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Public toilets downtown in my home city.

I was going to say 3000 to 4000, my guess at how often I’ve given blowjobs, but then wondered whether the question ‘how many cocks ... have you sucked off?’ might mean 1. How many different cocks and 2. How many did you suck ‘off’ I.e. that came. There’s more to this question than meets the eye (or mouth). For about 8 years I mainly sucked off my boyfriend (he’s still my boyfriend but I get my sex elsewhere now) so that may make a difference between 1 cock and 1000 blowjobs. As for getting the guy off, only a small number of those blowjobs ended in the guy cumming as they were mostly intended as a prelude to fucking or else to sucking off someone else.

I went to a Cumunion in San Francisco last year at a cruise club called Natoma 442, so they aren’t always held at bathhouses. A great little venue over two floors and I enjoyed myself fucking a number of guys and getting plowed myself several times. I went back to the cruise club the next night it was open and also had a great time - and not much different to the Cumunion event since the action was all raw both nights. Probably more guys on Cumunion night but both nights were pretty busy. I understand that the Natoma venue is now closed but that SF Cumunion is being held elsewhere (I’m looking forward to getting to the one in October).

its A good question that is posed. I don’t think shaving an asshole, as nice as that may be, will be any help as tops are hardly going to notice while cruising in a bathhouse. Lying ass up in a room with the door open is definitely the correct traditional etiquette although I’ve not had a lot of luck that way in recent years - frequently I’ve had bottoms enter my room and reach under to grab my cock and try to turn me over, which as I’m versatile I’ll do but it rather misses the point. (Same thing on slings, guy’s will often come up and grab my cock when it’s clear I’m after theirs.) I might try the suggestion of wearing a jockstrap but I’d have to say that in the bathhouses I’ve visited it’s rare for anyone to be wearing anything other than a towel (and those wearing underwear give off the vibe of being sensitive about the size of their cock.) in any case, my experience has been -and I don’t know why this is - that tops frequently check out and grab my cock and may turn away if it’s not hard, even if they don’t plan to use it, and it’s hard to maintain an erection under a jock than out and unconstrained. I guess the most useful thing I’ve found is to prelube my ass - I use Elbow Grease as being oil-based it survives the steam room and showers. The object is to get someone to have their hand near my asshole, if need be with some gentle guidance from me, and once they realise it’s slippery they know I’d like to be fucked and nature takes its course.

There are many sex sessions I struggle to recall even a week later but I vividly remember one episode from 20+ years ago that frustrates me to this day as I my technique was at that stage not sufficient to successfully fuck an extremely tight young hole on an amazingly beautiful young guy. I was travelling on my job to a city about 500 miles from home and, in these pre-internet days, had arranged a hookup weeks in advance through the classified advertisements in a gay magazine. At his request I’d actually switched hotels as his boyfriend worked in the hotel I had originally booked into. He was quite young, about 18 or 19, and told me he had both Norwegian and Puerto Rican lineage which explained his beautiful smooth brown skin. The small hotel/motel I had rebooked into had an indoor pool with a spa pool alongside. We started inthe pool and he daringly went swimming naked and encouraged me to do so too, so he’d taken me out of my comfort zone from the get go and the evening remains memorable. We then returned to my room and got naked again and started sucking and kissing. However, when we both wanted to start fucking the problem arose where I wished I had the knowledge and technique I now possess. I simply couldn’t work my cock into his tight asshole. I even tried rimming him which I had no experience in doing. I’m now convinced that my reasonably thick cock would have slipped in better raw but of course condoms were the norm then. No doubt more patient fingering and steady pressure was needed. He tried fucking me but was inexperienced and didn’t succeed. We still enjoyed ourselves a lot but we simply didn’t achieve what we both planned for.

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18 loads taken up the ass so far in 2019, not as many as others but an accomplishment for me.

I’ve had sex many times with guys who don’t speak English. Actually I find it quite a turn on to hook up with a guy in a regular setting and end up getting off without having been able to speak with each other. Two memories of hot hook ups of that kind are vivid for me. One was in the last month where I was walking down the pavement on the central road dividing Berlin’s Tiergarten- caught the eye of a guy getting out of a parked car and two minutes later he was fucking me in the bushes. As far as I could tell he spoke only German and Italian. The other occasion was a couple of years back in Kowloon or Macau, I can’t recall which, in a busy shopping street where I was not cruising but nonetheless caught the eye of a Chinese man who it turned out couldn’t speak a word of English but that didn’t stop him conveying the message that I should follow him which I did for 10 minutes along streets, through shops, up hills, before he found some public toilets where we got it off. I think it would have been much less hot as a random hookup if we could have chatted.

Went to a Sunday afternoon naked session at my local cruise club and in less than an hour had taken three loads which is a personal record for me. Two were standing fucks which the other bent over the corner of a bed in the dark, and I have no idea who loaded me up. I dropped my own load down the throat of a guy on his knees sucking me off.

I was fucked in the bushes at the side of the road in Berlin’s Tiergarten a couple of weeks back and was a bit surprised to find the top was filming his cock sliding in and out of my ass. I only noticed as he’d slowed down and was pulling nearly all the way out and slamming back in. He’d come out entirely a couple of times and I needed to reposition his cock which caused me to glance back over my shoulder when I saw him operating his camera phone. He was pretty dextrous to be able to coolly film while fucking on a slope, in some bushes, people passing by quite close a few metres on a path, having just cruised a stranger who didn’t speak his language. I noticed he had his phone in his shirt pocket convenient for easy reach but still. I imagine he frequently filmed his outdoor sex - I’d liked to have seen his collection!

I think my joint favourites would be Kaiserbrundl in Vienna and Babylon in Bangkok. By coincidence they both have restaurants with good food at reasonable prices within the venue and while that’s not what I primarily go to a bathhouse for its fun dining in just a towel and can extend the session. In terms of facilities they both have two large steam rooms set out as mazes a feature that distinguishes them from many bathhouses that have just a small token steam room where many guys seem inhibited from having sex because other guys are around. Both have many other great features. Babylon also has accommodation on site and I’ve stayed there several times (as I have in Munich at the Deutsche Eiche, another of my favourites). I like sauna 357 in Sydney as well, which attracts many Asian guys and is always very busy.

Excellent write up about Lab.oratory, thanks, and it inspired me to visit last week when I was in Berlin. In went on 2 for 1 drinks night and also hooded night, both excellent and plenty of action. I have two minor observations. first, I was surprised at how many guys asked me to use a condom, in that place I’d kinda expected zero. On the first night one guy insisted on a condom (out of 8 guys I fucked). A minor aberration I suppose. However, three guys I fucked on the second night (also out of 8 fucks) insisted on rubbers. There was a 4th but I’d had it by that stage and handed the condom back and walked on. It was made worse by the fact that I wasn’t carrying condoms, which I sometimes do if I’m likely to be asked to use them, so had to use these tight little condoms that the guy’s handed to me rather than the XL ones I need. Second, I was surprised at how many guys attended the masked night which I thought might attract a smaller fetish crowd. While not as many as the first night, when there was no dress code, the numbers were still pretty large and certainly in the hundreds. And it was hot - even more uninhibited than the first night if that were possible.

When I was much much younger I always used to come when I was fucked and, I am ashamed to say, would stop fucking at that point and leave the top to jerk off or whatever. Very selfish and I really didn’t know better. However, for a long time now it’s been the opposite in that I don’t seek to come when being fucked and usually try not to so that the top is fully satisfied by coming. It doesn’t bother me if I don’t come and may often return from the baths having been fucked a couple of times, fucked a few more, and yet not come. In addition to the goal of satisfying others, which I find to be a real turn on and satisfaction for me, and hoping to take some loads in the process, there’s also some practical considerations in not coming. The most obvious one is keeping a hard on. If I come I have to wait a while to get hard again and it takes a little longer as I age - although I find I can get hard again pretty quickly if another guy in the bathhouse will take the time to assist with hand and mouth. The need for the constant hard cock is a little ironic since I’d prefer to bottom but I find that many tops when cruising for a bottom will nonetheless first grab your cock and unless it’s hard pass over to seek someone else. Also there always seems to be more bottoms than tops so as a versatile guy I’m more often than not topping.

On almost the last day of a 6 week European holiday I had a memorable fuck in a famous German Park. The day before I had visited Berlin’s Tiergarten, a large park with lakes, paths , memorials, busy roads and, most importantly, bushes and patches of wilderness. I visited the park to sunbathe naked in a part of the park near the Siegessaule where nudism is enjoyed by many Berliners. I tried to take a shortcut through an unofficial track through some scrub and almost ran into a guy being given a blowjob. I wasn’t looking to cruise that day but kept it in mind the following day when I came back to do some more nude sunbathing and to visit the nearby gay museum. Although cruising wasn’t really the plan this day I did a quick douche before leaving the hotel in the afternoon and carried a small tub of oil based lube. After visiting the museum I walked back through the park at about 5pm and crossed a busy road to a part of the park I’d not visited before. Almost immediately I sensed I was being cruised by this good looking middle aged guy. It was rush hour and he had just gotten out of a parked car in the centre of a ceremonial avenue bisecting the park where few cars remained - it’s funny how gaydar can pick up these small details. He looked me in the eye as I passed and was still looking as I glanced back over my shoulder. On a second glance a couple of steps later he brushed his crotch. The game was afoot! I love this old style real world cruising much more than the online stuff, it provides a bit of an adrenaline rush. i was on the footpath next to the about 15 metres away from the guy and the park was separated by a hedge. I walked on a few steps and cut through a gap in the hedge to the park. It emerged at the top of a slope that ran down to a wide paved path but there were patches of bushes. He ducked through a different gap. I casually headed down to the path and circled around to his approximate position and he signalled to a particular patch of bush with a tree that I shoulD join him in. I had a feeling he’d used it before! Probably the reason for the placement of his parked car. Once in place he rubbed my crotch and then motioned for me to release my cock. Clearly pleased with what he saw he proceeded to a long and skilled suck. He continued for so long I feared sucking was all he was into but eventually he drew out his own cock and I was able to reciprocate. His cock was quite big, bigger than mine, and I was keen that he fuck me. He initially entered me roughly with no lube but I was able to add some lube to his cock which eased things along and reduced the likelihood that I would cry out. We were, after all, less than 5m from either the footpath or the park path. I need we had to stop several times as groups of women passed by quite close. He insisted that I also fuck him so we kept flipping around although I was keener to get his big cock in me that to take my turn fucking him. From his complexion and the odd word he spoke I took the guy to be Italian. After quite a while he started a different rhythm in his fucking; slower and drawing his cock out almost entirely and then thrusting back in. I though this might mean he was close to cumming but a glance over my shoulder revealed he was filming our fucking on his phone. I scrambled to draw out my phone without stopping his fucking with the intention of asking him to record something for me. However, by the time I got ready he was to my dismay already cumming. While he had deposited his first spurt up my ass he had pulled out at that point and was wasting his seed on the ground. I frantically tried to get him to renter my ass to no avail. I tried to film his last few spurts but I mucked up the shots. I did manage to salvage one near focused #hot of his cock which I’ll upload to the gallery. All in all a great fuck made better by the fun of the cruise and the frisson at the 4i#k of discovery.

Just spent 4 days in Berlin and can confirm its claim to be a great place for barebacking. On the first two nights I went to the legendary Lab.oratory cruise club which I’d read about before on this forum. It’s a huge place, a former factory I’d guess, with a different theme each night - it opens 4 nights per week centred on the weekend. It opens at 10 pm and closes its doors at midnight but the action continues until 6am I’m told (I was back in my hotel tucked up in bed well before closing time I’m ashamed to say). Theme on the first night was 2 drinks for price of one, and I got 2 red bulls to keep me alert. I topped 8 times that night and dropped my load into the 8th lucky guy. Theme on second night, which I had really been looking forward to, was masks. So I wore my hood with two eye holes and a mouth hole (I have another with no eye holes but thought the risk of tripping and falling down a hole was a bit too high) and a leather harness. It was such a blast to have this added air of anonymity amongst all these hundreds of guys, a kind of leveller. I also topped 8 times that night and the last was an absolute highlight: a young guy I could hardly see in the semi-darkness on a bench in a shipping container outside the back of the club. He was smooth, hard, on his back, moaning, and I was at least the third guy to cum in him during the 15 minutes waiting my turn, I wonder how man6 loads he’d taken before I turned up. In the following days I cruised a Park, which I’ll post separately on, and a video arcade back room. Interestingly I had a long raw fuck of a guy in the backroom who was in a sling, but after 10 minutes, and when I was close to cumming, he asked me to pull out as he was negative. I was taken aback given he was in the sling and we’d been barebacking for quite some time but I respected his wishes. It did seem a bit perverse though and I reckon taking all guys on a sling, and taking bareback, should have equated to an invitation to cum dump. Frustrating.

The many great features of well frequented bathhouses already mentioned. The fact that at their heart is the “bath” or realistically the shower means that guys are clean, something harder to guarantee in other cruising settings. For me this helps to overcome my usual reluctance to rim. I really enjoy rimming a guy, licking his asshole and pushing my tongue as deep within him as I can, and I find I’m more likely to initiate rimming with a freshly laundered ass.

No to mile high club etc. but I did once fuck a uniformed airline staffer at a South American airport who was manning the gate alone for a flight that had 40 minutes before boarding and passengers were slowly arriving or sitting about. We had connected on Grindr and he messaged me to come to the gate which was not my flight and he would slip away when he could and we’d go to the disabled toilet cubicle. After a couple of false starts we did and it was hot. Took me back to cruising public toilets with the thrill and fear of being exposed. Didn’t have a lot of time for the usual niceties and I probably shoved my fairly thick cock in a little roughly as I recall some blood but he didn’t complain. Had to run to my own flight which was now being called.

It’s all good from the anticipation and the initial entry (especially on a big cock) onwards but one special thing I like is when the top gets close to coming and you feel him speed up or thrust deeper or start breathing hard or whatever and you’re doing your best as bottom to give him the pleasure or release by squeezing or bending or calling encouragement.

Great, thanks for the encouragement! I’m enjoying fucking around from Barcelona to Berlin.

I’m currently barebacking across Europe at @traveller_gay

Just had a total waste of an evening at the same sauna as I went to with some success yesterday. All sorts of things annoyed me today although it wasn’t the fault of the bathhouse but the clientele. It got me thinking that one of the things I value about a bathhouse is reliably or consistency. The things that pissed me off tonight included: - getting into a room with a guy, right to the point of lubing up in front of him, sitting on top and having his cock at the opening of my ass, and he asks ‘where is the condom?’ (Well actually what he said was ‘preservative?’, I think he was French). This has happened to me twice in the last two weeks once as a top and once as a bottom. Now I don’t use condoms, and I prefer raw, but a fucks a fuck and I’ll respect the choice of partners to use condoms. But, hey, bring the rubbers with you especially if you’re going to top as you may want a particular size (I use a large condom if I am compelled to use one). If you don’t have a condom and need to ask the partner do so in plenty of time. - guys coming into the steam room holding the door open while trying to check out the guys and losing heat while doing so. - guy’s watching the porn on screen to the exclusion of the potential live action around them. Example tonight was a guy jerking off to a Tv screen porn, I go up to him and find he has a lovely hard cock and bend down and suck it. He clearly likes this but remains as much engaged with the tv as me. I motion for him to fuck me standing there and he starts fingering my ass. It is only after 4 or 5 minutes, including when I waved off an admirer, that I realised he had no intention of fucking me he was interested only in the screen. - when you start a scene with a guy, someone will turn up and try to get in the middle, often in the process scaring off the first guy. This can be annoying- I contrast it with guys watching when you’re having sex in public areas. I don’t even mind the odd bit of groping when you’re fully in action, it’s the interference at the outset that is disruptive. - finally, and this didn’t annoy me merely puzzle me, a guy brought his smartphone into the steam room, simply apologising about the light it initially emitted. Sorry to be negative but my experience has left me frustrated this evening. I usually have fewer gripes about behaviour in cruise clubs.

Went to 2 sex venues in Prague today. Early evening I went to sauna Babylonia, after midnight I went to Factory club. Eight fucks in all, 4 tops, 4 bottoms. One big load was taken and in another case the guy used a condom which I took, once used, and emptied it into my ass. One guy was interesting at factory cruise club as he had a technique that while I fucked him he would clench his anal muscles several times a second. Quite a cool trick. However, my favourite sessions were at the sauna. The first was an Indian guy with a grey beard and probably in his 60s. I got him to start fucking me in the steam room. However he was determined that I also fuck him so we flipped 3 or 4 times. He then led me out of the sauna and down to a room where he did some serious fucking of me in several positions. He came in me in copious quantities. The other guy was was very cute and I noticed him at the bar as I came in. In the steam room the old Indian guy, who had obvious regained his erection pretty fast, was competing for the young guy’s attention at the same time I was as we sat on either side. Ultimately he went for me perhaps because I was younger or perhaps because I was more subtle in caressing him and nibbling his nipples whereas the Indian jumped the gun and attempted to sit on the guy’s cock without asking. The young guy went into the sauna and I followed and I sucked and rimmed him fully winning him over. It turned out he was from Lebanon which may have explained his good looks. Like me he was versatile so we agreed to each fuck the other. He insisted on condoms which was a disappointment. I rimmed him again and fucked him first with his legs over his shoulders. It was very intimate. He then fucked me doggy style and came in his condom which I smoothly secreted away under my towel. Afterwards I emptied the cum from the condom into my asshole.

Just been to a sauna in Prague that cost €15. Sauna Babylonia had some features that made good value starting with cheap beer. For me the two steam rooms was great, one very dark, the other moderately dark with a maze. Also had wifi, funnily enough as I was leaving I checked Grindr and found that a guy that had messaged me hours be&ore was the very guy I’d just hooked up with and we has flip fucked. The main downside was the lack of a pass out system. Had there been one I’d have returned in the evening.

A couple of weeks ago this happened to me and the hookup from either Grindr or BBRTS suggested some woods near his home.