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I don't find it emotional. I like to kiss in sexually charged situations because it makes the sexual rush even stronger. I find it especially stimulating to make out with a 3rd guy when I'm fucking or being fucked.

Generally this happens when cruising, since I've pretty much given up on the apps (since they are a huge majority on all of them). I know it is a lesser problem most places, but here even the bathhouses are full of guys looking for a relationship, someone to hang out with, or just jack off. A lot of them won't even touch your cock or let you touch theirs. It seems like if you give them even 5 minutes of your time they want to "hookup" again. I desperately need to go somewhere guys do like to fuck, and I haven't been traveling for work or taken a sexcation in a little over 2 years.

It varies based on the city, and your body type. Younger and hotter guys have better odds, and some cities have guys that are more willing to fuck than others. I'm not familiar with the situation in Philly.

I'm hoping I can give you a little optimism. 4 years ago I was in the ICU with stage 4 cancer, almost paralyzed and a poor prognosis, I'm 3.5 years cancer free, physically active and very thankful that the people like you did not give up on me. Sometimes it does work out.

Personally I hate being fingered, and love having my hole licked. If I'm into the guy I won't have trouble letting him in with just a little spit. How much shorter? I'm 6'2" and find that a lot of guys only top guys shorter than they are, which can be a major obstacle when I need to get fucked. Some of the best sex I get is flip fucking with another desperate tall big dicked guy.

Go to Cumunion at Hawks or Entourage, it will probably fall short of your fantasies but hopefully still be a good time.

How is the cum going to get into the hole or face if all you do is talk about it? Personally I'd rather fuck or get fucked than talk and jack.

I'm a tall blonde bear. I've only been to Hawks, but have found the Las Vegas Cumunions to be fair to middling. I have had my best Cumunion luck in LA and Denver.

My hole tightens back up in a few hours, other than an occasional early morning cum fart I've never had any problems. I almost always wind up jacking off if I'm awakened by a cum fart.

As I get older, I definitely prefer fucking a bottom that is already opened up and loose. On the other hand if I'm horny I'm not going turn down a tight bottom, as long as he wants it and doesn't expect me to spend hours opening him up.

"Sorry dude I'm into fucking and getting fucked." At least he claims to do oral, in some places BBRT is full of guys who just want to cuddle.

Guys that want to hookup and not fuck. If neither of us takes a cock up the ass we did not have sex, and no I don't want to "hookup" again and not have sex.

I need to add this to my list. Sounds really fun, if they get enough uninhibited guys.

Consider the availability of casual sex in your new city before you agree to relocate.

The last guy I bred was bent over a stool taking any takers in the orgy room at the bathhouse. I used some of the cum from the load I had just taken in the sling to lube him up.

Personally I walk around completely naked. If most of the guys are just parading around doing the no mating dance, I haven't found anything that actually works, more often than not if you do "connect" with a guy on a night like that you find their definition of sex doesn't even involve a dick.

One of my local bathhouses has a monthly party where they give you a glow stick armband. They have colors for too, bottom, versatile, oral only, and none of the above. Unfortunately most of the guys choose one of the last 2 choices.

I love topping self lubricating bottoms and have a self lubing hole of my own. I've only encountered low double digits of bottoms after 30 odd years of being a total slut. If I'm into a guy and think he is going to fuck me my ass is moist enough in less than a minute. I have been with bottoms that I would swear were full of cum, and I cream enough that I often can't tell if a top has bred me.

I definitely prefer anonymous gay sex. I may have the opportunity to work permanently remote, if this comes to pass the availability of casual anonymous sex will be a major factor in where I decide to live.

Tried to tally it up today. I must be at around 30 taken and 30 given.

I'm home from the bath, 2 loads up my hole. I wasted way too much time getting laid this weekend.

All cocks are fun, big ones are even better. I got fucked by 4 huge cocks this weekend, the 2nd largest of them happened to be black (and he fucked me for almost an hour which made him my favorite, rather than the fact that he was black), the other 3 were white guys who I very much enjoyed too. I also enjoyed getting fucked by several average sized guys.

Unfortunately tonight wasn't as fun, I did manage to stay hard long enough to fuck and breed, and did get fucked once but did not get bred. It was a big crowd, with plenty of guys trying to bottom, but very, very little fucking actually happening.

It varies some based on location. If you are in a city that has an active casual sex scene a talented bottom is easy to find, practice does make perfect in this situation. If you aren't somewhere with that active casual sex scene, you may still get lucky and find one, but you will more likely find someone that has more limitations, like only fucks in 1 or 2 positions, doesn't know how to move with you and find a position that works, or can't fuck for very long before having to take a break. The tops in cities without a casual sex scene tend to share the same issues

I've been under a lot of work stress recently, and have not had the time to search for sex and haven't been able to stay hard long enough to top so I haven't been doing much looking. Last night I decided to go to the bath and try my luck as a bottom, which can be frustrating here in the PNW. Over the course of several hours I hooked up with and got fucked by 3 (2 of them have been fucking me fairly often at the bath) guys but none of them bred me. I was about to give up and head home around midnight, but decided to get on all 4s with my ass available in the cage of the maze, shortly after that a white bear with a big hard cock and black twink a monster cock occupied the bench across from the cage and the twink started riding the bears cock with some difficulty, when he hopped off another total slut of a twink hopped on and started riding him for all he was worth, then they started switching off. So at the very least I was getting a really good live porn show, when I felt someone come up behind me and touch my cheeks, I looked between my legs and saw a chubby set of legs, so I hockey up some spit to lube up my hole and then reached back to find a 7.5 in moderately thick super rock hard cock. He had his hands on both cheeks and let me play with him but didn't make any move to actually fuck me so hocked up some more spit and backed up on that big super hard cock, and started riding him. He eventually took over and started started giving me a good hard fuck and breeding. I waited for him to pull out before turning around to see that I had just been bred by really young guy (which explains she he was so hard) since he continued to stand there I took the opportunity to suck him clean, at which point he pulled me up for a kiss and we shared his cum dregs that I pulled from his spent dick and found in his foreskin. We thanked each other for the fuck and he headed for the showers. Since the trio on the bench were gone by then, I decided to give the sling a try to get one more fuck. Shortly after I got in the sling I had a younger slim black guy keep checking me out, but not coming over to me, so I started spit lubing my sloppy hole some more, which for once worked and he came up between my legs and started playing with my body but didn't remove his towel. I could feel what felt like a nice cock under that towel and was eventually able to work what turned out to be about a cut 8 in cock a little thicker than the guy who had just bred me. Once I had freed the beast he started spit lubing it for me and eventually started very gently fucking me. Over the next 45 minutes to an hour he fucked and made out with me in both slings and on several benches while trying unsuccessfully to shore me out to get other guys to fuck me (2 of them let me suck them, but refused to fuck me). Eventually he asked to take a break. I waited for another half hour, but was too tired to stay to see if I could get his load (as far as I know he did not breed me although my hole was extremely creamy). I'm headed back tonight, and have stayed hard the entire time while writing this, so hopefully will be able to top as well as bottom tonight!