LetsPOZBreed
-
Posts
664 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Content Type
Profiles
Forums
Blogs
Events
Gallery
Everything posted by LetsPOZBreed
-
Tops cumming too quickly - success or failure?
LetsPOZBreed replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
The alternative is that they don't cum at all, which is monumentally more frustrating. I don't mind a quick load; it's still a load after all. -
I got barebacked for the first time at age 20. Was a couple years before it happened again, and then only again a couple years later. I didn't start getting fucked bb regularly until after I finished uni in 2005; it was no turning back after that. Got diagnosed in 2013.
-
Us bottoms also like the thought of having a "top team" we can count on to give us our gang bang cravings. If you get a good group together, I'll volunteer to bottom for you all on occasion 🙂
-
I had a med school student once. He loved it bareback and anon (he was vers, but wanted to top me). I remember him fucking me really rough and hard and shooting a thick creamy load inside me. I think he was trying to knock me up - if you catch my drift 🙂
-
I find older tops do this more than younger ones. I had a former FWB when I lived elsewhere that was around 60; he could stay hard for a bit after he's cum, so he would stay inside and slowly push his load deeper. Once slipped out, he would switch to fingering me until he got hard again. He wouldn't be able to cum a second time, but it was more to help me build up a load in my balls that he would then want squirted in his mouth.
-
@NLbear, I'm not sure about "still" as the interview I saw is prob about 3 years old now. She did sever ties with Vivid once they started making some bareback porn, though.
-
Looking to Start a Small Fuckbuddy Group
LetsPOZBreed replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in London Metro Area
Unfortunately, I never could get this off the ground with the completely lopsided bottom to top ratio. I'm still interested in starting a group, but the numbers have to make sense for everyone to have fun. My ultimate goal is to have a group of around 12 guys (relatively evenly distributed between top/bttm/vers. I'd prefer to personally audition each one of them (I do top on occasion) to check if I think they're a good fit. From there, we can have a group that guys can individually pair off when the mood strikes and then occasionally have a larger gathering once in a while for some free-for-all play. Maybe wishful thinking on my part, but could work out with the right group. -
This is hard thing to address for me. I've played out a fantasy once, but I'm also an actual rape victim. i can tell you that these are two starkly different experiences. If I want to play out a fantasy, i make sure it's with a guy I'm sexually comfortable with. There's always a safe word, and either one of us can stop if things get a bit too crazy or uncomfortable. The difference between the fantasy vs. the real thing is consent. In role playing, you want to simulate the actual act as close as possible, so lots of emotions are going to run through your head in the moment; you have to be sure you're ready for that. When playing out a fantasy, it'll stay with you for a bit, and you'll recall it in your mind in a positive light (no matter how much it may have "hurt" in the moment.
-
Still a dick move, though. I'd say if you didn't agree to this beforehand it does cross that consent line. At least you were turned on by it afterwards, though...
-
I've also seen interviews with Chi Chi LaRue where she is very anti-bareback as well. It depends on the studio, I guess. TIM tapped into a market that never really went away, and took it even further. Even pre-1985 gay porn films didn't show actual breeding; it was always pull out and shot it. Don't get me wrong, I love to actually see the volume of cum a guy is able to shoot on film. But there's something about that look in one another's eyes as you bond over the emptying fluid inside one another. TIM was one of the first to make it big by showing that, and the industry eventually had to start following suit. I can probably go on a whole academic argument over the economics of gay porn and gay sex practices. It's actually interesting stuff if you think about it!
-
Like many aspects, for me it depends on the top. I figure if I've earned his load, I'll take it whatever way he'll give it to me. My only wish when a top cums is that he leans over and starts whispering dirty talk in my ears as he gets closer and closer; that'll make me beg for it!
-
Couple of mine: - I love verbal play. Aside from my sex organs, the most erogenous part of my body is my ears. I love having them kissed, licked, sucked, and all; however, hearing the manly whisper of my top grunting and telling me how much he's enjoying my body makes my ass open up even more! I don't usually get verbal on my own, but will do it as a response to a verbal top. - I like ws, but in very specific aspects. I've always had a fascination with guys pissing in their underwear and watching the wetness spread. There's a vulnerability about a guy losing control that way. It also turns me into a bit of a sub if a guy stands in front of me and pisses on my underwear; feeling the warmth of his fluid on the most intimate article of my clothing drives me up the wall (in a good way). - Lastly, I love poz talk (see point 1 above about verbal). I always have. I think it was initially the taboo of it, but there's something about a man wanting me to beg for his marked seed.
-
This is one of my deep down fantasies that I've only played out a small number of times. The answer is dependent on who's piss we're talking about. If it's my own, I tend to strip off not long afterwards; I'll wear it for a little while, but then I get tired of it. If it's another guy's, though... I've been to one of the fetish clubs here in London for their ws nights (S.O.P.). I tend to wear briefs or boxer briefs that are any colour other than white or black. I don't actually care for piss on my body or mouth, but on my underwear has to be my absolutely favourite! I try to pick an appealing colour to signal piss tops to come stand me in front of them and just unload directly on them, leaving me with a big wet spot for all the other guys to see. I keep these on all night at the club and walk the 20 minutes to my flat still wearing them under my trousers. I take the trousers back off at home, but i'll wear the wet undies the rest of the day. I also once had a guy come over to my place and we pissed in each other's briefs and traded off the wet pairs afterwards.
-
I know we are all a bunch of sleazy bareback whores deep down inside, but this thread is, in part, why sites like this should exist. I came of age sexually in the mid-90s. There was still a huge amount of stigma from the dark days of HIV/AIDS in the 80s, so much of the sex education for gay men (that we learned from the free clinic and university campus groups) at that time basically amounted to: if you bareback even once, you'll get HIV. I know the medical knowledge wasn't quite what it is now, but there was still lots of fear around the topic. There didn't seem to be enough education for negative guys around things like viral loads, etc., nor were there many forums like this where one could ask what it was like if they tested HIV+. We all need a safe space to talk about these things in a non-judgemental way. To answer the original question, though, undetectable guys are (strangely) the safest guys to bareback with. At least we get tested every 3-6 months and are on treatment to keep the virus suppressed. I'd say as long as you're sticking to sex only and not really indulging in "enhancements", you'll be fine. My actual conversion happened during a rather dark 12 month period of intermittent meth use. It does impact your immune system in a way that made it easier for me to seroconvert; plus, I wasn't exactly being picky when my ass just wanted a cock perenially plugged inside it. Do bear in mind, though, that although UD guys are safe from an HIV standpoint, you still have those other pesky STIs to worry about. PrEP won't save you from syph, ghon, clap, herp, and so on.
-
first guy from breedingzone to breed me (as far as I know)
LetsPOZBreed replied to Londonbear's topic in Your Last Load...
I still haven't either. There's a first time for everything, though 🙂 -
BBRT has become notorious for this lately. Can't tell you how many times this has happened recently. It's one thing if something is done/said in the arranging to put you off, but at least say so. Bathhouses/saunas/sex clubs are basically the haven for barebacking. Not everyone there will bareback, but it's at least a super-majority. I just assume any guy willing to fuck me in a sauna/sex club/sex party is going to do it raw; this has led to a couple of surprises where my prospective top asks if I have condoms (which I say I don't) and it either ends there, or he goes with it.
-
Cumming from fucking vs cumming from jerking off
LetsPOZBreed replied to NLbear's topic in General Discussion
There's definitely a difference from me. My masturbation orgasms are alright; does the trick in a pinch. My sex orgasms, though, are on a whole other level. As a bottom, I find it best to have my top breed me first...then finger my hole with his load inside; that's the best way to get me cumming quite intensely. In that case, it's not about the volume (mine is inconsistent when bottoming; never know how thick it will come out). When I top, there's a marked increase in intensity blasting inside my bottom. I'm told that I'm quite easily felt unloading; I chalk that up to larger cum volume plus the fact that I thrust all the way in and shoot in place. -
I don't really know, but I have a suspicion. He was a follower of mine, and I returned the favour. That's when I would get notifications of his posts. There was a period of time where he would post albums that consisted of photos of young guys. I'm not saying that they were underage, but they looked it. So, I unfollowed him. I suspect that these photos may have been reported, and he was deactivated from there.
-
I agree with everyone that's posted (thanks for all of that gents). I think it's primarily location, and then competition. Even on my last Berlin trip 2 years ago; I had more men in a weekend than ever before, but I find I had to work much harder (thank goodness for the slimmer body!). As I get older and now approach 40, I find the competition more off-putting than before. There's always been that competitiveness even back in my 20s, but PrEP has magnified that exponentially. I remember creating my bbrt profile the first time when I was living in Dallas, and I was literally one of 3 guys on. Last time I was in Dallas about 18 months ago, you easily had 5 or 6 pages of guys during normal hours.
-
@MuscledHorse you're right in that it's better during sex resort/fetish events. My Berlin trips for Folsom were jam packed (literally and figuratively). I just wonder about bottoms experiences outside of this context. I keep seeing on bbrt these bottoms looking for load after load, and I know on bbrt that the high flakeyness makes racking up the numbers next to impossible.
-
I've alluded to this in some of my previous posts. Figured I'd explain exactly what I mean when I say it (though it's obvious to us long-time barebackers) and then ask you hot fuckers your experience with it. Dawson is a guy that starred in quite a few TIM videos going some time back. The first one that I remember was "Dawsons 20 Load Weekend." This is the first porn flick that I watched where one bottom guy was unabashedly taking that much cock and cum. I was super turned on by it and wondered what it would be like to be on the receiving end of it. Not too long after, TIM followed this up with "Dawsons 50 Load Weekend." Around this time, I started to notice in bareback circles that bottom boys were hankering for their chance. The number of guys posting/asking for groups where they were the ONLY bottom for a group of guys this large was increasing by the day. I still see Connect Now ads and party listings on bbrt where bottoms of all shapes/sizes/colours are anxiously wanting their turn. In reality, though, I think some of us bottoms come to the rude awakening that is the logistics of making something like this happen. We don't necessarily have the backing of TIM behind us to cull together dependable guys to turn up locked and loaded. Also, put too many horny men in the same room, and inevitably the waiting guys will pair off to occupy themselves. To the bottoms out there: have you actually played this fantasy out successfully? How easy/difficult was it to put this together? How many loads did you eventually wind up with?
-
I wouldn't exactly call cum a fetish. It's more natural than anything else. I do like fluid bonding though...it's a phrase one doesn't hear often enough these days.
-
Planted Deep or Fucked While Bred
LetsPOZBreed replied to downtownswallow's topic in General Discussion
Tops really just do whichever they prefer, and I don't stop them. I do prefer the tops that push balls deep and just shoot, though - makes the spurts more pronounced for me to feel. With the other guys, you get the sensation of your hole getting wetter, though, and knowing that can be a turn on as well. For me, it's about how a guy orgasms that turns me on just as much; how he grunts, his "O" face, and if he gets verbal about cumming or not. -
Mine all belong in other topic sections. I'll respect the moderators and not go into any details here 🙂 I've always had a thing for fucking in underwear/jockstraps. Also have a thing for certain types of piss play as well. And occasionally I do like verbal dominant tops - certain, specific, types of verbal tops 😄 😄 😄
-
This right here I think is the reason why the tubs should make a big comeback. Everyone has experienced what you referenced above; everyone laments about it happening time and again. Why not just go back to the days of instant gratification 🙂
