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After about 25 years of safe sex - and similar for the guys around me in saunas and cruise clubs - I started to find the odd person trying it on without a condom, which was unexpected behaviour round my way then, and I would resist and re-wrap etc. then I occasionally did not resist and, for example, continue to fuck when I see the guy at the gloryhole has slipped off my condom. Then people started to ask me directly if they could fuck me bare. I remember clearly such a request when already set up to go on a bed in a cruise club by a cute hairy Arab guy. I agreed given his explanation about losing his (beautiful) erection and on a promise not to cum inside me. The real turning point for me was in a Macau hotel room with a cute Chinese guy (I’m a sucker for Asian boys) who would keep taking pauses in fucking me and take off the condom, I’d let him start fucking me a little bit raw and then I’d put a new condom on him (in retrospect I sound like a bit of a tease). He did ask to go bare but I resisted. The next night, my last, he made it clear he wasn’t coming to the hotel unless we barebacked. I didn’t merely relent but positively decided to not only bareback him but to seek to go on PrEP so that my sexual horizons were widened. After returning home from that business trip I told my partner I planned to go on PrEP and hunted down a doctor willing to prescribe and a reliable internet provider to purchase from. I haven’t looked back ...

I think you’re probably right. I have no conscious plan to go down what you call a ‘kinky’ path but I am aware that having taken the decision to bareback, initially selectively, and then on an industrial scale when I went on PrEP that I’m now doing certain things regularly that I didn’t used to do (or would actively avoid) and a number of other things occasionally as opportunities allow. On the regular front I bareback (obviously) but also routinely take loads and encourage others to load me. If I top I don’t think twice about breeding a guy. If I’m cumming with a blowjob I’ll cum in the guy’s mouth, and I don’t seek permission. Although still irregular, I now more frequently rim guys. I don’t get much opportunity but I take chances to be naked on naturist beaches and have chosen clothing optional accommodation several times. I’ve actively sought to increase the number of sex partners and encounters. My latest step down this road was over the last week when I videoed 3 fuck sessions - I’ve taken care to hide faces but can anticipate a more carefree approach a year down the track. On the occasional front I bought myself a leather harness but have, so far, only found two opportunities to wear in in company. I’ve also fisted a guy, not something I sought to do but the opportunity was thrust upon me by a guy I was fucking in a French sauna. The ‘old me’ might perhaps have run a mile from pushing my fingers, hand, arm, up a guy’s ass to my elbow but it seemed a natural thing to try and I was grateful for the chance.

After several STIs about 20 years ago my (gay) doctor recommended I get test at the hospital STI clinic 3 times a year which I did for a number of years but dropped it back to twice a year when I was hardly ever getting infected. Although I was having casual sex I guess the condom use helped to avoid at least some. However once I started barebacking occasionally about 5 years ago , and more particularly in the last 4 years when I’ve been on PrEP when I’ve been barebacking full time, I’ve been getting slightly more infections but catching them quite quickly because of the mandatory STI tests every 3 months to maintain the free PrEP prescription. Actually I get tested slightly more frequently as I also get tested immediately on return from a sustained sex holiday and I’ve had one of those in Berlin and another in Bangkok in the last 3 months. Currently I’d reckon an STI twice a year. I won’t list what I’ve had over the years but it has been most of them (but not hepatitis or HIV). In my view these infections are a fact of life and to be expected and should not be a cause for embarrassment (or any perverse pleasure) but it is important for all sexually active people to get tested regularly at a frequency calibrated to their risk. Frequent testing by all means more fucking for all and less downtime with illness and sex-free recovery periods.

Wasn’t that easy to film as a bottom but not impossible!

Great videos, I love fucking and being fucked bareback by Asians.

SI agree with all the comments. I’ve only just started trying to film sex in the last two weeks. As it’s random hookups I am dependent on the other guy agreeing. I’m also dependent on the skill of the other guy to film when I’m bottoming which I was for the three times I’ve tried doing it. I particularly wanted to catch some footage of my newly bred ass and cum dripping out as that’s not something I’ve seen before! However, I’ll need to try some more times as the results have not been as clear as I’d like. However, one guy took the initiative and was fingering my cummy asshole which was hot.

Super hot but I did see in one scene a bottom push a top’s cock out of his hole after the bottom came - that seemed like bad manners. The bottom should continue to service the top and not put their own pleasure or comfort first.

I’ve posted a few videos of two guys breeding me. I edited them so that neither my face nor their’s was visible. I’m not sure I would be willing to have my face shown, I might, but it would be hard to find a fuck buddy willing to have his face shown. I only recently started asking guys if they were willing to be filmed, they all said yes but it was always on the basis that their face not be shown. I do recall a guy who was fucking me in a park start filming me without telling me (I noticed when I turned and looked over my shoulder) so maybe there’s a video out there showing a glimpse of my face - I’d love to come across that on the internet, it would be hot.

Just fulfilled a long held fantasy of videoing someone fucking me. I did it in three sessions in a hotel room with a BBRTS hookup and with a guy I arranged to meet the following day after fucking at a sauna. It was kinda fun with the other guys also getting off with doing it. It was disruptive to the rhythm of the sex but that was no bad thing as it prolonged the fucking. Unfortunately as I was bottom on both occasions I was dependent on the top to do most of the filming. One guy was quite good at this but the other guy not so skilled. On the second and third attempts I tried adding a static iPad camera to the use of a handheld phone camera which helped. Overall I found it fun and would like to experiment some more as there’s plenty of room to improve. As well as filming while topping I’d like eventually to try in a threesome with a roving camera. Editing the video to take out faces is helped by using a couple of free apps.

Just returned from 10 days in Bangkok and enjoyed 50 or 60 fucks, both topping and bottoming, and taking more than 20 loads. I really enjoy the slim hairless Thai and Chinese young men but I took and enjoyed hairy Indians and others as well. In my experience the Asian cocks are typically on the smaller side but they make up for that in hardness and an enthusiasm to top and to bareback. And that’s just the typical cocks - I certainly got fucked and bred by some big Thai and Chinese cocks, including one that fairly could be compared to a beer can.

I prefer bigger and confess to sometimes only sucking small cocks for a short while through gloryholes and then moving back out of reach. For me it’s not the smallness of the cock itself - I’m happy enough to enthusiastically suck small dicks (*so long as they’re hard) in a steam room or out in the open - it’s the physical constraints of the gloryhole where the wooden wall exacerbates the size problem i.e. essentially 2 or 3 cm of length are in effect rendered inaccessible making the suck uncomfortable. I feel the same about fucking big assess through gloryholes, the accessibility problem of getting right to the asshole through the gloryhole and the fleshy ass checks robs the enjoyment for me compared with a trim twink ass. If I had an 8” cock it would be different I expect ...

I just had the pleasure of staying 11 days at Bangkok Babylon which is a large gay bathhouse and hotel with restaurant, pool, etc. I.e a gay resort. It attracts a lot of guys from all over the world but especially from Asian countries, many of which have cultures that are fairly intolerant to LGBTIQ (in contrast to Thailand itself). I’ve been on PrEP for 4 years and I topped and bottomed dozens of times and took numerous loads. I found that guys there overwhelmingly barebacked but certainly condoms were used by some. I can’t say of course how many of the guys that barebacked did so safely (in terms of using PrEP or being undetectable and STI testing regularly), how many were reckless (maybe presuming I was on PrEP or taking the risk) and how many were in ignorance of HIV (is that even the case these days, especially visiting a classy gay sauna). Anyway, it seemed to me that there was a reasonable awareness of PrEP amongst guys I spoke with although one Thai buddy reckoned some guys lied when they said they were on it. However, there were many nationalities there and I expect many were not as well informed as the Bangkok city boys. I was surprised when one well spoken and well travelled guy from mainland China asked me if I had a condom and when I said I was on PrEP he asked “what’s that?”. (As an aside it is clear he was going to fuck me raw in the absence of a condom whatever I answered, we were both hot for it.) I answered something like “I take a daily pill, so you can’t get HIV from me”. So it got me wondering, do other PrEP users still encounter hook ups who’ve not heard of PrEP? How do you most simply and accurately explain it? An an aside, I did encounter some reluctance to fuck raw from a buddy in Hong Kong and we had a more detailed correspondence. His hang up was that I may have taken a load from someone else that he’d be exposed to when he fucked me. For the 2 days in Hong Kong I therefore undertook not to let other guys fuck me during the day before he fucked me in the evenings (which I found frustrating as my Grindr app was running hot). It occurred to me that my explanation to my mainland Chinese hookup at Babylon missed that subtlety as I had indeed taken a fresh load not long before him. However, I rationalise that as essentially the same risk of being exposed to any STI, which of course PrEP can’t prevent, and my answer still stands as essentially correct - if he wanted as near complete protection from STIs as possible he’d need to bring a condom, I’d not have stopped or discouraged him from wearing it if he had one.

Setting aside sex in public restrooms or on nude beaches which are a slightly different genres of cruising, where holding your hard naked cock is usual, I’ve cruised a few times in parks, outside public restrooms and on the street. The technique that seems to be fairly universal is to catch a guy’s eye, possibly to look again after turning away or having passed while walking to stop and look back, and to touch your crotch. I’ve found a real frisson from hook ups made this way compared with, say, apps. It’s especially hot when you weren’t actively cruising but out on the street a random encounter means your eyes meet, your gaydar is engaged and within minutes your having sex. That kind of unplanned cruising - or unexpectedly being cruised by a stranger - has been rare for me but the two cases I can remember still make me hot.

Raw, 1986. It was in London UK, when I was there for a couple of years, with the guy who became and remains my partner 33 years later. One guy had tried unsuccessfully to fuck me (with a condom) in San Francisco while I was en route to London but I was inexperienced and he didn’t have the skill or patience to penetrate my tight virgin hole. My partner had the patience and being raw probably helped it eventually slip in as I find condoms tend to create slightly more friction. This despite his rather large cock - I was inexperienced then and didn’t realise how much thicker than the norm his cock was. We always used baby lotion as lube which probably wasn’t ok with condoms. I remember suggesting the first time that we should use condoms but was told he didn’t like them and never used them and that it was a matter of trust - sort of things today’s barebackers still say! Although my first remains my partner and we live together all theses years later we stopped having sex at least 15 years ago partly because he discovered that I did fuck around when I got the chance, although also because he had a much lower sex drive and was 10 years older and was not overly interested in sex any more (unlike me!).

Sorry about the formatting in my last post, I had already tweeted about this session and to tried to save retyping through pasting and editing via Notes not entirely successfully. I hope people can still read and enjoy my encounter.

At Bangkok’s famous Babylon bathhouse I was enjoying the busy Saturday nude towel-free session being fucked by a line of guys when a beautiful and quite young guy approached me at my front (I was bent over) to speak. He said he was from Laos or it might have been Lao, which includes people from northern Thailand. He explained it was the first visit for his friend and could his friend fuck me? He really didn’t need to ask, others weren’t they just stepped up and fucked, but he was a well mannered young man. I said yes and he tugged the boy across and positioned him. Although he was hard nothing happened as the guy wouldn’t move - well actually he was pulling away. This happened 3 or 4 times at the boy’s insistence, not mine, as I was saying to leave him he’s not comfortable with doing it. However, I encouraged the first boy to fuck me with his lovely cock but he was bottom only. Accordingly I suggested it might be instructive to his friend if he saw me fuck him. He agreed and I entered him but he was quite tight and unfortunately I had dropped my lube container so had to suffice without going balls deep with my thick cock. Nonetheless we both enjoyed our shallow fuck and it encouraged the new guy. Later, at the end of the evening, the Lao guy came up at the lockers and thanked me and said his friend had fucked him.

Although internet apps are by their nature most tend to be stronger in some countries than others. For that reason it may help if travelling internationally to have a second app. Although I prefer to visit real world saunas when travelling I do use two apps: Grindr and BBRTS. I’m currently travelling through Asia and can confirm that Grindr is very popular in both Hong Kong and Bangkok. Not many BBRTS users in either place although ironically I’ve made an excellent hookup on BBRTS in Bangkok leading so far to a guy nearby fucking me twice and I hope to have him service me again before I leave. i too was ‘banned’ from Grindr a week ago. I was perplexed and immediately contacted Grindr customer services and I was impressed that they completed a review and unbanned me within hours, on a Sunday too. I don’t understand the why or how of banning other than there was no justification for it in my case.

What a difference a month can make. I just spent 2 days in Hong Kong and 8 days in Bangkok and have now taken 39 loads up my ass.

Brent Everett did a solo show last night at Bangkok Babylon bathhouse. It was an 100 Bht (US$3) extra over normal sauna entry fee ($7) for this special event. He was flanked by 3 Thai models when he entered crowded semi dark nude ‘no towels’ area with about 200 guys squeezed in (it was tight and an unknown guy behind was fingering my hole for a good part of performance). Strangely he left the ‘stage’ (a small raised sheepskin covered platform) after 45 seconds - he appeared to indicate that he was missing something, lube perhaps - and the Thai guys had to carry the show till his return 8 or 10 minutes later. When he did he he did a strip (he was only in a jock) and gyrated playing with his dick and showing ass. Although the announcer kept saying not to touch him he let guys grope him. I refrained from a feeling of decorum for some minutes but confess eventually to touching his ball and later his ass just to say I had, I got no pleasure from it (unlike from the guys grabbing my own cock). He never really got hard and obviously never came and I don’t think many would have been greatly impressed unlike the Thai models who filled in and were great with their huge hard cocks and sassy attitudes. Brett seemed like a nice guy (I saw him alone at breakfast before the show although we didn’t speak other than to say good morning) but he didn’t seem to put 100% into the performance.

I just take a small bulb douche, smaller than the one I used to use to be better for packing. I’ve not had any problems except for sinks with no plugs making filling harder. I’ve solved that, and it was so obvious that I can’t believe how stupid I’d been, by filling a glass with lukewarm water and filling the douche up like a syringe. My other comment is that if you’re travelling abroad you’ll find that guy’s aren’t so obsessed with being sparkling clean 100% of the time. We all do our best to be clean but sometimes shit happens especially with a big cock involved or the passing of the hours. I’ve seen it happen in Peru and Thailand, once me as bottom and once me as top and the other guys noticed first. There was no great fuss or embarrassment on anyone’s part, just a quick clean up, shower, and always quickly back to the sex.

I haven’t had so much opportunity to fuck in Chile, but I remember hooking up with a young guy, about 19, at my hotel in Lima Peru and he was a great top, wouldn’t bottom. We hooked up again the following day and he had the good idea of messaging he friend, similar age, to come over. Th3y both fucked me, it was great and they both clearly enjoyed it. The first boy said how turned on he got to see his friend fucking me. However his friend was so vigorous and large he made my ass bleed so I decided I shouldn’t take more for the time being. The funny thing was though that the boy then let his friend fuck him. He obviously wasn’t so used to being fucked and it was slow tight and painful for him. They both preferred to top but with no available bottom someone had to take a turn.

Hooked up with a Thai guy on BBRTS in Bangkok this afternoon. I’m staying at the Bangkok Babylon hotel and had already taken two loads that afternoon at Babylon’s bathhouse before the hookup. The guy’s cock was described as big in his profile and was big byThai standards but actually was smaller than mine and so I was initially a little disappointed as he took his jockstrap off. I’m pleased to say my disappointment did not last as he was very hard and knew how to use it to good effect. He fucked me good and came in my hole. But it wasn’t over. He continued to fuck my cum filled hole and did not seem to soften or slacken at all. He explained he could come multiple times and he demonstrated by breeding me a second time. After a shower and before leaving he offered to come back the next day. I plan to take up his kind offer.

I’ve been at Bangkok Babylon for 4 days now and have kept score of how many times condoms are used (I.e. I’m versatile and while I don’t use condoms myself i respect the right of a top to use them and would probably put one on if asked by a bottom I really wanted to fuck), anyway, over 4 days at Babylon I’ve fucked 30 times at the bathhouse (ie disregarding Grindr and BBRTS hookups in my room) and of those condoms appeared only 6 times or 20% of the time. So I’m sure Bangkok Babylon would count as a sauna for raw fun. As for loads I’ve taken at least 7 loads so far - possibly more that I missed in the dark steam room encounters.

Interesting poll though for those of us that cruise bathhouses etc. from a definitional perspective it’s hard to know how to count the hours spent - only a portion is actually getting down with a real person and doing the deed. Perhaps another poll is called for - hours spent on apps would be a comparable issue. Although this week I’m pretty much cruising for sex full time while staying at the Bangkok Babylon gay resort, typically I would go to the local cruise club on a Saturday evening for 3-4 hours for maybe 2-4 fucks or 1-2 hours at the same cruise club on a Sunday afternoon nude session where one can get as much sex in a shorter period.

For several years I’ve not used condoms by choice but I do a lot of my fucking travelling the world and respect the choices of other guys and prevailing practices differ quite a bit in different cities. I list some of my sexual experience whenI travel on Twitter at @traveller_gay . I start from the assumption we’ll fuck bareback but am versatile so am just as likely to bottom as top and don’t always know what the other guy plans. While I ask if he goes bare and indicate I do I never try to pressure guys to do anything they’re unhappy to do. I’m in Bangkok for 10 days, fucking 4 or 5 times a day, and yesterday when hooking up online and having agreed to walk to a local Thai guy’s apartment he asked if I had condoms and lube. I just answered that I had lube and was he willing to go bare. He was and now I have his hot Asian cum inside me. I had a mainland Chinese guy insist on a condom yesterday afternoon but ironically it was a mainland Chinese’s guy in Macau who convinced me to stop using condoms several years back and wouldn’t fuck me with them. If condoms are used it’s typically because the guys fucking me wear them. Occasionally I’m asked to wear one but one reason I’m reluctant is that unless I’ve brought my own the ones I’m given are usually too small to be comfortable and stay put on my wide girth and these days I don’t tend to carry condoms (obviously ).