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How about talking about massage therapists? obviously the MT who mid massage starts offering other services for additional fees- that is a tad obvious But if you are paying for the massage and you get more than a “just” a massage (but no extra fee is discussed)?

Really sorry to hear the news i had a nasty case back in my youth- and not having insurance to pay for surgery I had to do out patient- which as it was a nasty case took about 2-1/2 years - every other week to have them burned off- (strangely though I think they saved my life as I got them just at the beginning of AIDS - and by the time I was “all clear” condoms were being used (so I didn’t get AIDs until after the cocktail had been discovered) So my advice is make sure you have a dr that a) you know, trust, and can be completely honest with b) is experienced and knows what they are talking about and what treatments would be best for you c) once you are all clear - ask about how often you should get a Pap smear…. Yes guys should get them too if tge have had warts as they are a great detector of potential cancer And don’t beat yourself up over this—- it happens hope it is not too bad a case and that you are up and about soon good luck and yes - for everyone else… if you are lucky enough not to have had anything yet - talk to your dr about what vaccines you might be eligible for (as most drs - unless asked- stop offering them to patients once they are out of their teens

How very true And how very sad- I try and remember that when I approach guys online or reply to them- but don’t always succeed your tail is just another reminder to all of us that (except when dealing with toxic assholes like your guy) that we need to be kinder and polite- or at least not rude when dealing with guys online

I suppose I could kind of understand his viewpoint if this were still back in the days before meds - or even the early days of meds when things were still scary but I am sorry— this is 2023 and guys by now should know that u=u and there is this little thing called PrEP …. So ya, he should get his head out of his 1980’s ass and get with the times sorry You had to deal with the jerk - and totally get how that can totally kill and horny slutty vibe you had going

A great story- glad you are continuing it… sexy as all fuck …. But also love Matt’s inner conflict about being a total bb bottom and the double standard of bottoms who have multiple partners are “sluts” while tops who have multiple partners are “studs” looking forward to the next chapters

Damn this is fucking hot!!! I will enjoy thinking of various versions of the next chapter….

True - although it can be a bit of a mood kill to have to give a public health announcement at tge baths or in a back room And I agree that poz guys on meds are probably healthier than they are as we are tied into our health care more than others man’s getting fucked by an undetectable guy is safer than a “neg” guy who hasn’t been tested lately but also thanks to PrEP I think a lot more guys get the whole U=U thing these days than back a few years ago

Also - if this poll had only been up a few days we are not getting a fair representation on the guys on here so hopefully more guys will vote (as I can’t be the only one pozed in the 95-99 category)

It is amazing how much sci-fi has predicted (even the “computer” on Star Trek predicted “Alexis” ) As to the question raised A lot depends on if the people in the carousel are swiping at the same time the people outside are so that it is a mutual agreement- or are people getting into the carousel with the understanding that they will be fucking with whom ever wants them and they have no say in which case when I am in the mood to fuck i would definitely be the one doing the swiping but if I was in a slutty bottom mood- I would definitely get into the carousel- it would be hot to know that I am going to let anyone fuck me and I agree with eroswired that I would be really turned on by the idea that someone wanted to use me (as at my age I imagine I would be swiped more often than selected too)

The the other problem with AI, that was brought up in an interview with one of the screenwriters that are on strike- is that AI goes out and steals inspiration (content) from the web - content from other writers and artists created and uses that content without paying the original artist and yes - some AI stuff can pass - and I imagine that it will continue to get better but I don’t want a computer to get me off on here. Even though we pre on line - I would like to think it is another horny guy getting me off. I want to be able to look at your profile photo and stats and imagine you- naked and hard (maybe some cum still in your ass - or your cock still kind of plump after fucking someone) as you write your post I don’t want the Hal from 2001 to be getting me off

The main thing is to make sure you have a good primary care physician that a) knows their stuff b) that you can be very open and honest with about who you are and what “risky” behaviors you may have I have hpv - have had it for a long time - and was one of the first at my clinic to get an anal Pap smear- every so often it comes back “abnormal” and I have to go to the specialist- who puts in the speculum and sends her camera in and then takes biopsies of anything that looks suspicious (not exactly fun but not that painful) and I keep going back to her every 6months until I get the “all clear” - which I did my last visit so at my annual in July I will go back to getting Pap smears until that comes back “abnormal” - then I’ll go back to tge specialist Rinse and repeat- as the say Hopefully- the specialist will catch anything before it gets out of control- I gather that it is not considered to be too fast growing a cancer- so long as you get it in time just another reason I am so grateful to live in Boston- where we have Fenway Health (a community health center specializing in Gay and Lesbian health) and all the specialty drs in the city so OP - sorry- long preamble to if you trust your drs - if they are not suddenly bringing you in for a follow up tomorrow- having to wait for your next appointment is probably a good sign but just make sure to follow up and be vigilant Good luck

You are right- different men are different I myself like my bottoms to get hard - especially if it is a rough fuck - so that while he is whimpering and moaning because my cock is to thick and I am fucking him hard but then his dick gets hard - proving he is a good faggot bottom who likes it like that I will agree with you that dressed in jeans in the back room of the bar guys might think he is s stud with a huge cock - but then when he gets cruised- he has to publicly admit he is a sub bottom and that is is cage they are seeing/feeling (which could be the start of a hot scene…)

Thank you for your travelogue. a few questions (as get to Paris almost every year) first - do you speak French? - if not how did you navigate through the clubs (or for bottoms dropping your pants and bending over a universal language?) were any of the tops using condoms? Or is Paris now a total BB city? you mentioned that full metal had mostly older men - what about the other clubs you went to (younger guys are always welcome at clubs that mostly cater to older - but older guys are not always welcome in clubs that mostly cater to younger) Thanks (oh - and it sounds like you didn’t leave any time for the “usual” tourist sites - what do you tell your friends and family when they ask how your trip was and what you did)

Well unfortunately I think (due to the sexism that is still prevalent) While the “mainstream” considers the bottom (male or female) who takes anonymous NSA fucks a slut They consider the man who is doing the fucking “He’s a stud” As a man who has done both roles I like to think that both parties just have high sex drives and rather than call the top a “stud” I would call him a “lucky man” for finding a partner that will satisfy his needs. (and yes “partner” as both the top and bottom are getting what they need and neither could get it without the other)

So what do you find the most rewarding, grunts/moans or actual words? and do you prefer tops to be verbal during the fuck? Or just at the final moments? and I am curious about the silent cummers- did at least their rhythm change a bit to give you an indication that things were nearing the end? as I agree- a top does owe a bottom some signs that they appreciate being able to use your hole for their pleasure

Ditto!!!

What a great story- really well written, and fucking hot!!!!!

I was in cub scouts and then Boy Scouts, all the way through HS (although in HS I spent more time doing plays with the HS drama guild than doing troup stuff - but I sold most of the Christmas writhes that were our major fundraiser each year so the let me stay in tge troupe) so from about 1966 to 1973 I can’t say I really enjoyed it - but stayed in because my older sisters we were very active in Girl Scouting so it was just assumed that i would do scouting too i can’t say that I enjoyed camping (I like to say that my idea of roughing it is staying in a hotel without room service) but I did get to go to the Boy Scouts Jambree - and that was actually kind of a fun road trip from Wisconsin out to Idaho On one of my early camping trips I was taught how to jerk off by one of the older boys (older by maybe 2 years) and it was not at all abusive - and then while I was in Jr high I did fool around with two or three other boys (as in giving each other hand jobs) - but I never saw any indication that any of the adult leaders were doing anything So I managed to survive the weekend camping trips with no flush toilets and no showers - and come out with a few happy memories Sfmike64 - I am very sorry for what you went through and I do hope that the settlement helps you heal

All of this will catch up with them in time…. Example, Victoria’s Secret, that store used to be huge, but they started taking heat for their unrealistic models, then they tried to pivot and started to use “real sized” models- but it was too late

Where is this ABS? It sounds like a hot place to visit -

Very hot - I hope there is another chapter (or 2 or 3) I know the husband is “straight” but as his wife becomes a bigger “cumdump” (to use her words) - does the husband start to like the taste of other men’s cum in his wife’s pussy ? Does it turn him on to watch other men fuck her unprotected? just how much of a cumdump does she (do they) become?

I don’t believe it is my place to ask the top any questions when he is fucking me (but then it hard to when there is another dick in my mouth) too bad, I would have liked to ask his name.

Well taking ErosWired’s concept into account that gay men have multiple virginities to lose (oral active/passive and then fucking active/passive) My anal passive was in college- sophomore year- it was tge mid 70’s and I went to a small coeducational college in a small town in New England- so not a Lot of choices or opportunities fortunately I did manage to find a few (3) other guys and we came out to each other - long story short- I don’t remember all of the details- but the guy ( not one of the three) who I had a huge crush on told me about losing his virginity to a female friend of ours - and somehow that gave me the courage to get one of the three (Robby, a senior and far more experienced) to have sex - he was a top spent the night in his room (basic college single bed) a little high face down with him on top - he fucked me 4 or 5 times before I left in the morning - I remember the first few times really hurting- - and I can’t remember if I came at all during the night- I assume I did not sure why - we never did it again Summer after I graduated, while back home for the summer, I dated a guy - and was always the bottom- always anal That fall after college, I moved to Boston- the hay day of gay bars - so managed to get lucky a few times- always a bottom Then I started dating this guy (Tony) who turned out to be a total bottom- kind of surprised me that HE expected to be tge one getting fucked so I did it was at my apartment- I can still see the bedroom- queen size box spring and mattress on the floor- took up most of the bedroom - and that was the night I discovered that as much as I liked getting fucked - I really loved to fuck too while those two times are still vivid (or as vivid as a 40 - 45 year old memory can be) I have no real memory of the first time I got sucked off to completion- nor the first time I sucked someone off while I love tge taste of cum - I am not really into sucking guys off - and I have always (except at a bookstore through a glory hole) had trouble cumming while getting sucked off ( I am sure a shrink would have lots of ideas about that!) I view both events as very positive events really glad that I lost my first virginity to someone I knew and trusted and that I lost my second virginity to someone I was also involved with and comfortable with the first was a very key part of my cumming out to myself- that yes - I was gay - it made clear why making out with girls never gave me a hardon and glad I finally hooked up with a bigger bottom than me to teach me that was really was vers Lost touch with both Robby and Tony long ago (long before computers and email) but I still think of them both- fondly and with gratitude (oh - and as losing my virginity with a woman…. Hasn’t happened yet - and I don’t think their is enough viagra to allow that to ever happen- though if I meet the right cute young ftm trans guy who is comfortable with the idea I think I would be open to losing my fucking a vigina virginity)

I think here the key word is that the men “identify” as straight it reminds me of the old line of friends hooking up and the next morning one of them saying “boy I was drunk last night, I don’t remember anything that happened” if the guy was hot and was up for what I was looking for I would not care how they “identify” although I have never hooked up with a straight guy - I do like the fantasy of a “straight” guy fucking my “pussy” because “his girlfriend won’t let me fuck her raw” or “a guys pussy is do much tighter than my girlfriends cunt” or “my girlfriend never lets me bang her pussy this hard” so if you are a hot “straight” guy who likes to fuck a I nice tight faggot pussy raw and as hard and rough as you like …..

Interesting title for the story…. at the beginning of the story you think it is from the narrator’s point of view - and think he is just “newly single” for the evening then you meet Anthony and find out he is “newly single” so it must refer to him then you get to the end and wonder if maybe the Narrator will soon be “newly single” for more than just the evening when he gets home, either by his choice- or his husbands….