten, so using the cage to announce your status as a total bottom in advance makes it even harder for you to get fucked and bred.

I bred one of each last night, and had 4 cocks and at least 2 loads in my mature hole last night.

I'm not really sure how much worse it has gotten, 14 years ago I moved from a city where I could fairly easily find a willing partner and get laid when I was horny in an hour or less to one where it takes hours to find someone then even more wasted time going back and forth, either online or in person, just to find out they don't fuck on the "1st" hookup. I was in my mid to late 30s at the time. I did notice that the "gay lifestyle" is much more popular here, and there is a strong emphasis on dress up fetishes including the pup scene. Unfortunately even the leather fetish guys, the one I previously enjoyed, seem to only be interested in modeling their gear, not fucking. Their is also a lot of teasing where they act like they want to tuck or suck but won't actually act on it. I still have much better luck when I travel, although I have noticed it is becoming more like Portland in most places. My recent pet peave is guys going cruising with their cocks caged AND a plug in their hole that they are insistent that stay in, what is the point of cruising for sex if you block all access?

After enduring "no fuck Friday" at the bath the night before I went back again last night. I hopped in the sling when I got there and was promptly bred by an older guy which of me going good. Next I hookup with a black Twink in the TV area, we sucked each other and I asked if he wanted to fuck me he did but said he didn't have a room, so I started alternating between riding him and sucking him. I don't think he bred me, but there was a lot of cum on his dick several of the times I cleaned him off. Next I saw a regular cumdump that I've hookup with many times walk by fully clothed and go to a room, I swung back by his room a few minutes later and ask if he was ready to get fucked, he got up on his hands and knees and I need him doggy style. Based on how loose and wet his hole was I would say he had already been seeded. After that things slowed down for a while, both slings were taken over by blindfolded sling lizards that weren't getting any action, even though there was some fucking going on around the club I stuck my dick in a couple of holes, got a nice long fuck with from a big dicked guy who wasn't ready to cum yet in the cell. I eventually started sucking a guy through the bars of the cell who started reaching for my hole so I begged him to fuck me. He came around to the other end and fucked me for a long time, when he started breathing and grunting hard I started begging for his load. I could feel his cock pulsing in me for what felt like several minutes, and asked to let me suck him clean when he pulled out, which he happily obliged. By this point I was tired and needed to find a bottom to load before I went home, which is not always an easy task in Portland. The sling lizards had both disappeared, and they were cleaning my cumdump buddies room. After a couple of circuits I came upon a couple of guys fucking in one of the play areas just as the top pulled out because he wasn't ready to run yet and ask the young bottom if wanted more. He quickly bent back over, and I fucked him for few minutes before I warned him I was really close, and had him beg for my load, so I need him. This morning I rolled over to find the back of my boxers completely soaked with cum that had leaked out while I was sleeping. I'm not sure if I got more than two loads since the last load I took felt like it was huge.

I'm in my 50s now, but haven't noticed it being that bad. The worst thing for my sex life was a move I made in my middle 30s, I moved from a city where no strings sex could be easily had at sex clubs, parks, tea rooms and etc. to a city where you can spend your at one of those places without seeing or hearing anyone hookup. Until COVID hit my job involved a lot of travel and I was able to relieve my tensions on a regular basis. I did enjoy the pent up demand when one of our sex clubs opened back up here, but last night things seemed to have returned to their no fuck normal.

Only on the initial penetration. I've never had one that didn't give me pleasure once I got used to it.

Don't let guys finger you once you are opened up and ready. While a finger helps get you opened up for the initial penetration, they hurt. I had a guy who wanted to finger me after I had been bred twice in rapid succession, but wouldn't shove his cock in me.

I spent the weekend trying to fuck and get fucked, why is it that Portland guys are even less interested in sex in the summer than winter. I wound up at the bathhouse all 3 days, did find 1 bottom to breed both Friday and Saturday after trying for hours. While I did get 1 cock in my ass briefly both nights, I didn't even get a good fucking let alone bred. This afternoon I got fucked by 4 guys, the last 2 bred me. Unfortunately there weren't any bottoms around for me to breed this afternoon, and I am still horned up and hard.

Since there seem to be very few local guys logged in to BBRT when I log in now, I suspect that their are a lot of accounts that have been deactivated for inactivity if not for other reasons.

I kind of like to leave it in until nature takes it's course. The soft dick gets naturally ejected, as either a top or bottom.

I have some theories about this. Anecdotally I think the same things apply in person as do on the apps. My number 1 theory is that for a huge percentage of guys the fantasy is better than the reality, and as such they act on it so infrequently that they don't even know what they are missing. I also think a lot of "gay" guys are closer to asexual than gay, so they really aren't trying to actually hookup with anyone.

I definitely have, but my sexual history stretches back almost 4 decades. I've done many things I thought only happened in porn and fantasies as a teenager in the '80s. The biggest change, and a early change was dropping the idea in gay sex that only the guy with the biggest cock could be the top. Once I learned I like to bottom as much as I like to top, and the 2nd guy to ever top me (and still one of the biggest I've ever taken) was a fellow versatile pig. I missed a few opportunities in the couple of years I was exclusively a top.

Personally I would just ignore them, I know I'm a slut. If they are persistent you can block them. My problem on the apps tend to be bug chasers, even though I'm a slut, I can't understand why you would intentionally want a disease or give one to someone, usually they take the hint that you aren't into their particular "thing". I also figure if they are local and truly a slut they've probably already taken one of my loads.

Generally speaking, I like both loose and tight holes. The exceptions are at both extremes, fisting bottoms that no longer provide any resistance (which as far as I know is short term) and bottoms that clamp down so hard after you are in them that you can barely move (which is muscle control more than anything else). I have to think my hole is always somewhere in the middle of that range.

The problem is really guys who can't take a hint, which can be either the top or the bottom. Personally I have no problem stepping aside and actually let guys fuck.

I've always greatly preferred anonymous sex. It is definitely an addiction for me.

I think it depends on the venue. Slings/benches go almost completely unused at some venues but not at others, so it is important to pay attention to the situation.

Definitely go, I gave more details on your other thread.

Leave your inhibitions at home and have great time indulging your inner sex pig. I love the LAX party, and always fuck and get fucked by multiple guys. At that particular party most, not all, of the fucking occurs with multiple bottoms on benches surrounded by tops often going from one hole to the next one that opens up there are no private play spaces if you don't do public groups so it is very much an orgy of like minded pigs.

I think the big difference here is that some guys don't mind being objectified/fetishized. While I'm not a racial minority, I am 6'2" blonde, and have 8 thick uncut inches and often benefit from the objectification when it comes to getting casual gay sex, at least as a top. I don't even mind when I find out it is just a one time fantasy for some of them.

There is another side to sling etiquette. If a guy approaches someone in a sling, but has no intention of actually fucking him they should get out of the way if another potential fuck starts showing interest. In other words, if you aren't planning on sticking your dick in him don't cockblock someone who even potentially wants to fuck. In Portland there are numerous guys that come up to when you are in a sling that want to play with your cock or hole, but don't fuck and won't take a hint to step out of the way when someone else approaches. If I'm in the sling I'm looking to get my hole fucked, not fingered, definitely not fisted, or even eaten out for a prolonged period. I have had the same problem, on occasion when I am looking to top, the sling will be occupied and the occupant will be a desperate bottom being monopolized by the non-fucker. The only difference is I will give a pass if the bottom is being fisted, not my thing but I do recognize that as a legitimate use of the sling.

I'd like to know of others as well, and how active those parties are since not all locations are equal. I have found that Cumunions are great uninhibited orgies in a couple of cities, a total waste of my time in a couple more, and somewhere in between but worth my effort to travel to in many more. I have not yet been to one in San Francisco, but have been wanting to. Regular local parties are of interest too.

It's Portland, fisting doesn't require letting someone touch your cock or having to touch someone else's cock. Portland has an unusual number of gay men who aren't cock centric when it comes to sex.